FabSwingers.com forum: Good news for single guys

By *i tor and the snowdog OP Couple
over a year ago

walsall/coventry

Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pity there's no other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know ! This news isn't new. Must be annoying though. I thought about trying to find a single lady to join me. Not sure if i can be bothered.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

Cue a run of posts asking if she meets alone

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

"Pity there's no other sites"

Seriously, there's a few out there. We use another for all our meetings.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too

Cue a run of posts asking if she meets alone

Well now you mention it.....

On a serious note. Hope it gets better for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's all about single guys for me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

If you want meets from here as a couple you're going to have to make time for it. All those Chams veris (twenty plus) as a couple ain't leaving much time for fab plays outside of clubs. It's a hard life I know.

(Tongue very much in cheek btw).

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We like single blokes. We like single women, we like tv's & cd's we like couplez, we like T's we like straight Bi pan or any other. As long as they are gen and will full swap safe s3x. Well we are old skool swingers

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just to confirm when I was part of a couple we had just as many time wasters on here as I do as single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, so you tried being a single guy and that sucked. You’ve tried being a couple.... that sucks too.

Try being a girl and suck. Awesome.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

[Removed by poster at 14/10/17 00:36:28]

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

It's not good news, it means you've taken a single woman out of circulation, now there's even less to go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

That's not our experience of the site. It's been great so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind now if I actually never met on here, I have met people and steadily friends are increasing (ratio 3:1:0 male:female:couple).

I actually enjoy the banter, basically its not the site that's the problem, but I think it's actually majority of single profile users and couples profile users that never meet others, due to nerves, suspicious, not there type, lost there bottle etc.....

I've see that social party are always good places for meeting other users, and most couples have a selection of single profiles.

Just keep trying ......

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By *heislanderMan
over a year ago

cheshunt

"I actually don't mind now if I actually never met on here, I have met people and steadily friends are increasing (ratio 3:1:0 male:female:couple).

I've see that social party are always good places for meeting other users, and most couples have a selection of single profiles.

Just keep trying ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "
20 veri's in 6 months isn't bad

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I find it frustrating as a half of a couple ,when we are straight as most of the couples in our area are looking for Bi fems.

In addition maybe only 3 or 4 of them have pics of the male and female on their profile.

Miss

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Having gone the other way from swinging as half of an MF couple to being a single man on the same sites I would say that in my experience it's vastly different. I guess that it comes down to how the couple present themselves and what they are looking for.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

If it makes you feel better it can be hard as a single woman to find someone decent to meet too, I refuse to lower my standards and as a result I’ve not had a meet yet

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By *lasgowman101Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

Congrats and best of luck for the both of you

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Basically too many people on this site!. Im genuine single guy and i always turn up if arrange and im a seriously shy guy. What other sites are there?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Aside from the sister sites run by Fab mentioning others tends to get people in trouble with the Mods so I would suggest avoiding mentioning any others.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Aside from the sister sites run by Fab mentioning others tends to get people in trouble with the Mods so I would suggest avoiding mentioning any others."

Fab has sister sites??

please divulge

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Aside from the sister sites run by Fab mentioning others tends to get people in trouble with the Mods so I would suggest avoiding mentioning any others.

Fab has sister sites??

please divulge"

Copied from the FAQ section:

"Do you run any other sites?

In Jan 2010 we launched a site for gay and bisexual guys called Fab Guys at fabguys.com. We've recently (Sept 2011) launched a new site for naughty, flirty singles called Fab Flirts which is at fabflirts.com."

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We like single guys just as long as we're a good match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aside from the sister sites run by Fab mentioning others tends to get people in trouble with the Mods so I would suggest avoiding mentioning any others.

Fab has sister sites??

please divulge

Copied from the FAQ section:

Do you run any other sites?

