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By *ocallovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

We get so many women looking at our profile but no one seems to want to chat to us. What are we doing wrong? X

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Perhaps they're all "weird Fat Gandalf motherfuckers pretending to be women"

Which isn't 100% a joke...but could be any number of reasons including not a great deal to go on in your profile about who you both are and what you're looking for and can offer. Having just one pic on display of the lady won't help either - if you're both looking to play then some pics of both of you might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ocallovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

Haha you’re probably right :/ Fat Gandalf mother fuckers have spoilt it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I can understand what you are saying in your profile, but perhaps explaining things a bit less aggressively might help for starters?

“After some experiences of some weird Fat Gandalf mother fuckers prentending to be women they’ll be no talking to us unless you’re displaying a number of verifications and are willing to cam with us”.

Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Par for the course - I probably speak to about 1 in 10 of the people I message for example. This site is overloaded with people, so the hit rate is low.

I speak to about 1 in 20 of the people who look at my profile, it's just the way the numbers stack up on here. Looking at a profile doesn't mean a person is into you. At all.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Haha you’re probably right :/ Fat Gandalf mother fuckers have spoilt it for everyone "

No they have spoilt it for themselves, can't blame them for others lack of success, people need to take a closer look at themselves instead of shifting the blame.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"

Hi, I can understand what you are saying in your profile, but perhaps explaining things a bit less aggressively might help for starters?

“After some experiences of some weird Fat Gandalf mother fuckers prentending to be women they’ll be no talking to us unless you’re displaying a number of verifications and are willing to cam with us”.

Just my thoughts "

Just on that and the status I wouldn't meet OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photo is hot but can be easily deceiving.

You have 13 verifies which is more than most.

Women are in no obligation to talk to anyone and as they are the most sought after group on hear you need to stand out for the right reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also complaining in is manner is something males do.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe include some pics of the male op,.women will want to see both people.

Miss

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By *ocallovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

Being honest the Fat Gandalf thing only went on yesterday. Due to another weird time waster. Don’t get us wrong either we understand people have preferences etc.

Frustration of fake profiles is gettting the better of us so maybe it’s time to come off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe include some pics of the male op,.women will want to see both people.

Miss"

This is a massive problem online - about 8 out of 10 couples profiles only have photos of the female. It's ridiculous.

Me and my girlfriends always have to ask for photos of the men, otherwise how on earth can you consider meeting them!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being honest the Fat Gandalf thing only went on yesterday. Due to another weird time waster. Don’t get us wrong either we understand people have preferences etc.

Frustration of fake profiles is gettting the better of us so maybe it’s time to come off?"

I would remove the Gandalf thing too - it makes you look a bit mean spirited.

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By *ocallovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

Sir-loin - I remember you from camming I think haha hello!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Maybe include some pics of the male op,.women will want to see both people.

Miss

This is a massive problem online - about 8 out of 10 couples profiles only have photos of the female. It's ridiculous.

Me and my girlfriends always have to ask for photos of the men, otherwise how on earth can you consider meeting them!?"

Totally with you on it

Puts me right off as a straight female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sir-loin - I remember you from camming I think haha hello!"

Hello there! I should probably remember those soapy boobs I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We get so many women looking at our profile but no one seems to want to chat to us. What are we doing wrong? X"

OP they probably look at your profile, see nothing that captures their interest so move on to look at someone else.

I would suggest you do a forum search for profile advice. Most people who ask are men but the advice given is relevant to everyone. Pick out the good bits and see what you can do to help yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe include some pics of the male op,.women will want to see both people.

Miss

This is a massive problem online - about 8 out of 10 couples profiles only have photos of the female. It's ridiculous.

Me and my girlfriends always have to ask for photos of the men, otherwise how on earth can you consider meeting them!?

Totally with you on it

Puts me right off as a straight female"

MRS:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing on your profile that would make a single woman even want to make enquiries.

One photo of the female, none of the male, it’s not blind date - she wants to know she’s going to find you both attractive.

Your profile says nothing - what are you hoping for? Are you expecting her to show up at your door and have sex immendiately. Are you wanting social first ? What’s his role in it?

What’s in it for her?

If I met couples (which I don’t) I would pass you on by as boring, nothing to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe include some pics of the male op,.women will want to see both people.

Miss

This is a massive problem online - about 8 out of 10 couples profiles only have photos of the female. It's ridiculous.

Me and my girlfriends always have to ask for photos of the men, otherwise how on earth can you consider meeting them!?

Totally with you on it

Puts me right off as a straight female"

Yes it’s not bloody blind date. Drives me mad.

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