FabSwingers.com forum: lying about your age!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do some people on here clearly lie about their age!! I can understand maybe shaving a couple of years off. But some knock 20 years off and don't think people will notice. Unless they have had a severely hard life and been a chain smoking crack addict alcoholic. I can't see why some 30 year olds can look 50? Has anyone else noticed this a little bit??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twenty years difference, no, ten yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twenty years difference, no, ten yes."

And i noticed immediately.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We are the ages as it says on our profile.

The guys are the worst for it.

There is one on here who has been 42 for years, how??

Time machine??

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By *hotographer 30Man
over a year ago

rochdale

i am 61 but told look well under 50 but do feel 61

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

just playing devils advocate here but some people look way younger than their years. I don't look my age by at least 10yrs and fed up of having to say "no, really I am" and then you get the whole "no way, are you sure". of course I'm sure I am me you know. I take it as a compliment though, well sometimes when it stops peeing me off. So I can see why some people would knock off a few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always getting told i dont look my age - so i like that and will continue to add ten years to my age forever more

( i am really the age i say i am dont see the point of lying)

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

They do it to get round age filters I guess and/or they're vain and can't accept they're getting older (just like everyone else!). It really annoys me when someone messages and it seems highly likely they've lied about that. Even if I found them attractive the silliness of it would still put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the age I claim to be. I'm just not keen to reveal everything about myself to random strangers.

No one has pulled me up on it and no one has run away screaming when we meet. I've got true pics so people can make their own mind up.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I'll lie about mine if you like

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They do it to get round filters and because they genuinely think they can get away with it. I suppose some do.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I know this girl about 8yrs younger than me a drinker but looks 45 and yet I'm 39 was a drinker but still look OK. So hazed a guess I think it really does age you like a caseworker told me.or very bad family genetics. Ask to see there license . I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recently had a guy who's profile stated 27, but in the text bit he admitted he was actually 37 and had made a mistake. Funnily enough he ignored us when we told him how to change the account age, guessing he wanted to get around age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not the age I claim to be. I'm just not keen to reveal everything about myself to random strangers.

No one has pulled me up on it and no one has run away screaming when we meet. I've got true pics so people can make their own mind up. "

my reason it's out for few years. It's amazing how easy it is to find out information on people from profiles if you're that way inclined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not the age I claim to be. I'm just not keen to reveal everything about myself to random strangers.

No one has pulled me up on it and no one has run away screaming when we meet. I've got true pics so people can make their own mind up. "

Have you gone younger or older?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know a few who lie about there age they say its to disguise themselves same with false names. But they’ve not gone as far as 20 years. Just 3 or 4

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It happens the other way round too. We met a guy who claimed to be 30 if he was a day over 20 I'd be surprised.

Altering your age to be discreet is one thing to get round filters is another. I don't think anyone should use their actual date of birth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'm really 49...I know I could put younger because I'm told I don't look nearly 50 but no point..I prefer to be honest x

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The numbers of guys supposedly in their thirties that message me starting with ‘I’m actually only 26 but...’ is starting to seriously annoy me. I understand that you want to get into an age bracket that hits most people’s restrictions but some of us have preferences when it comes to age. Only happened once the other way around.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I put myself down as being a few months older,it was quite a shock seeing myself turn 50 when I wasn't quite there yet. Especially when people started saying how good I looked for 50,I wasn't quite sure what to say apart from thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not the age I claim to be. I'm just not keen to reveal everything about myself to random strangers.

No one has pulled me up on it and no one has run away screaming when we meet. I've got true pics so people can make their own mind up.

Have you gone younger or older?

If you need to ask then it doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not the age I claim to be. I'm just not keen to reveal everything about myself to random strangers.

No one has pulled me up on it and no one has run away screaming when we meet. I've got true pics so people can make their own mind up.

Have you gone younger or older?

