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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So does being a nice guy stand for anything on this site ? Or is it sixpacks and donkey dicks that count ?? Please discuss .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have you got both? you have done ok in 2 months? what do you think?

This site has someone for everyone..... is my opinion. It may take time to find them, but they are there... just look, be nice, don't lie and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a well developed sense of humour than a six pack. Donkey dicks hurt and are usually attached to guys who think that they need do nothing more than turn up attached to said dick, so yes. Nice guys are always welcome. xx

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

Guys don't entice me.

Nearly all guys think they have inflated egos.

Six packs you can leave at home, but you can leave the beer belly there too

The few nice guys I've met at all in the last year (grossly under numbering the above list) are very rare to find, which might explain why none of them have been in London.

I have no idea what a donkey dick is, but Zooaphillia isn't my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does being a nice guy stand for anything on this site ? Or is it sixpacks and donkey dicks that count ?? Please discuss . "

An honest opinion. Reading your profile, some might say you're not nice if you're married and playing away. Others might think you would overstay your welcome, especially if they just want a couple of hours of fun.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

To the OP, don't forget the dudes with the sexy arses.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Slaps the sexy arse... then kisses it better. It sure works for me

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I would say that it takes a little time but being a nice guy pays off in the end. Works for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP, don't forget the dudes with the sexy arses."

or eyes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol ok cute buns too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So does being a nice guy stand for anything on this site ? Or is it sixpacks and donkey dicks that count ?? Please discuss .

An honest opinion. Reading your profile, some might say you're not nice if you're married and playing away. Others might think you would overstay your welcome, especially if they just want a couple of hours of fun."

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"To the OP, don't forget the dudes with the sexy arses.

or eyes!"

lulz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice guys cum last...

No, thats not it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of people are on here playing away for many different reasons mine are very personal , this doesn't make me a bad guy but still doesn't stop people judging me.

What I do do is tell people from the start unlike most .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks come first for me

If i like the look of someonen i will then talk and get to know them a little

If we get on i will then meet

I never ask cock size to be honest its not something i would ever base a meet on

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Lots of people are on here playing away for many different reasons mine are very personal , this doesn't make me a bad guy but still doesn't stop people judging me.

What I do do is tell people from the start unlike most ."

it MAY make you a bad guy in the eyes of some.... and where you have a choice in coming here, others have the choice to decide not to meet you.. if that is one of them then so be it....

if not "having a six pack" or "having a donkey dick" are the best reasons that you can come up with then with the greatest respect you are being nieve....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people are on here playing away for many different reasons mine are very personal , this doesn't make me a bad guy but still doesn't stop people judging me.

What I do do is tell people from the start unlike most ."

No judging here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As it happens I'm very happy on here it was just an ask all question lol.

All seems to get very personal very quick lol as it looks to me nice guys don't finish last on here which is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bloody hell its happened again, is there ever a time that people just answer a question in an original post, instead of going through the sodding profile to pull it apart and then use it to make snipey comments.

I think nice guys are overall more successful. If a guy takes time to have a fun and friendly chat with the people he is interested in, makes the effort to come onto forums and have fun and banter and some serious discussions and attend socials then they are maximising their success rate.

Of course we all do things at the rate we want to, and we express ourselves in the way we want to, so it really is up to you.

Being nice doesnt mean a guaranteed meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an intetesting one, in my experience nice guys finish last, it seems most women like a bad boy but then again thats just my opinion which counts for sod all lol

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

But Iconic, isn't a nice guy one who is honest and truthful and loyal and faithful?

How can a guy that is cheating on his wife, whilst she has a differing belief about his doings, be a NICE guy?

How could you believe this guy that comes to you and says sweet things is in fact telling the truth any more than he tells the truth to his wife?

Omitting is as dishonest as telling a lie! And I'd be telling my partner everything ... unless she told me not to (and she did once for a few years ... and it was really boring too.)

