FabSwingers.com forum: Do women like to swing?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If mine didnt like it then she wouldn't do it.

We BOTH enjoy the fun and games... and also the social side of this lifestyle too.

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

Kind of surprised by the question if I'm honest...

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

No I absolutely hate it, disgusting

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Newsflash! Women like sex!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

Mrs here , and I love swinging .

Watching him , him watching me and playing together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think us wives have to be so subservient these days.

Some of us might even quite like the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's a male dominated

In our case I floated the question first, but it's also worth noting that we happen to know a fair few women who know we swing, who would love to, but who have partners who don't.

In one case, the girl and guy had spoken about it, she pursued it a bit due to aforementioned knowledge, but the second the thought became a potential reality, he quickly got upset and said he couldn't do it ever, not with us, not in a club, while idea shut down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newsflash! Women like sex!

WHAAAAAATTTT?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do anything I dont want too, and likewise nor does hubby.

If we meet people and one of us is uncomfortable or not feeling it - nothing will happen.

Its very much something we are open about together and very much something we do together.

If its not fun for us both it simply wouldnt happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like it.

I think very few women who don't like it would comment in any case....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, especially the cuckold/hotwife scene.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Newsflash! Women like sex!

Yes! Here's another!

Janet xxxxxx

P.S. to the OP - I like TVs too...

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Newsflash! Women like sex!

Further Newsflash! Some of us are considered sex pests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

This is a wind up thread folks. People dont think like this in 2017

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By *unkey_DuckCouple
over a year ago

Kingslynn

I like going on the swings, Seesaw and slides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like going on the swings, Seesaw and slides.

Can i be on the other end of the seesaw??

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"I like going on the swings, Seesaw and slides.

Me too and roundabouts hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine seems to love a bit of mfm as always has bloody great big smiles on her face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

Really??

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I absolutely love it...I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Despite a load of answers disputing this, I am still convinced this is a male dominated thing, I am sure most women just follow their husband/partners wishes, I can understand that there are some women who have other opinions, but I don’t think that’s all women! Sorry if that is not how you see this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have rarely come across any women who are not 100% enthusiastically consentual ....obviously us (predominantely) Welsh birds are just way too sexually liberated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

Fully understand what you are getting at. Call me intuitive but I (male) can often sense amongst many of the couples we have met over the years that it is, in fact, a male led thing. That always makes me feel very uncomfortable - there remains a distinctly high % of compliant women out there (despite what the feminists would have you think) and when I do sense it, we always politely find an excuse not to play.

And by the way, don't confuse this with a lack of compatibility - we have had ladies message us afterwards to thank us and explaining they only actually "do it" to please their male other half - sad but what you say is, I think, true.

As someone else has pointed out though, you are not going to get many on here agreeing !

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Despite a load of answers disputing this, I am still convinced this is a male dominated thing, I am sure most women just follow their husband/partners wishes, I can understand that there are some women who have other opinions, but I don’t think that’s all women! Sorry if that is not how you see this x"

That's fair enough, however what surprises me is that you're not willing to even contemplate that you might be wrong despite the responses from women here.

Faced with evidence of women (myself included) you still decide to say "no, I still believe what I believe based on nothing more than my own opinion"

I wonder then why ask the question and request others' opinions if your mind was already made up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many women telling you they love being on the scene will it take? While clearly that's not all women I don't think you can stand by your assertion that most are here to please their man.

I actually find it a bit patronising , the idea that we mindlessly do as we're told and the thought women can't be sexual beings too.

While G original floated the idea of swinging I'm the more highly sexed of the two of us and enjoy the scene because we both get something pleasurable from it.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Well no because I was doing alone long before I met my partner so I didn't follow anyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I’m often wrong, after all I am man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks at least it’s an honest answer, your support is really appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol you made me laugh xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and one other thing........ in our experience an awful lot of the couples/ladies meeting on here are on "chems" (which is fine and their choice) BUT the number of ladies who have confided in us that it's the only way they would swing (i.e. would not or could not swing without them) is quite remarkable. Might say something too?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Read: Despite a lot of evidence to the contrary, i stick with my original intuative opinion for which i have no evidence.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Why?

I'm sure that there are some women (and men) swinging only because their other half wants to.

In our experience that is very rare.

You do realise that this is the 21st century and women are allowed to admit they enjoy sex and want to experiment.

Very strange. ..

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love it...I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"and one other thing........ in our experience an awful lot of the couples/ladies meeting on here are on "chems" (which is fine and their choice) BUT the number of ladies who have confided in us that it's the only way they would swing (i.e. would not or could not swing without them) is quite remarkable. Might say something too?"

You are clearly meeting the wrong people.

We would actively avoid anyone who suggested this.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote Ms Twain. Once again

" you must be frickin' joking, right?"

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Quick, call the police. I'm here against my will.

I must have had nothing to do with creating the account and participating in it.

Why do some peple think women can't enjoy casual sex? We must do it for hubby or for money or for some other reason that's not enjoyment.

Are men on here solely because their woman dragged them here or are men allowed to enjoy swinging without question?

