FabSwingers.com forum: No show meet today is online now and yet won't answer...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think Fab had a talent for continue to up the ante on scumbag behaviour of its patrons. I've agreed to meet with someone today. She added me yesterday. Spoke and agreed to meet 2pm today. Gave me a postcode which u drove to only for them to tell me they were still not back. I agreed to arrange again for later at 3.30pm and they still have not shown up and now have resorted to showing up on whatsapp as "online" and yet refusing to answer my messages. LOL user in question is online right now on fab too.

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on. Don't stress about it, it happens all the time. Great meets make for the twats lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I think Fab had a talent for continue to up the ante on scumbag behaviour of its patrons. I've agreed to meet with someone today. She added me yesterday. Spoke and agreed to meet 2pm today. Gave me a postcode which u drove to only for them to tell me they were still not back. I agreed to arrange again for later at 3.30pm and they still have not shown up and now have resorted to showing up on whatsapp as "online" and yet refusing to answer my messages. LOL user in question is online right now on fab too.

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

Yes go to their profile.. report tab... did not turn up..fill in text and captcha. If you get stuck pm me I'll screen shot x

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can do but I Dont know what admins can do about it. Just put it down as experience and move on. Think.of it as a lucky escape. If she's that inconsiderate then it's best she's not in your life.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

I think the weirdos are out in force today.

Sorry to hear you've been messed around OP. as someone above has said, report as a no show then block and move on. With an ass like that I'm sure you'll find someone new to meet soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do not deserve your time mate

Hight of ignorance

Don't waste another second on the matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank. "

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake. "

Fair enough. I would always ask for a phone chat anyway. If someone refuses, even if they are really a woman, they are unlikely to turn up if they won't even speak on the phone.

No point reporting. It's one person's word against another. The other person can say they did turn up and you are just stirring. There's no way fab can judge who is telling the truth.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If admin didn't do anything, surely they wouldn't bother at all having the report tab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If admin didn't do anything, surely they wouldn't bother at all having the report tab."

This is what I don't understand. It's like this behaviour is just being condoned now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake. "

or they didnt fancy you and couldnt tell you to your face!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"If admin didn't do anything, surely they wouldn't bother at all having the report tab.

This is what I don't understand. It's like this behaviour is just being condoned now

But if you say they didn't turn up and they say they did how can admin possibly know who is telling the truth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them.

If they do it to others and they report them too then it shows there is a pattern of behaviour there.

And the one person who was a no show for me was someone I spoke to on the phone so that means nothing in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

or they didnt fancy you and couldnt tell you to your face!

So message me, arrange to meet and give me an address when they didn't fancy me?

Are you that much of a dimwit?"

as they are fucking you about,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

or they didnt fancy you and couldnt tell you to your face!

So message me, arrange to meet and give me an address when they didn't fancy me?

Are you that much of a dimwit?

as they are fucking you about, "

Oh ok

Well...

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake. "

Unfortunately we've had this on occasion from both single men and couples. Very frustrating and more annoyingly a waste of our precious time. But seems to be an occupational hazard.

As said try not to waste any more if your time in them.

Although easier said than done. We know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really much can be done, had it happen a couple of times. One women got and left verifications for another man for the night we were due to meet!? I'd like to think she made the wrong decision haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report them.

If they do it to others and they report them too then it shows there is a pattern of behaviour there.

And the one person who was a no show for me was someone I spoke to on the phone so that means nothing in my eyes."

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake. "

But people trust the verification system. It's 100% reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

But people trust the verification system. It's 100% reliable.

loooool

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Happened to me more than once - really knocked the confidence but I shall try again

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sadly this site is full of people like this. Block report move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this behaviour should be reported. If admin get repeated reports about someone they can issue a warning and delete their profiles if necessary. It doesn't stop people rejoining, but they will have to be verified all over again.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I think this behaviour should be reported. If admin get repeated reports about someone they can issue a warning and delete their profiles if necessary. It doesn't stop people rejoining, but they will have to be verified all over again. "

This ,i imagine you're probably not the only one they have done this to.

What they get out of it,who knows.

Miss

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

I had 2 meets planned this wk. Both with verified people. Gut instinct told me that neither would show

both reported and blocked. Forget and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG, what was she thinking, her loss, your pictures.... WOW !!! Block and move on.

Mrs. Saturday xXx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

How many elephants need to cross the Alps

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Exactly why when I'm looking for anyone new I won't agree to meet so fast, tends to get rid of the idiots because they get bored

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Exactly why when I'm looking for anyone new I won't agree to meet so fast, tends to get rid of the idiots because they get bored

Exactly the same here! It's a waste of time.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Report, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria. "

I said this and got a mouthful above

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

we have been messed around loads recently. next time we are in brum, I will make it up to you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the size of him... I'd be scarred aswel haha

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

I know that feeling dude. Been speaking to a woman here-spoke on the phone, swapped pics etc.

