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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys. I love been on this site but I don't want to put a pic of me as my profile in case somebody local recognises me... am I wrong to be embarrassed? I just don't want them thinking I'm a seedy desperate dude. I'm on here to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have tattoos recognisable? If not so torso shots? Bum shots? Something other then nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you a seedy desperate dude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you feel like a seedy, desperate dude by being on here?

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Do you have tattoos recognisable? If not so torso shots? Bum shots? Something other then nothing? "

^^This

Yeah, easy to put a photo on that no one will recognise. Then keep the face pics for messages really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have tattoos recognisable? If not so torso shots? Bum shots? Something other then nothing? "

Yea iv got loads of tats including on my bum haha.... dick pics are for private messages aswel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel like a seedy, desperate dude by being on here? "

It's almost like I can hear the echo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you feel like a seedy, desperate dude by being on here? "

I don't know hahaha I'm new here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have tattoos recognisable? If not so torso shots? Bum shots? Something other then nothing?

Yea iv got loads of tats including on my bum haha.... dick pics are for private messages aswel lol"

Ahh well good luck then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your question....no.

You shouldn't be ambarrased ever about doing some thing you enjoy! And in any case...say mrs smith from down the road does notice you....2 things.

1) she's on here herself

2) she may be the best meet you never had

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ah, if this place is the seedy, desperate equivalent of a dive bar, count me in! I’ll be the one in the corner, reading my book with a pint of Tetleys..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In answer to your question....no.

You shouldn't be ambarrased ever about doing some thing you enjoy! And in any case...say mrs smith from down the road does notice you....2 things.

1) she's on here herself

2) she may be the best meet you never had "

I like your thinking!! Never thought of it like that haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah, if this place is the seedy, desperate equivalent of a dive bar, count me in! I’ll be the one in the corner, reading my book with a pint of Tetleys.."

I'm the one waiting at the door for opening

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By *heekioneMan
over a year ago

Finedon

It's not seedy or desperate

Put up a face pic and be proud if anyone recognises you so what.. what is the worst that can happen ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I love been on this site but I don't want to put a pic of me as my profile in case somebody local recognises me... am I wrong to be embarrassed? I just don't want them thinking I'm a seedy desperate dude. I'm on here to have fun.

"

Sounds to me you've something to hide which isn't going to draw people in.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I don't know hahaha I'm new here... "

You've been here five months, so your not that new.

As for being embarrassed, well why should you? Ten years ago if two people said they met online then everyone would think they were weird. Today, it's the norm, in fact one third of all new relationships begin online. I don't know how many one night stands begin online, but it's probably a lot more now than it used to be. So what is there to be embarrassed about.

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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

SPOT ONBRAVO

Exactly how we look at it if we are recognised easy done with our pics lol...

To be recognised by some one they have to be on here looking them selves ...so how can that condemn/slate you....

We all on here for the same reason We been on here 7-8 years now and used many sites. WE have played for 29 years (Escort and fiesta mag to start with) all ways happy to show face pics and NEVER had any trouble in all that time ....

Of course some people have sensitive jobs etc so must be more careful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know hahaha I'm new here...

You've been here five months, so your not that new.

As for being embarrassed, well why should you? Ten years ago if two people said they met online then everyone would think they were weird. Today, it's the norm, in fact one third of all new relationships begin online. I don't know how many one night stands begin online, but it's probably a lot more now than it used to be. So what is there to be embarrassed about. "

I have been here in the back ground but never attempted meets or chatting etc... now I'm ready to take the dive I'm finding it hard. I'm gunna try a torso pic and see if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know hahaha I'm new here...

You've been here five months, so your not that new.

As for being embarrassed, well why should you? Ten years ago if two people said they met online then everyone would think they were weird. Today, it's the norm, in fact one third of all new relationships begin online. I don't know how many one night stands begin online, but it's probably a lot more now than it used to be. So what is there to be embarrassed about. "

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I'm gunna try a torso pic and see if that helps "

That's a good idea. Without pics you will find it very hard, nigh on impossible in fact, to get a meet.

An don't forget to use the ther aspects of the site, such as the chatroom.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be embarrassed? Others are on here for pretty much the same reason.. SEX is what we all signed up for initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not seedy or desperate

Put up a face pic and be proud if anyone recognises you so what.. what is the worst that can happen ? "

He could lose his job. His family. His friends. People never forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm seedy, desperate and also a dude but I embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, if this place is the seedy, desperate equivalent of a dive bar, count me in! I’ll be the one in the corner, reading my book with a pint of Tetleys.."

I would be the one watching you,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hey guys. I love been on this site but I don't want to put a pic of me as my profile in case somebody local recognises me... am I wrong to be embarrassed? I just don't want them thinking I'm a seedy desperate dude. I'm on here to have fun.

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Do you think those of us with pictures are seedy and desperate?

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We are seedy and often desperate and we're looking for like-minded people...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

My answer to this is the same as people on TV/cd sites that don't put face photos. For someone to recognise you, they would also have to be on this site so it's not like they can say anything. You can't see anyone's photos unless you are a member of the site

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Hey guys. I love been on this site but I don't want to put a pic of me as my profile in case somebody local recognises me... am I wrong to be embarrassed? I just don't want them thinking I'm a seedy desperate dude. I'm on here to have fun.

"

Don't worry about it. I have v recognisable tatts and if anyone ever questions me I just smile and tell them how satisfied I am! Usually followed by the sarcastic question "been laid recently?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put pics on your profile that aren't recognisable then, one arse looks much like another after a while!

Personally I think those without public photos / shadow avatar are more likely to disappear as quickly as they arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I think I've been recognised (m) and so far the person hasn't said a thing, if people have any decency they won't as they possibly feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I think I've been recognised (m) and so far the person hasn't said a thing, if people have any decency they won't as they possibly feel the same. "

Some people find it very easy to take a moral high ground. But if OP is really single and has nothing to hide then there is no shame. The best outcome - getting regular amazing meets, beats the worst possibilities imho. And even recognizable tattoos are somewhat deniable without face pics

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You won't have much luck with absolutely no pics on op.

You can post body shots and still be discreet.

People are all here for the same thing.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are quite happy to post body shots on here. Due to her profession Ying doesnt like her tattoos in the pics and we will only send face pics via message when we are sure as possible we are chatting to someone genuine. Im less bothered about being recognised, I am who I am and people can think what they want.

OP, you just have to be clever about the angles of your pics so you dont see any give away tats etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I love been on this site but I don't want to put a pic of me as my profile in case somebody local recognises me... am I wrong to be embarrassed? I just don't want them thinking I'm a seedy desperate dude. I'm on here to have fun.

Do you think those of us with pictures are seedy and desperate?"

I certainly hope so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you are who you are, embrace it or hide it, just make sure your happy with what you decide, that's all that counts.

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