'XX'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t think that, I was curious and wanted to find out what people think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Erm did we need the f word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am merely posing a question

Why are so many people so addy about this? Are you sure you represent 1

All women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow impressed good for you

Well no because I was doing alone long before I met my partner so I didn't follow anyone! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine seems to love a bit of mfm as always has bloody great big smiles on her face lol"

Seems?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I would bite the balls of any fella saying I'm doing for my fella. I have my own mind and swing cos I love it.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We both enjoy it,Both do it together and if we lost interest neither would play

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I am merely posing a question

Why are so many people so addy about this? Are you sure you represent 1

All women"

Maybe you could put some logic or facts behind your rather loaded question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine seems to love a bit of mfm as always has bloody great big smiles on her face lol"

Seems?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"I would bite the balls of any fella saying I'm doing for my fella. I have my own mind and swing cos I love it. "

I just love swinging, especially greedy events, gangbangs etc. Hubby lets me play with other guys as it turns him on and he loves to watch and join in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would bite the balls of any fella saying I'm doing for my fella. I have my own mind and swing cos I love it.

I just love swinging, especially greedy events, gangbangs etc. Hubby lets me play with other guys as it turns him on and he loves to watch and join in."

Nice lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am merely posing a question

Why are so many people so addy about this? Are you sure you represent 1

All women

Maybe you could put some logic or facts behind your rather loaded question? "

Why it’s a question?

Put logic in your amswers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

There are not actually that many single women. Even less that are serious about swinging. LOL its funny when forumites claim that soooo many single women are into swinging when the term "unicorn" exists for a reason.

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Anyone who knows Jayne will tell you that she doesn't do anything she doesn't want to lol!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, I'm only here to tell people I can't eat gluten

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority."

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am merely posing a question

Why are so many people so addy about this? Are you sure you represent 1

All women"

People are just getting a bit defensive because the question insinuates negative things about their own motivations, regardless of your intention to just ask a question.

There are women who swing because they are pressured by their husbands. There are women who swing because they think it's the only way to stop their husbands from cheating. There are also women who swing because they want to. The latter represent the majority, in my experience. It's sad that the former exist, but they do. They don't frequent the forums, however, so you're unlikely to get their opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I would say that there are indeed a lot of women who are really doing this for their partners. They're very, very easy to decipher too. You can tell which women have the confidence to own their sexuality and those who merely are trying to save a dying relationship or impress a boyfriend.

But when you're masquerading as a single women when you have a partner you swing with or whining about men swinging behind their partners backs or telling us that drinking excessively during a night out swinging is peachy and then trying to pretend as if you're perfectly comfortable with the lifestyle. For fuck sake, please dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

Except there are not. Which is why women receive on excess of 300-400 messages when they first sign up on here. Its also why half the swing clubs let single women in for free. The level of delusion on this board is absolutely comical sometimes. Its like you're all in a fantasy world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps OP your judgement is somewhat clouded by the huge number of males compared with females in here. That's a function of mathematics not the desire or otherwise of women to fully participate in the site.

This is starting to sound just another why can't I get a fuck thread based on no evidence just a the OP's subjective opinion.

If women didn't enjoy sex in all the forms they prefer then this would be a pointless place for any one else to be...

Wanders back into the man xave shaking head ..

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I am merely posing a question

Why are so many people so addy about this? Are you sure you represent 1

All women"

No we don't represent all women. But neither do you have to try and play the white knight and tell us that we are incorrect in our experiences and opinions.

Surprisingly enough, women who are confident and assured in their sexuality tend to be feminists too (Yes a broad generalisation I know. But again I'm talking about my experiences) and so don't take kindly to men telling us how we really feel. Or disputing what we say is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is amusing

I own my sexuality

And need no man to dictate what I like and what I do

I have had first hand experience of men being intimidated by that

Guess what I say to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly enough, women who are confident and assured in their sexuality tend to be feminists too "

Do people really believe this? Wow.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I am merely posing a question

Why are so many people so addy about this? Are you sure you represent 1

All women

No we don't represent all women. But neither do you have to try and play the white knight and tell us that we are incorrect in our experiences and opinions.

I think the original question and subsequent denial translate to the OP meaning that they can't get a female to swing with them as a couple and therefore it seems logical to them that no other man can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

Are you accusing these people of lying? I do believe you are

I wonder why that could be?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I was the one who first mooted the idea. I was the one that first signed us up to this site. I’m the more active of us.

Of all the couples I’ve met, I’ve only once felt like it was a woman going along with it to make their man happy.

From personal experience, threesomes etc are just as much a female fantasy as a male one. Studies are showing that more and more young people are identifying as bisexual, pansexual and poly, so I fully expect swinging etc to become more mainstream as the years go by. Yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

Are you accusing these people of lying? I do believe you are

I wonder why that could be?"

If you're trying to convince me that single women are somehow not a small minority of swinging community then yes, you are a liar.

Check out the alexa stats on sit visitors:

https://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/fabswingers.com

Its 10 to 1 in favor of men...but lemme guess, all the female swingers are hiding in the real world?

As said, delusional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

Are you accusing these people of lying? I do believe you are

I wonder why that could be?

If you're trying to convince me that single women are somehow not a small minority of swinging community then yes, you are a liar.

Check out the alexa stats on sit visitors:

https://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/fabswingers.com

Its 10 to 1 in favor of men...but lemme guess, all the female swingers are hiding in the real world?

As said, delusional."

You're accusing me of being a liar too?

Oakie doke

Its always good to read ALL of the thread!

The reason ladies on here get hundreds of msgs is because alot of men see this site as a way of getting instant sex.

Nothing to do with the original question asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newsflash! Women like sex!

Yep. I love it up me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Except there are not. Which is why women receive on excess of 300-400 messages when they first sign up on here. Its also why half the swing clubs let single women in for free. The level of delusion on this board is absolutely comical sometimes. Its like you're all in a fantasy world."