Agreed to meet for coffee, she cancelled the day before as claimed to be ill. Re-arranged to meet yesterday....no chat ALL day. She spent most of the day in the chat rooms (not that i was stalking her

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Anyway...cannot be bothered with her-blocked etc etc

Just wished she had the courage to say she wasnt meeting...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria. "

Is that meant to be an excuse?

Almost every person i met did bit give me their house number first. It was a good way for them to be safe. I literally just had someone who did not give me more than their postcode and she said that she did not give house numbers out quickly because she needed to ensure she wasn't being duped

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

Is that meant to be an excuse?

So do you think that women would invite a total stranger over to their home they had only talked to briefly on a swingers site?

If you do, you are going to get duped over and over.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Use your common silence and have real conversations with people first do you can gauge their character, Instead of just thinking with your cock

You're as much to fault in this situation as they are because I'm sorry to say those of that use common sense realised you were gonna get pissed about before you'd even finished the story in your OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

Is that meant to be an excuse?

So do you think that women would invite a total stranger over to their home they had only talked to briefly on a swingers site?

If you do, you are going to get duped over and over. "

Except I've had exactly that many times. If someone is not comfortable doing such then they should not even be arranging meets like that in the first plsce. As usual I have another fabber making excuses for shitty behaviour. Let me guess, you're a timewaster too right? Being uncomfortable is not excuse for no showing. How about being an adult and not arranging a meet you're not comfortable with in the first place?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

I said this and got a mouthful above "

Yeah, it’s hard to feel sorry for someone who dishes out insults to people in his own ‘woe is me, my Saturday got messed up’ thread. I was just beginning to feel some compassion towards him and everything.

Superfreak, it’s horrible when it happens. I can’t begin to fathom the mind of someone who lets you get right to the meet stage then just doesn’t show. No matter how complex and thorough your selection process is, you can’t them all out so it’s time for the big sigh, report and block them.

I really hope your next meet is stellar to make up for this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

No show are they mad. Do they need a visit to spec savers. You certainly are a fine specimen young man. What I wouldn't give to me 20yrs younger. Superfit guy just move on fab world is your oyster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always give my postcode, along with the house number, largely because without the postcode most people get lost. That said, some still get lost WITH it!

I do sympathise with the OP, I had the same issue earlier this morning, and actually with someone I'd met several times before! Never had a problem in the past but today he was online on here and on WhatsApp, but not answering or communicating.

Last minute issues do happen; I understand that, they've happened to me often enough as well. As long as there is communication and honesty - even if it's just "I changed my mind" - then I don't mind. I've had to cancel last minute before, so it would be unfair of me to kick off when someone else does it.

To go silent though, when you can clearly see that person is online and receiving messages.....that's just rude. Even ruder when you have someone else waiting to pick them up and give them a lift - waste of my time and theirs.

Block and move on, as others have said - exactly what I did this morning to someone I've known for a while and actually quite liked, because that doesn't give someone a free pass to mess you about and treat you with disrespect.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Except I've had exactly that many times. If someone is not comfortable doing such then they should not even be arranging meets like that in the first plsce. As usual I have another fabber making excuses for shitty behaviour. Let me guess, you're a timewaster too right? Being uncomfortable is not excuse for no showing. How about being an adult and not arranging a meet you're not comfortable with in the first place?"

Oh. Nope. Temporary flash of sympathy firmly quashed.

Off to go spend time with people who aren’t going to bring me down on this sunny Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with some of the common sense arguments u can have weeks of communication with potential meets arrange to swap details plan a meet and time show up at allotted destination and still be let down and get no response ,this has happened to me a few times and within 24 hrs meet has gone unlos

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

This has happened to me too. I have arrived at the agreed place then they haven't showed up. Look for their profile on fab and it's gone. Too many fakes on this site

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

Is that meant to be an excuse?

So do you think that women would invite a total stranger over to their home they had only talked to briefly on a swingers site?

If you do, you are going to get duped over and over.

She didn't arrange a meet! You fell for a common time waster tactic because you engaged your cock, not your brain.

You were willing to drive to a postcode. You chose that.

