FabSwingers.com forum: Which is better?

By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Private meets, or clubs? Now I've had plenty of one on one meets, and I have recently started going to clubs! There's only one way to find out!

Seriously though, finding decent local men for one on one meets is quite difficult in my area. I do enjoy them but the meets always seem to be over too soon. But I can pick a guy who is attractive to me! A club means I get lots of play, and it can go on for a fair few hours, but I don't get to pick a specific guy. Its basically a choice of what is already there. Not always bad, but not maybe to my taste.

So, which do YOU prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to be fair to pop into a cinema or club...

Private meets are okay.. but we dont really get much from the one to one play with others...

So clubs are much better.. but when we just want a quick gb or bukkake session its definately easier to swing by the cinemas... We are however convinced the guy on the desk rings around to say that there is a couple in... as after we get there.. if we are there for more than 20 mins.. suddenly loads of guys arrive..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on ones deffo,as you get to choose,

plus i have the added bonus of being able to accomodate..

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We like both, but as we cant accomidate we find it hard to get one on one's. Im also a fussy bugger when it comes to meets. Clubs are good as in usually always get to play and if not then get to know some of the regs really well who will then play or invite you to their home.. Cant knock any like them both, just wish we could get more one on one's with a reg couple or a guy, who are local. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having not been to a club my comments probably wont be as valued, however it seems to reason that the choice is smaller at a club than online, but the play is almost instant?

So i suppose it depends on how you value a meet. Putting in some time and effort online may ultimately pay off if you get to know each other/their kinks/etc before a one to one meet. Then again you may find someone you ultimately prefer (maybe as an offchance) at a club.

People in your area may attend the same club, but use different websites. Hence not being able to find a decent (in your opinion) local guy off Fab, but maybe you do in a club?

I await your full report!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is better......?

There's only one way to find out.....

FIIIIIIIIIIIGGGGGGHHHHHTTTT!

Sorry.. had to be done

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I don't mind either... I am such a sociable person I love clubs and talking to people and I take that into any private meet that I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for us, saves all the messing about with cancelled meets. We are in the right place then if someone cant make it

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By *ushtwoCouple
over a year ago

london

we prefer arranging meets in clubs...

means you can play with them and then find more for later...

also more to play with if your meet doesnt show..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy private meets but completely understand what you mean about them being over too soon so at the moment am thinking clubs are the way forward xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Depends...

i am quivering with anticipation at the thought of a 1to1 with Sir next week

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Private meets either with another couple or with 3-4 selected couples and selected single fems/guys..ie small parties...intimate,all together and more sensuous than clubs...??... just our opinion.

Sometimes clubs meets are a little "anonymous" which N likes but J prefers to get to know the other couple/guy before ...yes we understand that you can get to know them in a club but not the same as a private meet where you have already chatted on e mail and phone.We have visited most clubs local to us...some good...some bad...some OK...you cant really give an opinion unless you have experienced both.

From a couples point of view it depends on what you are after at that particular time that you are both comfortable with.

Private meets from our point of view have never been over to soon...have a rest,more chat,nibbles,drink or two and ready for a bit more relaxed fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it depends who we are meeting. Some of our friends are great to be with in a party environment while others are better in private.

We've had lovely sensual meets in private that couldn't have happened at a club or party.

It's difficult to say which is better really as we love both experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely prefer clubs to private meets. Of course we have favourite couples and I have favourite single guys, but generally i prefer the club scene. I really enjoy BMFC parties because I have a choice of fantastic looking men, im attracted to all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, no on line BS plus you can get a sense of the other person right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't no

not done any yet working towards one soon i hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like private meets in the clubs, if that isn't an oxmoron!

