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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

Does anyone think this is all a waste of time ?

My experience is there a lot of "worn out premadonna's" who all think they are better than what they actually are !!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You had a lot of experience?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If you're not enjoying the site, find something you do enjoy - no point putting energy into something you don't like!

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

Enough to get me bored yeah

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills

Your a guy by yourself what do u expect

Bottom of the food chain that gets the scrap

Don't mean to b hurtful but thems the facts

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

But a bit of respect wouldn't go a miss by some of the people who you message. Even a reply saying "no thanks"

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Single men are much better going to the normal ‘dating’ sites as the ratio of men to women is much better and those women like sex just as much as the women on here .

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Enough to get me bored yeah"

There's always someone looking for a guy that knows what he's doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U have 10fem meets showing and state tat u can be a bit fussy so y is it ok for u but not ok fr others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a message OP, and I’ll let you know if I would have replied or deleted it if it had been a random message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think this is all a waste of time ?

My experience is there a lot of "worn out premadonna's" who all think they are better than what they actually are !!!"

No, i don't. The site is what you make it.

You sound like a man who has been told no, and is now throwing a hissy fit.

So who's really the prima donna?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think this is all a waste of time ?

My experience is there a lot of "worn out premadonna's" who all think they are better than what they actually are !!!

No, i don't. The site is what you make it.

You sound like a man who has been told no, and is now throwing a hissy fit.

So who's really the prima donna?

"

Hit the nail on the head

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

Not at all, I can handle rejection, that's not the issue here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your a guy by yourself what do u expect

Bottom of the food chain that gets the scrap

Don't mean to b hurtful but thems the facts"

I disagree. It certainly isn't my experience on here and I wouldn't describe the people I've met on here as scraps.

You get out of Fab what you put in.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"But a bit of respect wouldn't go a miss by some of the people who you message. Even a reply saying "no thanks""

I appreciate that it must be frustrating, I shall enlighten you a little. I get on average 100 messages a day, replying to all of them is simply an unachievable task (don't forget the reply would then generally get a reply!)

I would skip replying to you due to not having a profile pic.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Does anyone think this is all a waste of time ?

My experience is there a lot of "worn out premadonna's" who all think they are better than what they actually are !!!"

Fair point

Nar fuck it I am better than I think I am. No that doesn't make sense.

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills


"Your a guy by yourself what do u expect

Bottom of the food chain that gets the scrap

Don't mean to b hurtful but thems the facts

I disagree. It certainly isn't my experience on here and I wouldn't describe the people I've met on here as scraps.

You get out of Fab what you put in."

Maybe scraps was a harsh word but the sentiment remains

Very few are looking for single guys and u should all b prepared for that in your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think this is all a waste of time ?

My experience is there a lot of "worn out premadonna's" who all think they are better than what they actually are !!!"

I'm not complaining as I'm one of the ones wearing them out

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

And you say you are good mannered...

By the way it is "prima donna"

This site depends on how much effort you are prepared to put in.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People will often look at a profile first and if it doesnt appeal or match their requirements,delete.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is forcing you to log in. Just delete your profile if it's that bad.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For many this is an escape from reality, a chance to meet people who in every day life would their paths would never cross. For others it forms part of the life style that they lead...

In either case everyone has preference, lusts and desires. If you are not gaining the experiences that you hope for that change something. Ehcance your profile, broaden your horizons, lower your own expectations...

Me personally, I have met some amazing people.. all Beautiful and sexy in there own way. I have also encountered so rude, shallow and truly ugly inderviduals too.

People on here may come across as shallow at times, but when ladies are out numbers 100 to 1 they can afford to be selective and often have to be harsh just to stand a chance themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are wrong. Single guys will always be in demand. But, of course, the ones in demand will be the good looking/fit/ endowed types. In the 4 years we've been on this and recently another site, only one meet has been with a couple, the rest with single guys. My wife will only 'meet' with her type. She has age and experience with me, so what she wants is a younger guy with stamina and a decent size cock. The older, unfit guys on here will always struggle to get meets.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You most definitely get what you put into it. Make your profile appealling, with a good description and vibe. Be tasteful in the pictures of yourself that you select, and be witty and creative in your messaging. Stand out from the crowd and you'll be noticed. I have no complaints

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Does anyone think this is all a waste of time ?

My experience is there a lot of "worn out premadonna's" who all think they are better than what they actually are !!!"

That’s going to win you a few friends ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have had a few meets so this frustration may come from a somewhat genuine place. This site is what it is. Gotta take the good with the bad. You're better off meeting people in real life as the internet encourages and empowers time-wasters and those who lack confidence.

Even as someone with some of the more "in-demand" traits...I tend even when you have a healthy interest you still have to deal with the sheer amount of poor confidence found in ALOT of people on here. Tons like the idea of swinging but few like the action involved.

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