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By *easingtess OP   Woman
over a year ago

waterford

I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.

So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me ages!...not saying I enjoy it at all but I prefer to take ages ( if you know what I mean ) hightens the whole sex for me xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You sound as if you don't believe your friend.

I can orgasm in a short time with certain toys but I much prefer longer foreplay.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

A few minutes with a wand and porn. With a person...nope

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"A few minutes with a wand and porn. With a person...nope "

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By *easingtess OP   Woman
over a year ago

waterford


"You sound as if you don't believe your friend.

I can orgasm in a short time with certain toys but I much prefer longer foreplay."

I don't lol. I'm not sure she even knows what an orgasm is. She's not exactly enthusiastic when she's talking about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can reach orgasm within minutes sometimes and then take hours to cum again!

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I used to be with a ladie who would always cum from oral quickly and then would make her cum again with with sex after a bit of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.

So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?"

This is kind of my area of interest even though I am not a woman I hope I can be of help. The way women cum is not all that different to men, it depends on whether you are sensitive, turned on and relaxed. I find many girls need a few meeets to relax and then they cum their hearts out. Strong vibrators tend to desensitize so if you are looking to be more sensitive I would cut that down. A good pelvic floor exercise generally increases libido and sensitivity. But by far the most important thing is to be in the right frame of mind. Consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.

So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?

This is kind of my area of interest even though I am not a woman I hope I can be of help. The way women cum is not all that different to men, it depends on whether you are sensitive, turned on and relaxed. I find many girls need a few meeets to relax and then they cum their hearts out. Strong vibrators tend to desensitize so if you are looking to be more sensitive I would cut that down. A good pelvic floor exercise generally increases libido and sensitivity. But by far the most important thing is to be in the right frame of mind. Consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously. "

Your area of interest...personally or professionally lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.

So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?

This is kind of my area of interest even though I am not a woman I hope I can be of help. The way women cum is not all that different to men, it depends on whether you are sensitive, turned on and relaxed. I find many girls need a few meeets to relax and then they cum their hearts out. Strong vibrators tend to desensitize so if you are looking to be more sensitive I would cut that down. A good pelvic floor exercise generally increases libido and sensitivity. But by far the most important thing is to be in the right frame of mind. Consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously. "

You’ve answered a question that wasn’t even asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as has already been said, porn and a toy and it's over in minutes. With a man, never during penetration only clit play. Even then it can take ages and most of the time never. Doesn't mean I've not had a good time tho.

Think I have an over active mind and I find it hard to get in the zone?

I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone

As for the poster above... Unconscious?? really?? Is that how you like your women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?"

Yes, I *can* cum in under 10 minutes, but its not something I usually do. In order to make it happen, the situation has to be turning me on so much that I'm in the right mindset. Otherwise, I have to put a lot of extra work into it.

More often, it takes around 15-20 minutes of stimulation. That's with a vibrator or without. I can on average cum faster with a vibrator, but they (quick vibrator orgasms) don't tend to be as satisfying or as intense than those with another person.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


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I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone

"

I need someone to be in absolute control for me to lose control in the way I need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can orgasm from my fwb just pushing his cock in me slowly enough, I think because I have been waiting for him all day and really need it by the time we get to that point! Penetration is definitely what does it for me, but with the added connection I have with him I can orgasm much easier than with anyone else...and it can be pretty quick then too! My wand, when flying solo, is usually pretty quick but not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes with toys but i much prefer the longer method with foreplay and oral. Much more fun but definatly takes longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as has already been said, porn and a toy and it's over in minutes. With a man, never during penetration only clit play. Even then it can take ages and most of the time never. Doesn't mean I've not had a good time tho.

Think I have an over active mind and I find it hard to get in the zone?

I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone

As for the poster above... Unconscious?? really?? Is that how you like your women? "

Psychologically there are 3 distinct areas of consciousness. Conscious, Subconscious ( where you behavior patterns lay ) and Unconscious ( Pulse, guts, emotion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone

I need someone to be in absolute control for me to lose control in the way I need to "
Yeah that is the whole BDSM aspect of it. But I think a lot of women are worried about either surrendering control or expressing themselves. Which shouldn't really be the case. We are not perfect and people usually like us for our imperfections .

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By *easingtess OP   Woman
over a year ago

waterford


"Sometimes with toys but i much prefer the longer method with foreplay and oral. Much more fun but definatly takes longer."

Linger method is always more fun and more intense

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.

So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?"

Mine seems to vary with the phases of the moon.

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By *easingtess OP   Woman
over a year ago

waterford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can orgasm very quickly with toys or person. I also have very varied intensities and love every type of orgasm. My husband knows just how to touch and play with my body to make me orgasm again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About three minutes each time unless I hold it back which I do as it makes it more intense the longer it is. Only that way with my partner though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With long term partners I cum very quickly from oral, within a couple of minutes then multiple times through sex, I have found with fab meets it can take quite a bit longer but think that's due to not being relaxed and comfortable with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can stupidly quickly be it fingers/oral/sex.

I can actually be quite annoying

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

This week i was on holiday and did a cam with my fb at home...just seeing him made me so horny...with my toy i came in under 2 minutes!

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By *easingtess OP   Woman
over a year ago

waterford


"This week i was on holiday and did a cam with my fb at home...just seeing him made me so horny...with my toy i came in under 2 minutes!"

Sounds hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum quickly when you have had a build up and been frustrated, and dirty talk tips me over very quickly.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

I personally can cum in seconds.im overly sensitive ,and my orgasm is extremely intense which can be quite debilitating as it leaves me with no energy to carry on for a little while and after a really heavy play session it takes a good day or so to recover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A few minutes from oral, and a bit longer from sex. But even a 15 minute quicky will have me cumming 3 or 4 times.

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

Everyone is different.

Just enjoy the moment

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

Miss c cums very quickly(under ten mins) with her wand. Lol ive seen her nearly bounce off of the bed it was so intense.

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By *ewto thisMan
over a year ago

bath

The frenulum wank is the best way for a man to come.. Patience is required 30 minutes or so...intense ejaculation , more like an eruption...good practice for staying power too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've Cum in seconds before now! We are all different! When Im so excited and want the guy so bad!. As soon as his cock goes in I'd start Cumming... plus I like to cum in double figures, not just a few times! I'm very demanding

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I find it hard to cum nowadays but my Mrs can cum within a few minutes with the right type of play. She can cum n cum again (until she cried once). I don’t know if it’s a coincidence but I find ladies that squirt seem to cum quicker

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By *easingtess OP   Woman
over a year ago

waterford

It's very rare I can cum quickly

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