Agree with this - it's time people stopped pretending that there are "thousands" of women out there who want to swing - there aren't - that's why the single men on here get so frustrated and the vast majority NEVER get a meet - because swinging is not that big of a scene actually. In fact, I`d wager that a single fella has a vastly better chance of meeting a partner for sex in any town or city centre than he has by trawling on here for hours, week after week.

Not a criticism merely a genuine observation - some people keep trying to "big it up" when it is only a small scene (e.g. visit the clubs - largely the same old faces year after year - which is why we stopped going).

Also, look at the "meetings" lists in various regions or "meeting today" lists - invariably the same people - who never seem to meet either lol !

Look at the "meet requests" forum - very rarely a meet ever results!

Now - if you look at the general "chit chat" on here - masses of it - because essentially that's what Fab has become - predominantly a CHAT site and definitely not what I would term a swingers' site.

Gone a bit off topic but you get my drift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

Are you accusing these people of lying? I do believe you are

I wonder why that could be?

If you're trying to convince me that single women are somehow not a small minority of swinging community then yes, you are a liar.

Check out the alexa stats on sit visitors:

https://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/fabswingers.com

Its 10 to 1 in favor of men...but lemme guess, all the female swingers are hiding in the real world?

As said, delusional.

You're accusing me of being a liar too?

Oakie doke

Its always good to read ALL of the thread!

The reason ladies on here get hundreds of msgs is because alot of men see this site as a way of getting instant sex.

Nothing to do with the original question asked!"

Yes it is. So, are we going to pretend that every single guy who throws of the ratio of men to women on here is just a desperado looking for a shag?

Pray tell, whats the reason for swinging clubs and venues and spas also providing favorable prices to single female patrons? Is that because all the excess men attending those are looking for an easy shag too?

LOL, funny I am replying to some with absolutely no info in their profile and no visible information about veri's. Kinda hypocritical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, look at the "meetings" lists in various regions or "meeting today" lists - invariably the same people - who never seem to meet either lol !

Look at the "meet requests" forum - very rarely a meet ever results"

I generally agree with this.

But that, of course, doesn't mean that most of the women who do swing are coerced (I'm not suggesting the poster above said that - I'm just pointing out that it's seperate from the impetus for the thread...).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, look at the "meetings" lists in various regions or "meeting today" lists - invariably the same people - who never seem to meet either lol !

Look at the "meet requests" forum - very rarely a meet ever results!

Now - if you look at the general "chit chat" on here - masses of it - because essentially that's what Fab has become - predominantly a CHAT site and definitely not what I would term a swingers' site.

Gone a bit off topic but you get my drift

LOL exactly. Even more amusing to see people who have not had a meet for, like a year, trying to sit here and pretend as if there are "tons" of single women...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It was my wife's idea.... Though I was a thoroughly willing partner in crime.

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By *rs DreamweaverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Ha ha. I hate it ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was swinging as a single female long before as a couple but don't think I'd go back to it if I was a single now as it would be missing the vital elements for me of sharing my partner and being shared.

If I dont want to do something then no amount of coercing woukd work.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

The reason ladies on here get hundreds of msgs is because alot of men see this site as a way of getting instant sex.

Nothing to do with the original question asked!"

This times one thousand.

I have many female friends who are on fab and this is exactly their experience. Dozens of crap messages from men expecting instant sex with no effort.

I personally know a heck of a lot of women who are not monogamous. If yes, they exist. They just like being treated like human beings.... Not like a hole or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had fun with dozens of ladies and couples on here, this and previous profile....never yet found one who wasn't more than willing....in many cases with couples it's more for her than for him....and the single women are certainly not here to please their man

Maybe life on planet Kington is different?

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Also, look at the "meetings" lists in various regions or "meeting today" lists - invariably the same people - who never seem to meet either lol !

Look at the "meet requests" forum - very rarely a meet ever results!

Now - if you look at the general "chit chat" on here - masses of it - because essentially that's what Fab has become - predominantly a CHAT site and definitely not what I would term a swingers' site.

Gone a bit off topic but you get my drift

Totally agree with this. I have been trying to meet single women on here for a while and the few on here are usually men pretending.

The forums have a huge % of people who like the chit chat or get off on fishing questions...like this one... and very few who actually meet.

Fab is like the audience and guests of a Jeremy Kyle show. Don't even start on the chat rooms...dear God. Unemployed, fat, desperate and perverts mostly.

I would say there us about 10% maximum of profiles on here who are genuine swingers.

It's just a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL funny how there are plenty of women who acknowledge the lack of women on here...but still the male forum sycophants will stay trying...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Erm hello?! There's plenty of single women in the site that love group sex.

What on earth makes you think that?

Yes, they're definitely no nonsense women on here who are serious about their sexuality. But they're the minority.

This whole "Unicorn" thing is a myth in itself, there are loads of ladies on here who swing on their own, we have about 50 friends who fit that dynamic, and we have played with a few.

Are you accusing these people of lying? I do believe you are

I wonder why that could be?

If you're trying to convince me that single women are somehow not a small minority of swinging community then yes, you are a liar.

Check out the alexa stats on sit visitors:

https://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/fabswingers.com

Its 10 to 1 in favor of men...but lemme guess, all the female swingers are hiding in the real world?

As said, delusional."

No-one is saying that single women are not a small minority, but what we are saying is that the original claim that many women are somehow being coerced into it is false.

