FabSwingers.com forum: Verification Hijacked by male to male verifies

By *risee OP TV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

I've been looking over many profiles of late, pondering what people write and how they have success.

In doing this I noticed a common male account verifying hundreds of other male accounts 'I've known this man a long time' blahblah.

The verification is consistent in it's context and typically most are around the same period of time. They are all a 'meet in person'.

This puzzles me because nearly all the males are Straight and there doesn't seem to be an event at that time and the 'known for a long time' is kinda cliche.

Is there an ALL STRAIGHT SOLO MENS swingers group hidden in the UK because not all the profiles are in London or local, or have my alarm bells and forensic skills picked up on something unusual?

Also curious about quite a few STRAIGHT MALE profiles that only appear to have SINGLE MAN verifications. One has several!

I won't name the profiles, and for the moment will kept my forensic starting point unpublished.

Your comments and opinion? The whole idea of the verification system is to enable genuine people to verify genuine people. Does this behaviour make the process less genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might have met in social events where there is a high ratio of male to females.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I have noticed this ......

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Verification or not we would only tend to meet after seeing who ever on webcam or at the very least a phone call.

We are completely unverified apart from on webcam as we did meet a couple but they have now left.

But whilst a verification is nice its no garuantee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I confess, it's me as my alter ego Blaine ....... I trade men up and down the country veri's for the price of a pint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verification or not we would only tend to meet after seeing who ever on webcam or at the very least a phone call.

We are completely unverified apart from on webcam as we did meet a couple but they have now left.

But whilst a verification is nice its no garuantee."

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By *risee OP TV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

"Verification or not we would only tend to meet after seeing who ever on webcam or at the very least a phone call.

How would you have coped 15 years ago! We had no web cams!

And to be honest, we had more success in meets and parties back then than we do today. Admittedly different country and culture, so I don't know what it was like in the UK 15 years ago.

Is it the use of technology that has made people, to use the term in its accurate sense 'prejudiced' on meeting?

Is it that today our reliance on internet communications as a basis for meeting people is overwhelming and unlike 15 years ago where the number of online people was staggeringly smaller, and people were more likely than not using a real name (or known handle) and genuine and honest, compared with today?

It was rare to see a male posing in an IRC channel as a female 15 years ago. Today it's almost the norm!

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

IRC channel?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"I've been looking over many profiles of late, pondering what people write and how they have success.

In doing this I noticed a common male account verifying hundreds of other male accounts 'I've known this man a long time' blahblah.

The verification is consistent in it's context and typically most are around the same period of time. They are all a 'meet in person'.

This puzzles me because nearly all the males are Straight and there doesn't seem to be an event at that time and the 'known for a long time' is kinda cliche.

Is there an ALL STRAIGHT SOLO MENS swingers group hidden in the UK because not all the profiles are in London or local, or have my alarm bells and forensic skills picked up on something unusual?

Also curious about quite a few STRAIGHT MALE profiles that only appear to have SINGLE MAN verifications. One has several!

I won't name the profiles, and for the moment will kept my forensic starting point unpublished.

Your comments and opinion? The whole idea of the verification system is to enable genuine people to verify genuine people. Does this behaviour make the process less genuine?

I too have noticed this and thought.... fishy...! I have also be contacted by one or two who has asked me to verify them! Reported and blocked Grrrr

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I reported a couple of guys i spoke to over mail via the site who asked me to verify them.

However the last time i looked nothing had been done they were still on there

Mercedesx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think there is something fishy going on report all the profiles concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IRC channel?

Internet Relay Chat, I think..... or summat like that.

It was a kind of chat site used by IT-eperts/specialists, before user-friendly interfaces were written, which opened up Chatrooms to us all. x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"IRC channel?

Internet Relay Chat, I think..... or summat like that.

It was a kind of chat site used by IT-eperts/specialists, before user-friendly interfaces were written, which opened up Chatrooms to us all. x"

ah, understood

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So single males can't be friends with other single males whether they straight or not hmm does that apply just on here or in the real world as well ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So single males can't be friends with other single males whether they straight or not hmm does that apply just on here or in the real world as well ? "

Fair point, but sadly likely to be something fishy !?!

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

I agree with the above. Something very fishy there. Why would a straight single guy verify another straight single guy? It doesn't add up on this site at all in my book and I'm sorry if I'm proved wrong.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

guys who have met up at a gangbang, guys who are considering creating a MM profile for ladies looking for MMF, a group of guys who play with ladies looking for multiple black cock, white cock... a group of super hung guys... they would verify each other to create credibility.

Do fems verify each other without it being fishy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a single male meets another single male at a party or a social why shouldn't they verify each other. The verification is genuine. They're both on here and they've met,which is all you need for a verification.

Do people have the same attitude about straight fems verifying each other?

If not,why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely it should say how they met in the feedback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a single male meets another single male at a party or a social why shouldn't they verify each other?"

Agreed. Also, if a single male recommends Fab to a friend, there's no reason why he shouldn't write a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People's profiles (including verifications & photos) are personal. If you like what you read/see then, whoopee, it's a result.

If you don't or think there is something "fishy", then move on to the next. It's your choice.

Many people read verifications as they can say a lot about the people, their interests & the type of folk they like to meet.

The verification "tick" is becoming increasingly important because, sadly, there appears to be a growing number of fake profiles who get their jollies online (according to posts on this forum).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was from "Him" by the way, best add that so I don't get a wrist slap from "Her"...,;0).

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By *ne-just4funMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't see the problem with guys verifying guys. You can read the feedback and make up your own mind about it. And lets face it, no single guy profile is going to be a married woman or single female poising as a single guy!....or is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple..

Keep your friends list private and your verifications.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been verified by a woman. We met at a social and got on well, but didn't play. I don't think there's a rule against it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never take any notice of a male verifying a male.I'm not gay nor Bi so they just don't go on my radar.

Couples are one thing but single male sounds dodgy.

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By *ssentialminx2011Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

We have to agree also !!

"whats wrong in genuine FAB~men~ verifying other genuine FAB~men??

They may have met socially at a meet or seen them "in action at a house party?"

They may also have been thinking about forming a TAG~Team OR group of MMM's or MMMMMM etc team that many woman want as a easy alternative for a G/B (all under 1 roof ~

I persnally adore BBC so a group of Male m8/friends/Tagteam/party group that play all together That are ALL str8 still, all BBC's on 1 profile kills 5/6 birds with 1 stone ,so to speak!! ~"whats "fishy abt that??" qwestion :?? "ANSWER:?? "NOTHING @ALL as far as we can see

There are some excellent Group profiles on FAB @ the moment,& many 2 X Str8 MM p

ies also xx again nothing wrong with that @all

MY experience @ MY G/B of the MM TAGTEAM i chose WAS EXCELLENT!! They worked well as a double act ,and their "little flirty 4 hands massage,4play routine was brilliant!!"

so why shouldnt they 4 example be able to verify 1another??I was actually gonna have another new guy ,but was sooo glad i had a an experienced & familiar team that worked very welk together xx (as opposed to strangers playing together) does that make sence!! xx Alex

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Why do people care so much about others profiles...are they really that short of real things to do

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