Resorting to insult in response to someone pointing out what was probably your mistake is what children resort to. Mine and other comments are to give you another viewpoint.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I disagree with some of the common sense arguments u can have weeks of communication with potential meets arrange to swap details plan a meet and time show up at allotted destination and still be let down and get no response ,this has happened to me a few times and within 24 hrs meet has gone unlos"

The point of the OP's post is that he was given nothing but a postcode. See the problem with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh its ok that the op got messed about because he didn't spend 3 years messaging someone first

Ok I don't understand why people do this sort of thing. It's irritating that they do and I don't really understand those that say you're to blame for someone else being a dick because there are plenty that do meet successfully without attending 30 social meets first. I think you just have to accept that the less groundwork you put in before a meet, the more likely you are to be messed around. As already said, the report function is there to be used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your common silence and have real conversations with people first do you can gauge their character, Instead of just thinking with your cock

You're as much to fault in this situation as they are because I'm sorry to say those of that use common sense realised you were gonna get pissed about before you'd even finished the story in your OP

I'm as much at fault for someone agreeing to meet and not showing up? Christ almighty this forum is full of complete fucking twats

Words of wisdom for forecasting pricks. If you're not comfortable with a meet...dont arrange one. The last person three people I met up with told me they only gave a postcode first as it allowed them to gauge that I was not only the person who said I was but that I was not turning up with "friends". It's common practice but I find it interesting you're willing to ignore it. Judging by some of the veris though you don't strike me as someone with any standards.

I'm not the one having issues with timewasters, clearly my standards work just fine

But sorry your fragile ego got that bent out of shape you felt the need to insult people I've met that are actually genuine people

You can bitch and moan all you like but grown ups take responsibility for their own actions "

Mr Superfreak sounds like a lovely guy

I think the lady in question really missed out there

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab."

It's not asinine, it's a common fake/time waster tatic, it's allllll over the forums.

You took the chance and you got burned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab."
mate I had a lady give me postcode and watched me in the dark fumble round in a street looking for her door and deny she saw my car and when I found the house number she said it was an old pensioner she then said I was a time waster and I should go home,next morning she messaged saying her and her partner enjoyed watching me frantically texting her to confirm I was at right address and said that should teach me a lesson for being so gullible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do op is keep meeting there's plenty of ladies that will enjoy your company don't let one bad experience put a downer on your fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as someone that's met you I respectfully disagree, you're a lovely guy but common sense should have told you yesterday that I'd just got off of my holiday, I'd have been weary-ish from a 4 hour stressful public transport journey with the 3 kids aged 4and under, that you know I have, and that as everyone does when they're back off of an holiday, there would be a mountain of washing and ironing to do that needs to be sorted, and that I wouldn't wanna ready meet, yet you still message me chancing it

If youd have thought it through instead of letting him do the thinking you wouldn't have messaged for a meet

Men dont employ common sense when it comes to their cocks

Or indeed, ANY sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U got to remember it's all fantasy until you actually meet and it becomes a reality.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab.mate I had a lady give me postcode and watched me in the dark fumble round in a street looking for her door and deny she saw my car and when I found the house number she said it was an old pensioner she then said I was a time waster and I should go home,next morning she messaged saying her and her partner enjoyed watching me frantically texting her to confirm I was at right address and said that should teach me a lesson for being so gullible"

Complete and utter lowlifes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok saying u should get phone numbers speak on phone so on and so on but let's getting real not every one is comfortable giving they're door number to after all a complete stranger and as for telephone u can't guarantee they won't abuse it ,lots of ladies won't divulge this information for their own safety and you sometimes have to accept that and if genuine it works out but this time it didn't work out for the op despite all the communication it's that old adage u can't win them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any way op chin up and move on I'm off to enjoy my Sunday hope you do too

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"It's ok saying u should get phone numbers speak on phone so on and so on but let's getting real not every one is comfortable giving they're door number to after all a complete stranger and as for telephone u can't guarantee they won't abuse it ,lots of ladies won't divulge this information for their own safety and you sometimes have to accept that and if genuine it works out but this time it didn't work out for the op despite all the communication it's that old adage u can't win them all"

You tell them they can call you and withold their number.

There's really no excuse. If they are " too shy" to speak on the phone they are going to be too shy to meet with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

Is that meant to be an excuse?

So do you think that women would invite a total stranger over to their home they had only talked to briefly on a swingers site?

If you do, you are going to get duped over and over.

She didn't arrange a meet! You fell for a common time waster tactic because you engaged your cock, not your brain.

You were willing to drive to a postcode. You chose that.

Resorting to insult in response to someone pointing out what was probably your mistake is what children resort to. Mine and other comments are to give you another viewpoint. "

Spot on

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab."

No one is saying the behaviour is justified, they are saying that all the signs were there that this was a time waster and you ignored them. Consider.

