FabSwingers.com forum: Do winks work for women/couples?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?

You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.

Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore winks - I get enough messages to keep me entertained and if someone wants to get my attention they can send me a message. Most men have empty profiles with no details or decent pics so there's not anything to capture my interest anyways if I did look at them when they winked me, A well written message with some nice (not penis) photos attached is the way forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t normally look at winks as most are off picture less profiles or profiles with very little on them. If someone likes our profiles we much prefer a message with a clear face pic if there isn’t one public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought that would be the case for both of you haha. Seems as though women and couples get winks so often from a lot of pictureless profiles. Best way to do it is a good personal message, and I'll keep in mind defo no cock pics haha????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will have a look at a wink, its a harmless way of other people showing an interest and draws our attention to someone we might not have seen.

Most of the time we will either wink back if there is some compatibility, if not just ignore it. Winks from single men who clearly haven't read our prolife will be deleted and the sender blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will have a look at a wink, its a harmless way of other people showing an interest and draws our attention to someone we might not have seen.

Most of the time we will either wink back if there is some compatibility, if not just ignore it. Winks from single men who clearly haven't read our prolife will be deleted and the sender blocked

We do exactly the same as this. So essentially a wink can work, but a well crafted message tailored to the profile you're interested in is always better.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Winks do work for us from time to time. We prefer a message though. It’s a sign of confidence more than anything. If you’re too shy to message, then god only knows what an actual meet may be like. If you don’t ask, you don’t get. We don’t bite, much

Horses for courses etc

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?

You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.

Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?"

Hi cutie!

I’ve got nearly 900 messages at the moment - most of which I won’t get to read - so no way on earth will I ever get round to looking at winks!

You’ve got an attractive face pic as your profile pic anyway (I’d open a message from you if I saw it anyway) so, as long as your opening message isn’t ‘wanna fuck babe?’ You should do pretty well!

Good luck op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that would be the case for both of you haha. Seems as though women and couples get winks so often from a lot of pictureless profiles. Best way to do it is a good personal message, and I'll keep in mind defo no cock pics haha????"

We not bothered about cock pics if the person messaging sends a good message with a clear face pic it’s good enough but at the same time if they send a face pic and a cock pic fair enough. But if it’s like 6 pics of a cock and unclear face pic we tend to not respond. There’s more to a person than his cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha thanks for all the messages it seems as though a wink can work sometimes, but best way to do it is definitely with a crafted message to get your attention!!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

For me I personally ignore all winks and bulk delete. 9 times out of 10 they are from a blank profile with either no pics or just a cock on show.

A well worded message will get you far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at the people who wink us when we can although not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont see the point of winks...i just delete every couple of weeks...for me,it's a decent profile that makes a difference..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I always look at my winks if I like the person who's winked me I wink back x

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never go on my winks page, sorry! Terrible, I know. We get inundated with messages so not going to ever look at my winks.

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

We also ignore winks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t ignore winks.

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

We use the wink system quite often and the fabbed pictures page. We can see if there is some sort of attraction before messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I glace over occasionally and if the pic or user name catches my eye i may have a little look and wink back but obviously I dont look at all of them

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look at who has winked me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't wink anyone. If a profile catches my eye, i'd much rather put some effort into a well crafted message and a couple of facial pics. The odds of success are much better I believe. I receive winks and always look at them. If the profile interests me, then I that case I

back and send a message with pics as well. Very successful that way

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We ignore winks and would never send one because we feel it'd be lazy. Like most females/couples here we get more than enough messages and our profile states we won't respond to winks or friend request so if people ignore that we don't feel the need to do more.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"I don't wink anyone. If a profile catches my eye, i'd much rather put some effort into a well crafted message and a couple of facial pics. The odds of success are much better I believe. I receive winks and always look at them. If the profile interests me, then I that case I

back and send a message with pics as well. Very successful that way

This should be posted in every thread started by a guy who can't understand why nobody seems to be interested in them. It's usually down to a lack of effort in their profile and approach to making contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore winks...don't even look at them

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

We try to check out winks, but action very few, and as a rule the most we'll do in response is wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?

You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.

Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?"

From my experience many years ago as a singleton even messages do not work.

You either get bulk deleted or so far down the list you vanish into the ether.

Not only that you have to craft the most personal and exquisite message it has to be accompanied by some photos resembling the front cover of a fitness magazine.

Then after all that they may read your message and then bottle a return reply based on whether they value their Fabitis and go for it or realise that shit just got real and question whether you are in the same league and then not reply.

I shall now take the tongue out of my cheek.

. Mr L.

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Winks are always appreciated, but we rarely act on them as we get so many but we do try our best to respond to all messages especially those who have clearly read our profile

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By *edjedi72Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

We always check out our winks, always appreciate them...x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?

You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.

Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?"

Some do, some don’t.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I don't even look at them.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Nope, if you don't have the confidence to send a message then you wont be for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at all as with messages if we wink back we're interested

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

We look, and if we like them wink back, then they know if we're interested or not, it's not a bad system.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We quite like winks ,as long as they have read our profile and match what we look for.

We may even wink back if we like their prof.

Miss

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I ignore them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at ours and send one back if we like what we see. We think its a nice easy way of saying we like what we see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get winked by women (that's not a typo unfortunately) but i'm not quite sure what it means or how i should respond as they're often miles away.

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