I feel safe, there are plenty of choices of venue/equipment, the atmosphere is sexy, and there are alternative options to just the 1 on 1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets only...I like to be in control of who, when, where and when it ends...so far, we haven't been let down either

We'd never go to a club and nothing I've seen posted here would ever change my mind, in fact it's made my mind up more strongly against

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private meets only...I like to be in control of who, when, where and when it ends...so far, we haven't been let down either

We'd never go to a club and nothing I've seen posted here would ever change my mind, in fact it's made my mind up more strongly against"

Pretty much sums up my view too. The way I play clubs wouldn't suit me.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Private meets, or clubs? Now I've had plenty of one on one meets, and I have recently started going to clubs! There's only one way to find out!

So, which do YOU prefer?"

I prefer a private meet and as much time as possible as I don't want to rush anything and want to ensure that whoever I am meeting gets the maximum pleasure possible. That said there are facilities at clubs which add their own slant jacuzzi mirrors etc.

But I don't think you can beat a nice long relaxed intimate one on one

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

we love both they both have plus points and we make the most of whatever we have chosen to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like clubs, a chance to socialise, people watch, have fun if we want and run away if we feel the need

But private meets are good too, pick and choose, privacy. Repeats are always fun.

Shame scotland does not have much in the way of club / party scene. We miss Chams

A&J

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Which is better......?

There's only one way to find out.....

FIIIIIIIIIIIGGGGGGHHHHHTTTT!

Sorry.. had to be done"

I am quite frankly shocked it took so long! well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but do prefer 1 on 1. I know people have said theyre over too quick but surely once the batterys are recharged your both ready to go at it again?!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"I like both but do prefer 1 on 1. I know people have said theyre over too quick but surely once the batterys are recharged your both ready to go at it again?!

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer private meets as i think those last longer, i like to feel i am theirs for the day and enjoy each other (whether be couple or one or one).

I find the private meets go on for longer, usually hours and need a lot of stamina. Clubs However tend to be several small shorter sessions or a lot of searching, sometimes right people arn't there at all. I enjoy the social side and getting to chat to everyone though, just wish did not have to pay for chatting. That being said ive not been to many clubs yet and had more private meets. So have to let you know. Going to fannys again which brings parties and clubs up to 4 :D Theres a few clubs round birmingham im hoping to try.

So definitely prefer private meets, having spoken online before the meet and a few cheeky texts, they usually flow better.

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

I tend not to go to clubs alone, I rarely get any joyful experience unless I know someone in which case I'd prefer a private meet so Ic an be intimate with the person rather than have 50 blokes wiggling along.

In my married life ending in May this year, it was hard to find couples who attended the clubs that would be interested. Mind you if something started it was usually 3 or 4 hours later before my engagement came to an end usually at closing time!

I think when it comes to clubs, people tend to miss out on 'trial' experiences by being prejudiced or fearful.

Private meets are harder to set up and the no shows are extreme these days. Not really worth the effort getting all glammed up, travelling only to tap foot and go home! Done that as a couple and single I'm afraid.

I tend to be very shy at clubs and on my own tend to stand around in hope someone might engage with me. IN private meets I'm a bit shy too, I don't initiate because I don't want to be forceful, which is why I'd like regular dates, something I've experienced out of the UK.

I must admit, I have more success with regular dates from a lesbian site I'm on than I do here! (Despite never in couple or single time on here having anyone regular at all! Is there anyone in London that wants regular meets"? cause I only seem to meet non London singles and couples?)

When it comes to guys, rare in my case, I find the the experiences are very very short. There is little to no affection expressed and it's really all about their one thing.

If I'm at a club and things do happen, they usually happen around me intensely with several people taking me over - I love lots of hands

You can't get that amount of attention in a private meet

They are all different experiences.

xox

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By *pikerubyCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

we prefer to go to clubs, as ruby is quite fussy, so easier for us to see who is there, who we get on with, and maybe have a play... We always have each other to play with if all else fails!

Sometimes a meet can be a bit awkward, and the expectation is greater with a pre arranged meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's private for us without question. We don't go to clubs or have the time or inclination to meet that much, so the privacy and intimacy of the right people (or person) in a private situation really does it for us

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