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Is this site dying a slow death

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on and off this site for about 10 years. Over that time I've seen it extremely active and busy with couples and singles all enjoying what the site offers. But in the last year or maybe longer it doesn't seem as busy as it once was. I don't know if everyone else feels the same??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on site for about the same amount of time as you op and have to say I agree to an extent. I think the site is just as busy, only with so many more people seeking an instashag and less genuine swingers. Trolls are more common also...puts me off and I'm definitely much less active than I was!

It's a shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for about 10 years. Over that time I've seen it extremely active and busy with couples and singles all enjoying what the site offers. But in the last year or maybe longer it doesn't seem as busy as it once was. I don't know if everyone else feels the same??"

Where are you getting your stats from OP?

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

It definitely feels like it’s more full of fakes and chancers than it ever did but not sure about it dying a death hopefully not anyway we quite like it here having said that if there was a genuine alternative we would have to think very hard about whether to stay or not x

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow


"I've been on site for about the same amount of time as you op and have to say I agree to an extent. I think the site is just as busy, only with so many more people seeking an instashag and less genuine swingers. Trolls are more common also...puts me off and I'm definitely much less active than I was!

It's a shame! "
off topic filthy but we just had to hotlist you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was before in 2011 so much easier getting meets, since rejoining this been a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on site for about the same amount of time as you op and have to say I agree to an extent. I think the site is just as busy, only with so many more people seeking an instashag and less genuine swingers. Trolls are more common also...puts me off and I'm definitely much less active than I was!

It's a shame! off topic filthy but we just had to hotlist you xx"

Blusharama! Fanks very much guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most sites like this are the same, loads of fakes and timewasters but at least here it's cheap, you have to pay more for the privilege of reading your messages on most other sites.

Also, I find this site much better for meeting local men

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I have been on and off this site for about 10 years. Over that time I've seen it extremely active and busy with couples and singles all enjoying what the site offers. But in the last year or maybe longer it doesn't seem as busy as it once was. I don't know if everyone else feels the same??"

I've been on and off for 7 years and I think the swinging couples are about the same and the number of singles who are here for NSA 1 to 1 as opposed to group sex has increased. Which is fine.

There does seem to be an awful lot more fake accounts about but what else would you expect on a free site that has become better known with zero verification required.

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"I've been on site for about the same amount of time as you op and have to say I agree to an extent. I think the site is just as busy, only with so many more people seeking an instashag and less genuine swingers. Trolls are more common also...puts me off and I'm definitely much less active than I was!

It's a shame! off topic filthy but we just had to hotlist you xx

Blusharama! Fanks very much guys! "

Added to my hotlist too. V sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saud this a few weeks ago

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve been on and off the site for 6 years now , and without a doubt there are way more fakes and timewasters now than ever before .

I don’t think the site is dying a death though , there are still a fair few genuine people on here looking for nsa hook ups .

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

10y? are you insane? my goodness you need to get out more OP that's ridiculous being on here for 10y. Imagine all you could've achieved in 10yr. I'm in shock.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't feel the site is dying. Evolving to coincide with the requirements of the majority of the membership maybe.

I'm not implying that anyone on this thread is like this however there are lots of people who seem to concern themselves way too much with how others use the site or how they conduct their meets instead of just getting on with things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's got harder to get a genuine meet since I joined 3 years ago. There are some very rude females lately looking for a female to play with their husbands and give them a treat and asking in nasty manner. A lot of single men who don't really want a meet too. A lot want an instant shag, I think they think it's a free hooker catalogue. In the last hour I have reset my filters due to abusive first messages from "females" and reported a couple of "single females" who want "a fat local slapper" to treat their husbands, as being couples not single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined in 2013 I found it much easier to get meets, though I'd put that down to me being fussier and also being lazier. I'm more about the clubs these days than 1-2-1 meets.