Sure, there is no denying that a few ladies who are part of a couple have done it even though they weren't keen, but I cant see that being the case for single ladies.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"LOL funny how there are plenty of women who acknowledge the lack of women on here...but still the male forum sycophants will stay trying..."

See that? The whole point of this thread whooshing over your head?

The op was of the opinion that women are coerced into swinging and do not enjoy it.

Nobody would argue that women aren't in a minority here.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"LOL funny how there are plenty of women who acknowledge the lack of women on here...but still the male forum sycophants will stay trying...

See that? The whole point of this thread whooshing over your head?

The op was of the opinion that women are coerced into swinging and do not enjoy it.

Nobody would argue that women aren't in a minority here. "

This

People stuggle with statistics so badly. Just because non-monogamous women are a minority, it doesn't follow that non-monogamous women need to be coerced into it

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Fab is like the audience and guests of a Jeremy Kyle show. Don't even start on the chat rooms...dear God. Unemployed, fat, desperate and perverts mostly."

What a charming generalisation, you must be a hoot at parties.

We go into the chatrooms quite a lot, and our experience of the people in there is nothing like what you claim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

""Fab is like the audience and guests of a Jeremy Kyle show. Don't even start on the chat rooms...dear God. Unemployed, fat, desperate and perverts mostly."

What a charming generalisation, you must be a hoot at parties.

We go into the chatrooms quite a lot, and our experience of the people in there is nothing like what you claim."

Well any given day and any given time....90% are as we described. Anyone remotely sexy had 100+ guys with cans of Stella watching them....actually they don't need to be sexy, just moderately female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOL funny how there are plenty of women who acknowledge the lack of women on here...but still the male forum sycophants will stay trying...

See that? The whole point of this thread whooshing over your head?

The op was of the opinion that women are coerced into swinging and do not enjoy it.

Nobody would argue that women aren't in a minority here.

This

People stuggle with statistics so badly. Just because non-monogamous women are a minority, it doesn't follow that non-monogamous women need to be coerced into it

It does actually. Often times when you have a minority demographic, you tend to find that participation of said demographic often has varying levels of interest...often ranging from tepid to poor. Its not that anyone is struggling with statistics, its that you dont understand the concept of statistics at all.

And that's just a single set of data. There are plenty more simple reasons as to why people dont think single women are not that into the activity.

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'"

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it mrs f xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'"

LOL, its always apparent who is just here because this place serves as a substitute for a lack of friends in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said"

I struggle to get meself layed

Being ugly and thick as shite

What can I tell ya?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honest answer is Mrs N can live without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said"

Not everyone here feels the need to collect a little tick to prove we can fuck.

Many of us understand the concept of discretion and the fact that it's no one else's business who we may or may not fuck with.

A concept clearly lost on you...

Or just another gauge generalisation based on whstever subjective view of you world ....

Were you seem to think the only opinion that matters is your own...

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said"

Oh boy, you take on Sappy, you better be packing for bear, dude.

You do know that people can hide their veris and their veri summary, right? It’s amazing. You should try it. Privacy is a much underappreciated thing these days.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No interest in being in another relationship unless we can swing together

Unfortunately and Likely shockingly to the OP most men are highly possessive and don't want it or should I say don't want her to do it butthey can screw who they want often behind her back

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"LOL funny how there are plenty of women who acknowledge the lack of women on here...but still the male forum sycophants will stay trying...

See that? The whole point of this thread whooshing over your head?

The op was of the opinion that women are coerced into swinging and do not enjoy it.

Nobody would argue that women aren't in a minority here.

This

People stuggle with statistics so badly. Just because non-monogamous women are a minority, it doesn't follow that non-monogamous women need to be coerced into it

And that's just a single set of data. There are plenty more simple reasons as to why people dont think single women are not that into the activity. "

The opposite is true, which is not unusual for your assertions. There are reasons found in biology and evolutionary psychology why there are more men predisposed to non-mongamy than women. Given that the dominant culture is monogamous and we at least agree non-momogamy is a minority, then it's pure logic that women who need to coerced are more likely to be found in the larger sample than the smaller one. If you can't follow that then i can't help you.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Rule number one in our relationship is that if either of us doesn't want to do something then we don't do it.

I love girl on girl, threesomes with either sex, foursomes, moresomes etc etc. ....

To suggest women only swing to please the male sounds like something from the 19th century. It shouldn't be hard to understand that a lot of (most of?) women have carnal desires just like men, and like men, some hide them, some ignore them and some relish them. I'm certainly in the latter category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

LOL, its always apparent who is just here because this place serves as a substitute for a lack of friends in real life."

Yeah. Billy no mates I am

'Cept for my grape juice. I'm cuddling it as I type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is swinging, threesomes a man thing?

I mean do women actually want to do these things or is it oversexed men who want to experience cuckolding, being cuckold, sex with other people, etc...

The wife’s just go along with what ever pleases the husband..

Honest answers please"

With my ex husband, it was exactly as you describe above. I felt pressured into it in order to save our marriage, then on here, I’ve met M. We’ve been together for almost 3 years and haven’t looked back really. Swinging for us is just added pleasure to our already mind blowing sex life. I think if you swing as a couple, it’s very much about the strength and depth of your relationship, though we are all different, this is just our experience.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

Not everyone here feels the need to collect a little tick to prove we can fuck.

Many of us understand the concept of discretion and the fact that it's no one else's business who we may or may not fuck with.

A concept clearly lost on you...

