FabSwingers.com forum: Only male half playing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Isnt it about time the moderators clamped down on this.So many timewasters on this site its getting far too hard sifting through the shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, they should make them go back to a single profile that's for men and women!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Agree - it's disingenuous and unfair

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I wonder if people think the same if the female half plays alone ?

That aside , there are plenty of couples who enjoy the howife / hothusband lifestyle and playing alone then telling your partner about it is hot for them .

No one is making anyone meet anyone so I can’t see the problem .

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh come on! It's usually single men failing to get meets on a single profile and thinking a couple profile will get them further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you feel the same if it was just the female half playing?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Honestly - if it claimed woman only playing I'd be even more suss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup it it is becoming more apparent...my wife is like...in an uranian mining colony

oops...I misread and thought I was 200 years ago

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Honestly - if it claimed woman only playing I'd be even more suss"

Have a read of the thread on at present called ‘wife’s out tonight ‘

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I wonder if people think the same if the female half plays alone ?

That aside , there are plenty of couples who enjoy the howife / hothusband lifestyle and playing alone then telling your partner about it is hot for them .

No one is making anyone meet anyone so I can’t see the problem . "

This

And sometimes one half of the couple might be taking a short break, but planning to return to playing again later. So the other half should be allowed to continue play until the other returns. I don't see why they have to delete the profile in such scenarios.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh I'm well aware of the hot wifing some like to do but as a single female I've found a lot of supposed couples profiles are single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on! It's usually single men failing to get meets on a single profile and thinking a couple profile will get them further"

Really! Does it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I'm well aware of the hot wifing some like to do but as a single female I've found a lot of supposed couples profiles are single men "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly - if it claimed woman only playing I'd be even more suss"

Only I'm playing at the moment, many couples do for a variety of reasons!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wouldn't be difficult for fab site to verify that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block couples so single men can't get around my filters, when I have men blocked.

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

My wife plays on her own sometimes. But I'm sure the OP's point was the couples profiles where only the guy plays are 99% fake and there is/was no female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found one yesterday where it was a single female but she only meets as a couple with her husband. Probably because a single female profile draws more interest than a couple.I reported the profile and that's the best thing to do if you find a couple where only 1 person is playing. Then admin can change it to what they thinks correct. I have a couple profile with my on off FWB as well as this one, if he's become unavailable I tend to forget to hide the other profile. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tons of single female profiles where they only meet with men

Ban them too?

No, ignore and let people do what they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many single bi fem profiles,then when you open the profile first or last words are...I have a boyfriend/husband who joins me lol...so your not a single then

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I found one yesterday where it was a single female but she only meets as a couple with her husband. Probably because a single female profile draws more interest than a couple.I reported the profile and that's the best thing to do if you find a couple where only 1 person is playing. Then admin can change it to what they thinks correct. I have a couple profile with my on off FWB as well as this one, if he's become unavailable I tend to forget to hide the other profile. XXX"

So true. You only have to go to the advertised meets and search female, you’ll see loads of single women wanting to meet that have there fb or bf tagging along to the meet. It’s not on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had another wink from a couple this morning.

Header read Male looking to play now.

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if people think the same if the female half plays alone ?

That aside , there are plenty of couples who enjoy the howife / hothusband lifestyle and playing alone then telling your partner about it is hot for them .

No one is making anyone meet anyone so I can’t see the problem .

This

This is us exactly, my Mrs is taking a break from playing (as she has stated in her profile) but I can still meet, we met alone mainly anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a shame so many think this way.

I have a couples profile where we state all through it that only he plays. Its only just occured to me that oeoplr might think (depite 10's of veris) that people think we are fake.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Biggest problem on this site is simple - way too many people are having a go at how other people do what they do on here .

So sometimes a single female has a fb or a partner who sometimes joins them . Nothing wrong with that . Single guys do the same and sometimes bring their partner along . Don’t hear too many complaining about that do we ?

The male or female half of a couple sometimes play on their own , and again , why shouldn’t they ?

As I said earlier , no one has to meet anyone on here . You meet who you like , and if you don’t like the way some play , don’t meet them . It really is that simple .

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Oh come on! It's usually single men failing to get meets on a single profile and thinking a couple profile will get them further

Really! Does it work?

It does, until they let something slip, and you see the light ... Even worse when you realise the poor unsuspecting wife is actually a friend of a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tons of single female profiles where they only meet with men

Ban them too?

