FabSwingers.com forum: How long to cum?

By *wesomeSauce! OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Perhaps a contentious topic - but do you women get offended if a guy takes a long time to cum?

For me, I have always believed it was good to hold back as long as possible - it's not unusual for me last an hour or more.

Sometimes my other half wants me to cum a lot quicker and she thinks that if I last a long time it's because I'm not enjoying it enough - which isn't true at all.

Sometimes I can be a lot quicker, it just depends on my mood. If I feel pressured to cum sooner, it can put me off a bit. I just prefer it to happen in it's own time and not really have to think about it.

Quickies are great, but just sometimes the pressure to be quick puts me off.

Thoughts?

By *wesomeSauce! OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

...and apparently the award for the least interesting topic of the day goes to...me!

By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

In general - longer is better except when it's a lunch time quickie or something like that (heh heh).

I wouldn't think he's not enjoying himself unless his attitude is showing it - that's easy to tell.

By *wesomeSauce! OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"In general - longer is better except when it's a lunch time quickie or something like that (heh heh).

I wouldn't think he's not enjoying himself unless his attitude is showing it - that's easy to tell. "

Oh God, I hope I don't look disinterested!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having experienced both ends of the scale and everything between (premature ejaculation of less than 30 seconds, guys who don't cum after a day of play and plenty in the middle), I can honestly say it doesn't matter to me as long as that person is happy, enjoying themselves and not feeling any pressure.

Premature ejaculation is not great, but providing that person doesn't then think it's all over and done with, and uses their hands and mouth, that's ok x