FabSwingers.com forum: Being called a slut!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not me no.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

We are all very different, but if anybody calls me that, that's any interest I possibly may have had completely dissolved.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Not me . I'm far too nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"

maybe its a typo and they meant LUST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not just girls

I am a deffo slut

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Some women like it from a bloke they know and are attracted to. No woman likes it from random strangers.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Depends on who is doing the calling. My friend was complaining that his sister is a bit of a bitch and i said "yeah, she's a bit of a bitch alright" and he threw a hissy fit over it. I think calling someone a slut is that same thing.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I don’t like this word not even in the bedroom. Really not a fan of any profile names with it in either much the same with guys using derogatory terms in their names also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it! Really hate it. Any messgae I get calling me names I instantly block. I highly doubt people speak like that to strangers on the street so just because people like sex it automatically makes them a slur

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Some women like it from a bloke they know and are attracted to. No woman likes it from random strangers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it! Really hate it. Any messgae I get calling me names I instantly block. I highly doubt people speak like that to strangers on the street so just because people like sex it automatically makes them a slur

*slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy being called a slut because I am not one, presumably those who are do enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it's the same with guys having big cock or extra large cock in the their profile name!! The most likely don't like being called one!! Even though they probably are one for having it as a profile name in the first place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it derogatory and degrading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I have called a slut every women i have met even infront of thier partner while face fucking n spitroasting them oright spanking them never had a complaint we are talking over 20 women so on my opinion most of them like being call slut or other names

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Oh and forgot to add it does help to wean out the idiots on here

Sending a message with any crap like that in it normally gets an instant block or if I’m feeling a Bitch a rather nice message in return of hometruths before blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what defines a slut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a huge difference in the lady calling her behaviour in the bedroom slutty and having someone else call her a slut.

I'd advise caution before using such a derogatory term on someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me it's horrid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what defines a slut?"

I haven't a frgging clue!! I have just seen it in many profile names!! I've always thought it was a very demeaning word to use towards women! But Mr Arkeb2 has a different experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as a filter on here, its an instant block if someone messages us and uses the term slut.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Not me . I'm far too nice "
You do look very nice!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot???"

Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes I have called a slut every women i have met even infront of thier partner while face fucking n spitroasting them oright spanking them never had a complaint we are talking over 20 women so on my opinion most of them like being call slut or other names "

Have they ever called you a slut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it but only from someone who is special to me.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I can see how someone would just message someone on here and call them a slut.

I have used it before but with a lady who loved dirty talk during sex and she would instigate it.

I wouldn't ever consider calling someone it with some form of interest in it from the person I was with.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I like it but only from someone who is special to me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do a name search some women obviously like it enough to have it as profile name.

These things are contextual as to time, place, person and relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot???

Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!"

I had a look, there are a lot but it’s a mixture of couples, single ladies and quite a few tv/ts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot???

Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!"

And what percentage of the profiles on fabs is that?!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

A lot???

Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!

I had a look, there are a lot but it’s a mixture of couples, single ladies and quite a few tv/ts too

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im a lovey t girl and definately no slut . I know a lot of t girls like to come across that way because they think it attacts people in their direction ....really I mean come on . my policy is if you are going to do this do it bloody right.we are not sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women like it from a bloke they know and are attracted to. No woman likes it from random strangers. "

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Name calling .... isnt that childish

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some women like it from a bloke they know and are attracted to. No woman likes it from random strangers. "

This.

In the moment with someone I trust, it can be a turn on. But it has to be "my slut", not just a general slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely don’t like being called a slut and the one thing guaranteed to give me the ick is....cumslut

Mrsk

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Absolutely not

Would be a block if this was said in a message or meet.

Miss

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope.

I won't tolerate being called slut, slag, whore etc can't stand being called Hun, babe or darling either.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I certainly wouldn't be happy if someone called me a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only find the word offensive if offence is intended or said with disapproval. I think the definition of the word is a sexually liberated woman who enjoys multiple partners. So slut is a perfect description of myself. I'm not a slag though. To me that's a slut with no standards or style.

Mrs

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"We are all very different, but if anybody calls me that, that's any interest I possibly may have had completely dissolved."

I’ve had this recently. Someone I have been in contact with for a while, who has been utterly charming to talk to and we were planning on meeting, referred to me as a “cock slut”, apparently in jest.

Totally disrespectful and was just proof to me that some men are just not comfortable with a woman being in control of and proactive with regard to her own sexuality. Pure misogyny.

It’s a bit like the “what’s a nice girl like you, doing on a site like this?” comment.