1. The inherent improbability of a single woman inviting a strange man to her home.

2. No phone conversation.

3. No address only a post code.

For me all those would scream fake or time waster. If the post code was near to me I might risk it as it could possibly be genuine. If I had to travel any distance I would have insisted on a phone call first to get an idea if they were genuine. If they refused I would bin. It.

As I say no one is blaming you for being fooled, at least only insofar as we might blame someone who forgets to lock his door and gets burgled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If admin didn't do anything, surely they wouldn't bother at all having the report tab.

This is what I don't understand. It's like this behaviour is just being condoned now

But if you say they didn't turn up and they say they did how can admin possibly know who is telling the truth? "

Simple, they can read the messages and see that the person is ignoring someone they agreed to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab."

A no show is never justifiable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab.

A no show is never justifiable. "

Apparently it is when it's against a guy who is only thinking with his cock

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

A no show can happen anytime,regardless of the groundwork you put in.

On my old single profile,the only no show I had was a man who was well verified and i'd spoken to for weeks.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

or they didnt fancy you and couldnt tell you to your face!

So message me, arrange to meet and give me an address when they didn't fancy me?

Are you that much of a dimwit?

Oh the arrogance - no wonder you deleted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab."

Your logic is asinine. The fora are great in providing filters of who you'd rather not meet, not indicating timewasters cos they have a different POV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your common silence and have real conversations with people first do you can gauge their character, Instead of just thinking with your cock

You're as much to fault in this situation as they are because I'm sorry to say those of that use common sense realised you were gonna get pissed about before you'd even finished the story in your OP

I'm as much at fault for someone agreeing to meet and not showing up? Christ almighty this forum is full of complete fucking twats

I'm not the one having issues with timewasters, clearly my standards work just fine

But sorry your fragile ego got that bent out of shape you felt the need to insult people I've met that are actually genuine people

You can bitch and moan all you like but grown ups take responsibility for their own actions

Mr Superfreak sounds like a lovely guy

I think the lady in question really missed out there"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

Personally, I don't arrange a meet within hours of contact. If I did my expectations would be low so would take my fair share of blame for wasting my own time.

You could try a different approach...just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or they didnt fancy you and couldnt tell you to your face!

So message me, arrange to meet and give me an address when they didn't fancy me?

Are you that much of a dimwit?

@nonevanillacupcake, i said this and he called me a dimwit lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Use your common silence and have real conversations with people first do you can gauge their character, Instead of just thinking with your cock

You're as much to fault in this situation as they are because I'm sorry to say those of that use common sense realised you were gonna get pissed about before you'd even finished the story in your OP "

Exactly!

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By *TrainMan
over a year ago

London

No showing is just rude

If you’re not interested then just be honest

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

Now that's just plain nasty!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Most people understand how asinine it is to suggest that someone no showing because they just gave me a postcode is justified.

But threads like these are always a great way to decipher who the timewasters are on fab. They'll come finding ways to justify the shitty behaviour you see on fab.

No one is saying the behaviour is justified, they are saying that all the signs were there that this was a time waster and you ignored them. Consider.

1. The inherent improbability of a single woman inviting a strange man to her home.

2. No phone conversation.

3. No address only a post code.

As I say no one is blaming you for being fooled, at least only insofar as we might blame someone who forgets to lock his door and gets burgled. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has Fab actually ever deleted an account as a result of not turning up for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has Fab actually ever deleted an account as a result of not turning up for a meet? "

I seriously doubt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has Fab actually ever deleted an account as a result of not turning up for a meet?

I seriously doubt it. "
As I thought, so reporting no show advice above is fairly pointless

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Has Fab actually ever deleted an account as a result of not turning up for a meet?

I seriously doubt it. As I thought, so reporting no show advice above is fairly pointless "

Indeed. Someone reports a no show. It's only then fair to ask the alleged no show for their side. The alleged no show denies it. How can fab know who is telling the truth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

Fair enough. I would always ask for a phone chat anyway. If someone refuses, even if they are really a woman, they are unlikely to turn up if they won't even speak on the phone.

No point reporting. It's one person's word against another. The other person can say they did turn up and you are just stirring. There's no way fab can judge who is telling the truth. "

I prefer not to speak on the phone before a meet, I'm not fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has Fab actually ever deleted an account as a result of not turning up for a meet?

I seriously doubt it. As I thought, so reporting no show advice above is fairly pointless

Indeed. Someone reports a no show. It's only then fair to ask the alleged no show for their side. The alleged no show denies it. How can fab know who is telling the truth? "

But if the same profile is reported by different people for not showing up to an arranged meet, it is more likely the person is a timewaster and I would expect the profile to be deleted by admin on here.

