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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a 51year old confident sexy woman. How young is too young for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18... If you can get them, go for it... mind you, as with everything there are trade offs. People always say that younger is more attractive, but with age comes experience. I know I am a better lover than I was in my teens or twenties even. So, as with everything, having an open mind is the best bet...

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Well, legal age of consent aside, whatever is the youngest you’re attracted to. All down to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he’s over 18 and can stimulate you sexually and mentally then crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone under the legal age limit, for the legality of it. Whoever you feel comfortable with, over the legal age.

My long term partner is 35. I met him when he was 28 and I was 44. I don't feel older than him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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How young do you think is too young op. That's the only correct answer surely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn. "

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some old men who are only interested in their pleasure and orgasm. It's why I make my age range lower than mine now. I don't have the time to hope that one will not be selfish and boring in bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How young do you think is too young op. That's the only correct answer surely."

He's early 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover. "

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43. "

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had some old men who are only interested in their pleasure and orgasm. It's why I make my age range lower than mine now. I don't have the time to hope that one will not be selfish and boring in bed. "

That's why I like younger men they want to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some old men who are only interested in their pleasure and orgasm. It's why I make my age range lower than mine now. I don't have the time to hope that one will not be selfish and boring in bed.

That's why I like younger men they want to please "

It's natural sex, and they enjoy my body. It's not all about them and their orgasm. I tried men my age and older and decided to not bother any more.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either. "

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here."

Men seem to think that they are great in bed if they make us squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here.

Men seem to think that they are great in bed if they make us squirt. "

That's the worse thing they can do to me. I can't stand it. The ones who focus on it are crap at actual sex. I think they Googled how to please a woman and watched a video about making a woman squirt, then thought that was all they had to do. They have no natural ability.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here.

Men seem to think that they are great in bed if they make us squirt.

That's the worse thing they can do to me. I can't stand it. The ones who focus on it are crap at actual sex. I think they Googled how to please a woman and watched a video about making a woman squirt, then thought that was all they had to do. They have no natural ability."

I want a man to adore my body as much as I will his.... squirting is just a wet patch on the bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here.

Men seem to think that they are great in bed if they make us squirt.

That's the worse thing they can do to me. I can't stand it. The ones who focus on it are crap at actual sex. I think they Googled how to please a woman and watched a video about making a woman squirt, then thought that was all they had to do. They have no natural ability.

I want a man to adore my body as much as I will his.... squirting is just a wet patch on the bed lol"

That I make them lay on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here.

Men seem to think that they are great in bed if they make us squirt.

That's the worse thing they can do to me. I can't stand it. The ones who focus on it are crap at actual sex. I think they Googled how to please a woman and watched a video about making a woman squirt, then thought that was all they had to do. They have no natural ability.

I want a man to adore my body as much as I will his.... squirting is just a wet patch on the bed lol"
id appreciate u head to toe xx

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"How young do you think is too young op. That's the only correct answer surely.

He's early 20s"

Yes, but my point was it's your call no one elses.

If you fancy him and he you, nothing to lose I say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover.

I didn't have to teach them anything. In fact, the first man I started seeing after I left my husband showed me how pleasurable sex could be, and gave me my first orgasm from oral. He was 23, I was 43.

And there was none of this "I'll make you squirt bollocks with any of them either.

Yeah, what is it with that? I really only came across that when I started meeting on here.

Men seem to think that they are great in bed if they make us squirt.

That's the worse thing they can do to me. I can't stand it. The ones who focus on it are crap at actual sex. I think they Googled how to please a woman and watched a video about making a woman squirt, then thought that was all they had to do. They have no natural ability.

I want a man to adore my body as much as I will his.... squirting is just a wet patch on the bed lolid appreciate u head to toe xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm eager to satisfy and keen to learn

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By *oung_KMan
over a year ago

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Struggle getting meets at 19, profiles probably sh!te but ah well

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

Teach me all you want I prefer the older woman to a young one as you said previously with age comes experience and I honestly find older woman far more attractive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 51year old confident sexy woman. How young is too young for me? "

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, legal age of consent aside, whatever is the youngest you’re attracted to. All down to you "

Op, this, other people's opinions are their own opinions and not yours

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away

I now prefer younger men after always preferring old. There’s currently one on my playmates 14 years my junior at 32 and he’s a much better lover than guys 15-20 years older than him. I wouldn’t go much younger though, and my absolute limit would be if I were legally old enough to be their mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now prefer younger men after always preferring old. There’s currently one on my playmates 14 years my junior at 32 and he’s a much better lover than guys 15-20 years older than him. I wouldn’t go much younger though, and my absolute limit would be if I were legally old enough to be their mother. "

Hi, I'm Sam, I'm a Sagitarius, 30yrs old

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away


"I now prefer younger men after always preferring old. There’s currently one on my playmates 14 years my junior at 32 and he’s a much better lover than guys 15-20 years older than him. I wouldn’t go much younger though, and my absolute limit would be if I were legally old enough to be their mother.

