FabSwingers.com forum: After meet downer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you spend however long chatting, flirting, the banter and giggles getting to know each other and what you both like. Then the day of meeting finally comes, great time is had by both, lots of chat, laughs and great sex and all is good. But do any of you get the after meet downer? Where the flirting has gone, the apprehension is over and there isn’t so much to talk about now the meet is done? Just a case of arranging the next one if you both want.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you spend however long chatting, flirting, the banter and giggles getting to know each other and what you both like. Then the day of meeting finally comes, great time is had by both, lots of chat, laughs and great sex and all is good. But do any of you get the after meet downer? Where the flirting has gone, the apprehension is over and there isn’t so much to talk about now the meet is done? Just a case of arranging the next one if you both want. "

Isn’t the chase a lot of the thrill?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I find this quite common. It's very rare the excitement continues in the same way once a meet is over unless there's that "wow" chemistry

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. That time when the magic has gone. There's obviously ways of keeping it kinky. But yeah there's quite often some "post-meet blues".