We will never know if that does happen though because admin doesn’t do feedback on here.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?

Did you speak to this person on the phone? If not, it's a bloke having a wank.

No. But this person has multiple verifications from people who also have multiple verifications. It would be extremely unlikely that it's fake.

Fair enough. I would always ask for a phone chat anyway. If someone refuses, even if they are really a woman, they are unlikely to turn up if they won't even speak on the phone.

No point reporting. It's one person's word against another. The other person can say they did turn up and you are just stirring. There's no way fab can judge who is telling the truth.

I prefer not to speak on the phone before a meet, I'm not fake "

You would say that wouldn't you

Obviously no system is fool proof but we take the view that if someone refuses to talk on the phone it is highly likely they are a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or they didnt fancy you and couldnt tell you to your face!

So message me, arrange to meet and give me an address when they didn't fancy me?

Are you that much of a dimwit?

@nonevanillacupcake, i said this and he called me a dimwit lol"

I know. It was your post I quoted

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our rules and procedures on what is required for a meet and if wanting to meet someone you usually adhere to their preferences but it is bad form not to show and to offer no explanation and yes it's your meets progrative to change mind but always nice for them to say hey I can't meet not just let u show up and then not bother

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria. "

this... this... this...

its sounds like a case of the dick over-ruling the brains, because if it wasn't a situation of sex, if you hand't spoken to someone on the phone, and you only know them for a little time, there is no way you would have driven somewhere without knowing an address.....

there are some basic "common sense" things you can do to prevent falling for these things.... and actually talking to someone on the phone first is one of those things top of the list!

sometimes you can help yourself "help yourself" in situations like this.... i don't think you helped yourself!!!

maybe the one thing you take out of what happened is to change and tweek your processes... otherwise its prone to happen again

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Pull the pig prank" fabs-version.

Report the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that, better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly OP with no postcode and only whatspp messages to go by you were fooled. Who in their right mind just goes by a postcode?

Sorry OP I'd report and move on, plenty more on here that do meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

Absolutely disgusting, appalling & unforgiveable behaviour. Block. Delete. Is the only way forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

this... this... this...

there are some basic "common sense" things you can do to prevent falling for these things.... and actually talking to someone on the phone first is one of those things top of the list!

sometimes you can help yourself "help yourself" in situations like this.... i don't think you helped yourself!!!

maybe the one thing you take out of what happened is to change and tweek your processes... otherwise its prone to happen again"

Spot on! One needs to be on top of this game. Beat the system before it beats you!!?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

this... this... this...

there are some basic "common sense" things you can do to prevent falling for these things.... and actually talking to someone on the phone first is one of those things top of the list!

sometimes you can help yourself "help yourself" in situations like this.... i don't think you helped yourself!!!

maybe the one thing you take out of what happened is to change and tweek your processes... otherwise its prone to happen again

Spot on! One needs to be on top of this game. Beat the system before it beats you!!?"

You changed your tune in one post

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Sadly OP with no postcode and only whatspp messages to go by you were fooled. Who in their right mind just goes by a postcode?

Sorry OP I'd report and move on, plenty more on here that do meet. "

I was reading about a no show last week and it was the exact same thing, they were only given a postcode. I have no idea why anyone would go out without being given an address. You've realy got to wonder why someone wouldn't be willing to give out their address if they're expecting you to visit them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

this... this... this...

there are some basic "common sense" things you can do to prevent falling for these things.... and actually talking to someone on the phone first is one of those things top of the list!

sometimes you can help yourself "help yourself" in situations like this.... i don't think you helped yourself!!!

maybe the one thing you take out of what happened is to change and tweek your processes... otherwise its prone to happen again

Spot on! One needs to be on top of this game. Beat the system before it beats you!!?

You changed your tune in one post

I thought I had read that he had spoken with her and gotten to know her. Then I read further down to find out that the OP had not been as vigilant as I thought. My error

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

this... this... this...

there are some basic "common sense" things you can do to prevent falling for these things.... and actually talking to someone on the phone first is one of those things top of the list!

sometimes you can help yourself "help yourself" in situations like this.... i don't think you helped yourself!!!

maybe the one thing you take out of what happened is to change and tweek your processes... otherwise its prone to happen again

Spot on! One needs to be on top of this game. Beat the system before it beats you!!?

You changed your tune in one post

I thought I was losing the plot! Phew!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Sadly OP with no postcode and only whatspp messages to go by you were fooled. Who in their right mind just goes by a postcode?

Sorry OP I'd report and move on, plenty more on here that do meet.

