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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question to all in here , what made you or both of you decide to join a swinging site?

Cpls , who initiated it and what was the response?

Singles , why swinging when loads of dating sites?

And was there any one thing out of the blue that put you on your swinging journey ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"A question to all in here , what made you or both of you decide to join a swinging site?

Cpls , who initiated it and what was the response?

Singles , why swinging when loads of dating sites?

And was there any one thing out of the blue that put you on your swinging journey ?"
because you can't meet couples FF MF or MM on dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Singles , why swinging when loads of dating sites?

And was there any one thing out of the blue that put you on your swinging journey ?"

Because I want sex with multiple partners and to attend swingers clubs, not to date / settle down.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm on dating sites too but fab is not for dating.

Also for (when I fancy) meeting couples.

Also not going to get banned on here for being sexually explicit, greater honesty in that respect.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

1. Because we like to have sex with more than 1 person involved.

2. Always discussed sex from the start. So natural progression of the what fantasy do you have question.

3. Probably harder to meet couples on dating sites as they are not really aimed at the couples market.

4. Meeting a like minded partner who I love dearly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1. Because we like to have sex with more than 1 person involved.

2. Always discussed sex from the start. So natural progression of the what fantasy do you have question.

3. Probably harder to meet couples on dating sites as they are not really aimed at the couples market.

4. Meeting a like minded partner who I love dearly. "
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That's what I meaning , great that both can be open minded and have same ideas sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It beats jigsaw puzzles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to all in here , what made you or both of you decide to join a swinging site?

Cpls , who initiated it and what was the response?

Singles , why swinging when loads of dating sites?

And was there any one thing out of the blue that put you on your swinging journey ?"
ive been on swinging sites for more than a decade.. no point in dating sites as I dont do dating and wanted group sex...

We met at a club so neither initiated it. Neither was looking to become a couple it just kinda sneaked up on us

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Because, I like sex, especially a certain kind.

Because the men, I did meet when on a dating site, also wanted sex, but dressed it up with false promises & were mostly fucking useless.

Because I want to try new things.

Because I have a twisted sense of humour, and most folk on here actually get that.

Oh and you get the kind of photos on here, that dating sites definitely don't allow.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

We enjoy sex and the different experiences it brings is what we believe makes us stronger we've been fortunate not to have had any bad experiences (so far) lol enjoy meeting new people also x

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

We wanted to have sex with women and by jiminy, it works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some brilliant replies , with cpls who was the naughty one that brought the subject up first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to all in here , what made you or both of you decide to join a swinging site?

Cpls , who initiated it and what was the response?

Singles , why swinging when loads of dating sites?

And was there any one thing out of the blue that put you on your swinging journey ?"

Because the last thing on my mind when I joined was finding a relationship (however, that is precisely what transpired entirely accidentally) and because I’m very much bi and wanted to play with ladies. So far, so good.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

As singles we both joined due to enjoying sex but only wanting nsa and swinging fitted the bill

We met on here and hit it off and the nsa went out the window. Now we are a couple we swing together as we enjoy the lifestyle and clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because after being attached the whole of my 20s I wanted sex not dating!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I didn't join a dating site because I'm not looking for a relationship.

I joined fab just for sex. Since joining I discovered I really love the social aspect of swinging and clubs. I have met some really fantastic people on the scene.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised


"It beats jigsaw puzzles "

I love jigsaws,

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By *assionatelovers87Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I the male brought it up on a dirty weekend once. Turns out we both want the same thing x

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

we ran out of shit to watch on telly, porn was boring us, doing cam shows was ok for a while but not wasn't enough, so we went to a social after finding fab, that was 4 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use dating sites because I'm not after a relationship. Been using fab since 2007 and I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Mrs wanted to indulge her bi side, and because we hoped to meet some fun, kinky people that enjoy what we do.

Generally though despite some success I have to say we find Fab more frustrating than rewarding. Too many time wasters.

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

I (Mr) found some links to Fab when looking for info on Maspalomas beach. We both like naturist beaches. This led to trips to a local naturist campsite we found on here. We're very honest with each other and when talking we discovered we both like the idea of being watched. MrsP is actually quite exhibitionistic. So after talking it over, we planned to visit some of the clubs in Pdi but we ill on holiday so didn't make it. We've booked in to The Vanilla Alternative this Saturday night and are hoping it lives up to our expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried practically every dating site around I find that on here, in general, men are more honest about what they're looking for. Not always, but more so than on conventional dating sites. I also enjoy exploring the club scene; Fab is a good way to keep in touch with people I meet there

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

My wife got us into it originally

She wanted to discover her bi side.

We still swing together occasionally but only in clubs.

We still have a couples profile although it's been dormant for months

She has to use her own words scratched the itch.

Why am I still on here?

I guess I'm addicted lol ??

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started soon after we had met and become a couple. We're both highly sexed and hadn't been able to be faithful to our exes. He suggested it, she agreed right away. It's worked well for us for the 13 years we've been together - no need for secret affairs, we fuck others openly and love watching the other with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started soon after we had met and become a couple. We're both highly sexed and hadn't been able to be faithful to our exes. He suggested it, she agreed right away. It's worked well for us for the 13 years we've been together - no need for secret affairs, we fuck others openly and love watching the other with someone else."

Brilliant guys , glad it works for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell off the roundabout and the slide so I settled on swinging....

Plus I’m bisexual and I quite like group sex & they’re not really things you advertise for in the Post Office window.

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