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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any couples tell me what do you look for in a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly, clean and smart, some intelligence and who shows to keep themselves reasonably fit and active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A vagina .

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Reasonably nice looking, friendly. Obviously clean, smelling nice and (for us) non-smoker.

Confident enough to be able to play in a group (not everyone can!).

Laid back enough to enjoy play with us. Not too pushy, and not arrogant.

Ultimately we want to get the sense that they're OK with being part of our enjoyment as well as getting their own pleasure. It's that balance between giving and taking.

It took us a few tries to get the hang of playing in threes.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire


"Reasonably nice looking, friendly. Obviously clean, smelling nice and (for us) non-smoker.

Confident enough to be able to play in a group (not everyone can!).

Laid back enough to enjoy play with us. Not too pushy, and not arrogant.

Ultimately we want to get the sense that they're OK with being part of our enjoyment as well as getting their own pleasure. It's that balance between giving and taking

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Same goes for us, though we also insist on a reasonable standard of dress too - guys who arrive in track suits/jogging bottoms/overalls get nowhere

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Same as what we look for in a single female more or less (except the bi part).

Reasonably good looking

Reasonable body

Genital size unimportant

Good craic and friendly to us both and generally a nice person.

Understanding of what it takes to join a couple in play situations

Non pushy and no expectations own entitlement to play

Unselfishness

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway

You need to have a great profile to start with to get the couples to notice you!!

Three or four public pics and not just cock pics.

More than a sentence telling people about yourself and what your into.

Face pic smiling. Not with a trout pout!!

Being able to accommodate helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly

Good looking

Respectful

Intelligent

Patient

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not being a total dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.

Mrs

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.

Mrs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do have abit of a rule that anyone with a cock pic as their profile picture tends to not get a reply.

But then anyone who has clearly read our profile and reacted to it correctly is usually in the 1% of guys on here anyway. So maybe read profiles and if they are asking a specific question to show you've read it, definitely answer that part.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A vagina .

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Actually shows up is a good start

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford


"The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.

Mrs "

Totally agree it makes a big difference to the meet. When a guy enjoys that dynamic the meet is on fire, we have always had repeat meets with this type of guy.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton


"We do have abit of a rule that anyone with a cock pic as their profile picture tends to not get a reply.

But then anyone who has clearly read our profile and reacted to it correctly is usually in the 1% of guys on here anyway. So maybe read profiles and if they are asking a specific question to show you've read it, definitely answer that part."

This sums up our initial criteria, too few get past this stage to mention the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s pretty simple have a dick but don’t be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (fem) usually talk to the single guys.

I am looking for someone able to hold conversation.

On the same wavelength as us.

That I think will be a laugh.

Someone that I dont think will become stalkery after the event.

That understands the dynamics involved.

That has few boundaries and rules.

That is interested in similar things to us relating to sex.

That I am attracted to, and he is attracted to me without being overly enthusiastic about it.

Think thats about it! Very few guys get more than a few messages before I rule them out.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.

Mrs "

Most don’t understand or even think of asking.

For me it’s about the couple enjoying themselves as much as me because hell I am having fun as I am in the middle of it lol

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