A problem with fabflirts, at the end of the day fabswingers and fabguys is enough, we all just need to chill out more. And i pay 5 pound every month good value

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Got it in one ... still get let down, still fall prey to the fakes and still struggle to find a meet

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pity there's no other sites

Seriously, there's a few out there. We use another for all our meetings. "

Any names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pity there's no other sites

Seriously, there's a few out there. We use another for all our meetings. "

Any names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

4 or 5 years ago (when we met via Fab) the site was excellent. Probably a victim of its own success but it's now far more "miss" than "hit" - in fact the amount of time you have to spend to get a decent meet makes us wonder whether it's worth it anymore.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "
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Well, now you're a couple - I reckon you'll soon discover that blocks are NEVER for no reason.

Blocks are there iF you don't want someone to contact you - even if people fall within your preferences you may still have no desire to meet them or have them filling up your inbox.

So block! It's a perfectly good reason.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too .

Well, now you're a couple - I reckon you'll soon discover that blocks are NEVER for no reason.

Blocks are there iF you don't want someone to contact you - even if people fall within your preferences you may still have no desire to meet them or have them filling up your inbox.

So block! It's a perfectly good reason. "

Yes, blocking can be just a matter of avoiding wasting the time of people you're never going to meet because they're not a good enough match. That's not being insulting, just realistic and it avoids having to keep explaining why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single girl I also fall prey to fakes and no shows. It's not exclusive to single guys, and couples.

I've also struggled to get a meet on the rare occasion I've looked for one, and been messed around many times.

I think it's just the nature of the beast on here

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By *orestToyMan
over a year ago

Oxford

The only people who do well on fabs are the resilient ones! As a single guy, it's a slow process to make ground but it happens....you just have to listen to the constant moaning about "single guys", expect double standards from many & be treated like a disposable commodity when it suits others.

Finding a decent single fem or couple isn't that easy, so hold on to them when you do.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

That's true and good advice. The way to find the right people is to read their profiles and make sure they're looking for what you're offering. In a site full of guys, the easy option of sending winks, one liners and cock shots to everyone you happen to fancy is never going to work well. The guys who put the effort into their search get the results and we know they are here because we've met a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im really cheered up Now. Thanks.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We're looking for certain things of course and one very important thing is that they need to be close to N.Kent/SE London. We've explained this but we still get soooooooo many messages from guys in Scotland, Wales, N England, the SW etc etc etc. Why do these guys think we would be compatible? The answer is they didn't bother to find out before sending their messages. If they had bothered to read our profile they wouldn't have wasted their time.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Just wondering when the good news is coming

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By *ake_holeMan
over a year ago

London

I always assumed it's the same for everyone

With any social media/dating there's BOUND to be twats

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By *enrydarrenMan
over a year ago

Harrow Weald

I really don't get the time wasting in here I mean what is the point and the objective to it. As for meeting on here yup it is harder now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest its NOT the site its the people in/on it.. be the same on a or any similar site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be honest its NOT the site its the people in/on it.. be the same on a or any similar site"

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We were having this conversation with a couple in a club last night.

We both agreed that we rarely, if ever meet anybody off Fab, it’s far easier to stick to the clubs and at least most in there are actual swingers or are at least on the right page.

We commented on this on another thread a few days back.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

How long did it take and how many 'I can't get a meet threads' later? Lol. Nice one though OP. It's a lonely road at times being a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were having this conversation with a couple in a club last night.

We both agreed that we rarely, if ever meet anybody off Fab, it’s far easier to stick to the clubs and at least most in there are actual swingers or are at least on the right page.

We commented on this on another thread a few days back.

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

"Guys.

This I hope will cheer up the “this sites a joke brigade”

Having spent years as a single guy on here getting the blocks for no reason,the no shows,fakes ect ect

Well..... now I’m part of a cpl I am happy to announce

Drum roll.....

It’s exactly the same for cpls too "

I have been a member here for about 5 years both single and as a couple. I am no longer looking to play having loved and lost...... but I never had a timewaster, never had a no show, and have over a hundred veris. I have a pal with close to 500 and the fact is this...

Be nice.

Be creative.

Then be nice again.

Treat people the way you would wish to be treated.

Then be extra nice.

It worked for me...

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