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"Have you a particular guy in mind? Or is it just anyone from the gym? If it's the latter I think it's crass." There are a couple of guys. Most are pretty grim tbh. | |||
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"I fully expect the "I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this. However moral high ground aside. We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym. Problem is. Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others. However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users. Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar. Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym? Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment? But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number? Asking if he wants to Go for a drink. Or flat out ask for a fuck? Would guy's be put off by the direct approach? Maybe I should say something? Any tips? Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please. " Most bguys would be okay. I was recently asked to give a lady a spot when she was doing squats on the free standing equipment. Very hard to concentrate to say the least ha. Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. If he's interested he should say something back in response in a good way. Say simething witty like. Maybe we can get a orotien shake sometime and leave it there for a few days | |||
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"I fully expect the "I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this. However moral high ground aside. We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym. Problem is. Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others. However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users. Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar. Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym? Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment? But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number? Asking if he wants to Go for a drink. Or flat out ask for a fuck? Would guy's be put off by the direct approach? Maybe I should say something? Any tips? Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please. Most bguys would be okay. I was recently asked to give a lady a spot when she was doing squats on the free standing equipment. Very hard to concentrate to say the least ha. Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. If he's interested he should say something back in response in a good way. Say simething witty like. Maybe we can get a orotien shake sometime and leave it there for a few days " AHH like it. | |||
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"I fully expect the "I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this. However moral high ground aside. We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym. Problem is. Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others. However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users. Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar. Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym? Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment? But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number? Asking if he wants to Go for a drink. Or flat out ask for a fuck? Would guy's be put off by the direct approach? Maybe I should say something? Any tips? Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please. Most bguys would be okay. I was recently asked to give a lady a spot when she was doing squats on the free standing equipment. Very hard to concentrate to say the least ha. Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. If he's interested he should say something back in response in a good way. Say simething witty like. Maybe we can get a orotien shake sometime and leave it there for a few days AHH like it. " Nice one. Always happy to help. Let me/us know how it went | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?" No...quite the opposite actually. Just make sure the approach is quite innocent and subtle | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?" I had this a while ago a lady got on the bike next to me just as I was ready to get off and said hello 1hour later we was still talking I was fucked and was hoping she would give me a sign as all I was thinking I would fuck her sensless lol but she didn’t and I have not managed to get back there at the right time. | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind? I had this a while ago a lady got on the bike next to me just as I was ready to get off and said hello 1hour later we was still talking I was fucked and was hoping she would give me a sign as all I was thinking I would fuck her sensless lol but she didn’t and I have not managed to get back there at the right time. " What a prick tease | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?" The guys in the gym are probably already checking out your wife, so they would be delighted if she breaks the ice. We are talking about men here... | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind? I had this a while ago a lady got on the bike next to me just as I was ready to get off and said hello 1hour later we was still talking I was fucked and was hoping she would give me a sign as all I was thinking I would fuck her sensless lol but she didn’t and I have not managed to get back there at the right time. What a prick tease" Her body was amazing. Not sure if it was a hint but she did say she could put her feet behind her head easily. But she was telling me about her bad back at the time saying she was hyper flexible I thought mmmmm please | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind? The guys in the gym are probably already checking out your wife, so they would be delighted if she breaks the ice. We are talking about men here... " Yes men. | |||
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"I fully expect the "I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this. However moral high ground aside. We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym. Problem is. Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others. However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users. Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar. Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym? Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment? But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number? Asking if he wants to Go for a drink. Or flat out ask for a fuck? Would guy's be put off by the direct approach? Maybe I should say something? Any tips? Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please. " I’m not going to lie, there are a few women in my gym who I fantasise would work out next to me then straight out ask me to fuck them I take my gym time very seriously, respect others and keep myself to myself but that would definitely be an offer I couldn’t refuse | |||
