FabSwingers.com forum: Sexting

By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?

I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever

Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !

If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed

Thoughts ?

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By *ar madMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Some guys don't get it, let the tension built up, less texts is more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?

Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !

If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed

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im the same as u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banshee totally agrees with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, you're not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?

Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !

If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed

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I totally agree also, the anticipation and the build up to the meet is far better than boasting about scenarios and what will go on.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Most turn out to be pic collectors or just want wank fodder by chatting, no intention of ever meeting. I don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!

Instantly blocked on my phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!

Instantly blocked on my phone! "

On a seperate note, I love lynmouth. You live in a beautiful town.

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Too much build up, pic sharing, endless messages etc really put me off.

I get bored of it.

If we've not fucked before I find it quite difficult to get into much dirty chat before the meet.

Keep some mystery and excitement for the meeting itself, hold something back. It's like a good night out, the best ones are always unplanned and spontaneous!

Mrs x

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I think it's possible to text the fun out of a situation. There should remain some sense of the Unknown. There's little point in bragging or talking things up because you can never be certain how things are going to turn out. Surely this just heaps more pressure on..

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Totally agree but then I have been guilty of this in the past, I get carried away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!

Instantly blocked on my phone!

On a seperate note, I love lynmouth. You live in a beautiful town. "

Thank you, I love it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much build up, pic sharing, endless messages etc really put me off.

I get bored of it.

If we've not fucked before I find it quite difficult to get into much dirty chat before the meet.

Keep some mystery and excitement for the meeting itself, hold something back. It's like a good night out, the best ones are always unplanned and spontaneous!

Mrs x "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every bloke I’ve given my number to always asks ‘so what are you in to’ or what are going to do to me.

I always respond with ‘what works with one person doesn’t always work with another’

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I thought I was just being an ice queen pmsl

Actually makes me go cold if too much

Oh and another thing I can’t stand guys sending me their sex vids !

C’mon really ? Why oh why do I want to see you having sex with another woman when we are arranging a meet ? Are you trying to prove to me that you know where to put your willy ?

And does that poor girl know that you are sharing her ‘special’ moment she had with you for all to see ?

I’ve cancelled for less haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!

Instantly blocked on my phone! "
I have a separate fab phone for meets x

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I never do it. As soon as someone starts sexting I know they aren't genuine to meet so don't reply anymore. Sexting is only fun after you've met the person. Adds to the flirting and working your way up for the filth to follow. Plus you can't really trust people on here to be who they are on their profile (fakes).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?

Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !

If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed

Thoughts ?

Yes I have to say I’m the same. I’m not much for sexting anyway as I’m not that good at it.

I think mainly it’s because too much “I’m going to make you squirt” and “it’ll be the best fuck too ever had” I’m more likely to get the “ick”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to have a little build but not too much

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?

Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !

If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed

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Does nothing for me either. A little flirting/banter at the start is fine but after that just a random hows things leading up to the date us fine.

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

"Too much build up, pic sharing, endless messages etc really put me off.

I get bored of it.

If we've not fucked before I find it quite difficult to get into much dirty chat before the meet.

Keep some mystery and excitement for the meeting itself, hold something back. It's like a good night out, the best ones are always unplanned and spontaneous!

Mrs x "

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?

Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !

If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed

Thoughts ?

Yes I have to say I’m the same. I’m not much for sexting anyway as I’m not that good at it.

I think mainly it’s because too much “I’m going to make you squirt” and “it’ll be the best fuck too ever had” I’m more likely to get the “ick”

I’m rubbish to at it too ... I find it boring

I’m much more of a do-er

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"I thought I was just being an ice queen pmsl

Actually makes me go cold if too much

Oh and another thing I can’t stand guys sending me their sex vids !

C’mon really ? Why oh why do I want to see you having sex with another woman when we are arranging a meet ? Are you trying to prove to me that you know where to put your willy ?

And does that poor girl know that you are sharing her ‘special’ moment she had with you for all to see ?

I’ve cancelled for less haha "
that is out of order something I’d never do but iv been asked many times

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I thought I was just being an ice queen pmsl

Actually makes me go cold if too much

Oh and another thing I can’t stand guys sending me their sex vids !

C’mon really ? Why oh why do I want to see you having sex with another woman when we are arranging a meet ? Are you trying to prove to me that you know where to put your willy ?

And does that poor girl know that you are sharing her ‘special’ moment she had with you for all to see ?

I’ve cancelled for less haha that is out of order something I’d never do but iv been asked many times "

I’m very glad to hear it

Anyway who wants to see someone else’s sex tapes ??

It’s about making your own memories right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bores me, I don't mind a cheeky flirt of bit of inuendo but much more is just not me.

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By *ommon_usernameMan
over a year ago

home

I do love a good sext and plenty of flirting etc but i believe that it should only be for a little while as it does get boring saying the same thing over and over.

We are working on the same wave length here

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