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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

Hi all,

We are now becoming interested in couples. I say we.. i really mean I... However it would be great if couples had photos of both parties! A lot of couples seem to only have pics of the woman. Whilst I am not adverse to a beautiful woman (female half here), if we are looking for a full swap we would want to ensure that one of us is not 'taking one for the team' so to speak.

We are a couple and we have pics of both of us both available to view. Whilst all the beautiful ladies are hot, we need to see your other half too!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pffft

Amateurs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't meet the people who don't show the guy. It really is that simple. I'm not being rude or patronising but if a profile doesn't show what you want it means the people behind it aren't what you're looking for.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We mentioned this a little while back because we look at the pics of the female and mrs says yes she looks hot but what do I get and I have no answer for that, there should be a good selection of both couples really then less chance of any surprises lol

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half."

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"We mentioned this a little while back because we look at the pics of the female and mrs says yes she looks hot but what do I get and I have no answer for that, there should be a good selection of both couples really then less chance of any surprises lol "

exactly

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Don't meet the people who don't show the guy. It really is that simple. I'm not being rude or patronising but if a profile doesn't show what you want it means the people behind it aren't what you're looking for."

Agreed. Just wondering what the general opinion was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority"

You're fab-straight though yes

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about."

Really? Are there not enough photos of us together or him? Genuinely interested on your thoughts on this because if that's the case I need to fix it!! And step down from my soap box

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority"

I completely agree! I just assume there’s a reason why we can’t see him and lose interest instantly. It might be annoying for my Husband if he finds the woman attractive or intriguing but hey ho, he’d never consider a couple with male only photos so why should I go for one with female only?

The real reason it’s usually female only pics is because it’s a single man pretending to be a couple anyway so no great loss.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. He vaguely appears in a couple of your photos. If you look at the ratio of pictures of you compared to what is shown of him.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Don't meet the people who don't show the guy. It really is that simple. I'm not being rude or patronising but if a profile doesn't show what you want it means the people behind it aren't what you're looking for."

Very good advice.

However as the male half of a couple, can I also say that sometimes there is a good reason behind why public face pics aren't shown. In which case your suspicions should be raised the moment you ask for a face pic and they says no, or won't go on cam.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x"

Your man is visible in maybe 6 out of 20 public pictures and in most it is only a hand that is clearly visible. He is only clear in 2 pictures. From what I can tell from what you do show of him he looks hot. Why aren't you showing him off more?

It does come across as a little hypocritical to complain about other couples not displaying pictures of the male half when you don't have many in which he is clearly visible compared to how many female pics you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

Really? Are there not enough photos of us together or him? Genuinely interested on your thoughts on this because if that's the case I need to fix it!! And step down from my soap box "

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority

I completely agree! I just assume there’s a reason why we can’t see him and lose interest instantly. It might be annoying for my Husband if he finds the woman attractive or intriguing but hey ho, he’d never consider a couple with male only photos so why should I go for one with female only?

The real reason it’s usually female only pics is because it’s a single man pretending to be a couple anyway so no great loss.

Mrs x "

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I admit there are more of me due to dicks work.

It's hard to take a pic of us both without revealing faces.

As we ate looking for women for me to play with ours I feel is fair.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority

You're fab-straight though yes "

Depends who's asking

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't meet the people who don't show the guy. It really is that simple. I'm not being rude or patronising but if a profile doesn't show what you want it means the people behind it aren't what you're looking for.

Very good advice.

However as the male half of a couple, can I also say that sometimes there is a good reason behind why public face pics aren't shown. In which case your suspicions should be raised the moment you ask for a face pic and they says no, or won't go on cam. "

We don't have a problem with there being no face pictures in public, we wouldn't dream of showing ours and don't expect others to unless we're thinking of meeting. However as you say if people refuse to show a clear face picture before we meet...we don't meet.

