FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the fellas

By *rzambique OP Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

Your thoughts and comments below

When she gets in the kitchen and makes me a sammich.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

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Women orgasm too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh, don’t see this thread ending well, selfishness in the sack is never a good thing OP, not saying that you are btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady Cums, I am happy,but also she likes you to cum, so both, I like to make it part of the fun and let each other know what you like and try to achieve that and maximise your fun for both

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By *ayMaxxxMan
over a year ago

Windsor

Always ladies first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always please the lady

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I aim to please the lady, then when I cum it's a bonus, love watching them cum.

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By *rzambique OP Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Uh oh, don’t see this thread ending well, selfishness in the sack is never a good thing OP, not saying that you are btw"

I always make sure the lady cums or says she’s satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually cum about 8th or 9th, long after the lady has been well and truly sated if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes sure they lady is pleasured fully but I'm sure she would like you to cum as well. Gives her that sense of satisfaction that she's pleasures you as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not generally a repeater, so love making the girl finish once or twice first. There's nothing worse than finishing yourself and looking at girl you've basically just edged and not actually satisfied.

On the same token though, I can't abide selfish females. No sack of spuds is getting me to finish, as I just stop caring if they're not making effort too.

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By *rzambique OP Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Great to see the guys who aren’t selfish to the ladies here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

Your thoughts and comments below

"
Jesus, you really have to ask?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great to see the guys who aren’t selfish to the ladies here

Just call me the panda....eats shoots and leaves......joking!!

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By *rzambique OP Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

Your thoughts and comments below

Jesus, you really have to ask?!"

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally ends with me cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are to many variables in the game of sex to give an honest answer.. things like where, when, what, how.. sometimes it's more about the fun and excitement then the orgasm.

But being a gentleman I always please the lady, be it physically or otherwise

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Great to see the guys who aren’t selfish to the ladies here

Well they ain't going to say otherwise are they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I just deflate "her" and put her back in the box until next time.

I'm very attentive to her needs though, and I make sure all the air is squeezed out, as "she" hates feeling bloated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally I just deflate "her" and put her back in the box until next time.

I'm very attentive to her needs though, and I make sure all the air is squeezed out, as "she" hates feeling bloated

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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When we have had enough. I have learnt that focussing on the female orgasm actually detracts from the meet. It puts unnecessary pressure on. Better to make sure both or all partners have a bloody good time.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The lady will normally have orgasmed multiple times before I finish

always finish with a good cuddle afterwards and plenty of chilled conversation.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"When we have had enough. I have learnt that focussing on the female orgasm actually detracts from the meet. It puts unnecessary pressure on. Better to make sure both or all partners have a bloody good time."

Good answer.

I rarely if ever have an orgasm during casual sex. If a man focuses on that it makes it even less likely. It doesn't mean I haven't had a darn good time though.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For many guys on here I suspect it ends up with the tissues being flushed away!

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Usually finish with soaking wet sheets so all good I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You keep fucking over and over until you both cannot go on

I always sit and have a cuppa and a Laugh after it all.

A nice hug, thank them and off hone.

Then message saying thanks again and plan our next debauchery

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

It entirely depends on who I'm with and what they want. I certainly dont orgasm during all my sessions but, unless their faking it, it is pretty rare that my partners don't.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Op you need to do the same thread but from a woman's perspective,see if the answer's tally up.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

When I was meeting there were no cuddles, or big chats, not usually even cups of tea afterwards. I do think neither cared too much to bother asking many questions, it was more just a case of 'we can't fuck forever, it was fun, I've got to head home now'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to be a realist here

I tend to lean more towards regular meets, and have found that women i meet don’t always cum every single time, and yes at first I though “crap what am I doing wrong” but the thing with regular meets are you engage in conversation too, and all of them have quite openly said “I don’t cum every time, doesn’t mean it wasn’t amazing, just means I didn’t orgasm that time” with the same respect I don’t always cum and that has nothing to do with enjoyment or lack of it, just the way it goes I guess, and women I meet have found it strange at first when I don’t cum and have said they thought they had done something wrong... swings and roundabouts.

The main thing as I see it is that you both enjoy it, do what you can to ensure the other person enjoys the things you are doing, and don’t be afraid to talk

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread? "

It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady cums then it's definitely a nice bonus for sure.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I love foreplay and pleasing others so usually try to bring the lady to orgasm first then sort myself out after or both together at the same time is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are to many variables in the game of sex to give an honest answer.. things like where, when, what, how.. sometimes it's more about the fun and excitement then the orgasm.

But being a gentleman I always please the lady, be it physically or otherwise"

This is true. One of my exes used to love quickies on walks home from places. It wouldn’t last any more than 5 minutes tops. I know for a fact she didn’t often cum, but she always loved the thrill of it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I like her to make me cum as a thank you.....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?

It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread."

Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she says she needs to rest

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Here's a non-bullshit answer:

Me: my legs ache, can you go on top?

Her: no, i'm tired and it's late

Me: ok, I'm tired too, if i cum now; can you finish yourself off in the bathroom?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?

It's a "I always make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread."

We've been rumbled lads they know were only good for two pumps and a squirt then fall asleep lol

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Who said all the responses were just regarding women. Some of us meet a broader range of people.

I would admit that I have also had meets where my visitor has definately not cum, I would point out though this was as we had agreed in prior discussions.

I have even a meet where someone came and tried out a specific bit of equipment in private at my house where I introduced them to the item and then left them to it but this was definetly a one of with someone I had been having an extended discussion with and isn't something I want to make a habit of.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Here's a non-bullshit answer:

Me: my legs ache, can you go on top?

Her: no, i'm tired and it's late

Me: ok, I'm tired too, if i cum now; can you finish yourself off in the bathroom?"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

Your thoughts and comments below

When she gets in the kitchen and makes me a sammich.

or he makes me a cuppa and get ready for round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning fabbers..

So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?

Your thoughts and comments below

selfishness

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?

It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.

Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine usually end with a cup of tea.

But as that's not what you are asking.... very often I don't actually cum. Make of that what you will.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I always try my best to make a lady Cum first . Cos I just luv hearing her moan in pleasure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should always be ladies first but been so long forgotten what it feel's like

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?

It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.

Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two

Never!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?

It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.

Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two

Never!

Oh fuck it - let's join in.

I stop... when she begs me to. "How am i meant to cycle to work in the morning?" She cried.

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