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*sigh* Ah well.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

*shakes head in despair*

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

I hope you’ve now blocked him/her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get abuse. What's wrong with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you say NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know "

How very dare you

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Ironically the opposite of the ignorance thread.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Ironically the opposite of the ignorance thread. "

The opposite of every single ingnorant thread I’ve ever read. He didn’t like that I told him that either!

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I hope you’ve now blocked him/her"

Of course, thankfully, he blocked me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know "

Oh dear. I sympathise as I’ve had this many times too. That block button is a great feature

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know

Oh dear. I sympathise as I’ve had this many times too. That block button is a great feature "

He was mad because I replied to him and told me I should have just deleted his message without replying.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know "

I get this all the time !

Makes me so angry that I go out of my way to say sorry not my type

To then get a tirade of disgusting abuse

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know

Oh dear. I sympathise as I’ve had this many times too. That block button is a great feature

He was mad because I replied to him and told me I should have just deleted his message without replying."

We can’t win !

Get abused for that too

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I don't get the abuse shame really I do like to shoot things like that down

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"How dare you say NO "

How dare she reply

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get the abuse shame really I do like to shoot things like that down "

It’s great fun and I probably do it far more than I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indifferent to a reply saying "no thanks".

Though I don't know why someone would bother doing so. You can simply delete the message and they'll get the drift.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I'm indifferent to a reply saying "no thanks".

Though I don't know why someone would bother doing so. You can simply delete the message and they'll get the drift. "

Have you actually read the threads where we are all called ignorant, up ourselves and rude for doing just that?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!"

You can please some of the people all of the time.

You can please all of the people some of the time.

You cannot please all of the people all of the time.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

You can please some of the people all of the time.

You can please all of the people some of the time.

You cannot please all of the people all of the time."

Ain’t that the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you listen to the opinions of a vindictive, spiteful child?

I wouldn't. Delete and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know "

aye well fuck you topsy..I only asked for anal on our first date....

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

It took a while, but today was the first random lone abusive message I have received since joining.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Why would you listen to the opinions of a vindictive, spiteful child?

I wouldn't. Delete and move on. "

I was simply pointing out the irony of it, I’m quite used to what happens here and I have a healthy block list. He didn’t like the fact I replied with a no thanks and said I should have ignored him and not replied.

Not fucked if you do, not fucked if you don’t.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know

aye well fuck you topsy..I only asked for anal on our first date...."

I ignored you beautifully, didn’t I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get abuse. What's wrong with me "

You're obviously not trying hard enough

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I usually ignore but last week I had a spare 10 minutes so I decided to answer a few some had messaged three times so I sent a polite thank you but no thank you I got one back to say thank you for your reply another said I had changed my mind anyway you are awful another Said your loss ugly whore so I am now going back 2 deleting and blocking all unsuitable matches

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By *lue9753Man
over a year ago

Oldham

Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm indifferent to a reply saying "no thanks".

Though I don't know why someone would bother doing so. You can simply delete the message and they'll get the drift.

Have you actually read the threads where we are all called ignorant, up ourselves and rude for doing just that?"

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Wait until they forget, unblock you and try again.

All after having a rant and abusing you.

Agree with the "ah well" sentiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss "

But it did cost her...it cost her time, effort and being exposed to unwarranted abuse...

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss "

Its your way? Jeez.

Nobody has to reply. Nobody. Once you have sent your message it no longer belongs to you, nor do you have control over what happens to it.

Most of us agree that if someone has read our profiles and constructed a nice message, we reply. The rest get ignored, which is everybodys prerogative.

That twat gave me abuse because he thinks I should have ignored him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss "

I hate that expression 'manners cost nothing'. Why don't single guys understand that manners cost time at the very least? Even the queen doesn't personally reply to all her mail - she has to hire a team to do that for her.

Mrs

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Being an adult site for adults, you’d expect people to handle rejection. Sadly this just proves some people are masquerading as adults. Sounds like you had a lucky escape.

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't abuse someone for saying 'thanks, but no thanks', but I too would prefer a delete than a reply if I'm not their type. Have no desire for an in box full of rejection letters. So seeing as different people prefer different responses, what is actually rude? What gives people the right to decide what the correct etiquette everybody is different?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of jobs I've applied for in the past state that if the applicants hear nothing within 2 weeks then the applicant has not been shortlisted for an interview. Were they rude not to waste valuable resources on sending formal rejection letters to hundreds of applicants?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.

Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!

I love Fab, you just never know

aye well fuck you topsy..I only asked for anal on our first date....

I ignored you beautifully, didn’t I."

Aye but dont deny ya fingered yer pie

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