Our experience of profiles that don't show the guy has been that he is a voyeur and has no interest in full swap whatever he may say or he has no interest in swinging at all. This isn't true of all such profiles we're certain but it's proved true for us too many times therefore we choose not to meet those couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our public photos are none facial but our private pictures show us both in normal everyday life, clear face pictures

It's horses for causes really everyone has the right to privacy but they are there to be seen when making friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x"

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Don't meet the people who don't show the guy. It really is that simple. I'm not being rude or patronising but if a profile doesn't show what you want it means the people behind it aren't what you're looking for.

Very good advice.

However as the male half of a couple, can I also say that sometimes there is a good reason behind why public face pics aren't shown. In which case your suspicions should be raised the moment you ask for a face pic and they says no, or won't go on cam. "

I'm not talking about face pics. They are something we ask for privately usually with a friend request. I mean a couples profile that only has photos of the female half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our public photos are of just me and sometimes his cock inside me but that's because all his photos have his face in so we always just send them out if we're talking to someone who's interested in meeting both of us

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ours are a fairly even coverage of both of us as we find it fairly annoying if we can't see both in a profile

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

At present we are only interested in meeting guys so little point in having pics of Mr on profile, though if and when we decide to meet couples we will change our profile to suit

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

"

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority

I completely agree! I just assume there’s a reason why we can’t see him and lose interest instantly. It might be annoying for my Husband if he finds the woman attractive or intriguing but hey ho, he’d never consider a couple with male only photos so why should I go for one with female only?

The real reason it’s usually female only pics is because it’s a single man pretending to be a couple anyway so no great loss.

Mrs x "

I'm definitely not a single man but there are more photos of me for sure.

Using the profile as a bit of a sounding board currently, so if we became serious about meeting I would make an effort with more together pictures. There are a few more of him in friends pics. But it's easier for me just to take a photo of myself as I'm always here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of us both exactly for this reason, we want to meet both people and as a pic or two and a profile is all there is to initially go on it’s important to see who the people are that we’re messaging or who are messaging us.

We’ve also been burnt by couples with lots of pics of the female half and very few of him. We’re pretty sure each time it’s a guy playing silly buggers and not really getting into the swing of things (sorry couldn’t help myself).

We think we’ve a good mix, but let us know if you disagree, we’re on a pic expedition next weekend so will be stocking up on a few of both of us out and about

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

"

If a couple were thinking of meeting with a view to the woman having any sort of contact with you she would certainly want to see you. One of the main reasons we won't even discuss meeting if there are no clear pictures of the guy is that I find it insulting, it's as if the couple feel that their female half is more important than I am and I should be happy to meet and play with the guy without seeing him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have less public photos of Mr as unlike me. He needs to be a little more private...

But if we are messaging we always send a good selection of us together and seperately but some of Mr too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of us both exactly for this reason, we want to meet both people and as a pic or two and a profile is all there is to initially go on it’s important to see who the people are that we’re messaging or who are messaging us.

We’ve also been burnt by couples with lots of pics of the female half and very few of him. We’re pretty sure each time it’s a guy playing silly buggers and not really getting into the swing of things (sorry couldn’t help myself).

We think we’ve a good mix, but let us know if you disagree, we’re on a pic expedition next weekend so will be stocking up on a few of both of us out and about "

I think you have a perfect mix of both of you separately and together. I also think your photos are sexy without being gynaecological

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbe buns on our public pics are the Monkey's although the number of straight single guys who fab them is astounding. We have pics of us both in private and share them when we converse with people.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I find it misleading. It’s a bit like putting your car and caravan up for sale on autotrader but only sharing pics of the caravan. Would you bother buying? I personally wouldn’t risk it.

If the person is camera shy, then why are you actually on here? Possibly praying for a meet in a dark room and remaining fully clothed? Just seems bizarre to me.

As they say, buyer beware lol.

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of us both exactly for this reason, we want to meet both people and as a pic or two and a profile is all there is to initially go on it’s important to see who the people are that we’re messaging or who are messaging us.

