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By *arkcouple40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that you would have any problems with the guys over 55

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"

It's definately not you! i don't meet your criteria but otherwise.

Kinnnnnn eelllll

I realise this doesn't help lol

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

When such a stunning woman as you starts having problems with meets, the rest of us are doomed!!!

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By *otts72Man
over a year ago

London


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"

Not you...they are just mugs. Fantastic profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had 11 no shows /cancellations in a row. We nearly gave up. But it was worth it as organised meet number 12 was a great meet Gina and Mrs L xxx

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Maybe it's time to reevaluate your selection methods!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had my first one

I'm not a happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single guy. I can accommodate. I have my own house. I would love to have a regular thing with a woman i fancy. Can i find anyone?? I have been looking for years lol.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"When such a stunning woman as you starts having problems with meets, the rest of us are doomed!!! "

We’re doomed I tell ya - dooomed!

(Said in the voice of whatsisface from Dad’s Army!

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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"When such a stunning woman as you starts having problems with meets, the rest of us are doomed!!!

We’re doomed I tell ya - dooomed!

(Said in the voice of whatsisface from Dad’s Army! "

Frasier

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Blooming heck that's pant's .

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan


"When such a stunning woman as you starts having problems with meets, the rest of us are doomed!!!

We’re doomed I tell ya - dooomed!

(Said in the voice of whatsisface from Dad’s Army! "

Older fellas talk sense

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

happens all the time, I think some men just like to prove they can get a meet, then they back off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one guy not turn up for a social but that's all. I went shopping instead

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"

i bet people are going to say "nothing wrong/their loss/I wouldn't do that ect"

but if it is happening 8 in a row, there are issues!

1 may be unfortunate...

2 may be a blip...

but 8.... 8 is a pattern... and you are the common denominator...

so if i had 8 in a row go wrong i would be looking at the way i went thru my process on how i am picking a choosing whom i deciding to meet...

for example... how long are you talking before meeting? are you talking to them on the phone? how are you doing your checks and balances so to speak....

what are you saying in your profile to attact these people... if something isn't working, change it!!!!

I can count the meets i have had gone bad on 1 hand after a good 8 yrs ish on the site.... because i have found a way to make this site work for me, and i feel there are certain red flags out there i won't meet or i will keep talking to them until those red flags disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's time to reevaluate your selection methods!"

Agreed, there are so many time wasters that you have to be really strict and out the chaff. It means maybe missing out on some but far less time wasted. Glad to know meets actually happen on here still. I kinda gave up and go to clubs instead

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

3 late cancellations in as many weeks . All thee most bullshit of reasons ...I'm hardly either that scary or revolting , or maybe I am ? So many Fantasists...

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By *eaqueenWoman
over a year ago

Heathrow

My first this week, he did at least have the decency to stop communicating a few days before rather than just not turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"

Im frankly amazed you have had so many bail on you. Judging by your photos I sure as hell wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought.

Good girls like bad boys, bad boys let you down.

Good boys however, reliable, passionate, attentive ... and you know what they say "it's always the quiet ones you have to watch" - kinky little fuckers!

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport


"3 late cancellations in as many weeks . All thee most bullshit of reasons ...I'm hardly either that scary or revolting , or maybe I am ? So many Fantasists... "

Nope.....very nice legs, in fact very sexy legs that seem to go on forever

They all must have been jealous woman pretending to be men...

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

No it's not you. We've had a load of let downs too! But also some good ones. So I just think it's more luck than total judgement!

Or maybe it is you and is us too? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's not you. We've had a load of let downs too! But also some good ones. So I just think it's more luck than total judgement!

Or maybe it is you and is us too? Lol"
Its neither you or the OP they prob liars who are not single and were unable to get away so many cheats on here x female replying x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Hello you two

We noticed your status update and wondered what had happened. You're going about it the way we would, especially when a hotel is booked. Updating your pics, status and posting a meet to drum up interest, fingers crossed it'll do the trick.

Good luck

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I've had one guy not turn up for a social but that's all. I went shopping instead "

Now I’m intrigued - what did you buy?

Must admit my no-show rate has decreased a lot as I’ve become older and wiser!

A lot of people are wannabe swingers but haven’t got the balls when it comes down to it - and some have no intention of ever meeting - they just want the attention!

Look out for:

Those who’ve been here ages but haven’t been verified (doesn’t take much effort to go to an organised social even if you can’t get a ‘sex meet’! ) - or just have cam verifications

Those who want to sext a lot (often all they want)

Those who ask to swap pics and videos all the time (again - often all they’re looking for!)

