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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
Nah not me

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By *arkWeightMan
over a year ago

London

Always try to make sure any female partner enjoys herself, but doubt that there is reliance on me for a climax.... Think it's more about mutual enjoyment

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

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By *rmitageMan
over a year ago

Galway

While I always like to try and help a lady orgasm in anyway I can ultimately its her body and sometimes direction is helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.

Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.

I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.

Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?

May as well just stay at home alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't rely on blokes

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I never rely on anyone for anything. Saves constant dissapointment I have found.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.

Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.

I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.

Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?

May as well just stay at home alone."

So is sex just about orgasm for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.

Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.

I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.

Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?

May as well just stay at home alone.

So is sex just about orgasm for you?"

No, because I rarely orgasm

I like the whole thing, the kissing, the touching, getting the giggles.

But I would feel I hadn’t turned the man on if he didn’t cum which I know is hypocritical because I don’t cum very often.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility? Nah not me

Long time no see!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"

Why would I keep a dog and bark??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
with a meet I dont expect to have one at all.. it's not what I meet for.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's alway's good if a man can make me cum,but it's not particularly his responsiblity. It's not the be all and end all,but nice.

I've only had one relationship where he could make me cum everytime.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"I never rely on anyone for anything. Saves constant dissapointment I have found.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.

Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.

I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.

Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?

May as well just stay at home alone.

So is sex just about orgasm for you?

No, because I rarely orgasm

I like the whole thing, the kissing, the touching, getting the giggles.

But I would feel I hadn’t turned the man on if he didn’t cum which I know is hypocritical because I don’t cum very often."

Hahaha I am exactly the same. Get quite upset and grumpy if a guy doesn't. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't rely on him no, nice if it happens though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't because Mr N is the only man able to so far. I'd sooner do it myself than issue instructions

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ha - I expect my partners to force orgasms out of me until I’m breathless and pleading with them to stop. Don’t expect much, do I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want an orgasm I have a wank. Don't need a man for that.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x"

I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker.

Lol x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x"

Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago

That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago

That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago

And without us you would have nothing to moan about lol x

That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago

And without us you would have nothing to moan about lol x

That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago

And without us you will have nothing to moan about lol x

And without us you would have nothing to moan about lol x

That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Really depends now you reach climax I suppose. I do know some who can only climax via masturbation. I know some who climax frequently and hard, it seems to be quite varying. I don't see that it should be expected or relied upon.

Although, orgasms are awesome to watch unfold

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Best way to NOT orgasm - think about it too much - in my experience

In terms of masturbation v sex - different kinds of orgasms both good but different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker.

Nice answer, but what about if there's a spider or mouse that needs getting rid of???

Better call the RSPCA as I don't see this ending well!

(and yes I forgot to use quote so I've had to do a re-write!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't rely on anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"

I take mine. Every time. But if he beats me to it he's in the Good Books for eternity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.

Wait till you need a jar opening lol x

I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker.

Nice answer, but what about if there's a spider or mouse that needs getting rid of???

Better call the RSPCA as I don't see this ending well!

(and yes I forgot to use quote so I've had to do a re-write!)"

so all women are afraid of spiders or mice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though "

And I do that too, did last night.

I also set the spiders free outside.

Gender is dead, be modern!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"

I get more orgasms alone so I definitely belong to the latter

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By *harlotte SometimesWoman
over a year ago

Leafy Warwickshire

"...to 'make' you cum.

Are you?

Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"

For me it’s absolutely the whole experience. Don’t get off when a guy is just trying to ‘make’ me cum. Much better when you don’t have a set goal and can lose youselves in the passion of it all.

I’m not a fuck and go kind of girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok maybe I'm wired completely differently to every other female on here but to me orgasms are a natural by product of sex. I love experiencing an orgasm that is a result of something my partner has been doing. No, orgasms aren't the be all and end all but for me they are a bloody enjoyable part and they are so much better when mutually achieved. So although I don't rely on someone "giving me an orgasm" I much prefer that they do! To me, if I don't orgasm then that tells me that I was completely wrong in my partner selection and the sexual chemistry just isn't there.

Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

And I do that too, did last night.

I also set the spiders free outside.

Gender is dead, be modern! "

Due to the absence of a man in the house I do all that as well

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Ok maybe I'm wired completely differently to every other female on here but to me orgasms are a natural by product of sex. I love experiencing an orgasm that is a result of something my partner has been doing. No, orgasms aren't the be all and end all but for me they are a bloody enjoyable part and they are so much better when mutually achieved. So although I don't rely on someone "giving me an orgasm" I much prefer that they do! To me, if I don't orgasm then that tells me that I was completely wrong in my partner selection and the sexual chemistry just isn't there.

Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. "

I don't entirely agree. I had an ex who could make me cum everytime we had sex,we still weren't completely compatible in the bedroom though.

Actually let me think about that some more...think I just got bored in the end,it was all predictable. My fault as well I suppose.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

And I do that too, did last night.

I also set the spiders free outside.

Gender is dead, be modern!

Due to the absence of a man in the house I do all that as well

Damn, so you don't need a man for anything?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though

And I do that too, did last night.

I also set the spiders free outside.

Gender is dead, be modern!

Due to the absence of a man in the house I do all that as well

Damn, so you don't need a man for anything?

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Certainly was the case in the past that I had to DIY. Much luckier lady these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to experience an orgasm with the person I'm with.

I don't see it as a responsibility I see it as a mutual experience, the result of being sexually compatible.

If for any reason I don't think it's going to happen then I would take the lead to ensure that it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont rely on one man but always find one or more of them at a meet make me cum. The others seem to try harder after the first guy has done it so i get plenty of orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. "

Couldn't agree more so you are not alone! I find it quite selfish if a man cums but doesn't at least help you, all I need is a finger a tongue and 5 minutes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there

Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there

Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?

I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!

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By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't expect to cum through clit stimulation on a meet but I do love a guy to make me cum through finger fucking and finding my sweet spot. But most of the time the sex is so intense nothing else is needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there

Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?

I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!"

Ground floor or first floor? Just I'll need some ladders... Sounds like I might need to stay over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one makes me come. If I happen to come when he's there, then great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me. A man doesn't make me cum; I cum because of what we are doing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. "

Yup, I agree. I'm not 'responsible' for theirs, nor vice versa, but I expect to have some, and expect them to as well, it's not an issue unless something is seriously wrong thank goodness.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there

Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?

I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!

Ground floor or first floor? Just I'll need some ladders... Sounds like I might need to stay over

Ground floor no ladders needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really

Which half, the left or the right?

Top half smarty knickers

Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down

The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there

Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?

I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!

Ground floor or first floor? Just I'll need some ladders... Sounds like I might need to stay over

Ground floor no ladders needed!"

Still need to stay over...to check the cement has dried okay

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