We’ve also been burnt by couples with lots of pics of the female half and very few of him. We’re pretty sure each time it’s a guy playing silly buggers and not really getting into the swing of things (sorry couldn’t help myself).

We think we’ve a good mix, but let us know if you disagree, we’re on a pic expedition next weekend so will be stocking up on a few of both of us out and about

I think you have a perfect mix of both of you separately and together. I also think your photos are sexy without being gynaecological "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me explain exactly why couples do this:

Women are inherently more attractive than men, to both men and women. As a man, you must be in the top 10% of looks, physique and wealth in order to gather the same interest that a moderately attractive woman would. Women will always have abundance, because frankly most men will stick their cocks in anything wet, we are capable of fucking women we deem to have a lower Sexual Market Value than us. Women simply can't.

So essentially when a couple want to meet another couple or another person, they will use the most attractive images they can, and it's almost always the female. I am firm in my belief that all women are born with at least some degree of bisexuality. Women dominate the sexual market place by abundance.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

Really? Are there not enough photos of us together or him? Genuinely interested on your thoughts on this because if that's the case I need to fix it!! And step down from my soap box "

The photos of your man are very dark and limited. In my opinion you need some more photos of you together and face photos.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe we have a good ratio of pictures.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Let me explain exactly why couples do this:

Women are inherently more attractive than men, to both men and women. As a man, you must be in the top 10% of looks, physique and wealth in order to gather the same interest that a moderately attractive woman would. Women will always have abundance, because frankly most men will stick their cocks in anything wet, we are capable of fucking women we deem to have a lower Sexual Market Value than us. Women simply can't.

So essentially when a couple want to meet another couple or another person, they will use the most attractive images they can, and it's almost always the female. I am firm in my belief that all women are born with at least some degree of bisexuality. Women dominate the sexual market place by abundance. "

Then I must be the exception to the rule because I simply refuse to meet a couple if I am not allowed the courtesy of seeing the guy I am expected to be getting intimate with. I genuinely don't care what the woman looks like as I'm straight but I care very much what the guy looks like. If women are unlikely to fuck below their own sexual market value they're less likely to meet a guy they've never seen surely.

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

If a couple were thinking of meeting with a view to the woman having any sort of contact with you she would certainly want to see you. One of the main reasons we won't even discuss meeting if there are no clear pictures of the guy is that I find it insulting, it's as if the couple feel that their female half is more important than I am and I should be happy to meet and play with the guy without seeing him."

I agree with that totally. And unless I have no perspective on this at all I would have thought there are enough of my body to give a fair idea what I look like. Cock and face reserved for friends but that’s common.

Also, I have some identifiable ink that is hard to conceal. So not so free with flaunting my torso in the open. But I think there is enough of it there...? Tell me if you think otherwise and we will add more!

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

Really? Are there not enough photos of us together or him? Genuinely interested on your thoughts on this because if that's the case I need to fix it!! And step down from my soap box

The photos of your man are very dark and limited. In my opinion you need some more photos of you together and face photos.

Mr2"

Ok point taken. I (male half) can show off a bit more!

But absolute no to face photos in public for us. We have those in our private album, but would never post them publicly.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

This is a bug bear of ours too. As a woman who is primarily interested in the male half I wouldn't consider a couple with few or no pics of the male.

I like our profile to be well balanced for this reason and in most of our pics it shows us together........unless hubby has been adding more pics of me after a photo session and then he usually adds pics of just me as he likes to show them off lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

"

At least you can see the males figure alot have none.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I"m always moaning to Jack about this,makes me feel irrelevant.

If a couple are looking to meet other couples,there should be pics of Mr on their profile.

We just delete any messages from such profiles ,as we have found theres usually a reason that mr isn't shown.

