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can sex go on for too long?

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By *aughtynigel02121980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brandon

i was wondering what women thought about sex going on for too long? i can sometimes go on for hours without even cumming? Also thoughts on the male not cumming. Do women get dissapointed in not making us guys cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by sex

Do you mean actually intercourse or the session as a whole?

Personally so long as theirs a lot of variety in the session then no it cant go on for to long

however

some guys think that oral comes before penatration only and soon as the oral is over they get on and just bang away.....and bang away......and bang away.....yeah thats boring, and it dont take long before im bored and had enough

If your a guy whos a long stayer and can fuck for hours you simply need to rotate what your doing to keep it exciting

Have a shag, go back for another lick keep swapping what your doing

But for god sackes dont just jump on and pump for 3 hours till you cum

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By *aughtynigel02121980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brandon

i am referring to full on intercourse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by sex

Do you mean actually intercourse or the session as a whole?

Personally so long as theirs a lot of variety in the session then no it cant go on for to long

however

some guys think that oral comes before penatration only and soon as the oral is over they get on and just bang away.....and bang away......and bang away.....yeah thats boring, and it dont take long before im bored and had enough

If your a guy whos a long stayer and can fuck for hours you simply need to rotate what your doing to keep it exciting

Have a shag, go back for another lick keep swapping what your doing

But for god sackes dont just jump on and pump for 3 hours till you cum "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then yes for me it can go on for to long

I have in the past got dressed and left from a meet that has just banged away for hours

I just find it very boring, but anything done for to long is boring, im not keen on prolonged oral either

I just think sex is better is you keep it alive by putting lots of variety in it

i like to be moving about a lot and swapping what im doing thro out the whole session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything else in life, it's not quantity, but quality that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me with a meet he only has an hour tops.. lol and I'd expect two lots of cum in that time..

So yes for a play meet ages would be to long... But then hour for meet includes the whole deal..

And even gangbangs don't take that long lol

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aughtynigel02121980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brandon

the thing is i dont have much variation but have a certain technique which hits the spot every time. while on the subject i have never cum through oral but do really enjoy a nice blowjob. women have stepped up to the plate and have never completed the challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different things make different people come

I have never cum thro penetrative sex, i still like it tho

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

i enjoy long sessions as long as it varied, dont think i cud have a guy banging away for hours in the same position that wud be boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum thro penetrative sex, i still like it tho "

That was the same for me till monday.... dont know what he did different but he's sure as hell welcome to come back and do anytime!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

you know its gone on too long when you have to get the guy to have a shave half way thru it

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Dunno dont get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my long sessions with my fb, but there's lots of variation. Couldn't go for ages with intercourse alone! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was wondering what women thought about sex going on for too long? i can sometimes go on for hours without even cumming? Also thoughts on the male not cumming. Do women get dissapointed in not making us guys cum?"

No, I don't like massively long sessions and yes, I prefer it when the guy cums.

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By *aughtynigel02121980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Cool thanks for all your input its much apreciated. all the best and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair sex without cum is pointless... its the main bit for me..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really bored if it goes on for too long, I don't like long drawn out sessions, so if a guy doesn't come and he's been there ages and I've had enough then I say stop. So no long drawn out sessions are not for me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed any more than five mins and I'm ready fa a fag xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed any more than five mins and I'm ready fa a fag xx "

Thought you had 'retired' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed any more than five mins and I'm ready fa a fag xx "

A 'fag' ?

Well hello sailor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was wondering what women thought about sex going on for too long? i can sometimes go on for hours without even cumming? Also thoughts on the male not cumming. Do women get dissapointed in not making us guys cum?"

yup...it can get sooooooooo boring, but as long as us gals have our knitting we ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the thing is i dont have much variation but have a certain technique which hits the spot every time. while on the subject i have never cum through oral but do really enjoy a nice blowjob. women have stepped up to the plate and have never completed the challenge"

Maybe try a guy, you might find that's your thing. lol

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Actual fucking for too long can get boring. Change positions a few times, then suck him and wank him til he cums if he's taking too long to come inside me. Even then, after ages, then just stop for a cup of tea . It is disappointing if a guy doesn't come at all! I stipulate an hour, maybe 2 in some circumstances. Short and sweet is definitely my way.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

if a guy is a skilled ,sensual and attentive lover id be having wayyyyy too to much fun to be clock watching lol !

sign of a great seession for me is where you both lost track of time and no idea so much time had past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make it last the full 2 minutes

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Is that with a cup of tea in the middle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that with a cup of tea in the middle? "

if you want a quickie, I can speed up a bit

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"if a guy is a skilled ,sensual and attentive lover id be having wayyyyy too to much fun to be clock watching lol !

sign of a great seession for me is where you both lost track of time and no idea so much time had past "

I agree, but my bits do tend to get sore after about 3 hours.

