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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone have any hint on coping with showing their fatty bits?? I try to hide them in my pics. And it's putting me off meets as someone could be judgemental about my shape

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By *arngreyCouple
over a year ago

london

be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Fuck it.... If they're judgmental about your shape they are a douchebag!

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By *arngreyCouple
over a year ago

london

i have had a look at your pics....WOW...you have a fantastic body...flaunt it

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I can understand this. Angles are very much my friend in most of my photos.

My advice is find something you feel good wearing. Own it and snap it. Xx

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By *edben85Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Great body show it off

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I just let it all hang out

They can take me or leave me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank u all. I do show more in depth pics to guys im interested in so they know what to expect. But they lose interest quick that makes me worry

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t like my lumps and bumps but those I play with obviously don’t mind them. Find those who accept you for who you are. You’ll become more comfortable with some guys and especially if you play with them on a regular basis.

It’s not always easy but you’ll get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always best to wear something you feel nice in or naughty as this will make you feel sexy when you take your pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find hiding them is false advertising.

Can't hide them in person so may as well embrace them

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Your pics are good. I wouldn't worry at all.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Just for you sweetie, I have set one of my pics to profile pic, and made public.

Some will love it, some will hate it, but.. its me. like it or lump it. Being happy in your own skin can be hard for some, devastating when some put you down... until you are happy enough to realise they are not the people you should even entertain.

The right people will love who you are, rather than being hung up on a shape.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


" thank u all. I do show more in depth pics to guys im interested in so they know what to expect. But they lose interest quick that makes me worry "

May I add a male perspective OP?

Don't change for anyone, be honest to yourself and if guys don't like it then they are not for you.

I have fabbed all your pics, they are lovely and tasteful x

Lift your head and walk tall, be confident and own it x

Have a few of my smiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers."

No need to be derogatory about any body shape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fantastic to me, embrace your gorgeouse body and balls to anyone that thinks your anything other stunnjng woman

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers.

No need to be derogatory about any body shape!"

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

No point trying to hide it. I'm one of the largest women on the site and I also have a disability and upfront about it. I don't give two hoots what people think. I'm happy in my own skin and that is all that matters. A lot of guys on this site like the bits women try to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers."

Wow. What a moron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone have any hint on coping with showing their fatty bits?? I try to hide them in my pics. And it's putting me off meets as someone could be judgemental about my shape "

Take no fucking notice of ppl that say nasty things about you. Iv seen your pictures and think you are beautiful xxx

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

OP you look beautiful.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"No point trying to hide it. I'm one of the largest women on the site and I also have a disability and upfront about it. I don't give two hoots what people think. I'm happy in my own skin and that is all that matters. A lot of guys on this site like the bits women try to hide "

Well said . You're pics are amazing.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers."

What a shallow man you are...ass hole!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Never hide anything

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I go on cam in chat most nights,don't like what you see? move off my cam and don't message me

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"I go on cam in chat most nights,don't like what you see? move off my cam and don't message me"

I like x

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I dare bet there will be more people give you a positive response than a negative one a real man prefers a bit of meat on a woman. Show what you want when you want

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It's got nothing to do with 'real' men liking 'real' women or whatever trite old cliché gets rolled out attempting to flatter one type of womanly shape by being insulting (possibly accidentally) about another. It's simply about the fact that most straight/bi men like women for loads of reasons and in reality don't notice or really care about the bits we hate because hey, boobs or wow, face or phwoar, arse instead. I personally wince looking at my body as a whole, especially in certain positions that make what I consider my most awful bits prominent yet I have never met a guy who has seen my body the same way I do. Perspective is useful.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"It's got nothing to do with 'real' men liking 'real' women or whatever trite old cliché gets rolled out attempting to flatter one type of womanly shape by being insulting (possibly accidentally) about another. It's simply about the fact that most straight/bi men like women for loads of reasons and in reality don't notice or really care about the bits we hate because hey, boobs or wow, face or phwoar, arse instead. I personally wince looking at my body as a whole, especially in certain positions that make what I consider my most awful bits prominent yet I have never met a guy who has seen my body the same way I do. Perspective is useful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone have any hint on coping with showing their fatty bits?? I try to hide them in my pics. And it's putting me off meets as someone could be judgemental about my shape "

Show the real you. At least then they know what to expect and chances are you'll meet someone who fancies you as much as you fancy them

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Just show them off, they're sexy. I've never ever heard a man say a woman is too naked, no need to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big, saggy stomach. On Monday, when I went to see my long term partner, he kissed down my body and all over my stomach.

Other men may be turned off by it but I don't care.

He's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to find my full length naked photo and put it as my profile pic.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"I'm going to find my full length naked photo and put it as my profile pic. "

Yes please xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate this culture at the minute of slagging off slim women as "not real women" or "real men like a woman with a bit of meat", a woman is real no matter her size and there will be people who find her attractive, why belittle some to make others feel better .

OP I know it's so much easier said than done, but you need to appreciate the body you have - it's the only one you'll ever get. Everyone has wobbly bits and bits that they dislike, ignore any images in the media as they are all tampered with and are unattainable - ever seen a model with moles?! It's been a slow journey for me to begin, but people really do focus on your positives and you as a whole rather than an extra inch here or there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them judge hunny I do! If they have a problem with it then it's theirs everyone's different and beautiful in their own way

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By *ophiaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

St Asaph

Just remember bigger girls cuddle better, I should know as my wife is very conscious about her figure but I just love it. So much more to play with. I'm so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let it all hang out OP - I do.

I'm not a slim 20yr old and I want people to know that before they meet me.

Be yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be liberating to let it all hang out. Give it a try!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Oh dear, here I am, one of the females who is not a real woman, because I am slim!

And yes, not one man wants to meet me, because he is scared in case it means he is not 'a real man'

I'll just carry on being a 'cloths hanger' because none of the above has been insulting in any way or form what so ever

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