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By *eonard1976 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Hello all, we are a couple, bi guy straight girl.

We only ever had one meet from here, with a man we chatted to for a couple of days. Said on his profile he was bisexual, all the chat indicated that he was...so we went for it.

But upon meeting, it was made very clear that he was straight, not into men at all!

It appears to us that many men on here tell bi couples they are bi too -- just to get to the woman.

From a different angle, I've had at least 70 messages in the last week from men who say they're 'Straight' on their profile..I've msged back saying "sorry only looking for bi guys"...their replies have been 'yes I'm bi' or 'I'm bi just don't put it on profile'.

I had one this morning...said he was straight on his profile. i messaged back the usual "sorry only after bi guys"......his reply?

"I am bisexual I just put on my profile that I'm straight to get more women"

I think we are gonna give up on this site - too much dishonesty!!

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By *ackardMan
over a year ago

North West & beyond

It's a double edged sword. You'll get straight guys saying they are bi (as you said) in the hope that they can "wing it" and just play with the female. And you'll get bi guys who say they are straight because many straight couples won't meet bi men.

I agree it's dishonest but I bet it goes on on all the swinging sites.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's an ongoing thing that's been discussed many times OP and sadly both scenarios you mention are pretty common - there are however plenty of genuine bi guys out there (as well as people looking for them).

One answer would be to block single guys from contacting you and search them out for yourselves (you can specify "bi" in the search criteria

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

OP best way if your looking for BI guys is to search for them using the BI sexual box and then look at there verification's. A good BI guy will stand out from the straight pretending guys a mile off. A few good male meets amongst the couples,TVs and women verifications is a good sign your both of you are going to have fun. Shame you dont want to meet BI couples. lol. Also going to clubs on a BI night would also be good way to cut out all the messing about too. Good luck.

D&K

x

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

Why not look at their verifications and Friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, we are a couple, bi guy straight girl.

We only ever had one meet from here, with a man we chatted to for a couple of days. Said on his profile he was bisexual, all the chat indicated that he was...so we went for it.

But upon meeting, it was made very clear that he was straight, not into men at all!

It appears to us that many men on here tell bi couples they are bi too -- just to get to the woman.

From a different angle, I've had at least 70 messages in the last week from men who say they're 'Straight' on their profile..I've msged back saying "sorry only looking for bi guys"...their replies have been 'yes I'm bi' or 'I'm bi just don't put it on profile'.

I had one this morning...said he was straight on his profile. i messaged back the usual "sorry only after bi guys"......his reply?

"I am bisexual I just put on my profile that I'm straight to get more women"

I think we are gonna give up on this site - too much dishonesty!!"

Could have been his polite way of saying he didn’t find you attractive in person?

I’ve done it before. I find it’s less offensive than saying “actually i don’t like you as much as your partner”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are out there!

I am happily bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi here and happy to having it displayed on my profile too.

If people don't like it then they don't contact me... if they do like it then we are all happy

First rule of meeting a bi guy... get him to suck (or fuck) Mr before female joins in... shows how genuine they are that way

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By *eonard1976 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Thanks everyone for the responses.

Sure enough in the last hour, six messages from 'straight' guys saying they're really 'bi' but don't put it on their profile...one of them saying "all my workmates are on here and I don't want them to know" (Heard it before, dozens of times).

Nice to know the whole company workforce are on the FS books!!

It's not as easy as just looking at a guy's verifications..those who say they're 'straight' on their profile will almost always only have veris from women/couples.

I guess I will have to be more choosy in future...tweak our search preferences...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I am specific on my profile. I am not interested in meeting a couple with a bi guy unlress they are prepared to play straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for the responses.

Sure enough in the last hour, six messages from 'straight' guys saying they're really 'bi' but don't put it on their profile...one of them saying "all my workmates are on here and I don't want them to know" (Heard it before, dozens of times).

Nice to know the whole company workforce are on the FS books!!

It's not as easy as just looking at a guy's verifications..those who say they're 'straight' on their profile will almost always only have veris from women/couples.

I guess I will have to be more choosy in future...tweak our search preferences...

"

Just tell them that the men will be playing first while she watches and she might not even join in. That scares off the real straight men.

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We have this exact same problem aswell it's so fustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy and proud to display bi on my profile and as a rule when chatting to couples I tell them that I'd be only to happy to pleasure Mr first as long as everyone enjoys what is happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I am straight,but happy for some MM interaction ( him wanking/sucking me ) but will not go further than wanking him as part of a MMF.No profile category for that !

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Openly Bi on here with pics and veris to prove it.... we are out here OP, you just have to be thorough with your researching.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Bi here and happy to having it displayed on my profile too.

If people don't like it then they don't contact me... if they do like it then we are all happy

First rule of meeting a bi guy... get him to suck (or fuck) Mr before female joins in... shows how genuine they are that way "

I’m 100% straight but this guy has nailed it. Get the guys to play first, sure fire way of spotting a fake

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I would say I am straight,but happy for some MM interaction ( him wanking/sucking me ) but will not go further than wanking him as part of a MMF.No profile category for that !"

Yes there is a profile category. For the purposes of Fab you are bi

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By *carlett and winstonCouple
over a year ago

Bath

We get the same sort of thing all the time we just delete and block them. I find it absolutely tragic how desprate some people out there are. Its a shame there are so many single desprate men on hear as it makes us very cautious in chatting the genuine ones.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We get the same sort of thing all the time we just delete and block them. I find it absolutely tragic how desprate some people out there are. Its a shame there are so many single desprate men on hear as it makes us very cautious in chatting the genuine ones. "

I(T) am amazed that anyone, especially swingers, are amazed that us men will lie, cheat, steal, lose everything, or anything else you can think of to get our cocks in an appropriate hole. It's what we do do. We are hauled through life by our cocks, fact, end of.

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"We get the same sort of thing all the time we just delete and block them. I find it absolutely tragic how desprate some people out there are. Its a shame there are so many single desprate men on hear as it makes us very cautious in chatting the genuine ones.

I(T) am amazed that anyone, especially swingers, are amazed that us men will lie, cheat, steal, lose everything, or anything else you can think of to get our cocks in an appropriate hole. It's what we do do. We are hauled through life by our cocks, fact, end of."

Love this for honesty! Too true men are pricks because they have one. There are lots of beautiful pricks but pricks they still are!

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