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

He He

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed any more than five mins and I'm ready fa a fag xx

Thought you had 'retired' lol"

Lol from swingin yes from shaggin never pmsl xx

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

outside kilrea north west nothern ireland

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

outside kilrea north west nothern ireland


"i was wondering what women thought about sex going on for too long? i can sometimes go on for hours without even cumming? Also thoughts on the male not cumming. Do women get dissapointed in not making us guys cum?"

do u get disappointed not bein able to cum ,, just wonderin??!!, i go for hours and love every min as it is as said varied, a man not bein able to cum isnt a womans prob, so why should she feel bad. or that it's her prob, i say if u didnt cum i'd just think mayb it's the guys prob but hay why worry xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was wondering what women thought about sex going on for too long? i can sometimes go on for hours without even cumming? Also thoughts on the male not cumming. Do women get dissapointed in not making us guys cum?"

Yep after 48 hrs my cock is red raw. I would rather stick to the standard 21hr shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep after 48 hrs my cock is red raw. I would rather stick to the standard 21hr shag "

21 hours...bloody hell, 21 mins is my record...getting undressed, conversation, foreplay, sex, getting dressed, quick cuppa and my travel home all included lol

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay


"different things make different people come

I have never cum thro penetrative sex, i still like it tho "

You've not met me then

As to your first comment about getting bored - YES YES YES

I keep telling guys ... soft, sensual, caressing ...

they keep powering up the air compressor and loading the jack hammer ...

and this is not uncommon. Nearly all my girl friends say the same thing ... a few have even left this site after discovering there is more to sex than jack hammers ... (woops, blame me, they were younger members too! Least they still telephone me regularly!)

xox

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I tend to go on a bit once I get going, and Jayne had told a couple of female playmates, who then seem to think they can be the one to make me cum sooner.....

... its great fun and highly enjoyable letting them try, but none of them have managed yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not my cup of tea matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hv one meet who goes for hours and cums once. the sex is great lots of variety and i cum loads. very affectionate and lots of fun as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by sex

Do you mean actually intercourse or the session as a whole?

Personally so long as theirs a lot of variety in the session then no it cant go on for to long

however

some guys think that oral comes before penatration only and soon as the oral is over they get on and just bang away.....and bang away......and bang away.....yeah thats boring, and it dont take long before im bored and had enough

If your a guy whos a long stayer and can fuck for hours you simply need to rotate what your doing to keep it exciting

Have a shag, go back for another lick keep swapping what your doing

But for god sackes dont just jump on and pump for 3 hours till you cum "

I once dated a guy who boasted he could keep going for 4 hours...I thought-great 4 hours of licking, sucking, touching, fingering, laughing, talking...nope he actually meant 4 hours of just hammering away at me...I got bored, got sore and got off him and made him leave...funnily enough I never saw him again despite him asking me several times-he had no idea what was wrong and frankly i didn't like him enough to want to tell him...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Guess some just need lessons in how to do it. He obviously thought he was the best lover in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess some just need lessons in how to do it. He obviously thought he was the best lover in the world."

I think he had some weird idea that going for hours was what women wanted. I wasn't looking for someone who needed teaching...I'm still not

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By *lorence_DougalCouple
over a year ago

sittingbourne

I've met men who think it shows how brilliant they are if they pump away or ages but yes it does get boring - needs to be mixed with all the other fun too ! And yes I do feel a bit disappointed if a man doesnt cum, but only momentarily!

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds


"Depends what you mean by sex

Do you mean actually intercourse or the session as a whole?

Personally so long as theirs a lot of variety in the session then no it cant go on for to long

however

some guys think that oral comes before penatration only and soon as the oral is over they get on and just bang away.....and bang away......and bang away.....yeah thats boring, and it dont take long before im bored and had enough

If your a guy whos a long stayer and can fuck for hours you simply need to rotate what your doing to keep it exciting

Have a shag, go back for another lick keep swapping what your doing

But for god sackes dont just jump on and pump for 3 hours till you cum "

Could not agree more, well said hunny x

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Opss forgot to add, dont worry me if a guy dont cum, its not the end and be all of sex. Foreplay and veriety is what it is all about. As long as he can stay hard im happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to say that i get bored if it goes on to long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wouldn't want 2 minute wonder but on the other hand if it goes on too long and I find my mind wandering then its me to leave variety is definitely the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opss forgot to add, dont worry me if a guy dont cum, its not the end and be all of sex. Foreplay and veriety is what it is all about. As long as he can stay hard im happy x"

omg.. I would cry if I never got cum... lol for me it is the reason for it.. If there is no cum, there is no satisfaction..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest I have just had sex for is 4 hours, and that was kept interesting as we went around every room in the house, and had sex on as many household items as possible, so it was funny and challenging at times lol. We only stopped as her pussy had got a little too sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

And it can blinkin' hurt too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

And it can blinkin' hurt too!"

So far I think I am okay for about 6 hours.. trying to think if Master and I have managed longer.. To be fair we do tend to have our fun days which tend to mean hours of sex.. maybe an hour with 8 guys.. then a few hours just myself and Master..

I just love it..and the more I ache the better it feels.

Cali

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