Or just another gauge generalisation based on whstever subjective view of you world ....

Were you seem to think the only opinion that matters is your own...

Right...but then I would bet cash you would be in here justifying a womans desire to not meet a man with no veri's...

Christ, I mean some of u...its like your entire basis of an argument is almost purely determined by how well it makes you look on here. So much pathetic virtue signalling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink"

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

LOL, its always apparent who is just here because this place serves as a substitute for a lack of friends in real life."

I'll be your friend. I'm kind like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical. "

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

Oh boy, you take on Sappy, you better be packing for bear, dude.

You do know that people can hide their veris and their veri summary, right? It’s amazing. You should try it. Privacy is a much underappreciated thing these days."

Wow..and obviously we walked into some ridiculous online facebook/fab American teen drama. Knees knocking here.....kind of just proves our point really. Fab is a dirty Facebook for most people on here...and that's as far as it goes.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’m here to have fun. Meet lovely people and enjoy myself. What’s not to like about having two people to kiss, caress and play with you and then you get to play with them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOL funny how there are plenty of women who acknowledge the lack of women on here...but still the male forum sycophants will stay trying...

See that? The whole point of this thread whooshing over your head?

The op was of the opinion that women are coerced into swinging and do not enjoy it.

Nobody would argue that women aren't in a minority here.

This

People stuggle with statistics so badly. Just because non-monogamous women are a minority, it doesn't follow that non-monogamous women need to be coerced into it

And that's just a single set of data. There are plenty more simple reasons as to why people dont think single women are not that into the activity.

This makes absolutely no sense. Do you even know the definition of "coerce"? For one to be coerced into an activity, the activity actually has to occur. I defined demographics by gender. The male and female demographic. The FEMALE DEMOGRAPHIC of swingers will be made up of a number of women who are coerced into said activity. Precisely because of the reasons you said, WOMEN ARE SOCIOLOGICALLY/BIOLOGICALLY PREDISPOSED TO MONOGAMY MORESO THAN MEN. Therefore it would make sense that women partaking in an activity, which the vast majority are not predisposed to, will experience some form of coercion. Its the exact same reason that prostitution/pornography/stripping exists and are primarily made up of women catering to male desire. Similarly just about any report from any charity will inform you that many of the women who partake in these activities are either under duress/desperation/coercion.

I find it madness, absolute goddamn madness that people want to sit here and pretend that the desire for consensual extramarital sex is equal between the sexes. Its the kind of comical rhetoric thats all too common in the deluded postmodern lefty narrative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

A really peculiar statement. I'll be willing to bet all five of those woman are just as horny as his 100 men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

The same way you use number of employed people to help determine the health of an economy. If adult centric websites and activities are primarily patronized by men then it would dictate that the desire for said activity is greater among men.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Oh, and why would we want to hit our veri summary and all of our veris...we are here to meet people...actually meet people!!! Verifications or testimonials, are the best way to find out if people are genuine, respectful and of a similar mindset to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

A really peculiar statement. I'll be willing to bet all five of those woman are just as horny as his 100 men

Really, because the veri's would very much disagree

But, oh yeah, veri's are irrelevant when its lowly men taking them into account.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

" Precisely because of the reasons you said, WOMEN ARE SOCIOLOGICALLY/BIOLOGICALLY PREDISPOSED TO MONOGAMY MORESO THAN MEN. Therefore it would make sense that women partaking in an activity, which the vast majority are not predisposed to, will experience some form of coercion.

It's not madness you just actually lack a basic enough foundation in science to properly understand the subject matter. Your statement is uterly ridiculous to anyone with even a fecking A level understanding of statistics, psychology or biology. As i said, i can't help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

Oh boy, you take on Sappy, you better be packing for bear, dude.

You do know that people can hide their veris and their veri summary, right? It’s amazing. You should try it. Privacy is a much underappreciated thing these days."

Get outta here. I'm a pussycat

All cuddly and fluffy

My exes'd tell you that, but they're still picking their teeth off the floor

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

Oh boy, you take on Sappy, you better be packing for bear, dude.

You do know that people can hide their veris and their veri summary, right? It’s amazing. You should try it. Privacy is a much underappreciated thing these days.

Get outta here. I'm a pussycat

All cuddly and fluffy

My exes'd tell you that, but they're still picking their teeth off the floor"

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you're just too dimwitted to think of a reply so have resorted to shaming tactics because thats all you have left to stand on. You know as well as I do that you have absolutely no argument.

LOL at A-level understanding of psychology. I cant remember sexual behaviors even being covered in AS or A-level. But, go on, humor me. As someone who actually did those exact A-levels, this should be amusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate. "

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

A really peculiar statement. I'll be willing to bet all five of those woman are just as horny as his 100 men

Also, you're sitting here trying to convince me how horny you are when you OPENLY ADMIT to being fantasists.

The lack of self awareness among some of u is just...wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

A really peculiar statement. I'll be willing to bet all five of those woman are just as horny as his 100 men

Really, because the veri's would very much disagree

But, oh yeah, veri's are irrelevant when its lowly men taking them into account. "

If you looked at my verifications you would think I haven't had sex for a year.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

Not everyone here feels the need to collect a little tick to prove we can fuck.

Many of us understand the concept of discretion and the fact that it's no one else's business who we may or may not fuck with.

A concept clearly lost on you...

Or just another gauge generalisation based on whstever subjective view of you world ....

Were you seem to think the only opinion that matters is your own...