Even if I was considering inviting someone round to mine I would meet them in a nearby pub to suss them out first. I suspect most people are similar.

They may be some women who invite to their house men they have never met before but they must be very rare.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sadly OP with no postcode and only whatspp messages to go by you were fooled. Who in their right mind just goes by a postcode?

Sorry OP I'd report and move on, plenty more on here that do meet.

Even if I was considering inviting someone round to mine I would meet them in a nearby pub to suss them out first. I suspect most people are similar.

They may be some women who invite to their house men they have never met before but they must be very rare. "

I agree with you but the OP states he has had several meets that have taken that format.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah, there isn’t a chance in hell I would meet someone at my own place with no prior meeting and within 24 hours of first contact. That’s...crazy! These things are judgement calls, of course, but you need an evidence base to make that call on, surely?

But if the OP says that he has done this before, then there must be women who aren't as nervous about strange men they don’t know from Adam.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Yeah, there isn’t a chance in hell I would meet someone at my own place with no prior meeting and within 24 hours of first contact. That’s...crazy! These things are judgement calls, of course, but you need an evidence base to make that call on, surely?

But if the OP says that he has done this before, then there must be women who aren't as nervous about strange men they don’t know from Adam."

There have been accounts if both women and men being attacked in their own homes from random meets off here, play safe, meet in public first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you drive to a postcode? That screams fake/timewaster.

If she had agreed to meet you at hers, she only had to give you the proper address, if she wanted to check you out first then you could have met somewhere specific.

Probably a good idea to look at your own selection criteria.

this... this... this...

there are some basic "common sense" things you can do to prevent falling for these things.... and actually talking to someone on the phone first is one of those things top of the list!

sometimes you can help yourself "help yourself" in situations like this.... i don't think you helped yourself!!!

maybe the one thing you take out of what happened is to change and tweek your processes... otherwise its prone to happen again

Spot on! One needs to be on top of this game. Beat the system before it beats you!!?

You changed your tune in one post

I thought I was losing the plot! Phew!"

And am I reading double

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

I see the usual jackasses have managed to make this thread about how terrible men are for "thinking with their dicks". As someone said this entire sote doesnt really cater to women who are not either past it or riddled with ego issues. Had some fool called something minx actually whine about me not replying to her and using this experience as comparison.

No one should be planning meets and no showing. Does not make any fucking difference whether I was given a postcode or a full address. Dont want to attend a meet then dont plan one. This entire site seems to be no longer about sex and more about middle aged lowlives trying to relive their "glory days" with a bunch of male sycophants here to support them."

You really do love to put women down don't you!

There is a considerable amount of members who pretend to meet and consequently do not show up. Suck it up buttercup, it happens.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

You really do love to put women down don't you!

There is a considerable amount of members who pretend to meet and consequently do not show up. Suck it up buttercup, it happens."

Not to him it doesn't!

Ah well, I'll carry on having fantastic sex with wonderful men, all of whom have shown up, none of whom have been let down by me.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

You really do love to put women down don't you!

There is a considerable amount of members who pretend to meet and consequently do not show up. Suck it up buttercup, it happens.

Not to him it doesn't!

Ah well, I'll carry on having fantastic sex with wonderful men, all of whom have shown up, none of whom have been let down by me. "

He talks about women and their ego issues and yet this thread points to his ego having been bruised, in neon lighting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The posters before me are all examples of what I am talking about. Those who need fab for the assurance no one in real life provides. People who don't have much going for them and need to uee the prospect of easy sex to keep any men interested. One of them doesnt even have any verified meets.

If you have any kind of justifications for someone flaking then you're really as bad as the flaker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

The forums are made up of peopke who chat and dont meet. Try meeting someone on fab who dont post on the forums...the opinions they have of those on them is not very high.

Also its called being able to engage and taking care of oneself. I dont need to appease some anonymous user on a messageboard to meet or enjoy fab.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"The posters before me are all examples of what I am talking about. Those who need fab for the assurance no one in real life provides. People who don't have much going for them and need to uee the prospect of easy sex to keep any men interested. One of them doesnt even have any verified meets.

If you have any kind of justifications for someone flaking then you're really as bad as the flaker.

So... is that why you're on fab too?

Maybe get real meets that show up and then talk...

Meet people outside of fab too? Surely you don't need fab with an ass like that right??

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

The forums are made up of peopke who chat and dont meet. Try meeting someone on fab who dont post on the forums...the opinions they have of those on them is not very high.

Also its called being able to engage and taking care of oneself. I dont need to appease some anonymous user on a messageboard to meet or enjoy fab."

You fall into which camp of fab then?