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Let me explain exactly why couples do this:

Women are inherently more attractive than men, to both men and women. As a man, you must be in the top 10% of looks, physique and wealth in order to gather the same interest that a moderately attractive woman would. Women will always have abundance, because frankly most men will stick their cocks in anything wet, we are capable of fucking women we deem to have a lower Sexual Market Value than us. Women simply can't.

So essentially when a couple want to meet another couple or another person, they will use the most attractive images they can, and it's almost always the female. I am firm in my belief that all women are born with at least some degree of bisexuality. Women dominate the sexual market place by abundance. "

Not true,I have zero interest in being with a woman,so the male is important on a profile.

Miss

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By *ounger seeking helpMan
over a year ago

Wednesbury

Looking for mature women or couple 45 plus to help full fill my fantasy's

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Looking for mature women or couple 45 plus to help full fill my fantasy's "

Try starting your own thread then instead of trying to threadjack an entirely different topic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one of the hubby but shows we match our profile

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

There's several of me in our public pics but more of other guys as it's usually me taking the pics.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We're looking for single guys to play with Mrs Flirty only, although Mr Flirty will always be present. That's why all the pics show her.

We insist on camming with all potential partners anyway because pictures can be faked or used without permission. That way they can see we're genuine and vice versa.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It also depends on why and where you swing/meet. We only meet in clubs. If anyone wants to meet at a club we will send private pics which include more pics of male plus face of both. We generally swing with couples and the very occasional male. We also do a bit of webcam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

Really? Are there not enough photos of us together or him? Genuinely interested on your thoughts on this because if that's the case I need to fix it!! And step down from my soap box "

I’d say it’s heavily weighted towards you, the femme.

Shame really as he seems to be equally hot.

Can I borrow him?

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER


"I have found this too when using my couples profile. As a straight woman it's just as important for me to see pictures of the guy. Couple profiles showing these however seem to be in the minority

I completely agree! I just assume there’s a reason why we can’t see him and lose interest instantly. It might be annoying for my Husband if he finds the woman attractive or intriguing but hey ho, he’d never consider a couple with male only photos so why should I go for one with female only?

The real reason it’s usually female only pics is because it’s a single man pretending to be a couple anyway so no great loss.

Mrs x "

This..........mrs de ja instantly refuses to engage if she can’t see any

even if it cock shots of him it’s a swingers site not show off my missus to get a fuck site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about."

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

It’s pretty simple if the couples profile has just pics of the female it’s not a couples profile

How can it be ????

Mrs de ja x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly "

I can see enough of him to know he wouldn't constitute "taking one for the team"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

"

Most men feel the same as You the woman is hot so that's what people want to see, we mostly meet guys anyway so they really aren't interested in me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly

I can see enough of him to know he wouldn't constitute "taking one for the team" "

No that maybe true, but if you are going to bemoan something you should really not be guilty of the same thing

For us we do our profile how we see fit, and if somone isn't what we agree with we move on, how people run their own profile is up to them

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you

"Couples" profiles with no decent photos of the guys typically get zero response from us.

I love the "no pictures of male due to him having a high profile job" -- well, unless his coworkers have seen him naked, a few headless or face-obscured photos should be offered in the public profile.

In our experience, there is usually a good reason why certain couples profiles have no pictures of the guy . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Couples" profiles with no decent photos of the guys typically get zero response from us.

I love the "no pictures of male due to him having a high profile job" -- well, unless his coworkers have seen him naked, a few headless or face-obscured photos should be offered in the public profile.

In our experience, there is usually a good reason why certain couples profiles have no pictures of the guy . . . "

Because we are munters lol

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Let me explain exactly why couples do this:

Women are inherently more attractive than men, to both men and women. As a man, you must be in the top 10% of looks, physique and wealth in order to gather the same interest that a moderately attractive woman would. Women will always have abundance, because frankly most men will stick their cocks in anything wet, we are capable of fucking women we deem to have a lower Sexual Market Value than us. Women simply can't.

So essentially when a couple want to meet another couple or another person, they will use the most attractive images they can, and it's almost always the female. I am firm in my belief that all women are born with at least some degree of bisexuality. Women dominate the sexual market place by abundance.

