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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just do what you want to do,there are no rules. What works for one may not work for another. Don't let anyone tell you what you should do,you're your own man!

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

rhyl

Send loads of cock pics with a message fuck now.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OP, the best advice is to relax and realise that there are no set rules.

Read peoples profiles to find out if they have there own rules, then approach them if you meet what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?"

Be yourself. So much fakeness and double-standards on this site so don't try and be anything you're not. Women basically run the site and there are some cringeworthy guys who will literally do and say anything to get laid! (read the forums for proof). Learn to spot a fake profile (at least 50% of them are) and prepare yourself that 99% of your messages won't get read, no matter how nice or interesting your opening gambit is! Oh and prepare to seriously lower your standards from the "real world". If she's got 1 eye, is 30 stone overweight and has a beard like Brian Blessed the chances are you still won't get laid!

Apart from that happy Fabbing mate..... it's a shagfest for us guys on here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?"

think about the type of person you'd like to meet and imagine the type of pictures and message they'd like to receive.

I would say don't send friend requests unless you've actually chatted to someone and don't message people unless they're looking for the same things you are.

It can take a while to get a meet and you might find a lot of your messages go unanswered, don't take it personally.

Good luck.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I have heard legend of a FAQ somewhere in the depths of the site. Apparently has loads of advice.

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

rhyl


"Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?

Be yourself. So much fakeness and double-standards on this site so don't try and be anything you're not. Women basically run the site and there are some cringeworthy guys who will literally do and say anything to get laid! (read the forums for proof). Learn to spot a fake profile (at least 50% of them are) and prepare yourself that 99% of your messages won't get read, no matter how nice or interesting your opening gambit is! Oh and prepare to seriously lower your standards from the "real world". If she's got 1 eye, is 30 stone overweight and has a beard like Brian Blessed the chances are you still won't get laid!

Apart from that happy Fabbing mate..... it's a shagfest for us guys on here! "

If she's got 1 eye, is 30 stone overweight and has a beard like Brian Blessed . I think I have met this woman

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?

Be yourself. So much fakeness and double-standards on this site so don't try and be anything you're not. Women basically run the site and there are some cringeworthy guys who will literally do and say anything to get laid! (read the forums for proof). Learn to spot a fake profile (at least 50% of them are) and prepare yourself that 99% of your messages won't get read, no matter how nice or interesting your opening gambit is! Oh and prepare to seriously lower your standards from the "real world". If she's got 1 eye, is 30 stone overweight and has a beard like Brian Blessed the chances are you still won't get laid!

Apart from that happy Fabbing mate..... it's a shagfest for us guys on here! "

Pretty accurate IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?

Be yourself. So much fakeness and double-standards on this site so don't try and be anything you're not. Women basically run the site and there are some cringeworthy guys who will literally do and say anything to get laid! (read the forums for proof). Learn to spot a fake profile (at least 50% of them are) and prepare yourself that 99% of your messages won't get read, no matter how nice or interesting your opening gambit is! Oh and prepare to seriously lower your standards from the "real world". If she's got 1 eye, is 30 stone overweight and has a beard like Brian Blessed the chances are you still won't get laid!

Apart from that happy Fabbing mate..... it's a shagfest for us guys on here!

Pretty accurate IMHO."

Shhhhh you're not allowed to agree with me or you'll be be accused of being bitter, not knowing how to speak to women etc etc

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Im new to the site and not sure of the do's and dont's with regards to what pics to show, friend invitations, messages etc

any tips?

Be yourself. So much fakeness and double-standards on this site so don't try and be anything you're not. Women basically run the site and there are some cringeworthy guys who will literally do and say anything to get laid! (read the forums for proof). Learn to spot a fake profile (at least 50% of them are) and prepare yourself that 99% of your messages won't get read, no matter how nice or interesting your opening gambit is! Oh and prepare to seriously lower your standards from the "real world". If she's got 1 eye, is 30 stone overweight and has a beard like Brian Blessed the chances are you still won't get laid!

Apart from that happy Fabbing mate..... it's a shagfest for us guys on here!

Pretty accurate IMHO.

Shhhhh you're not allowed to agree with me or you'll be be accused of being bitter, not knowing how to speak to women etc etc "

Hey, I get plenty of sex! But this site is what it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome newbie.

Cocky pics. Lots of cock pics. Show that cock off from as many angles as you can.

That’s all anyone is after here. Impressive cock.

It’s like fishing; get your cock out and us girls can’t help but message you.

If you want to speed up the process send us a ‘wot you up to?’ Or ‘hey beautiful ‘ message.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Send loads of cock pics with a message fuck now."

Omg that made me spit my coffee out laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember to keep your receipt so you can claim your refund if you've not been shagged after 3 months!

Seriously though, as a fellow newbie I'd recommend checking out some of your local clubs if you can.

Otherwise you will need to get a good script writer to do your profile, a professional photographer for some promotional shots, maybe a stylist or personal trainer to get you "beach ready" and even then your message will still likely be deleted with out being read!.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Don't add people that are 300miles away as it's unlikely you'll ever meet them. In fact there is little need to add anyone unless there is an intent to meet that day

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