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

The forums are made up of peopke who chat and dont meet. Try meeting someone on fab who dont post on the forums...the opinions they have of those on them is not very high.

Also its called being able to engage and taking care of oneself. I dont need to appease some anonymous user on a messageboard to meet or enjoy fab."

People on the forums are people on fab. They meet and post. It's multitasking and using this site for all the different aspects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

Out them so everyone else knows to steer clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

The forums are made up of peopke who chat and dont meet. Try meeting someone on fab who dont post on the forums...the opinions they have of those on them is not very high.

Also its called being able to engage and taking care of oneself. I dont need to appease some anonymous user on a messageboard to meet or enjoy fab."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have any kind of justifications for someone flaking then you're really as bad as the flaker.

Bless

As for easy sex... I am sooooo picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about what to do. Cancellations are always fine to me but this seems deliberate. Is there a way this can be reported?"

Yes it can be reported. However if they had read some of your responses from forum threads, they may just have decided to change their mind. Which they are fully entitled to do so.

Quite frankly from what I've read you say on other threads, I wouldn't blame them for changing their mind. You can be really rude!

That's one explanation anyway.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"This entire site seems to be no longer about sex and more about middle aged lowlives trying to relive their "glory days" with a bunch of male sycophants here to support them."

Are you one of the "male sycophants" you speak of OP? Just asking as you are indeed on Fabswingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if the OP says that he has done this before, then there must be women who aren't as nervous about strange men they don’t know from Adam.

There have been accounts if both women and men being attacked in their own homes from random meets off here, play safe, meet in public first.

I would not have a stranger here.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

The forums are made up of peopke who chat and dont meet. Try meeting someone on fab who dont post on the forums...the opinions they have of those on them is not very high.

Also its called being able to engage and taking care of oneself. I dont need to appease some anonymous user on a messageboard to meet or enjoy fab."

I really don't understand why you are so angry about this. The general tenor of responses to you has been that the person who let you down was indeed an arse but there was some contributory negligence on your part. Why you respond to that with an ad hominem rant against all and Sundry defeats me.

We all get let down by timewasters on here. It's the nature of the beast. In the nicest possible way I would learn to accept that philosophically and avoid the misanthropic screeds.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

If your that unhappy as your other replies in threads show then leave. Coz clearly no lady on here with suit your high standards you seem to think your deserve. Just some friendly advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to many men's places without meaning them in public first. I did have full addresses and had Google mapped them to check they were actual addresses, but I was only going on trust, that they actually lived there. Was I thinking with my vagina?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

Maybe she saw how lovely your personality is on the forums and just wasn't worthy of meeting you

Jesus Superfreak! For a man who wants to meet women, you sure do hate the fairer sex.

Who hurt you in life to make you so bitter?

The forums are made up of peopke who chat and dont meet. Try meeting someone on fab who dont post on the forums...the opinions they have of those on them is not very high.

Also its called being able to engage and taking care of oneself. I dont need to appease some anonymous user on a messageboard to meet or enjoy fab.

We all get let down by timewasters on here. It's the nature of the beast. In the nicest possible way I would learn to accept that philosophically and avoid the misanthropic screeds. "

TBH the thread started ok. Its those who seem to want to find ways of justifying the behavior because they dont like the way I respond to them in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the person who messed you around get in touch with you OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did the person who messed you around get in touch with you OP?"

Nope. Blocked now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't report her for not wanting to meet and you don't know what the actual reason is I can imagine it'd s total disrepect on a lighter note I can't even get women to reply to my messages your going ok mate trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't report her for not wanting to meet and you don't know what the actual reason is I can imagine it'd s total disrepect on a lighter note I can't even get women to reply to my messages your going ok mate trust. "

You can report if they arrange to meet and then don’t turn up.

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over a year ago

You can report if they arrange to meet and then don’t turn up."

Oh sorry I didn't know report report ,

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over a year ago

Trust me. There are small subsection of women here who are great and understand the lifestyle but they're not common.

The site caters more for lowlifes...like the FABMINX type. Repeatedly messaging, pretending not to be interested and then throwing tantrums when I dont reply/dont express interest.

Your respect for women is absolutely disgusting not suprised your getting stood up

If you feel one does not respect women then you can not show up. But yes, your type is the reason this thread exists. If you feel one does not reflect your standards you then dont contact them and if you want to cancel give some notice. Dont be a knob and cancel and leave people hanging. Its not behavior you can even attempt to justify.

Then again though, werent you the one saying you would cancel meets with people when you "couldnt be bothered". You must be the type like the cretin who cancelled

Haha knew youd have to start on me coz i dared to disagree with you. Its not my fault u were stood up and as previously stated ive only ever cancelled twice for genuine reasons. But crack on keep complaining let the lasses see what your really like and see how many morw times your stood up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trust me. There are small subsection of women here who are great and understand the lifestyle but they're not common.

