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More adventurous & uninhibited with age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for all you 40plusers...of which i am one. Have you become more openminded with age.

I have for sure less worried about things and accepting of things are the way they are. I have been seeing a couple on here for 3 years....a regular lover kind of thing.... this has developed in to mind blowing fun which is very uninhibited and open.

But looking back....i am.not sure i would be this way 10 years ago....

Thoughts on a poatcard please not social media...which is showing my age

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By *erbertgloriaCouple
over a year ago

BAGSHOT

This is the best age to be.... Throw caution to the wind and enjoy every single thing that comes into your mind.... Life is for living, having fun and exploring all of those things you have wanted to try but never dared. Push the boundaries and experiment... What's the worst that could happen??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the best age to be.... Throw caution to the wind and enjoy every single thing that comes into your mind.... Life is for living, having fun and exploring all of those things you have wanted to try but never dared. Push the boundaries and experiment... What's the worst that could happen??"

Well i second that....exactly what i meant to say

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"This is the best age to be.... Throw caution to the wind and enjoy every single thing that comes into your mind.... Life is for living, having fun and exploring all of those things you have wanted to try but never dared. Push the boundaries and experiment... What's the worst that could happen??"

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Had my mid life crisis at 40 or so. Was never a shy person with regards to sex. But any last bit of inibition lurking dissappeared when I was born again. Explored a lot since that time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For me its definitely true that in certain respects I've become more adventurous and uninhibited with age, we both have, sexually.

In certain other respects I'd say I've become less adventurous. I wouldn't dream of doing a parachute jump for instance but when I was younger I would have and I wouldn't even consider wearing yellow eyeshadow nowadays

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Fuck yes my mind is so open now to the big wide world of fun I just wish I could participate more in anything goes sex

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

When I was younger I was quite a jealous person, however with age I have grown wiser and lost the jealousy streak and our inhibitions have lowered, life is not a rehearsal it's for living so now we enjoy life to the full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been very open-minded and adventurous when it comes to sex, but as I've got older I've got more confident in respect of what I want sexually, and how I go about satisfying those desires. I also think that my children having grown up and needing less time from me, has a bearing on how much I focus on my own wants and needs. I'll be 50 next year, and I'm very much of the 'bring it on' attitude. I'm in a good place, and rediscovering what I enjoy doing for myself, not just for my family. In the last few years I've started mountain biking and running, and have a to-do list full of adventures I want to have and things I want to try.

My philosophy is 'grab life by the throat and shake the living daylights out of it!'

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the best age to be.... Throw caution to the wind and enjoy every single thing that comes into your mind.... Life is for living, having fun and exploring all of those things you have wanted to try but never dared. Push the boundaries and experiment... What's the worst that could happen??"

*standingovation

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Save the odd one or two which I forget, the women I have met have all been pretty balls out wild (pun). I don't think it's anything to do with their age more to do with their attitude to sex, sites they're on and how you treat them in general maybe (have a relaxed attitude or willing to new things)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

Less fucks are given about most things now I'm over 40.

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By *erbertgloriaCouple
over a year ago

BAGSHOT

Hitting 50 was life changing..... In the very best possible way. Inhibition is out of the window. I adore sex and love exploring things I used to holdback on a few years ago for no reason other than embarrassment .... Now however apparently the things I was concerned about are very erotic... Who knew?!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Question for all you 40plusers...of which i am one. Have you become more openminded with age.

I have for sure less worried about things and accepting of things are the way they are. I have been seeing a couple on here for 3 years....a regular lover kind of thing.... this has developed in to mind blowing fun which is very uninhibited and open.

But looking back....i am.not sure i would be this way 10 years ago....

Thoughts on a poatcard please not social media...which is showing my age

"

I think as you age you inevitably become more aware of both your mortality and your general health. It becomes more and more frustrating when your body doesn't always quite work the way you want it to and/or hurts doing the simplest things, and for me, as an almost 53 year old woman, I'm very aware that I'm going to get the menopause sooner rather than later - and am genuinely dreading it in case I'm one of the unlucky ones who's lumbered with a whole heap of debilitating symptoms.

