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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heres a question for the ladies, do you like seeing pics of a guy playing with another woman on a single male profile or is it a big turn off?

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Does nothing for me but everyone is different x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me either

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, never done anything for me either. Just not my bag - different strokes and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By like i dont mean it turns you on and you get off over it, i'm meaning is it a good thing to have on a single male profile, or could you not give two shits either way?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like it at all. My first thought is does the woman know and agree, my second thought is why on earth does a guy think I want to see him fucking someone else?

But as has been said everyone is different.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Does nothing for me either - and is worse when they're the only kind of picture he has. Even more so when 90% or more of the frame is taken up by the woman with maybe his hand or an inch or two of cock somewhere or other

Just why? ... I have no idea what you look like but that's okay because your photos 'prove' you had sex once or twice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As you can probably all guess this was an advice post, ive made mine private lol

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It's not my thing. Especially, as others have said, when you can hardly see him at all. Plus, some of the ways faces are hidden in some pictures are really creepy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume the lady in question doesn’t know her intimate moment is now public so I steer clear so it doesn’t happen to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It puts me off unless it's a couple.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

As long, as the other person can't be easily identified. It annoys me, when they cover their own face/tattoos but not the other person's.

Also, when the photo mainly shows someone else and only their hand or cock.

Other than that, Im not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very off-putting..don't like the fact that the women probably don't know...makes me question any claims, as there always are, of 'discretion'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like "action shots", especially bareback ones. I always feel uncomfortable as to whether the woman actually knows her bits are being displayed on this site.

Generally not a fan of cock shots in any guise tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off for myself

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If your looking for other single ladies, then a total turn off, as you usually just have the tip of your dick on show and 90% of the female, so it's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the odd one in a varied mix of photos.

If the majority are of conquests then it's a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nothing for me but everyone is different x"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge turn off but each to there own

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"By like i dont mean it turns you on and you get off over it, i'm meaning is it a good thing to have on a single male profile, or could you not give two shits either way?"

But the whole point of the photos are to tantalise and seduce...surely whether it turns us on or not is exactly the point? Otherwise why have the photo?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not for me unless it's a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have often put me off, when they are on single guys profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty conclusive I'd say OP

Hundreds of men will continue to put " i know how to do sex" pics on their profiles though, so it makes sod all difference what anyone here says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And most we’ve see are bareback totally off putting

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Turn off for me tbh and they're normally bare back pics and when you pull them up on it it's always "the ex" funny that the 20 bare back pics are all different women

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

X

I don't like it.

Firstly I think 'does he have permission '

Then I automatically make a comparison which usually draws the conclusion I'm not suitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a turn off for me especially when they are different ladies and no condom in sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's not too explicit or excessive, it's not a turn-off. One of the reasons I'm on the swing scene is because I like seeing people being intimate with others, so to me such photos are a reflection of a lifestyle I've signed up for. And such pictures are a hell of a lot more interesting than pictures of disembodied dicks! Besides I'd be being a hypocrite if I objected, given that there are images of me with not less than 5 different men other than Mr on our profile. (Oh and yes, before we get jumped on, we gained consent of all the gentlemen first and obscured faces, so all rules adhered to )

Mrs

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I don't like either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like it.

Firstly I think 'does he have permission '

Then I automatically make a comparison which usually draws the conclusion I'm not suitable. "

I’m exactly the same, triggers all my insecurities x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If i can see more of women hes playing with,than him its a massive turn off.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a good picture it doesn't bother me.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We like to see what we're getting, not what the profile owner's personal wank bank material.

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