No, ignore and let people do what they like. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

My profile was originally a couple's, I had admin change it and don't display the couples veris as I don't want to mislead or confuse people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove the problem. Go to clubs.

I've had this so many times. The female is working, saving the world, becoming an astronaut. Yawn

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Maybe our profile needs changing? Only the female half plays.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Maybe our profile needs changing? Only the female half plays. "

I would say yes as it doesn't state that anywhere x

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have more respect for the couples profiles which say ‘male only playing at the moment’ than the couples profile which don’t say it but have no female half involved at all and never have had . At least the first couples profile is honest .

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I like, I play the forums, however if we need to chat together let’s put it in the ladies hands,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest problem on this site is simple - way too many people are having a go at how other people do what they do on here .

The male or female half of a couple sometimes play on their own , and again , why shouldn’t they ?

As I said earlier , no one has to meet anyone on here . You meet who you like , and if you don’t like the way some play , don’t meet them . It really is that simple ."

No. The biggest problem with this site is dishonesty. Nothing wrong with a single person bringing along a random person someone has never met or spoken to? How so? There are numerous safety issues there which would make anyone with a modicum of common sense slightly suspicious.

I dont know whats up with NSA sex, it makes me people starting acting like dogs rather than people...completely losing any sense of common decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove the problem. Go to clubs.

I've had this so many times. The female is working, saving the world, becoming an astronaut. Yawn "

Some amazing women around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a new thing. It's not the site's fault. It's the internet. People lie to get sex.

If people need their hands held and for a site to 'baby sit' them, are they really adult enough to be having sex?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I agree, they should make them go back to a single profile that's for men and women! "

How can they. Unless someone reports the profile and then who's to say the female isn't and will come back to scene. Easier said than do i feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove the problem. Go to clubs.

I've had this so many times. The female is working, saving the world, becoming an astronaut. Yawn

Some amazing women around! "

???

I don't see the issue with the comment. I've had many profiles chat with clearly no female. Pic collectors etc. At a club you see what you are getting. It saves the frustration.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Biggest problem on this site is simple - way too many people are having a go at how other people do what they do on here .

The male or female half of a couple sometimes play on their own , and again , why shouldn’t they ?

As I said earlier , no one has to meet anyone on here . You meet who you like , and if you don’t like the way some play , don’t meet them . It really is that simple .

I dont know whats up with NSA sex, it makes me people starting acting like dogs rather than people...completely losing any sense of common decency."

I guess we don’t have any sense of common decency then .

We’ve had so many meets over the years ( and I mean lots ) and have never felt that we , or the people we meet are more like dogs rather than people .

We’ve met genuine married couples , those who have only just met , strangers , and all manner of people , and there’s never been a hint of danger . But I guess that means we don’t have a modicum of common sense either ?

Whatever you think , we have a great time on here and quite honestly I can’t fathom how your mind is working with these comments .

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By *ouple4couple7Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I agree, I mentioned to a "nosey bugger" that my wife is taking a break, That NB reported it to admin who subsequently changed my status

My wife knows I'm on here and on occasions, sits in on the session however, she changes her mind like politicians promise about playing again so for now, I just browse to see if one day we can find a suitable couple to get my wife interested again.

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By *taffswenchCouple
over a year ago

South Wales/South West England

"I wonder if people think the same if the female half plays alone ?

That aside , there are plenty of couples who enjoy the howife / hothusband lifestyle and playing alone then telling your partner about it is hot for them .

No one is making anyone meet anyone so I can’t see the problem . "

Exactly this. Wife loves to hear what I get upto.

Doesn't make me single at all.

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path

"Oh come on! It's usually single men failing to get meets on a single profile and thinking a couple profile will get them further"

This

had a meet arraged with a couple and only he turned up he got blocked really is off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then get a male half (single) profile.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

If they are into hotwifing.

Then do what we do have a profile for the Mrs who does hotwife stuff from there.

Our couples profile we aim towards couples and social stuff but still play with guy's and fems.

If I was going to go it alone then I would start my own profile.

It's really not that difficult to separate thing's.

Mrs messagd a female a few months ago single and verified looking for fems only.

She then says she won't meet Mrs alone her boyfriend must be there to watch and join in if she desires.

False advertising in my opinion.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Biggest problem on this site is simple - way too many people are having a go at how other people do what they do on here .

The male or female half of a couple sometimes play on their own , and again , why shouldn’t they ?

