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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on and off the site for years and understand why people are fed up of timewasters but my god there's nothing more annoying than a stuck up fabster!

Before I get hammered I know timewasters are real but I'd wish some would relax a little x

What does everyone else think? (All timewasting males please do not reply)

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I've been on and off the site for years and understand why people are fed up of timewasters but my god there's nothing more annoying than a stuck up fabster!

Before I get hammered I know timewasters are real but I'd wish some would relax a little x

What does everyone else think? (All timewasting males please do not reply) "

What?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them. "

And if this makes me a stuck up fabber then fuck it I'm a happy stuck up fabber

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them. "
would agree with that , i would like to think we are not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

And if this makes me a stuck up fabber then fuck it I'm a happy stuck up fabber"

Not at all you certainly wasn't what I was getting at. I just feel if you want to be so serious just hit a club, I understand frustrations but I personally am genuine but very layed back and get put off by the rudeness I get soemtimes x

I hope you're having fun xxx

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

People can be rude because being online is "faceless" they wouldn't do it to face to face but think it's fine to be a bell end online. It's not just here but all of social media

Some people could do with remembering manners costs nothing and that works both ways. If someone does say thanks but no thanks there's no need for abuse. Just accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them. "

Guys never ever read my profile, I may as well just have the pictures up with no text

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

Guys never ever read my profile, I may as well just have the pictures up with no text "

Yep and then get mad when you don't throw your knickers at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

Guys never ever read my profile, I may as well just have the pictures up with no text

Yep and then get mad when you don't throw your knickers at them"

Yep and get called a stuck up cow when I say they're not what I'm looking for. Even though my profile is crystal clear avout my type

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them. would agree with that , i would like to think we are not "

You are definately not

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

Guys never ever read my profile, I may as well just have the pictures up with no text

Yep and then get mad when you don't throw your knickers at them

Yep and get called a stuck up cow when I say they're not what I'm looking for. Even though my profile is crystal clear avout my type "

Mine too. My profile has definitely become a rant and it gets a new rant weekly it would seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience it's mostly (not all!!!) couples on here that are quite stuck up and entitled

It's all fun and games until you start talking about what you're not into and boundaries and they expect you to tap dance over the line which you're comfortable.

And I've had that with every single couple I've arranged to meet and ended up cancelling cause I haven't felt comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional Swinger???

People get paid for this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Professional Swinger???

People get paid for this "

Some try x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience it's mostly (not all!!!) couples on here that are quite stuck up and entitled

It's all fun and games until you start talking about what you're not into and boundaries and they expect you to tap dance over the line which you're comfortable.

And I've had that with every single couple I've arranged to meet and ended up cancelling cause I haven't felt comfortable "

Exactly how I feel x

What happened to just going with the flow x

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

What do you mean by a timewaster? All the examples above are just of rude people. To us a timewaster means someone who arranges meets but either cancels on the day or doesn't show.

Your Header for the thread is 'professional swingers', we've seen this on a few profiles. Does it mean they swing as a profession, or does it just mean they have a job?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Professional Swinger???

People get paid for this "

Right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by a timewaster? All the examples above are just of rude people. To us a timewaster means someone who arranges meets but either cancels on the day or doesn't show.

Your Header for the thread is 'professional swingers', we've seen this on a few profiles. Does it mean they swing as a profession, or does it just mean they have a job?"

No it's a loose term but one that's apt!

It's a couple, male or female who have been around for awhile with countless veris who seem to think they are the higher power.

Very demanding and quite unpleasant to be honest because you are new or less verified!

Clearer?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"What do you mean by a timewaster? All the examples above are just of rude people. To us a timewaster means someone who arranges meets but either cancels on the day or doesn't show.

Your Header for the thread is 'professional swingers', we've seen this on a few profiles. Does it mean they swing as a profession, or does it just mean they have a job?

No it's a loose term but one that's apt!

It's a couple, male or female who have been around for awhile with countless veris who seem to think they are the higher power.

Very demanding and quite unpleasant to be honest because you are new or less verified!

Clearer? "

Well that's not cool. We were all beginners once. In fact I've learned a lot from experienced swingers when I was starting out.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"What do you mean by a timewaster? All the examples above are just of rude people. To us a timewaster means someone who arranges meets but either cancels on the day or doesn't show.

Your Header for the thread is 'professional swingers', we've seen this on a few profiles. Does it mean they swing as a profession, or does it just mean they have a job?

No it's a loose term but one that's apt!

It's a couple, male or female who have been around for awhile with countless veris who seem to think they are the higher power.

Very demanding and quite unpleasant to be honest because you are new or less verified!

Clearer?

Well that's not cool. We were all beginners once. In fact I've learned a lot from experienced swingers when I was starting out. "

We always greet new couples with a friendly message whether we are compatible or not, however out of 10 sent we might get one reply and out of every 5 that reply only one will be genuine and on site a fortnight later. So we find that the biggest timewasters out there are the new profiles, but we won't stop trying, occasionally there's a golden nugget to be found amongst the silt.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Is this a sour-grapes thread, OP?