Right...but then I would bet cash you would be in here justifying a womans desire to not meet a man with no veri's...

Christ, I mean some of u...its like your entire basis of an argument is almost purely determined by how well it makes you look on here. So much pathetic virtue signalling."

It may be an alien concept to you but women just like guys can make their own decisions.

FFS they are even allowed to vote!

Frankly I don't give a flying fuck how I look on here... But then I do tend to prefer communicating with those who can think.

It appears that only opinion matters here... yours...

And no one should be permitted to disagree with it.

I suggest you go consider the views if others of both genders. It can be mind expanding ...hopefully..

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways."

There's a huge difference between "5% of men are gay" and "all men are 5% gay". Apparently all gay men must be being coerced into it because the majority of men aren't gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are more likely to join online swinging sites to look for sex than women. I'll bet my virginity on it.

That doesn't mean women aren't having sex.

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over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways."

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

I mean, you're actually going to sit here and argue against the presence of testosterone? LOL. As said, biologically illiterate. It tends to happen when spend too much time getting your information from 9pm channel 4 documentaries and buzzfeed.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me "

Actually that's not quite right. Around 30% are predisposed to monogamy and 70% aren't. Evolution doesn't have a single path.

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over a year ago

"The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me

Actually that's not quite right. Around 30% are predisposed to monogamy and 70% aren't. Evolution doesn't have a single path. "

Do you know whats amusing, you're actually sitting here spouting rubbish that you probably read in sex at dawn despite "evolutionary psychology" not even being respected among those in academia. Its been noted numerous times that neuroscience, epigenetics and social phenomena are likely to be far more influential to sexual behaviors than the "evolutionary markers" and "genetic predetermination" posited by those in evolutionary psyche. But continue making a fool of yourself with second information.

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over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

A really peculiar statement. I'll be willing to bet all five of those woman are just as horny as his 100 men

Also, you're sitting here trying to convince me how horny you are when you OPENLY ADMIT to being fantasists.

The lack of self awareness among some of u is just...wow

Well I am biologically illiterate what did you expect

Also people come out with all sorts of bull ...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me

Actually that's not quite right. Around 30% are predisposed to monogamy and 70% aren't. Evolution doesn't have a single path. "

Then statistically I was right were more inclined to polygamy

Thanks

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me

Actually that's not quite right. Around 30% are predisposed to monogamy and 70% aren't. Evolution doesn't have a single path.

As if you know what is respected in academia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

I don't watch television. You seem to make a lot of assumptions.

Men may chase sex more than women. They may run around like rabid dogs, with their tongues hanging out, chasing every woman in sight. It doesn't mean that women don't want, or are not having as much sex as their counterparts.

I would say that some men only swing to keep the woman happy.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me

Actually that's not quite right. Around 30% are predisposed to monogamy and 70% aren't. Evolution doesn't have a single path.

Said my peace I'll not argue with Mr I'm god and automatically right on every thread I appear on, Now before me mere mortals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said

Oh boy, you take on Sappy, you better be packing for bear, dude.

You do know that people can hide their veris and their veri summary, right? It’s amazing. You should try it. Privacy is a much underappreciated thing these days.

Get outta here. I'm a pussycat

All cuddly and fluffy

My exes'd tell you that, but they're still picking their teeth off the floor

Wow."

Some would say I have a sardonic wit

But most take me literally

Its a cross I have to bear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

There's a huge difference between "5% of men are gay" and "all men are 5% gay". Apparently all gay men must be being coerced into it because the majority of men aren't gay. "

Again, makes no sense. What you do actually tend to find is that there are characteristics and behaviors more prevalent among homosexual men. Higher partner counts and higher STD's being among them. Will this be found in every gay man? No. But the incidence is higher. Similarly the incidence of women being "coerced/forced" into "deviant/unusual" sexual activity is higher. One cannot carry out a comparative analysis as there is not much comparative behavior to assess. Unless you're going to now trying to convince me that women outside the swinging scene are more likely to be coerced into perverse sexual activity than those within it...lol, the results may indeed surprise you. And thats a dangerous line of thinking to go down anyway.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

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over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex. "

LOL. Your posts are comical. An Ann Summers party is a shopping experience. I dunno, wouldnt an ACTUAL sex party be a better gauge of desire for sex than a party which is really nothing more than an Avon sales meeting for sex toys?

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

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over a year ago

"The human species as a whole isn't pre-dispositions to manogamy traditionally our species is polygamous, so why people are so shocked swinging so popular is beyond me

Actually that's not quite right. Around 30% are predisposed to monogamy and 70% aren't. Evolution doesn't have a single path.

As if you know what is respected in academia

I do, thats why I say things that is supported by academics instead of shite and unsubstantiated rubbish, like you.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it. "

Yea last Ann summers party I went to turned into a female orgy

Why do you think women but more toys than men? It's because they have high sexual drives those toys go get pit to use you know

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over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it. "

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

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over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious "

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look."

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

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over a year ago

Anyway, the question was about women being coerced into swinging.

I don't doubt that some will be, the same as some men will be doing it to keep the Mrs happy.

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over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ? "

Firstly, you're embarassing yourself by arguing a point whilst admitting to be a fantasist. Secondly, you do know I actually find that 1. there are a shocking number of couples asking for "donations" for gangbangs (there is one in my news feed openly asking for it) 2. a number of "greedy girls" are participants in other aspects of the adult industry and 3. its actually very, very rare to find a woman partaking in gangbangs alone (admittedly that is likely due as much to safety).