Of course if the wife knows and is supportive, then who cares what he does!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Do you mean a nice guy, or a Nice Guy? The former I have no problem with, but the latter can be a nightmare.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Its an intetesting one, in my experience nice guys finish last, it seems most women like a bad boy but then again thats just my opinion which counts for sod all lol"

see i wouldn't say that all.... I would say one of my biggest flaws is that i am "way too nice for my own good" but in the end i think people see that...

if being nice means not being assertive enough then that is slightly different, I have learnt to be more forward...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if being nice means not being assertive enough then that is slightly different, I have learnt to be more forward... "

From our experience as a couple, this pretty much nails it. It's a question of balance, and knowing when to be 'nice' and when to push it that little bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But Iconic, isn't a nice guy one who is honest and truthful and loyal and faithful?

How can a guy that is cheating on his wife, whilst she has a differing belief about his doings, be a NICE guy?

How could you believe this guy that comes to you and says sweet things is in fact telling the truth any more than he tells the truth to his wife?

Omitting is as dishonest as telling a lie! And I'd be telling my partner everything ... unless she told me not to (and she did once for a few years ... and it was really boring too.)

Of course if the wife knows and is supportive, then who cares what he does!

"

i have to admit i agree with you

Always makes me laugh when you read profiles that say on one had how they are honest and genuine people who dont lie and mess people about then later on say discretion is a must as they are married and intend staying that way

sorry but you cant have it both ways either you are honest or your not

you'd be better off putting.....

married guys just after a fuck but dont tell the mrs cause i intend on having my cake and eating it for a few years longer

at least that would be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if being nice means not being assertive enough then that is slightly different, I have learnt to be more forward...

From our experience as a couple, this pretty much nails it. It's a question of balance, and knowing when to be 'nice' and when to push it that little bit more. "

I agree 100% i just dont feel comfortable being thar assertive the way i see it i try my best to be nice if u dont want that then thats ok i wont change for anyone or anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice guys finish last as the saying goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nice guys finish last as the saying goes "

i'll have all the nice guys then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nice guys finish last as the saying goes

i'll have all the nice guys then "

Its a deal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don't, makes me uncomfortable, nice toned body and vwe given my age And I prefer personality

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"nice guys finish last as the saying goes

i'll have all the nice guys then "

Hey nice guys ... it's not about where you finish, it's about taking part in the race and that feeling of elation when you hit the finishing line!

In my experiences, being nice counts! As for donkey dicks and six packs, you'll have to ask somebody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But Iconic, isn't a nice guy one who is honest and truthful and loyal and faithful?

How can a guy that is cheating on his wife, whilst she has a differing belief about his doings, be a NICE guy?

How could you believe this guy that comes to you and says sweet things is in fact telling the truth any more than he tells the truth to his wife?

Omitting is as dishonest as telling a lie! And I'd be telling my partner everything ... unless she told me not to (and she did once for a few years ... and it was really boring too.)

Of course if the wife knows and is supportive, then who cares what he does!

"

You might be completely right, I don't know. I took the OP's post at face value to mean that his messages are nice and polite when he sends them.

I wouldn't have known anything about his personal circumstances as I don't look and dissect peoples profiles before answering on a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nice guys finish last as the saying goes

i'll have all the nice guys then

Hey nice guys ... it's not about where you finish, it's about taking part in the race and that feeling of elation when you hit the finishing line!

"

you speak for yourself i dont want to be doing the marathon with someone who passes the finish line just as i approaching cutty sark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am too nice for my own good at times. people take niceness for weakness

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"nice guys finish last as the saying goes

i'll have all the nice guys then

Hey nice guys ... it's not about where you finish, it's about taking part in the race and that feeling of elation when you hit the finishing line!

you speak for yourself i dont want to be doing the marathon with someone who passes the finish line just as i approaching cutty sark "

I always make sure the lady I'm participating with finishes first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am too nice for my own good at times. people take niceness for weakness "

Nothing wrong with being nice, you shouldn't change yourself to fit others expectations - let them take you for who your are.

If they perceive being nice or kind as a weakness, they're probably not nice themselves and maybe you would be better with someone who does appreciate you for who you are.

Well that's my two penneth anyway!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Can someone do me a favour and find one of my many previous rants on this subject

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Lots of people are on here playing away for many different reasons mine are very personal , this doesn't make me a bad guy but still doesn't stop people judging me.

What I do do is tell people from the start unlike most ."

It does make u a bad guy in our book,and we dont care if that is judgemental...

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