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"I’m not going to lie, there are a few women in my gym who I fantasise would work out next to me then straight out ask me to fuck them I take my gym time very seriously, respect others and keep myself to myself but that would definitely be an offer I couldn’t refuse " Exactly, if you're a man, you've already had the fantasy about the female gym members. You don't have to be Harvey Weinstein to have such thoughts. If one of these came on to you, it would make your night. | |||
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"I fully expect the "I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this. However moral high ground aside. We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym. Problem is. Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others. However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users. Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar. Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym? Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment? But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number? Asking if he wants to Go for a drink. Or flat out ask for a fuck? Would guy's be put off by the direct approach? Maybe I should say something? Any tips? Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please. " Would make gym far more intresting and sounds fun | |||
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"90% are single. A bit like 98% of stats are fabricated. Pretty much everyone I know who goes to my gym, is in a relationship. Myself included. I go to the gym to work out. I don't go to the gym to find someone. I don't go to the gym to make myself look better for someone else, I do it for myself. I wouldn't appreciate anyone chatting me up while I'm trying to work out. On a night out however. That is different. As well as someone from my gum knows " I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after. Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does. | |||
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"Unless you manage to pick a priest working out, then no red blooded male is going to mind this scenario. " This is my thinking on it...But then, I haven't been in a gym in years. You could always time it so you catch him on his way out, too, if you think he'll be bothered by his workout being interrupted. Guys used to chat me up on my way out of the gym (a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away...) | |||
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" I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after. Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does. " The 'weekend warrior' and 'looking like they don't exercise much' was aimed at me I guess? You are one for snap judgements aren't you. You have no idea how often I'm at the gym, or what my diet consists of. Now I'm making an assumption. I'm assuming you are the kind of guy that makes people feel uncomfortable in the gym because you are so much better then they are, you are part of the reason there are 'weekend warriors' because people with a holier the thou attitude put them off. I know it put me off. But a decent PT, a great few friends to run with and I'm fitter then I've been in years. A change in my medication and I've finally started to loose weight. To anyone put off going to the gym by his rant. Don't be. Find a decent gym, get a PT and you'll never look back. | |||
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" I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after. Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does. The 'weekend warrior' and 'looking like they don't exercise much' was aimed at me I guess? You are one for snap judgements aren't you. You have no idea how often I'm at the gym, or what my diet consists of. Now I'm making an assumption. I'm assuming you are the kind of guy that makes people feel uncomfortable in the gym because you are so much better then they are, you are part of the reason there are 'weekend warriors' because people with a holier the thou attitude put them off. I know it put me off. But a decent PT, a great few friends to run with and I'm fitter then I've been in years. A change in my medication and I've finally started to loose weight. To anyone put off going to the gym by his rant. Don't be. Find a decent gym, get a PT and you'll never look back. " This is the point though, no one who is serious about attending the gym would be put off by my "rant". And, keeping on topic, I would also say that anyone who actually frequents places like gyms/training centres regularly knows very well that plenty of people (most even) are single and even more so meet significant others there too. It actually makes sense considering people like to date those with similar interests. Once again I would not be relying on the types who only show up when they want to lose weight to tell me what its like. | |||
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"Oh yes please. I am jools btw." Nice tits jools, wish you were beside me on the treadmill | |||
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" I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after. Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does. The 'weekend warrior' and 'looking like they don't exercise much' was aimed at me I guess? You are one for snap judgements aren't you. You have no idea how often I'm at the gym, or what my diet consists of. Now I'm making an assumption. I'm assuming you are the kind of guy that makes people feel uncomfortable in the gym because you are so much better then they are, you are part of the reason there are 'weekend warriors' because people with a holier the thou attitude put them off. I know it put me off. But a decent PT, a great few friends to run with and I'm fitter then I've been in years. A change in my medication and I've finally started to loose weight. To anyone put off going to the gym by his rant. Don't be. Find a decent gym, get a PT and you'll never look back. This is the point though, no one who is serious about attending the gym would be put off by my "rant". And, keeping on topic, I would also say that anyone who actually frequents places like gyms/training centres regularly knows very well that plenty of people (most even) are single and even more so meet significant others there too. It actually makes sense considering people like to date those with similar interests. Once again I would not be relying on the types who only show up when they want to lose weight to tell me what its like. " Utter shite! | |||
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"... ask for a spot " I don't get this gym term, what is this 'asking for a spot', a few of you are referring to? | |||
