FabSwingers.com forum: 1st time advise needed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

We are both quite new and really love Fab. We have had a few great meets and fancy trying a bit of dogging. We live on the edge of Cannock chase and it seems rude not to!

Problem is we have never done this and have no idea when or where to go. Read it's full of boy racers and Police and this has made us very reluctant.

We would like to head out this afternoon or early evening, but could do with a few directions and guidelines..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have had some great PM feedback and it looks like Cannock is a place to avoid.

Pity, really fancied a brief encounter with a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take the plunge and try a club we went 3 weeks ago and could live there honest its great lol

lots of strangers there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have though about it but we're not quite brave enough or ready just yet.

We will get shot down for this, but we feel too old. We did nightclubs 20yrs ago and it feels a bit odd the though of going out clubbing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will try and dig out a few forums I have that are actually just about dogging.. We found that a great help.. although we found we actually tend to just find a few men and take them with us places..

Or.. pop to the adult cinemas..

that gives you the total stranger effect..

I couldnt send you this in pm though as you dont take messages from single women lol

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have though about it but we're not quite brave enough or ready just yet.

We will get shot down for this, but we feel too old. We did nightclubs 20yrs ago and it feels a bit odd the though of going out clubbing again.

(Queues up to be first in line to shoot ya down LOL) Of course you're not too old to go to a swingers club! You're both younger than me, and I love going to my local swingers club.

All clubs are different of course, but at the club I use, you would be around the average age...... some older/some younger, but the majority are late 30s/early 40s, so you wouldn't feel out of place.

It's legal, far safer than going dogging, and you can go as far as you like, secure in the knowledge that 'no means no'.

Although the club I use has a great dancefloor/stage/pole area, it's not really like going to a conventional nightclub, and you won't feel out of place if you don't want to dance. There are lots of quiet areas where you can chat and get to know people.

Do a bit of research into your nearest clubs..... I'm sure you'll find you love it, once you pluck up courage to go. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have though about it but we're not quite brave enough or ready just yet.

We will get shot down for this, but we feel too old. We did nightclubs 20yrs ago and it feels a bit odd the though of going out clubbing again.

You are kidding arnt you? Too old i hope not.

We have only just started going clubbing and i even put something on one of the fourms about blokes wanting the younger ladies i was wrong.

You get all different ages and to be honest within an hr (thats the longest)we end up nattering to someone.

The swing clubs arnt like the night clubs they are alot friendlier.

To be honest dogging scares me you never know if theres a copper lurking in the bush lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would seriously suggest going with someone whos a old hat at dogging the first time

me and my ex tried it a few times and got nowhere, they seem to have all these rule with certain lights on meaning different things lol

But the main reason i say this is because every time we saw a group of cars and drove near they all drove off, this happened several times

We was later told that if your a un known car they will move away if you come close as they dont know if your un marked police or not

So we went with a single male friend who goes regular and is know by everyone and had a great night

it just seemed a case of getting kown and trusted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. We have been offered on a PM to meet at a trusted dogging place 'not advertised' with him and we are thinking this may be the way forward. He is a guy that has been on here for a long time and experience is what we need right now.

We will do a club at some point, but the attire at Chams appears to be a towel and the Xtasia web site appears to be full of highly toned Gym bunnies. It's all a little too much at this stage....

Love playing though and I'm sure all these things will come in good time..

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"We have though about it but we're not quite brave enough or ready just yet.

We will get shot down for this, but we feel too old. We did nightclubs 20yrs ago and it feels a bit odd the though of going out clubbing again.

bloomin heck, if you are to old we had better jack it all in and sit in front of the fire with our slippers and cocoa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to try dogging, give it a go!

One mans trash is another mans treasure as they say.

All of us have different ideas, likes and dislikes. Some of the things would seem unnerving to a couple not used to it, same as going to a club.

Go with an open mind but make sure you call the shots.

Go for a look around (don't expect to see mass orgies on car bonnets lol) to get a feel of the places around there.

Have fun play safe.

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

My God ... too old ...

I have nothing left to look forward too and my ex is mid 40's so she's finished ..

except she seemed to be very active on here the last 2 months ...

and before becoming my 'ex' in May this year she was very active in the clubs ...

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