If you need to ask then it doesn't matter

Cause I can't see your face...only your arse and ..well... that doesn't look 39.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Strangely I'm actually 37 and not far from 38! I honestly don't know what a 37 year old is suppose to look like! So I don't know if I look younger or older!! But I'm not gonna say oh I'm 27 just because I want some hot 25 year old!! Then look a complete dick when you start talking about how great the 80's and 90's were!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do it to get round filters but most of them just loo like they've had a hard life.

As some one that looks younger than they are (well maybe not on the current pic!) I'm shallow amd would rather take a compliment than get round filters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt the need to lie about my age end of

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Why do some people on here clearly lie about their age!! I can understand maybe shaving a couple of years off. But some knock 20 years off and don't think people will notice. Unless they have had a severely hard life and been a chain smoking crack addict alcoholic. I can't see why some 30 year olds can look 50? Has anyone else noticed this a little bit??"

Guilty !

I do write in my profile my age but I knock a bit off

Soz

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Lying about age is a pet hate of mine! And a lot of men knock at least 5 years off, it does p*ss me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we should have shaved a few years off, missing out on so many possibilities lol.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

My ex has put 39 lol he is really 51 why lie about his age ,I wonder what else he lies about .....

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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We lie about the month exact date but not the year doe to fraud protection but age in years is true

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Heyyyyy what's a decade or two between friends!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"i am 61 but told look well under 50 but do feel 61 "

You have no pics so we can't see how you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They do it to get round filters but most of them just loo like they've had a hard life.

Nope. That's not why I do it

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

I am 67 and unfortunately look it !!!

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By *ayMaxxxMan
over a year ago

Windsor

I have to lie about my age because I'm a time lord and age filters don't go up to 246

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Our ages are correct.

I'm in the last few months of my 30s and clinging on tight. I'm not in any rush to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could do with shaving a few years off our ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I used fab I met a guy who lied about his age. I only found out because I saw him on another site.

I think alot lie to get around age filters as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the age my profile states but get mistaken for older because of the grey hair. I started going grey at the age of 15 so it's been a hard life I guess for me

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We totally opposite in this. We are actually only 23 but we just look as though we're in our mid to late 40's so that's the age we use. Shame really but our hard, crack addicted life has really taken its toll on us

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"And I'm really 49...I know I could put younger because I'm told I don't look nearly 50 but no point..I prefer to be honest x"

I'm exactly the same x

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"We lie about the month exact date but not the year doe to fraud protection but age in years is true "

I do the same on any online community, your exact date of birth is one of the key components required for identity theft. My age in years is correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently met a lady who said she was 46. We met for lunch in a gastro pub in a lovely quaint village. I arrived at the appointed time and waited until the lady arrived. We embraced and headed for the thatched roof hostlery. It was clear from the lady's appearance she was dyslexic.

Still it was a very enjoyable lunch with a pleasant lady who over sticky toffee pudding alluded to the fact she may have been less than forthcoming about her age!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

No point in lying about age as people will catch you out .we have played with people of all ages (legal) ,people who put to much into some ones age actually miss out on a lot of fun and limit themselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im always getting told i dont look my age - so i like that and will continue to add ten years to my age forever more

( i am really the age i say i am dont see the point of lying)"

Agreed. And as I meet a lot in clubs these days people can clearly see that I resemble my pictures and don't look my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed it tends to be 20 something men pretending to be 30+

50-54 aged men dropping down to 46-48.

Mid 40's women using late 30's.

If you're plus / minus to be in a different decade then filters and/ or wanting to appear on popular age ranges come to mind.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I recently met a lady who said she was 46. We met for lunch in a gastro pub in a lovely quaint village. I arrived at the appointed time and waited until the lady arrived. We embraced and headed for the thatched roof hostlery. It was clear from the lady's appearance she was dyslexic.

Still it was a very enjoyable lunch with a pleasant lady who over sticky toffee pudding alluded to the fact she may have been less than forthcoming about her age!"

So how old was she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed it tends to be 20 something men pretending to be 30+

50-54 aged men dropping down to 46-48.