As I said earlier , no one has to meet anyone on here . You meet who you like , and if you don’t like the way some play , don’t meet them . It really is that simple ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest problem on this site is simple - way too many people are having a go at how other people do what they do on here .

The male or female half of a couple sometimes play on their own , and again , why shouldn’t they ?

As I said earlier , no one has to meet anyone on here . You meet who you like , and if you don’t like the way some play , don’t meet them . It really is that simple .

I dont know whats up with NSA sex, it makes me people starting acting like dogs rather than people...completely losing any sense of common decency.

I guess we don’t have any sense of common decency then .

We’ve had so many meets over the years ( and I mean lots ) and have never felt that we , or the people we meet are more like dogs rather than people .

Whatever you think , we have a great time on here and quite honestly I can’t fathom how your mind is working with these comments ."

I have to say meh really. As said if you're no longer with the other half then simply use it as a single male. It's funny how I rarely ever see women mentioning that they're playing alone. Only the men. It's dishonest but also pretty transparent too. People deal with enough dishonesty on fab and the last thing they want is to add to it...onky makes the experience worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had lots of this recently. Start chatting to a 'couple' and actually it's a single guy. She's ill, not meeting currently etc. If they were honest at the start it would be fine, I meet single guys. It's the deception that gets me, and it's a huge turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're on other sites as well and we encounter the same problem.

The conversations start of -

We, we, we

...then

We, I,we

....then

We, I, I

To then get an excuse that she stayed in Spain this time, she's in hospital, she's out tonight etc..

So...you're a single bloke then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're on other sites as well and we encounter the same problem.

The conversations start of -

We, we, we

...then

We, I,we

....then

We, I, I

To then get an excuse that she stayed in Spain this time, she's in hospital, she's out tonight etc..

So...you're a single bloke then."

Yes this happens all too often!

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Or the alternative message 'fem here' when you can tell by the language it's the bloke wanting a late night wank chat

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"Or the alternative message 'fem here' when you can tell by the language it's the bloke wanting a late night wank chat

Theses are SO obvious, but I sometimes play along just to wind the fkers up...is that bad?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Or the alternative message 'fem here' when you can tell by the language it's the bloke wanting a late night wank chat

Theses are SO obvious, but I sometimes play along just to wind the fkers up...is that bad?

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt it about time the moderators clamped down on this.So many timewasters on this site its getting far too hard sifting through the shit."

Get off your bum and work people out yourself and stop expecting websites to hold your hands and do all the work for you. Put your own effort in. People want everything done for them and presented to them on a plate. Useless lazy society we're becoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I this I generally report them... especially the single profiles that read they are a couple

the more of us that do that the quicker will get rid off them!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So many single bi fem profiles,then when you open the profile first or last words are...I have a boyfriend/husband who joins me lol...so your not a single then

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just found a thread on this very subject complaint that admin had changed to a couple's profile

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So many single bi fem profiles,then when you open the profile first or last words are...I have a boyfriend/husband who joins me lol...so your not a single then

just found a thread on this very subject complaint that admin had changed to a couple's profile"

Is that wrong then? I am attached, but have a single profile. We play as a couple or separately. I have seen lots of people that have both single and couple profiles.

We are actually about to set up a couples profile.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The op is about couples profiles where only the male plays. This could of course be relevant to the same with only females playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are here to explore, sometimes that would be together. Others not, so unless the profile was always just one half playing I don’t see an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many single bi fem profiles,then when you open the profile first or last words are...I have a boyfriend/husband who joins me lol...so your not a single then

just found a thread on this very subject complaint that admin had changed to a couple's profile

Is that wrong then? I am attached, but have a single profile. We play as a couple or separately. I have seen lots of people that have both single and couple profiles.

We are actually about to set up a couples profile."

You have done the right thing and set up a single profile for when you want to meet as a single. The complaint is that on so many supposed couples profiles only the male meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest problem on this site is simple - way too many people are having a go at how other people do what they do on here .

The male or female half of a couple sometimes play on their own , and again , why shouldn’t they ?

As I said earlier , no one has to meet anyone on here . You meet who you like , and if you don’t like the way some play , don’t meet them . It really is that simple ."

Saved me from saying it...

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Sorry - my mistake. I was also kind of questioning the post directly above that said "if I this I generally report them... especially the single profiles that read they are a couple" - which kind of describes mine.

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