Then I must be the exception to the rule because I simply refuse to meet a couple if I am not allowed the courtesy of seeing the guy I am expected to be getting intimate with. I genuinely don't care what the woman looks like as I'm straight but I care very much what the guy looks like. If women are unlikely to fuck below their own sexual market value they're less likely to meet a guy they've never seen surely."

My thoughts exactly

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly

I can see enough of him to know he wouldn't constitute "taking one for the team" "

there are more than 2 aswell

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Well ladies, allow me to redress the balance somewhat...

There's actually more shots of the male half than the wife on our profile, so for all you ladies that would like to see more photos of the male, head this way!

Don't rush now...

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly

I can see enough of him to know he wouldn't constitute "taking one for the team"

there are more than 2 aswell "

Ok 3.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly

I can see enough of him to know he wouldn't constitute "taking one for the team"

there are more than 2 aswell

Ok 3."

But as long as you can see enough to know whether you're interested or not, who cares what the ratio is? There's enough good pics of the guy and if the OP lived closer to us then the mrs would want us to get in touch with them.

Mr

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

If a couple were thinking of meeting with a view to the woman having any sort of contact with you she would certainly want to see you. One of the main reasons we won't even discuss meeting if there are no clear pictures of the guy is that I find it insulting, it's as if the couple feel that their female half is more important than I am and I should be happy to meet and play with the guy without seeing him.

I agree with that totally. And unless I have no perspective on this at all I would have thought there are enough of my body to give a fair idea what I look like. Cock and face reserved for friends but that’s common.

Also, I have some identifiable ink that is hard to conceal. So not so free with flaunting my torso in the open. But I think there is enough of it there...? Tell me if you think otherwise and we will add more!"

My personal feelings from your profile are that as a couple you consider me less important than your partner. I am pretty sure that isn't the case and we're probably not your target audience anyway. But I dislike feeling that it's assumed that I'll turn up and be happy with whatever a guy looks like because it's assumed that my partner is lucky to be with his wife.

Now, you shouldn't alter your profile because of what I say. You should run it exactly how you please and only change if you're having no success.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We only send hubbies pics if we like what we see or vice versa.

Discretion is the key for us, sorry

Mrs x

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By *rnmrssmithx2x15Couple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

We manage just fine! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can put whatever they like on their profile! Stop moaning and don't look at them then? Problem solved

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half.

Hi we have a lot of photos of the two of us and if someone piques our interest we have even more on our friends only album. We have had interest from a lot of couples who have no photos at all of the male half. That was my point but possibly not very well put. x

"A lot" ? 20 public pics. With only 3 of the male ( apart from a few showing a bit if hand/arm/leg) which all, only show some bare torso. You seem to be complaining about something that you are guily of yourself ?

Ok - (male half here) that’s my fault. I love to see her. Her photos are hot. I load all the photos. So the mix is my fault. I think - no one really wants to see me. But a handful is enough to give an idea of me. And there are clear face pics etc in friends album once we get past first contact.

To be fair - we have historically been looking for single guys only.

But a lot of couples photos who are looking for couples have zero (ZERO) photos of the guys.

If a couple were thinking of meeting with a view to the woman having any sort of contact with you she would certainly want to see you. One of the main reasons we won't even discuss meeting if there are no clear pictures of the guy is that I find it insulting, it's as if the couple feel that their female half is more important than I am and I should be happy to meet and play with the guy without seeing him.

I agree with that totally. And unless I have no perspective on this at all I would have thought there are enough of my body to give a fair idea what I look like. Cock and face reserved for friends but that’s common.

Also, I have some identifiable ink that is hard to conceal. So not so free with flaunting my torso in the open. But I think there is enough of it there...? Tell me if you think otherwise and we will add more!