I’m still a “nice girl”, I just happen to like sex, but don’t want to be in a relationship to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think this kind of sex shaming belongs in the ancient past. We're only interested in people who are sex positive

I can understand some people trying to reclaim the word, and to me women who are overtly sexual and enjoy sex are a massive turn on, so I guess I could say it in an admiring way in the right circumstance ... Saying it to a stranger is really backwards, misogynistic, and says more about the person saying it than the target of abuse.

My 2c

Seb x

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By *uby jamesCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

Wow you lot are too sensitive

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

I used to meet a lady who liked to be called a slut and said her slut pussy was mine... we're all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A previous gf of mine loved being called a slut in the bedroom.. she would even say "I'm a slut" as I was fucking her.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

A lot???

Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!

And what percentage of the profiles on fabs is that?!"

A fairly high percentage of the fake ones I presume..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are all very different, but if anybody calls me that, that's any interest I possibly may have had completely dissolved.

Totally disrespectful and was just proof to me that some men are just not comfortable with a woman being in control of and proactive with regard to her own sexuality. Pure misogyny.

It’s a bit like the “what’s a nice girl like you, doing on a site like this?” comment.

I’m still a “nice girl”, I just happen to like sex, but don’t want to be in a relationship to get it."

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By *uby jamesCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

"I only find the word offensive if offence is intended or said with disapproval. I think the definition of the word is a sexually liberated woman who enjoys multiple partners. So slut is a perfect description of myself. I'm not a slag though. To me that's a slut with no standards or style.

Mrs"

Well said

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

My hubby can call me a slut, but no one else

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"My hubby can call me a slut, but no one else

This.

We toy with it in our own play sometimes, especially if we're being vocal and we're in a bit of a D/s situation, we'll both be getting off on it, but that's for us and not for fab.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Did someone call? Fuckslut here.

My take on this is, I live in a vanilla world. Mortgage, work and kids. Swinging is not involed in this world. I'm prim and proper.

Then theres the other side the kinky naughty side. So things I would not expect to find in the vanilla world I bring to the swinging side. If I was walking down the street and someone called me a slut I would find it offensive and abuse. But when I'm swinging it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did someone call? Fuckslut here.

My take on this is, I live in a vanilla world. Mortgage, work and kids. Swinging is not involed in this world. I'm prim and proper.

Completely understand where your coming from there it's that element of fantasy involved in this world!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm not for me no!

Why? Because I don't consider myself a slut! Hubster would be extremely pissed off if a guy thought it ok to call me this! And would most likely get a fist in the face for his disrespectful behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a slut, I don’t act like a slut and won’t be called one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?

Mrs"

I think it’s usually used in a derogatory way that’s why I hate it

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My other half uses it as a term of endearment, but he’s the only one who’d get away with it! Again, it’s too close to humiliation for my tastes. I now plenty who enjoy being called all sorts though

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

It depends on who and what’s happening, if someone randomly came out with it I’d be offended but if it was during a scene and pre arranged then it’d turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?

Mrs

I think it’s usually used in a derogatory way that’s why I hate it"

I feel the vanilla world and historically it's used as a derogatory way of describing women like me. But I'm not ashamed of what I do so I'm not ashamed of any word that describes my behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, but only from very specific people. If someone messaged me referring to me as a slut, I would block them. If someone randomly came out with it during a meet, the play would stop there.

It's only okay if I have said in advance that it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't take it from a random stranger, but have been called much worse in the heat of the moment,buts that's with the OH,and I know he doesn't mean it really

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

When I'm in the moment, I describe myself as a slut, saying so using that word.....and asking to be treated like one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he whispers that in my ear when We are having sex I'm a wet squirting mess instantly.

Otherwise no thanks, I'm not one and have no desire to be called one.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?

Mrs

I think it’s usually used in a derogatory way that’s why I hate it

I feel the vanilla world and historically it's used as a derogatory way of describing women like me. But I'm not ashamed of what I do so I'm not ashamed of any word that describes my behaviour. "

Like your angle on this, hmmm, food for thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lady friend and if I DONT send her a text first thing every morning saying "morning my slut" she gets most upset. She told me it makes her tingle just reading it.

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By *aren1956TV/TS
over a year ago

Fakenham

Another smooth-talking charmer..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

a stranger? fuck off. messages on here? same. if I talk to a friend about sex and they tease me in a nice way- no problem. if someone I meet and know well grins at me whilst I especially enjoy myself- nice.

always depends on how its said and when and by whom...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a stranger? fuck off. messages on here? same. if I talk to a friend about sex and they tease me in a nice way- no problem. if someone I meet and know well grins at me whilst I especially enjoy myself- nice.

always depends on how its said and when and by whom..."

context

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Sophie loves me calling her my slut, and enjoys it in play from others too. But, as others have said not away from play time from random people, that's just rude and she would probably lay them out lol

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