Are there women who genuinely like gangbangs? Of course. Are these people anything other than a minority? Obviously. Even among participants. LOL, there are clubs in the "clubs" section which are not even really hiding the fact that many of its greedy girls are paid to attend. But continue trying to convince me otherwise.

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over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look."

Those are the ones looking for a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Alright, lets use deduction here. I know its hard. But wouldnt logic dictate that, on a site which is already lopsided in favor of men, with couples profiles which also are nothing more than men pretending to otherwise...that desire among men will be higher? That men doing it to please their partners may actually be the minority??? If events and clubs have to lower prices to entice women? Would that not show an obvious wake in interest???

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Them being paid to be there as fuck all to do with their personal desire or drive for sex neither you can't base an argument on that.

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over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

Those are the ones looking for a wank."

If you took all the wankers out of the equation you'd find the male to female ratio not quite as high, on here. Then take out all the ones who join to find a quick fuck then fuck off, because they were a bit horny, and they'll be even less men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone seen the OP?

I love a dude who opens a can and lets the worms squirm

High five OP

You're still taking garbage, but credit where its due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Them being paid to be there as fuck all to do with their personal desire or drive for sex neither you can't base an argument on that.

If it was simply about the desire for sex would they not be doing it for free? Or are escorts now escorting because they just like sex? Really? What kind of bubble do you live in?

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over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??"

The numbers have no relevance to desire.

Your grasp of statistics really does astonish me

And what datasets are you basing this clear insightful and analytical review sexual desire on.

Can you show me where it was peer reviewed...sydney university Perhaps?

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over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??"

Higher numbers of men doesn't mean the women don't really want to be here though, does it?

The OP is talking about the people who are swingers, and whether the women want to swing. Regardless of how many men are on here, how many of the women who are swinging actually want to be doing it.

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over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

Those are the ones looking for a wank.

lol right, so of the 10-1 ration...9 of those men are just looking for a quick wank?

LOL some of you are legitimately slow. Seriously, some of you are not the sharpest tools in the shed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would reply further

Some attitudes on this thread, are frankly scary. Not to mention fucking hilarious

But its late. I've had dancing juice. It could get messy

Instead I would refer the OP to Ms Lily Allen's glorious little ditty

'Hard out Here'

Member over a year. No verifications. Enough said"

People on here just go on about stupid verifications I have been on and off fab since 2007.

Most verified members are complete tossers with idiots and women saying great guy when they are morons.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??"

Oh I've grasped the context you're another bitter bloke that doesn't like how the scene isn't geared towards him and what he wants

So naturally it's all the women's fault or the ratios blah de bloody blah

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over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Them being paid to be there as fuck all to do with their personal desire or drive for sex neither you can't base an argument on that.

If it was simply about the desire for sex would they not be doing it for free? Or are escorts now escorting because they just like sex? Really? What kind of bubble do you live in?"

What about the women who turned down payment from someone who organised a gang bang for them? They could have taken it, but didn't.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Them being paid to be there as fuck all to do with their personal desire or drive for sex neither you can't base an argument on that.

If it was simply about the desire for sex would they not be doing it for free? Or are escorts now escorting because they just like sex? Really? What kind of bubble do you live in?"

They do their day job then go home and fulfil their desires for the own pleasures elsewhere in other ways

Pretty much like the rest of us that you know have jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Let me decide whether to be embarrassed or not...Umm. .that's a no

I am under no illusion you can be convinced of anything other than your own superiority.

Carry on telling me as a woman I cannot be horny, I probably stopped listening a while back, I was busy being horny

I think you are doing a lovely job highlighting it's a problem with the men then. Why do they feel the need to do so much co ercing, and isn't it something that should be addressed instead of worrying about us ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

Those are the ones looking for a wank.

lol right, so of the 10-1 ration...9 of those men are just looking for a quick wank?

LOL some of you are legitimately slow. Seriously, some of you are not the sharpest tools in the shed. "

You haven't been a woman on here, so you wouldn't know. I didn't say it would even up the ratio either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

The numbers have no relevance to desire.

Your grasp of statistics really does astonish me

And what datasets are you basing this clear insightful and analytical review sexual desire on.

Can you show me where it was peer reviewed...sydney university Perhaps? "

Actually the numbers have entirely to do with desire. Thats what statistics are there for. We determine behaviors based upon actions that have taken place. Hence why many dont even classify psychology as a science. We set an action, create parameters and form a hypothesis. Statistical/mathematical measurement is then use to determine/decipher said results. Hence why you're hardpressed to find a biology course without a stats module.

Yes, the higher presence of men means there is a higher desire among them. But of course on the lopsided fab forums where up is down and left is right, of course it means that women are just as horny as men are...of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Them being paid to be there as fuck all to do with their personal desire or drive for sex neither you can't base an argument on that.

If it was simply about the desire for sex would they not be doing it for free? Or are escorts now escorting because they just like sex? Really? What kind of bubble do you live in?

They do their day job then go home and fulfil their desires for the own pleasures elsewhere in other ways

Pretty much like the rest of us that you know have jobs

Footballers like playing football, why don't they do it for free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Let me decide whether to be embarrassed or not...Umm. .that's a no

I am under no illusion you can be convinced of anything other than your own superiority.

Carry on telling me as a woman I cannot be horny, I probably stopped listening a while back, I was busy being horny

No you're not as horny as men. Ms self proclaimed fantasist.