The site caters more for lowlifes...like the FABMINX type. Repeatedly messaging, pretending not to be interested and then throwing tantrums when I dont reply/dont express interest.

Your respect for women is absolutely disgusting not suprised your getting stood up

Then again though, werent you the one saying you would cancel meets with people when you "couldnt be bothered". You must be the type like the cretin who cancelled

I've been here for a while. I have seen plenty of "lasses" come and go. The fallacy of this forum is that any of our opinions actually matter. They dont. No one outside of this forum cares about what you think. No one cares about what I think either. I still meet plenty of people on here because I am able to attract those who I want to attract.

I know you desperately need to believe that conforming to your behavioral standards is what leads to men getting sex on here...but its simply not the case.

You're entirely irrelevant.

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over a year ago

Trust me. There are small subsection of women here who are great and understand the lifestyle but they're not common.

The site caters more for lowlifes...like the FABMINX type. Repeatedly messaging, pretending not to be interested and then throwing tantrums when I dont reply/dont express interest.

Your respect for women is absolutely disgusting not suprised your getting stood up

Then again though, werent you the one saying you would cancel meets with people when you "couldnt be bothered". You must be the type like the cretin who cancelled

I know you desperately need to believe that conforming to your behavioral standards is what leads to men getting sex on here...but its simply not the case.

You're entirely irrelevant. "

Might be irrelevant but entitled to an opinion on an open forum

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Lol, oh dear, it's not rocket science - you don't even get in the shower unless they are messaging and answering promptly, and you certainly don't get in the car unless you have a full postal address (checked on google earth if there is any doubt whatsoever!)!!

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

Oh and one last point - I wonder if it is wise to make so many enemies on an open forum - someone could actually take a dislike to someone displaying too much arrogance and decide to teach them a lesson, sounds like it does happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, oh dear, it's not rocket science - you don't even get in the shower unless they are messaging and answering promptly, and you certainly don't get in the car unless you have a full postal address (checked on google earth if there is any doubt whatsoever!)!!

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho...

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho..."

Yet asked for advice in the forums?? Hmmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a note from an outsider trying to find if I can actually fit in myself best you take a hit on the chin and it's ok just use this to not let this feeling happen to you again keep on moaning ill send you some extra large knickers

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

You can report if they arrange to meet and then don’t turn up."

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over a year ago

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

Dare I say that hopefully this was the case?

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over a year ago

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

Dare I say that hopefully this was the case?

*gets popcorn*

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over a year ago

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho...

Yet asked for advice in the forums?? Hmmmm...

He only wants contributions from those who think that (a) such a magnificent physical specimen getting stood up is incredulous, and (b) totally agrees with his thoughts on the matter

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho..."

Unless he is stood up......?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho...

Yet asked for advice in the forums?? Hmmmm...

He only wants contributions from those who think that (a) such a magnificent physical specimen getting stood up is incredulous, and (b) totally agrees with his thoughts on the matter

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man that suggests meeting at my place gets instantly declined. Tells alot about a person.

A decline is not meeting up and then having me waiting like an a clown.

I'm the minx that whined about you. I defended you on here then sent you a message complimenting you on your profile pic. Not a word not that you are special just felt bad for you but you know what not anymore. What a horrible person. Good body but not much going on elsewhere. Lucky escape I'd say. I was being nice definitely not after a meet. I save my sympathy for those who deserve it

You could report him - it's against site rules to discuss messages.

I wouldn't bother though, he's not worth your time and energy (green arrow)."

Thank you but no he's not worth my time shouldn't have bothered in the first place

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

Dare I say that hopefully this was the case?

Well, I did wonder when someone mentioned!! He has rather painted a large target on his forehead over the months!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho...

Yet asked for advice in the forums?? Hmmmm...

He only wants contributions from those who think that (a) such a magnificent physical specimen getting stood up is incredulous, and (b) totally agrees with his thoughts on the matter

Well he did and was still rude so can't win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All internet meet-up and dating sites are full of fakes and timewasters, it's always "CAVEAT EMPTOR"!!

he doesnt care what us lowlives think tho...

Yet asked for advice in the forums?? Hmmmm...

He only wants contributions from those who think that (a) such a magnificent physical specimen getting stood up is incredulous, and (b) totally agrees with his thoughts on the matter

Well he did and was still rude so can't win lol"

Like I stated - green arrow. Misogyny at its finest.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and we can leave it there

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