My personal feelings from your profile are that as a couple you consider me less important than your partner. I am pretty sure that isn't the case and we're probably not your target audience anyway. But I dislike feeling that it's assumed that I'll turn up and be happy with whatever a guy looks like because it's assumed that my partner is lucky to be with his wife.

Now, you shouldn't alter your profile because of what I say. You should run it exactly how you please and only change if you're having no success. "

Good points thanks and that was my point originally although I was referring to those that have no photos of a male.

Great feedback from lots of lovely people though. Now I'm off to strip down Mr and get some photos to post on here!!!

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By *rnmrssmithx2x15Couple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"People can put whatever they like on their profile! Stop moaning and don't look at them then? Problem solved "

There is a reason we like you guys haha you gotta come to on of our parties x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would say your profile is exactly what you're complaining about.

20 public pictures, 2 feature the male slightly

I can see enough of him to know he wouldn't constitute "taking one for the team"

No that maybe true, but if you are going to bemoan something you should really not be guilty of the same thing

For us we do our profile how we see fit, and if somone isn't what we agree with we move on, how people run their own profile is up to them"

There not guilty of the same thing there asking why couples profiles have ZERO pics of the male they have pics of the male. 99% of couples profiles will have more pics of the female than the male but if it’s a couples profile there should be at least a couple of pics showing the male half. Me and the Mrs have a couples profile on here and we have more pics of her on it has there’s so many more pics you can take of a female than a male but there’s at least 2 that clearly show me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We only send hubbies pics if we like what we see or vice versa.

Discretion is the key for us, sorry

Mrs x"

I'm not saying you should change but why does he have to be discreet and you don't? If someone recognised you they would know he was on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our couples profile confused the fuck outta everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely need more photo's of hubby on our profile. We do have more in our private and friends pictures. Time to take some more.

S x

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Our couples profile confused the fuck outta everyone "

Haha!!!!!

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

For those complaining I have spent ten minutes editing my tattoo off and there is now a clearer picture of me!

Hopefully that’s enough because I didnt realize how slow photo editing is!!!

But as said, face pics and cock are private if we progress that far!

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"We only send hubbies pics if we like what we see or vice versa.

Discretion is the key for us, sorry

Mrs x

I'm not saying you should change but why does he have to be discreet and you don't? If someone recognised you they would know he was on here too."

I have less identifiable features on my body. Or rather he has identifiable features that aren't hidden away like mine are. That's the only reason. He has just discovered a cover up thing on an app though.. so will post more. Besides IMO he is hot and needs to be showed off more

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We only send hubbies pics if we like what we see or vice versa.

Discretion is the key for us, sorry

Mrs x

I'm not saying you should change but why does he have to be discreet and you don't? If someone recognised you they would know he was on here too.

I have less identifiable features on my body. Or rather he has identifiable features that aren't hidden away like mine are. That's the only reason. He has just discovered a cover up thing on an app though.. so will post more. Besides IMO he is hot and needs to be showed off more "

He is hot, you should definitely be showing him off

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Let me explain exactly why couples do this:

Women are inherently more attractive than men, to both men and women. As a man, you must be in the top 10% of looks, physique and wealth in order to gather the same interest that a moderately attractive woman would. Women will always have abundance, because frankly most men will stick their cocks in anything wet, we are capable of fucking women we deem to have a lower Sexual Market Value than us. Women simply can't.

So essentially when a couple want to meet another couple or another person, they will use the most attractive images they can, and it's almost always the female. I am firm in my belief that all women are born with at least some degree of bisexuality. Women dominate the sexual market place by abundance. "

Attractive female images are okay but I (the Mrs) still want to see what the male form looks like on the couple. We won't take one for the team as it's important for BOTH of us to be sexually attracted to the couple we want to play with.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

This is why we say in our profile to couples - we'll find you.