The site will be what you make of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10y? are you insane? my goodness you need to get out more OP that's ridiculous being on here for 10y. Imagine all you could've achieved in 10yr. I'm in shock."

I can't speak for the op...but I've had a fuck tonne of fun in the last 10 years and met some amazing people and lifelong friends...certainly not a waste of time or ridiculous! Swinging is a lifestyle for most people...not just an easy lay for a month or 2 whilst single....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"10y? are you insane? my goodness you need to get out more OP that's ridiculous being on here for 10y. Imagine all you could've achieved in 10yr. I'm in shock."

Being on fab isn't a full time job. I'm pretty sure the op is neither insane nor a hermit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on the site about 9 years now after migrating from another site. Agree with lots of comments on this thread. Definitely feels like there are more messers on here than in the past that is male and female. Certainly loads of keyboard warriors and general idiots but if can sift through all these you do find a gem now and again luckily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for about 10 years. Over that time I've seen it extremely active and busy with couples and singles all enjoying what the site offers. But in the last year or maybe longer it doesn't seem as busy as it once was. I don't know if everyone else feels the same??"

I agree, the site is still good but the increasing number of fake profiles is worrying

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"10y? are you insane? my goodness you need to get out more OP that's ridiculous being on here for 10y. Imagine all you could've achieved in 10yr. I'm in shock.

Being on fab isn't a full time job. I'm pretty sure the op is neither insane nor a hermit."

I think it was said tongue in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF the site seems as though its heading towards the knackers yard ....

Firstly those older who are who sentencing it to death should leave in-order to allow an infusion of new blood ......

Secondly OP I don't think you're right about dying anyway........

Sox has spoken

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"IF the site seems as though its heading towards the knackers yard ....

Firstly those older who are who sentencing it to death should leave in-order to allow an infusion of new blood ......

Secondly OP I don't think you're right about dying anyway........

Sox has spoken

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Do you mean us old 'uns should be set adrift on an iceberg?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF the site seems as though its heading towards the knackers yard ....

Firstly those older who are who sentencing it to death should leave in-order to allow an infusion of new blood ......

Secondly OP I don't think you're right about dying anyway........

Sox has spoken

Do you mean us old 'uns should be set adrift on an iceberg? "

Yeah we could build an igloo and get naked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"IF the site seems as though its heading towards the knackers yard ....

Firstly those older who are who sentencing it to death should leave in-order to allow an infusion of new blood ......

Secondly OP I don't think you're right about dying anyway........

Sox has spoken

Do you mean us old 'uns should be set adrift on an iceberg?

Yeah we could build an igloo and get naked "

You first!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

The sites the same now as it's always been. Just some new faces. This time around I am chatting to more people. So for me the experience is actually better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF the site seems as though its heading towards the knackers yard ....

Firstly those older who are who sentencing it to death should leave in-order to allow an infusion of new blood ......

Secondly OP I don't think you're right about dying anyway........

Sox has spoken

Do you mean us old 'uns should be set adrift on an iceberg?

Yeah we could build an igloo and get naked

You first!"

What like stick my arse out the Igloo door to see if I can get a chap in it ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it easier to communicate or even get a meet with other fellow fabbers 10 years ago op?

Been on here for 2 years now and fuck me is it difficult.

Pete xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It is different for me there's too many guys (sorry to the fellas that are the exception) that just think it's appropriate to speak/treat you like you're nothing more than a free prostitute

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I think the opposite there is always way more people on here than when I joined 4 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's good and bad in everything we do.....

We are the optomists and see the negative side, such as increasing fake couple profile as a learning experience....

It's not just the single guys that struggle for meets..

I have found the club experience usually more fulfilling than the arranged hotel...

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By *ed cjMan
over a year ago

oldham

I've recently left the paid membership because of the apparent decline in quality real members. I don't know what the answer is unfortunately the few good genuine members are being swamped by bogus players. The site is fabSWINGERS so hopefully it will start to be fun again and I'll happily rejoin and have some real meets with real players

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