FabSwingers.com forum: Whose usually in control of a couples profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With ours M takes the lead. She does seem to relish the chase which I'm glad of as I've done my fair share in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same I (fem) lead the profile though it's been written by us both

I too enjoy the chase....

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

Both of us. Although Mr tends to reply to messages as he's able to jump on more often than me x

We always wait until we've both checked out a profile before sending pics/adding friends etc x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

It’s a joint effort from us with equal input on the profile, photos and messages. But the messages we receive always assume it’s just me in control. We won’t add a friend or share face pics etc. until we’ve both caught up with the chat and decided we’re both interested. Mrs x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We both run it. Mr manages the photos, we both wrote it and frequently rewrite it and we respond to messages jointly.

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I (f) wrote it, and I add photos, but we both deal with messages, winks, and status updates equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With ours it's usually Miss.Red, I'm too lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are the same I (fem) lead the profile though it's been written by us both

I too enjoy the chase....

We all like the Chace but I'm not as quick as I used to be

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"We both run it. Mr manages the photos, we both wrote it and frequently rewrite it and we respond to messages jointly."

Who does the blocking ?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It seems to be the women on the forums and men private message. I do wish couples would make it clear when they message who it is that is actually sending the messages because I always find myself having to ask

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

With us it's usually the male as we find it difficult to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both use it equally... replying to msgs and chatting we decide together who we like the look of, and who's going in the bin... we keep nothing hidden from each other,

Tho we do find guys just presume it's M ( the female ) they are msging, and some are dam right just blatantly disrespectful..

But if they want to be that way il.have fun reeling them in and dissing them with a few harsh yet well chosen words...then it's block block block...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lead our couples profile, although the guys who contact us still seem to think it’s the Mrs they’re chatting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We run our profile together, Fuzz answers msgs from ladies and couples and I single men, we find that works well to keep on top of our inbox

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both run it. I dont like the chase so will often leave Mr to do the chatting. Plus I'm really bad at how I come across in messages. Far to blunt.

It's normally me on the forum though.

Cali

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

With us it's Mr who takes care of all things fab. Mrs has no part of it (her choice) but she will look at a profile if a meet seems likely. She will then read all messages from the profile involved and either say yay or nay.

On the other hand, it doesn't even get that far if I am not interested. It also protects her from the idiots. This system works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% of the time its me Ali who runs it, if you get a xx at the end of a message its me online

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

My husband looks after the pictures

We both do the profile,

I answer all the messages

Hubby is always nearby if I get a couple of idiots.

Have a fun week fellow fabbers

it’s my birthday this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience with a cpl is looking for a mmf it’s the fem that’s chats the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both on and off here quite frequently but it's mostly Mrs filth that does the messaging but that's mostly because it's single guys that contact us and I'm not the one who's gonna decide who is going to stick their dick in her that's her choice.

We do however make it clear which one of us is messaging which is something we find a lot of couples don't do and usually means it's just the guy that's chatting and if that's the case the chance of us meeting them is greatly reduced.

We also get lots of messages that are aimed directly at Mrs filth which are usually along the lines of "your body is perfect I would love to fuck you hard blah blah blah" to which it's me that usually responds with a "thank you I rarely get a compliment like that I've got an hour or so before the wife gets home do you fancy a quick meet alone?" But I never get a reply back

lol.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Joint effort although I responds to messages with Mrs T chipping in with her view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to be the women on the forums and men private message. I do wish couples would make it clear when they message who it is that is actually sending the messages because I always find myself having to askI the female always put an x at end of my messages male dosnt x"
ps I do usually say female replying but with my bad memory sometimes i forget but we both msg ppl we have single guys blocked because they dont seem to treat a couple profile like there's a male and female its all female directed x hope that makes sense x female replying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it's easy this one 99.9% men are to blame.

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"It’s a joint effort from us with equal input on the profile, photos and messages. But the messages we receive always assume it’s just me in control. We won’t add a friend or share face pics etc. until we’ve both caught up with the chat and decided we’re both interested. Mrs x "
This is pretty much the same as us except on the odd occasion that L decides to surprise S. But usually joint decision especially when looking at cpls or single fems x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have my attitude... reel them in ...and flip them out with a few well chosen words...thanks for the compliment il make sure mandz knows you like me so much...she will be thrilled...

Had one at weekend saying he would get a taxi to me.. was tempted to say sure here's my address and sending miles in the wrong direction... hahaha... didn't tho but the thought was there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples I speak to on here, it usually feels like I’m talking to a male but he’s pretending to be a female/couple. Even on verified profiles sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With us it's Mr who takes care of all things fab. Mrs has no part of it (her choice) but she will look at a profile if a meet seems likely. She will then read all messages from the profile involved and either say yay or nay.

On the other hand, it doesn't even get that far if I am not interested. It also protects her from the idiots. This system works for us. "

Basically same for us

It's both of us posting in forum

Once in a blue moon mrs cornershop will send a message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I control everything

Mistress Amanda x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer nearly all the messages and arrange meets but hubby uploads the photos and wrote the profile.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Me the male only, L only joins in if there are someone of interest.

Think she still might have her own account.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

I (Risky M) run the profile.

It was writen with Frisky but day to day, I do it all.

Frisky got fed up with guy asking for a fuck, the moment they realised it was Frisky replying...

We mainly use Fab to keep in touch with people we have met at clubs.

She had a singles account but deleted it after someone pissed her off.

She has started a new one but hasn't had the time to really do much with it and as usual is full of messages from guys that aren't what she is looking for...

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