A couple contacted us on Friday basically to say we were their back up plan for a meet in a few hours' time (no pics with message). When we pointed out we wouldn't meet a single male profile when his represented only by cock pics and why should that be different for couples we were told we were hypocrites (our male has body shots posted and no pics of just his cock so not quite sure how they figured that one but hey) and cheeky cunts

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"This is why we say in our profile to couples - we'll find you.

A couple contacted us on Friday basically to say we were their back up plan for a meet in a few hours' time (no pics with message). When we pointed out we wouldn't meet a single male profile when his represented only by cock pics and why should that be different for couples we were told we were hypocrites (our male has body shots posted and no pics of just his cock so not quite sure how they figured that one but hey) and cheeky cunts "

Spot on

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Let me explain exactly why couples do this:

Women are inherently more attractive than men, to both men and women. As a man, you must be in the top 10% of looks, physique and wealth in order to gather the same interest that a moderately attractive woman would. Women will always have abundance, because frankly most men will stick their cocks in anything wet, we are capable of fucking women we deem to have a lower Sexual Market Value than us. Women simply can't.

So essentially when a couple want to meet another couple or another person, they will use the most attractive images they can, and it's almost always the female. I am firm in my belief that all women are born with at least some degree of bisexuality. Women dominate the sexual market place by abundance.

Attractive female images are okay but I (the Mrs) still want to see what the male form looks like on the couple. We won't take one for the team as it's important for BOTH of us to be sexually attracted to the couple we want to play with. "

Same for us

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We only send hubbies pics if we like what we see or vice versa.

Discretion is the key for us, sorry

Mrs x

I'm not saying you should change but why does he have to be discreet and you don't? If someone recognised you they would know he was on here too."

It's just our choice.

Those that have met us for a social or at a club know he is real and no complaints as yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best messages from 'couples'. Is when you get a message saying they are in London on business and would like to meet.

You ask both? They say no just the male half. So you have to ask the question what do you look like?

It's raises many questions. The attractive female half of the couple even if she was involved in the meet ends up not participating.

So caution is always advised.

Women seem to be used as bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest 80% of people on here only want to see the female! Of our 5 friends photos 3 are of the male probably best place for me lol

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

It’s something that annoys us too x

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

We try to keep a fairly equal split between photos of Mrs J and me (hopefully they are appreciated), we also try to have a few photos of us both together (as does OP).

We always think is a bit odd when couples have no photos of themselves together.

Mr A & Mrs J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although we are looking primarily for a female we will meet couples for socials and maybe take one for the team with a soft swap. We do have photos of both of us singularly and together.

You seem to have very limted photos of your male half as opposed to your female half."

Take one for the team! gosh how generous of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be honest 80% of people on here only want to see the female! Of our 5 friends photos 3 are of the male probably best place for me lol"

Not 80% of the straight females though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fairly usual for there to be more pics of the fairer sex. However I would not regard a profile as a couples profile unless both people in the couple are visually represented in some way. If only one person is represented then it can only be a singles profile surely? Exceptions I guess would be with cuckold or hotwife couples where the male doesn't play, and therefore it is arguably irrelevant what he looks like in the first instance. I am also aware that there are couples where an attractive wife is the bate, whilst the lesser attractive husband is kept in the shadows whilst his wife does the hunting.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I am also aware that there are couples where an attractive wife is the bate, whilst the lesser attractive husband is kept in the shadows whilst his wife does the hunting.

Mrs"

From our experience 90% of the messages we get are aimed at Mrs filth and show no interest in me (male) so having pics of me makes no real difference other than perhaps putting people off but you might be on to something with kept in the shadows comment.... Perhaps I should just leave my literal shadow pics up and remove the rest and leave the wife to do the hunting

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"We only send hubbies pics if we like what we see or vice versa.

Discretion is the key for us, sorry

Mrs x

I'm not saying you should change but why does he have to be discreet and you don't? If someone recognised you they would know he was on here too.

It's just our choice.

Those that have met us for a social or at a club know he is real and no complaints as yet "

x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple mainly have my pics on here but we send the males pics through private because he has to be bit more discreet x

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