Hi, I'm Sam, I'm a Sagitarius, 30yrs old"

Hello Sam. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now prefer younger men after always preferring old. There’s currently one on my playmates 14 years my junior at 32 and he’s a much better lover than guys 15-20 years older than him. I wouldn’t go much younger though, and my absolute limit would be if I were legally old enough to be their mother.

Hi, I'm Sam, I'm a Sagitarius, 30yrs old

Hello Sam. Lol"

An absolute pleasure my lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get told im too young!

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'm a 51year old confident sexy woman. How young is too young for me? "

Age is just a number so whatever is comfortable with. If there is an 18 year old that really floats your boat then why not you only live once after all. As long as everyone is Happy and having fun with a smile on your face that’s all that matters

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’d go much younger if I was attracted to him. I like manly men and some younger men still look like teenagers. 30-39 is my ideal age range!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not arrogance but as as soon as i send a face pic i get not my type too young looking

So age to me seems.immaterial

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"A few years ago I met some under 25s from here-one of them was 20-and had some of the best sex I've ever had. It was sex that hadn't been tainted by watching too much porn.

I like the idea he won't be too ruined by watching porn too... I'd like to think I can teach him to be a good lover. "

Surely the young are exposed to and influenced by far more porn than older people? I grew up before the internet, when a playboy centrefold behind the bike sheds was a big deal, and to see porn you had to go into one of those seedy stores with the windows blacked out, show ID that you were 18 and rent it on VHS. Now we keep talking to other parents who tell us the same thing; just found so much porn on my 12 yo's tablet or smart phone.

We all do this as consenting adults who learned what a simple relationship was before embarking on this. I am terrified of the teenagers who want to date my daughters, who might think blowing in their face and anal sex are par for the course in a relationship, because it is all they have seen and known of sexual activity via the web.

Old Grumbler rant over...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am almost 46 so aim for 12 years either side of my age range. I have had fun with someone in their mid 20s whilst I was 40 but certainly not the norm for me. That was at a party and it just all clicked. I dont feel comfortable with anyone that looks massively younger than me in general.

Just go for whatever ticks your boxes x

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

As for OP's original question - legal age and decide for yourself.

Cleo likes older men because the young ones remind her of her son or her son's friends...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Would say the right age is somebody who you feel attracted to and you feel comfortable with. It doesn't matter what their age is so long as they are above the age of consent.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I’d go much younger if I was attracted to him. I like manly men and some younger men still look like teenagers. 30-39 is my ideal age range!"

*polite cough*

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"He's early 20s"

You go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young do you think is too young op. That's the only correct answer surely.

He's early 20s"

He's already seen a shitload of porn and will be expecting anal as normal..

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"I've had some old men who are only interested in their pleasure and orgasm. It's why I make my age range lower than mine now. I don't have the time to hope that one will not be selfish and boring in bed. "

I've a mate who's like this. When we've spoken about partners etc, the ladies pleasure seems an alien concept to him. He's only bothered whether he blows his tanks

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"I've had some old men who are only interested in their pleasure and orgasm. It's why I make my age range lower than mine now. I don't have the time to hope that one will not be selfish and boring in bed.

I've a mate who's like this. When we've spoken about partners etc, the ladies pleasure seems an alien concept to him. He's only bothered whether he blows his tanks "

Why on earth any man would have more interest in cunning than pleasuring a woman I have no idea. He may as well just use his hand.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"I now prefer younger men after always preferring old. There’s currently one on my playmates 14 years my junior at 32 and he’s a much better lover than guys 15-20 years older than him. I wouldn’t go much younger though, and my

This one is the same for me !

absolute limit would be if I were legally old enough to be their mother. "

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I'm a 51year old confident sexy woman. How young is too young for me? "

By your profile 30..

But seems you might like younger

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