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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do most people hate them on here? because some of the forum posters seem to complain a lot about them

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No we dont hate them,but dont currently meet them.

They do seem to get alot of bashing on here.

However couples can be bad too,not reading profiles,messing you about .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think people hate them at al...there are hundreds and hundreds meeting all the time.. but people do complain in the forums, quite justifiably,that an awful lot think joining the site is the total sum of effort needed. Very often they don't make any effort with profiles, don't bother reading other people's, and can behave very childishly if they are turned down.

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Do most people hate them on here? because some of the forum posters seem to complain a lot about them"

There the scum of the earth! You can tell that just by seeing one picture of them and reading one paragraph!

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Do most people hate them on here? because some of the forum posters seem to complain a lot about them"
Be really hard going for me if I hated them, seeing it's what I'm looking for .

I get fed up with them and the lack of respect... talk to me here like we are meeting in person for the first time..

I'm pretty sure some of the messages sent would get a slap round the face if the guy tried it in real life!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We're sure there's loads of nice guys on here but it is also a fact that it attracts many idiots as alluded to already hence the bashing they receive. We too don't meet single guys from this site and our profile states this but we still get crass messages from guys who either can't read or think they can persuade us that we should meet. Furthermore they forget they are addressing a couples profile invariably handled by the husband. Probably the most insulting mistake of all when it's all geared to getting into the wife's knickers. It is these cretins that make the tasks of other decent guys so much harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do most people hate them on here? because some of the forum posters seem to complain a lot about them"

I have no issues with singles long as they honest and upfront

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By *onybb1Man
over a year ago

Northampton

As a single guy it's quite hard on here. What I do find is that I am always polite and respectful with my messages to couples and single women all I would expect in return is a polite message back would suffice and then take it from there but that is not always the case.

Not all single guys are gits those that behave so should be treated so by the people they message as in like for like perhaps then things may get better

Just a thought

All the best

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"Do most people hate them on here? because some of the forum posters seem to complain a lot about them"

We don't meet single guys except possibly in the fluid situation of a party or a club.That way it is easier to vet and play,or walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People hate the idiocy, short emails, crass cock photos, lack of anything interesting or engaging to say.....it's not just men, but it is the majority of men on here.

I've seen womens inboxes on here, and I can assure you it's tiring after about 10 minutes of dick photos and 'how r u' emails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People hate the idiocy, short emails, crass cock photos, lack of anything interesting or engaging to say.....it's not just men, but it is the majority of men on here.

I've seen womens inboxes on here, and I can assure you it's tiring after about 10 minutes of dick photos and 'how r u' emails."

Nail on head

Oh, and the foot stamping when they dont get women dropping their knickers instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are like the oil in the fab machine. They fill in the gaps and help it all run smoothly.

A few are like bits of grit but they sink to the bottom and go unlos soon enough.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm here predominantly to meet single men so I do quite like them, even the entitled assholes.

They make the good guys stand out

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do most people hate them on here? because some of the forum posters seem to complain a lot about them"

As a single guy, I haven't experienced any real animosity on here. I've made friends, connected with sexy people and have been having a great time

I think it comes down to how much you put in while here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need to do some valid research to find who has had the most bashing in here. Couples/females/males they all all get a good earful in threads about time wasting, arrogance, verbal abuse etc. Come to think of it, TV's are let off lightly, I think they start all the trouble and sit back and watch.

A Single male has as much opportunity to be liked just as much as everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're sure there's loads of nice guys on here but it is also a fact that it attracts many idiots as alluded to already hence the bashing they receive. We too don't meet single guys from this site and our profile states this but we still get crass messages from guys who either can't read or think they can persuade us that we should meet. Furthermore they forget they are addressing a couples profile invariably handled by the husband. Probably the most insulting mistake of all when it's all geared to getting into the wife's knickers. It is these cretins that make the tasks of other decent guys so much harder."

Yet you use pics of your wife only to entice people to message you.

Why not block single men from contacting you if you’re not looking for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met alot of nice single guys very respectful to but there is alot of disrespectful men who think there above the rest i guess it happens to all of us single guys single woman couples etc makes it hard for the genuine respectful ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of hating on here today

Single guys though hmmmm.

Not really my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I have to say, I have had a lot of nasty Shit thrown at me by the Female halves of couples, they are far worse than the Single men, they just want a female for their husbands gratification. Some very nasty messages have come from them. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One for the "trollers"

Single men are massively outnumbered on here and other similar sites, so us married men playing solo don't stand a chance, we come across as lepers or worse - add into that Bisexual to.

so all we have to do is bide our time and engage in the flow on any conversation hoping we get lucky......what we shouldn't do is worry and let time take its course

"life is for living, after all we are a long time dead"

J

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport


"We're sure there's loads of nice guys on here but it is also a fact that it attracts many idiots as alluded to already hence the bashing they receive. We too don't meet single guys from this site and our profile states this but we still get crass messages from guys who either can't read or think they can persuade us that we should meet. Furthermore they forget they are addressing a couples profile invariably handled by the husband. Probably the most insulting mistake of all when it's all geared to getting into the wife's knickers. It is these cretins that make the tasks of other decent guys so much harder.

Yet you use pics of your wife only to entice people to message you.

Why not block single men from contacting you if you’re not looking for them?"

If we wish to meet anyone on Fabs we message with face and body pictures of us both. Primary we 'entice people as you call it on another site. Fabs is for social parties and friends we've met so how we handle our profile is not really of your concern. Our post was simple rationale why single guys can get a hard time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with single guys...it is just sorting the wheat from the chaff for me as I will not meet just anyone, nor do I have the time... I have enough of what I want from here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember Couples you were SINGLE before. I think some on here take their bad experiences with single guys out on every single guy. Best way to meet on here for a single guy is a social or a Hot Tub Party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I have to say, I have had a lot of nasty Shit thrown at me by the Female halves of couples, they are far worse than the Single men, they just want a female for their husbands gratification. Some very nasty messages have come from them. XXX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find couples to be more entitled and rude on here than single men on the whole.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I meet single men, however if you were to see some of my messages you'd think it was written by a school boy and not by a grown man, and that pisses me off, total lack of respect

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Having been here a year with this profile OP,I can honestly say I've never once felt hated or vilified by anyone other than perhaps two females who were borderline homophobic and are (I think) the only people I've had cause to block.

As someone else said there will always be people (across all categories) that send vile messages, or behave inappropriately, or think signing up to the site they get a golden ticket to unlimited sex etc - sadly the nature of the site will always attract that sort - but I prefer to focus on my own experience and not worry overly about people like that.

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