Green arrow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww bless you OP ....... you may do well too concentrate on your positives rather than ooze negativity too a most unsympathetic audience ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told a few weeks ago I was too experienced a swinger to meet a couple I was talking too then the guy in the couple started to attack my meets and said I must be desperate as I even went to Wales for a shag but what he didn't fathom is that particular lady was from near me and has just moved to Wales for her job but hey what do I know I apperantly only fuck fat old munters (his words)so now I tend to insist I speak to both male and female of couple as lots of guys pretending to be a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for professional swingers op I don't think you can class people here that way rather hardened swingers or frequent swingers and anyone can be an arsehole here but for every arsehole there far more diamonds and those are the people you should get to know

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"I've been on and off the site for years and understand why people are fed up of timewasters but my god there's nothing more annoying than a stuck up fabster!

Before I get hammered I know timewasters are real but I'd wish some would relax a little x

What does everyone else think? (All timewasting males please do not reply) "

Well it's a valid opinion. Some people appreciate honesty and directnes. Others do not. I've been messed around too many times not to mention time wasters on my profile and the methods I have in place to try to avoid them (minimum of two published verifications from different people.)

What I don't get are the people who private message you just to critique your profile. I had one a few weeks ago on FabGuys, bitching like hell about mine. Not someone I would have been interested in meeting. Not someone who was interested in meeting me. And in any case, they were miles away. So why bother to take the time to message someone, just to tell them you don't like their profile?

One of his complaints was that it wasn't funny. Are they meant to be? I have one joke in there, right at the beginning "This profile is like a penis. I play with it when I'm bored, and it usually gets bigger when I do." Other than that, it stays pretty factual.

I wouldn't care, but his own profile was barely better than "Will fill in later."

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"People can be rude because being online is "faceless" they wouldn't do it to face to face but think it's fine to be a bell end online. It's not just here but all of social media

Some people could do with remembering manners costs nothing and that works both ways. If someone does say thanks but no thanks there's no need for abuse. Just accept it and move on"

This totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got told a few weeks ago I was too experienced a swinger to meet a couple I was talking too then the guy in the couple started to attack my meets and said I must be desperate as I even went to Wales for a shag but what he didn't fathom is that particular lady was from near me and has just moved to Wales for her job but hey what do I know I apperantly only fuck fat old munters (his words)so now I tend to insist I speak to both male and female of couple as lots of guys pretending to be a couple "

I hate this mentality

A guy said to me once he wouldn't touch someone with alot of verifications with a barge pole and expected me to agree with him

Think people expect you to get verified a certain amount of times and then stop meeting or leave the site lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by a timewaster? All the examples above are just of rude people. To us a timewaster means someone who arranges meets but either cancels on the day or doesn't show.

Your Header for the thread is 'professional swingers', we've seen this on a few profiles. Does it mean they swing as a profession, or does it just mean they have a job?

No it's a loose term but one that's apt!

It's a couple, male or female who have been around for awhile with countless veris who seem to think they are the higher power.

Very demanding and quite unpleasant to be honest because you are new or less verified!

Clearer?

Well that's not cool. We were all beginners once. In fact I've learned a lot from experienced swingers when I was starting out.

We always greet new couples with a friendly message whether we are compatible or not, however out of 10 sent we might get one reply and out of every 5 that reply only one will be genuine and on site a fortnight later. So we find that the biggest timewasters out there are the new profiles, but we won't stop trying, occasionally there's a golden nugget to be found amongst the silt. "

I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can be rude because being online is "faceless" they wouldn't do it to face to face but think it's fine to be a bell end online. It's not just here but all of social media

Some people could do with remembering manners costs nothing and that works both ways. If someone does say thanks but no thanks there's no need for abuse. Just accept it and move on

This totally "

i second this...manners politeness and respect go a long way on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

Guys never ever read my profile, I may as well just have the pictures up with no text "

They don't read my profile either its bloody annoying. It even says not looking for new friends lol .

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"I hate this mentality

A guy said to me once he wouldn't touch someone with alot of verifications with a barge pole and expected me to agree with him

Think people expect you to get verified a certain amount of times and then stop meeting or leave the site lol "

Another bit from my profile...

"Verified by 50+ people (mostly play, some social) across FabSwingers and FabGuys. Does the high number put you off? Worry about the people who don't always play safe and never get STI checked."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them.

Guys never ever read my profile, I may as well just have the pictures up with no text "

Sorry, what was that? Just tuned out for a moment there!

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire


"I was a lot different when I joined here. Happy go luck I would say with a pretty basic profile. How that's changed over the years! I've turned my profile into a rant because of being bombarded by people who don't bother to read what I'm looking for. And don't get me started on ignorant people. The guys on here say women are ignorant but in my experience it's couples, not all, but there are lots of them. "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I've not seen anyone moaning about tvs in here yet, perhaps you should all meet them instead

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