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"It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging. One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused. Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile. It’s a minefield! Mrs x " I forgot what this forum was about | |||
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"It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging. One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused. Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile. It’s a minefield! Mrs x I forgot what this forum was about "  | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?" personally for me, i like honesty and openness and meets thats arent quick or in the day so singles work for me | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?" Huh? You’ve missed the point. | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point." No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. " I agree, it is about NSA sex but in our opinion, we would rather play with genuine people and not frauds. | |||
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But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard. | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. I agree, it is about NSA sex but in our opinion, we would rather play with genuine people and not frauds." my point i tried to make | |||
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"Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again. He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.
But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard. "Definitely, some people are just twisted. Glad you had a happy ending  | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. I agree, it is about NSA sex but in our opinion, we would rather play with genuine people and not frauds. my point i tried to make " | |||
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"Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again. He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.
But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard.
Definitely, some people are just twisted. Glad you had a happy ending "Thank you. Sir said his mum had a saying for bad people that seems appropriate. “Leave them to God” | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. " Does a man playing away make him a dishonest person? Maybe that is an issue to some? A question that is played out a lot of times on here also. Is cheating the same as swinging? After all there is a difference between a swinging site and a sex site. | |||
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"Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again. He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.
But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard.
Definitely, some people are just twisted. Glad you had a happy ending
Thank you. Sir said his mum had a saying for bad people that seems appropriate. “Leave them to God” "what a twunt though. and yeah what goes around comes around, glad you are happy now x | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. Does a man playing away make him a dishonest person? Maybe that is an issue to some? A question that is played out a lot of times on here also. Is cheating the same as swinging? After all there is a difference between a swinging site and a sex site." swinging to me is honest and not cheating, id rather know from the off is the person is attached and then i can make a formed decision | |||
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"It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging. One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused. Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile. It’s a minefield! Mrs x " Yes it is indeed a minefield | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. " I'd like to know why it's always aimed at single men. They're couples on here, married but not to each other and I've played with single females who, it turns out aren't single. We all have our moral compass but they are all here for their own reasons. Live and let live. A part of society that isn't judged favourably by many is in itself very judgemental. | |||
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"Yeah, married people cheating is a no no for us. Albeit very hard to detect sometimes. We have a conscience and would hate to hurt any unknowing party. We may be in the minority here but we let our hearts and minds rule, not our genitals. Desperation is soooo not sexy. Mr x" Nope. You aren't in the minority at all. There are still lots of people on here that hold honesty and respect highly. | |||
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"Yeah, married people cheating is a no no for us. Albeit very hard to detect sometimes. We have a conscience and would hate to hurt any unknowing party. We may be in the minority here but we let our hearts and minds rule, not our genitals. Desperation is soooo not sexy. Mr x Nope. You aren't in the minority at all. There are still lots of people on here that hold honesty and respect highly."
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"oh dont be harsh, there is a lot to remember you know... like are you straight or bi..."
Oh and the passwords for the single straight profile on here and the Bi one on other sites must be a nightmare to manage! Lol | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. I'd like to know why it's always aimed at single men. They're couples on here, married but not to each other and I've played with single females who, it turns out aren't single. We all have our moral compass but they are all here for their own reasons. Live and let live. A part of society that isn't judged favourably by many is in itself very judgemental." If they’re open and honest about their relationship status then at least those playing with them can make informed decisions. Otherwise that person is deceiving us and their partner, not a trait we’re fond of and we don’t want to contribute to their partners hurt when/if they find out. I aimed my original post at men as they are predominately the ones who are daft enough to contradict their profile on their status or in the forum, that shows they’re not only liars but also a bit dim. Of course there are women and couples doing the same but the men are usually the ones drawing attention to themselves with their posts/statuses. Mrs x | |||
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"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant? Huh? You’ve missed the point. No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too. In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. I'd like to know why it's always aimed at single men. They're couples on here, married but not to each other and I've played with single females who, it turns out aren't single. We all have our moral compass but they are all here for their own reasons. Live and let live. A part of society that isn't judged favourably by many is in itself very judgemental. If they’re open and honest about their relationship status then at least those playing with them can make informed decisions. Otherwise that person is deceiving us and their partner, not a trait we’re fond of and we don’t want to contribute to their partners hurt when/if they find out. I aimed my original post at men as they are predominately the ones who are daft enough to contradict their profile on their status or in the forum, that shows they’re not only liars but also a bit dim. Of course there are women and couples doing the same but the men are usually the ones drawing attention to themselves with their posts/statuses. Mrs x " Fair point. I don't ever look at the guys or their status, although I do read what they have to say in the forums. I can only see from my perspective. | |||
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