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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

group sex/party scenario...pushy males and even pushier females muscleing in to dominate a postion or situation...do you;

A: tell em to calm down

B: tell em to fuck off

C: drop out of situation and watch

D: Be more competitive/dominant than they are

E: ask them politely to join the queue...lol

any advice most well on group sex ettiquette??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut the door with them on the outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a party once, Kate was entertaining 5 guys. I went to join in and a guy told me to wait my turn

"It's my fookin' missus" I told him, lol,

He fooked off rather quickly

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Fart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh i thought this more a race kind of sex...

two cpls and then its ....on ya marks, get set... goooooooo

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I personally would drop out of the situation i'm not in any way dominant so would just feel it easier to remove myself. However if they wanted to be dom with me that would be a differnt matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha i thought it was more who can be the best rather than im a cock let me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

Some one once tried to dominate my gorgeous man and master

It wasn't pretty

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay


"At a party once, Kate was entertaining 5 guys. I went to join in and a guy told me to wait my turn

"It's my fookin' missus" I told him, lol,

He fooked off rather quickly "

Had that happen with me and my (now)ex ... and on one occasion she was told to wait her turn till she said 'that's my girl'

haha

I can't say I've seen girls fighting for position at clubs or parties. I've seen many trying to escape!

Guys tend to be like phirana, they see someone being fucked and start crowding round with willies hanging out an unzipped pair of jeans they have been wearing for the last 3 weeks, wiggling it around like it's got a life of it's own ... and when the 'entertainment' stops, the next guy is trying to ram his nob in before the girl gets a chance to sit up and breath ... I've seen a few accidents and to be honest guys can be down right rude thinking every girl in a venue is there for their pleasure ...

I rarely see any male come up behind a girl and caress her shoulders or leg ... even whilst she's being fucked by another guy.

At a venue (to be nameless) a girl I knew who was a 'regular' every time I was there would hold my hand and look into my eyes whilst guys rammed her. I'd caress her leg, arm, breast and neck. Never noticed anyone else do this ...

Kinda says a lot about the guys huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys tend to be like phirana, they see someone being fucked and start crowding round with willies hanging out an unzipped pair of jeans they have been wearing for the last 3 weeks, wiggling it around like it's got a life of it's own ... "

Very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys tend to be like phirana (sic)...

Kinda says a lot about the guys huh?

"

Ladies and gentlemen, your sweeping generalisation has arrived. Please form an orderly queue.

Maybe you need to find a new venue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm from Liverpool, I'm going for A, about 7 times in one sentence!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Guys tend to be like phirana, they see someone being fucked and start crowding round with willies hanging out an unzipped pair of jeans they have been wearing for the last 3 weeks, wiggling it around like it's got a life of it's own ...

Very good "

we call then "silent assasins" in our local club although in other clubs i heard them being known as "zombies"

but i know exactly what you mean... i was playing with a lovely couple in a club and one minute it was just us... next minute 6 guys all with there cocks out wanking inches from me...

for me thats intimidating....

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay


"Guys tend to be like phirana (sic)...

Kinda says a lot about the guys huh?

Ladies and gentlemen, your sweeping generalisation has arrived. Please form an orderly queue.

Maybe you need to find a new venue?"

I've been to quite a few venues! The only ones I'm haven't been to I'm reluctant to waste my time and money on anyway!

But if someone wants to take me to a venue I haven't been to some time ... I'm more than happy to be your date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I'm from Liverpool, I'm going for A, about 7 times in one sentence!!! "

Took me a while, but I finally got it (slow today!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys tend to be like phirana, they see someone being fucked and start crowding round with willies hanging out an unzipped pair of jeans they have been wearing for the last 3 weeks, wiggling it around like it's got a life of it's own ...

Very good "

Thats not fair its a generalisation and an inacurate one at that not all guys are pushy ignorant pricks and the fact uve labelled us as such is probably why so many guys struggle to meet! Its comments like that that fuel the steriotype and piss people off!

Not lookin for an argument, just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys tend to be like phirana (sic)...

Kinda says a lot about the guys huh?

Ladies and gentlemen, your sweeping generalisation has arrived. Please form an orderly queue.

Maybe you need to find a new venue?

I've been to quite a few venues! The only ones I'm haven't been to I'm reluctant to waste my time and money on anyway!

But if someone wants to take me to a venue I haven't been to some time ... I'm more than happy to be your date

"

Fair enough.

But my two cents: at most of the parties and clubs I've been to, the guys are more than happy to do plenty of intimate touching. Some even keep 'it' in their pants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"group sex/party scenario...pushy males and even pushier females muscleing in to dominate a postion or situation...do you;

A: tell em to calm down

B: tell em to fuck off

C: drop out of situation and watch

D: Be more competitive/dominant than they are

E: ask them politely to join the queue...lol

any advice most well on group sex ettiquette??"

I never do group things with other women... but actually find it very frustrating that the men dont get competitive lol

I never ever tell them calm down... only ask is that the best they have.. lol

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I'm from Liverpool, I'm going for A, about 7 times in one sentence!!! "

Calm down, calm down

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I guess it's all down to what you want. For us we soon realised that couple nights were our favourite. But I would never say that having a group of men surrounding you does not do it for every girl.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"group sex/party scenario...pushy males and even pushier females muscleing in to dominate a postion or situation...do you;

A: tell em to calm down

B: tell em to fuck off

C: drop out of situation and watch

D: Be more competitive/dominant than they are

E: ask them politely to join the queue...lol

any advice most well on group sex ettiquette??"

Dont understand the question

Have you ever had group sex,it is about mutual pleasure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Dont understand the question

Have you ever had group sex,it is about mutual pleasure..."

I think they mean when people push in.. or try to move the woman over.. etc..

or that was my understanding of it..

Which really doesnt happen that much no matter how hard I try to incite pack mentality..but I keep trying..

cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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Dont understand the question

Have you ever had group sex,it is about mutual pleasure...

I think they mean when people push in.. or try to move the woman over.. etc..

or that was my understanding of it..

Which really doesnt happen that much no matter how hard I try to incite pack mentality..but I keep trying..

cali"

i remember one fab GG night surrounded by men,the circle was 2 deep,so there were over 10 at least i was giving BJS to.i saw no problem,they didnt act annoyed other men were waiting,or elbow each other out of the way, maybe Geordies are just polite

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

How about Answer F - "Discreetly tell the organiser about who is causing friction, so that the matter can be dealt with and maybe those who upset others don't get invited again"?

It may or may not sort the immediate problem out, but may be the best thing in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about Answer F - "Discreetly tell the organiser about who is causing friction, so that the matter can be dealt with and maybe those who upset others don't get invited again"?

It may or may not sort the immediate problem out, but may be the best thing in the long run."

But you see I think its a normal thing that is being pushed out... I expect it all to get a little uncivilised .... Men pulling me so that they can play too... I have had that a little but It's always all can I.. or excuse me... And that spoils it for me.

Cali

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