LOL sit there and convince me, as someone who is only here for a wank and a fantasy, that men and women are of equal sexual desire. Amuse me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

Oh I've grasped the context you're another bitter bloke that doesn't like how the scene isn't geared towards him and what he wants

So naturally it's all the women's fault or the ratios blah de bloody blah

Thats about the size of it

Things aint going his way, so he's gettin' all cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

The numbers have no relevance to desire.

Your grasp of statistics really does astonish me

And what datasets are you basing this clear insightful and analytical review sexual desire on.

Can you show me where it was peer reviewed...sydney university Perhaps?

More men looking for "easy" sex on a website doesn't mean women don't also want sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Them being paid to be there as fuck all to do with their personal desire or drive for sex neither you can't base an argument on that.

If it was simply about the desire for sex would they not be doing it for free? Or are escorts now escorting because they just like sex? Really? What kind of bubble do you live in?

They do their day job then go home and fulfil their desires for the own pleasures elsewhere in other ways

Pretty much like the rest of us that you know have jobs

Footballers like playing football, why don't they do it for free?"

Because there is a disproportionate desire. The same reason footballers are paid millions, there is a disproportionate desire for high level footballing talent. Thats why there are more female escorts than there are male. Or is that not the case either. Is fab teeming with undercover jiggalos?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here as singles and both wanted to continue swinging,so no i think as many women like it as men.

Miss

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

Oh I've grasped the context you're another bitter bloke that doesn't like how the scene isn't geared towards him and what he wants

So naturally it's all the women's fault or the ratios blah de bloody blah

Thats about the size of it

Things aint going his way, so he's gettin' all cross

He's right because all the evidence that disagrees with him "isn't science", even if it's nobel prize winning work. Of course all the evidence that supports him is science, not that he's cited any of it of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

The numbers have no relevance to desire.

Your grasp of statistics really does astonish me

And what datasets are you basing this clear insightful and analytical review sexual desire on.

Can you show me where it was peer reviewed...sydney university Perhaps?

More men looking for "easy" sex on a website doesn't mean women don't also want sex.

Firstly, not every guy on here is looking for "easy sex" but its nice to see you have such healthy attitudes towards male participants. Secondly, Fabswingers is an NSA sex site. No matter how much mental gymnastics you want to play. NSA sex is not easy sex. And yes, there are more men looking for NSA sex.

As said, dont sit here and talk about desiring partners/commitment/avoiding men who are cheating and then try and convince me that you're just as in need for NSA sex. You're not fooling anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience of the scene there's more men doing it to keep their ladies happy, even if it's only so she can indulge her bisexuality

The couples where the other half isn't into it are blatantly obvious

Yep. Which is why there are so many men on here who are not really single and men masquerading as couples.

Its funny, many of you contradict yourselves in threads depending upon how good they make u look.

wgat has they fake profiles got to do with anything it hasn't and you can't factor those in

Although now touve said that it's quite clear why your talking out your arse

Is this THAT hard to grasp??

Oh I've grasped the context you're another bitter bloke that doesn't like how the scene isn't geared towards him and what he wants

So naturally it's all the women's fault or the ratios blah de bloody blah

Yep. When all else fails.

Luckily for me, I dont base my physical attraction and self worth on how many men use me for "easy sex".

Clearly you do though, hence why u project onto me that my argumentation is based on bitterness.

You cant fuck yourself into self esteem love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be mean of me but I'm quite lolking forward to part 2 of this thread...

It had brightened up a dull evening...

But then I'm just a knuckle dragging trogladyte without opposable thumbs say here on my rock in the man cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes of course we do, we are as horny as guys maybe more so, we love a 4 some where everyone plays together not vanilla wife swop meets lol

Mrs Kink

Again...no.

These statements just have no basis in either scientific reality or real life. To sit here on a forum with 100 men to 5 women and claim that women have equal sex drives. Its just all comical.

Do you really think you can use the numbers on a swinging site to determine peoples' sex drives?

Yes.

I am stunned here. Really. That people want to sit here and claim that men and women have equal sex drives. All that says really is that you're scientifically/biologically illiterate.

Could it not be that women don't want to be associated with a swinging site and join more socially acceptable sites to find sex? Even dating to get sex?

You have to look at how women perceive sex sites, as opposed to men. Women want sex just as much as men. They go about getting it (or trying to get it) in different ways.

No.

Because its the exact same thing on vanilla dating websites. Higher numbers of men compared to women on just about every dating platform/website/app ever in the existence of the internet.

Also...what's buzzfeed?

You should try going to an Anne Summers party; you'll soon see how much women want sex.

Do you think buying sex toys is a gauge of sexual desire? You do know women buy more sex toys than men right? LOL, stop it.

OK so you are a confessed fan of orgies and gang bangs. Who are all you men banging, each other or horny woman. Have you co erced them ?

Let me decide whether to be embarrassed or not...Umm. .that's a no

I am under no illusion you can be convinced of anything other than your own superiority.

Carry on telling me as a woman I cannot be horny, I probably stopped listening a while back, I was busy being horny

No you're not as horny as men. Ms self proclaimed fantasist.

LOL sit there and convince me, as someone who is only here for a wank and a fantasy, that men and women are of equal sexual desire. Amuse me. "

I'm bored now sorry . Do you really believe everything you read . I am chuckling to myself here at your naivety. Mr so called 'superfreak'. Well ok perhaps your name is quite apt.

You men just like to bleat on about how horny you are all the time. Whilst us women are out quietly fucking