From a sexual point of view, all those considerations suddenly bring into sharp focus that you may as well do your damnedest to try and lose your inhibitions and just go for whatever it is that floats your boat. When I was younger I had practically the same sexual mindset as I do now but would often be inhibited by feeling self conscious or worrying about what people thought of me - now I can see that was rather ridiculous when my body was in better shape then than it is now, so don't want to 'waste' any more time fretting too much about that, and an understanding gained through age and experience that there's nothing intrinsically 'wrong' with any expression of sexuality providing it's consensual and legal. I guess it's an urge to be as adventurous as you want to be while it's still physically possible!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hitting 50 was life changing..... In the very best possible way. Inhibition is out of the window. I adore sex and love exploring things I used to holdback on a few years ago for no reason other than embarrassment .... Now however apparently the things I was concerned about are very erotic... Who knew?! "

Wonderful to hear you are not holding back....xxx

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Definitely

Less fucks are given about most things now I'm over 40.

"

This!

Life experience teaches us what matters and what doesn't, and not doing stuff we enjoy because others might not approve even though it harms nobody then no not doing that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely

Less fucks are given about most things now I'm over 40.

This!

Life experience teaches us what matters and what doesn't, and not doing stuff we enjoy because others might not approve even though it harms nobody then no not doing that.

"

Quality over quantity every day of the week for me....as i regularly experience with the gorgeous gloria who posted earlier. She hits it on the head with life is short and you have to go for it.

Definitely had my tastes and needs changed over the last 3 years. Alot more relaxed and confident....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always been very open-minded and adventurous when it comes to sex, but as I've got older I've got more confident in respect of what I want sexually, and how I go about satisfying those desires. I also think that my children having grown up and needing less time from me, has a bearing on how much I focus on my own wants and needs. I'll be 50 next year, and I'm very much of the 'bring it on' attitude. I'm in a good place, and rediscovering what I enjoy doing for myself, not just for my family. In the last few years I've started mountain biking and running, and have a to-do list full of adventures I want to have and things I want to try.

My philosophy is 'grab life by the throat and shake the living daylights out of it!'

V x"

Could not agree more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was younger I was quite a jealous person, however with age I have grown wiser and lost the jealousy streak and our inhibitions have lowered, life is not a rehearsal it's for living so now we enjoy life to the full "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no inhibitions at our age we love what we do with couples and the odd single guy we have what we have and are not ashamed of showing and after a great evening with whoever just lying their naked all intertwined is a great feeling .

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Love it, no more flounce and pounce game playing.

More hey, let’s play type attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have no inhibitions at our age we love what we do with couples and the odd single guy we have what we have and are not ashamed of showing and after a great evening with whoever just lying their naked all intertwined is a great feeling ."

Bang on....and sooo close...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its definitely true that in certain respects I've become more adventurous and uninhibited with age, we both have, sexually.

In certain other respects I'd say I've become less adventurous. I wouldn't dream of doing a parachute jump for instance but when I was younger I would have and I wouldn't even consider wearing yellow eyeshadow

nowadays "

Know just what you are saying. I have definitely become more daring, adventurous, open minded sexually, but have gone the other way in other respects. I did do parachuting in my 30s, loads of rock climbing etc, but the thought of extreme sports is definitely less appealing now, due in part to me being a bit of a scardeycat now where i never was previously.

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Have always been quite adventurous both sexually and otherwise. The advent of sites like Fab have made enjoying life's pleasures so much easier. I have probably had more fun in the last year than the 10 years before. I now work on the principle that this time might be my last so really go for it. You never know when the fun might dry up for whatever reason, (usually the wife spoiling things,lol), so I strongly recommend you treat each time as your last and go all out to enjoy every aspect of the experience.

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire

Definitely, on all counts. More confident experienced and happy with my body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely, on all counts. More confident experienced and happy with my body. "

great answer

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