Mid 40's women using late 30's.

If you're plus / minus to be in a different decade then filters and/ or wanting to appear on popular age ranges come to mind.

I think Roxi has hit the nail on the head. Seems to me that 51 precludes men in particular from the majority of those Fab funsters seeking fab fun. I didn't that there were so may 49 year olds in the world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still it was a very enjoyable lunch with a pleasant lady who over sticky toffee pudding alluded to the fact she may have been less than forthcoming about her age!

So how old was she?"

She said in her profile she was 46 but was 64....................she was dyslexic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just playing devils advocate here but some people look way younger than their years. I don't look my age by at least 10yrs and fed up of having to say "no, really I am" and then you get the whole "no way, are you sure". of course I'm sure I am me you know. I take it as a compliment though, well sometimes when it stops peeing me off. So I can see why some people would knock off a few years."

I've always been told that I look & act a lot younger than my age so used to have the same outlook as you.

The older I've got though I've realised it's unrealistic to think I can knock 10 years off my age & anyone who thinks they can is kidding themselves no matter how good the genes are.

Mid 40's upwards & I reckon your looking at a 3/5 year reduction max.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who lie about there age on a big scale generally have insecurity issues and are best avoided, they don't make for good bed fellows

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Having no interest in blokes, I've never thought about or noticed men lying about their ages. That being said, 20yr olds adding to their age to stand a chance of shagging older women, is totally the sort of thing my 20yr old self would have done, if I'd known about swinging sites then

Anyway, I digress! Seeing as I've never met any woman who wasn't pleased as punch if anyone thought she was younger than she actually was, I'd put good money to bet that most women who lie about their ages don't do it to get round filters. There's also that saying about never asking a woman her age.

There are 3 women on this site who were older than me when we first met over the years. Today, I'm now older than they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly get sent dick pics by men in their 50's whose cock pic makes their cock look like it belongs to a 20 year old. Now i'm no expert, but everything wrinkles eventually. Doesn't it?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The ones that make me laugh are profiles who constantly rejoin,have been doing for ages,but are younger than they originally were.

It irritated me on my old single profile,when someone altered their age to get round a filter

If i wasnt interested in them when they were too young/old,I certainly wouldn't be after they tried to trick me.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not the age I claim to be. I'm just not keen to reveal everything about myself to random strangers.

No one has pulled me up on it and no one has run away screaming when we meet. I've got true pics so people can make their own mind up.

my reason it's out for few years. It's amazing how easy it is to find out information on people from profiles if you're that way inclined."

Cos there's only one person in the world that's the same age?

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By *ildflower.xWoman
over a year ago

Grimsby

I'm still 21

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Still it was a very enjoyable lunch with a pleasant lady who over sticky toffee pudding alluded to the fact she may have been less than forthcoming about her age!

So how old was she?

She said in her profile she was 46 but was 64....................she was dyslexic!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not the age we claim to be (only a few yrs mind not 10/20)and as I check it seems I have a toy boy for a husband lol. But we don't look the age we are (And I'm getting really fed up of I.d. checks round Asdas cause it's clear tat i am over the age limit). However when we had our actual age on we got pushy similar aged pple who looked like they've been hit by a bus saying "well y don't u wanna meet ure the same age as Me?". So to avoid the bitchy " yeah but I moisturised" comment back it's easier to just say no I'm younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still it was a very enjoyable lunch with a pleasant lady who over sticky toffee pudding alluded to the fact she may have been less than forthcoming about her age!

So how old was she?

She said in her profile she was 46 but was 64....................she was dyslexic!"

It's dyscalculia if it was confusion with numbers, just saying

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

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Still it was a very enjoyable lunch with a pleasant lady who over sticky toffee pudding alluded to the fact she may have been less than forthcoming about her age!

So how old was she?

She said in her profile she was 46 but was 64....................she was dyslexic!

It's dyscalculia if it was confusion with numbers, just saying "

Ahh is that it, I always tell people I have numerexia as I forgot the real name

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