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" I would say upwards of 90% of people at the gym are either single or looking/considering...hence why they're in the gym." Ooh, this is really, really great news to me! | |||
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"Wear something revealing, ask for a spot, if he gets a semi then comment on it. Unless you manage to pick a priest working out, then no red blooded male is going to mind this scenario. " Why are there never women like you at my gym | |||
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" Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. " I've made a note of this too! Not very subtle but perhaps quite efficient. | |||
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"It's a woman chatting up a man so there wouldn't be any kind of issue. If it was the other way around, all hell would be breaking loose! " Sounds like I can knock myself out then? | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?" I would. I don't go to the gym to socialise . I'd politely ask how long are you training for today,and talk after | |||
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" Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. I've made a note of this too! Not very subtle but perhaps quite efficient." I think it's very subtle. If he's that nice then surely most would think he'd have a partner too. So asking that question is just a simple conversation starter imo | |||
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"... ask for a spot I don't get this gym term, what is this 'asking for a spot', a few of you are referring to?" Getting some assistant on your set bcz you're doing a heavy weight | |||
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"... ask for a spot I don't get this gym term, what is this 'asking for a spot', a few of you are referring to? Getting some assistant on your set bcz you're doing a heavy weight" Heavy weights? Well that's me well and truly out of the picture then. But thanks for enlightening me! | |||
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"Id just smile and say hi ... Then the same the next time you see them See where it leads " Not sure if most guys would think anything more than a hi if you say that. There has to be a glint in your eye for most men to take notice that you want something more. | |||
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"Id just smile and say hi ... Then the same the next time you see them See where it leads " Something heavy dropped on me foot | |||
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"I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym. Fit and toned with lots of cum. " Think I need to move to a new gym | |||
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"I fully expect the "I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this. However moral high ground aside. We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym. Problem is. Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others. However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users. Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar. Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym? Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment? But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number? Asking if he wants to Go for a drink. Or flat out ask for a fuck? Would guy's be put off by the direct approach? Maybe I should say something? Any tips? Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please. " Simple answer. Depends on how fit she is, being it's a gym so there would be a higher expecting for the woman making the forward approach to have high sexual market place value as I'm sure you would not approach the fat guys trying to get into shape and focus on the well toned men instead. | |||
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"I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym. Fit and toned with lots of cum. " Good for you. I'd try the subtle approach first, try chatting and maybe ask to be spotted. If that does work, wear seethrough legging and a sexy thong and keep bending over in front of him..he'll soon get the invitation.... | |||
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"I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym. Fit and toned with lots of cum. " Im switching gyms! | |||
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"I’m spotted all the time from guys off here at my gym Never had any approach me actually there but message me on here instead and I cringe at knowing they saw the sweaty mess that I was haha " Obviously they didn't think so if they have messaged you | |||
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"I’m spotted all the time from guys off here at my gym Never had any approach me actually there but message me on here instead and I cringe at knowing they saw the sweaty mess that I was haha Obviously they didn't think so if they have messaged you " Perhaps they take their glasses off when working out | |||
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"As a bloke in the gym it would be great to have some fun with another female member As another poster said I think some people might not want a guy chatting them up in the gym and who knows could even complain about it. You'd have to be mad not to want Jools to chat to you though she is stunning from what I can see " Awwwwww thanks | |||
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"As a bloke in the gym it would be great to have some fun with another female member As another poster said I think some people might not want a guy chatting them up in the gym and who knows could even complain about it. You'd have to be mad not to want Jools to chat to you though she is stunning from what I can see Awwwwww thanks " Yes she is. We can confirm that | |||
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"There’s a huge thing made of men hitting on women in the gym, so much so I daren’t even look at female members Incase they feel like they’re getting gorped at... okay, so every now and again I do position myself where I can look through numerous mirrors at a hot woman’s deadlifting/squatting ass. Anyway, a hot woman coming onto a guy - go for it! Ask for a spot on something then get chatting... before you know it you’ll be in bed with them!" | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?" If it was jools i dont think anyone would mind | |||
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"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind? If it was jools i dont think anyone would mind " | |||
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"We met a girl from our gym on a night out. Took her back to ours. She ended up telling newt wnough the whole gym " Nah, no way you two go to the gym! | |||
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