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By *risee OP TV/TS
over a year ago
MacKay |
Was having a great discussion in the General Chat earlier this morning about clubs and parties and 'contribution' charges.
Most clubs charge single males more than couples and often single girls get in free. Equality Act 2010 aside, for one moment.
What bothered me was the disparity in pricing:
CPLS £20 SINGLE MALES £30 FEMALES £10
in an ad I saw today. What this is in fact saying is 'A Male is charged £30, but if you bring a female we'll pay you £10 for her to enter'
Some clubs I've attended charge high entry for men and pay a handful of girls to engage all the single men all night. A club offers entry to couples or single girls for handing over a bottle of grog.
I have to admit, I'm turned off by most clubs overall in the UK, at least the ones I've experienced or the ones I can clearly see pay women to entertain the high paying men.
I won't name the clubs, I see little point and there clearly is a market for this - it probably also keeps the catfish males off the private swingers scene to a degree.
I face an unusual situation where, as recently happened at a club I was invited to attend (and had a great time after ignorant prejudices were educated over half an hour, bringing me to tears) that I was considered a 'single male' simply because of a false perception highly common in the UK. That matter educated and resolved, the night was very social even if nothing else happened.
I don't need to pay to get into a situation where there are men who want sex. (I'm not really interested in men, despite my (now ex) partner telling me 6 years ago I should perhaps explore my 'bi' side ...
I'm not concerned about genuine parties where a small contribution is charged to couples and single girls enter free. I understand entirely why single girls (or married solo girls) are hesitant to attend clubs and other functions. I talk with enough girls in my daily life about sex - yes we do talk about sex and men a lot but not the same way men to talk about girls and sex.
I know what the problem with the clubs commonly attended in London appear to be. And I know, based on my experiences in Clubs in other countries what can be done to done to change that and really enhance the experience for couples, girls and even the decent single men.
I can't see a change to the existing club environment, it caters for a specific need - men get their girl with her legs over her shoulders to bang and the girls get a few bucks top pay the rent and buy groceries.
I am however interested in seeing if any members in London would genuinely and commercially be interested in partnering with me to establish a run a club that will really cater for high levels of engagement and friendliness, especially for people who are inexperienced with the scene and perhaps a bit 'afraid' and shy.
In 20 years of swinging, I'm yet to find anyone who hasn't later said 'Hell why was I so shy, look at what I've missed out on' ... even my ex recently posted 'My miss spent youth' despite my efforts to encourage her to explore.
I really beleive there are couples who would like to see a very exciting venue opened where social and sensuality can be played out with a lot less hesitation and that hard first step.
I know the process works, I was a Hostess in a swingers club for a while and the difference between that club and other clubs was astounding.
A decent club, run by genuine members for genuine members would be an asset to this site, and would greatly provide for all interests without prejudice. of course the single men only wanting to bang would be left at the door  Genuine single men, would of course be highly encouraged to meet the greedy girls needs!
Thoughts?
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