Also look out for pics so perfect that they may have been pinched from t’internet!

Good luck op - hope your next one turns out to be a great one! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur with the other posters. Wish i was closer as I would love to meet you and certainly wouldn't let you down.

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

Yep wish you were closer too! Also hope that everyone favs your pic and gets it to the top, such a hot body;) stunning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm last 2 posters no idea who they on about but guessing it's a man thing x

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"Hmm last 2 posters no idea who they on about but guessing it's a man thing x"

I was referring to the op, sorry for the confusion

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!

i bet people are going to say "nothing wrong/their loss/I wouldn't do that ect"

but if it is happening 8 in a row, there are issues!

1 may be unfortunate...

2 may be a blip...

but 8.... 8 is a pattern... and you are the common denominator...

so if i had 8 in a row go wrong i would be looking at the way i went thru my process on how i am picking a choosing whom i deciding to meet...

for example... how long are you talking before meeting? are you talking to them on the phone? how are you doing your checks and balances so to speak....

what are you saying in your profile to attact these people... if something isn't working, change it!!!!

I can count the meets i have had gone bad on 1 hand after a good 8 yrs ish on the site.... because i have found a way to make this site work for me, and i feel there are certain red flags out there i won't meet or i will keep talking to them until those red flags disappear"

Agree,maybe going straight to a hotel meet isnt the best way for a first meet either.

Miss

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

My issue with no shows is that obviously everyone has real life but if you have committed the time x effort x expense and emotional commitment to a meet it sucks when someone lets you down last minute x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I've been stood up once. Not nice. Worse was the pathetic excuse that followed. I thought it may have been a man pretending to be a woman with hindsight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single guy. I can accommodate. I have my own house. I would love to have a regular thing with a woman i fancy. Can i find anyone?? I have been looking for years lol."

I think I'm moving to Plymouth.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op, why not try a club, everybody there is real and has turned up

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By *aynek80Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I would be happy just to get a meet. Its these guys that then cancel/cry off tarnishes us single guys making it even harder to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo not you hun ! We've had quite alot of time wasters

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I've had one guy not turn up for a social but that's all. I went shopping instead

Now I’m intrigued - what did you buy?

Must admit my no-show rate has decreased a lot as I’ve become older and wiser!

A lot of people are wannabe swingers but haven’t got the balls when it comes down to it - and some have no intention of ever meeting - they just want the attention!

Look out for:

Those who’ve been here ages but haven’t been verified (doesn’t take much effort to go to an organised social even if you can’t get a ‘sex meet’! ) - or just have cam verifications

Those who want to sext a lot (often all they want)

Those who ask to swap pics and videos all the time (again - often all they’re looking for!)

Also look out for pics so perfect that they may have been pinched from t’internet!

Good luck op - hope your next one turns out to be a great one! ??

"

I don’t fall in to any of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, why not try a club, everybody there is real and has turned up "

This. Especially for couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"

I would happily be regular with you if it wasn't for that pesky distance

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By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Luckily it's not happened to us.....yet! But it's happened to some of our friends on here and I can see how frustrating it is! Especially if you've agreed on a mutual meeting point and then left hanging

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By *iboy1968Man
over a year ago

cramlington

I have had people cancel before not eight in a row but a few. I have also been chatting away to people you think it’s going well and then they block you. Most of those I assume are men pretending to be couples or women. The worst was a meet I had organised and I was driving to with what seemed to be a lovely couple on the way to the meet they or he deleted their profile. I have also had a couple turn round organise a meet so when I come online see the message I would have had to drop all work and go straight there (it was an afternoon meet they wanted) and when I said I couldn’t do the meet at such short notice they blocked me and called me fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your joking me 8 people cried off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem and I'm sure lots of others do, so not just you OP! One reason I prefer going to clubs whenever I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly your meeting the wrong people. There are guys here that are genuine. Open your fecking eyes woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on NSA sites for many years and am neither inexperienced nor stupid, the time wasters are not always obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's time to reevaluate your selection methods!"
dont think that matters at times. We organised a group session for a friend 3 of the guys we had met personally.. several a few times... on the day they all let us down.

Sometimes it just happens. Although we can't even get interest in meets these days

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By *astmidlandscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Our last 5 have been no-shows, and they were just socials. Ho hum. Hoping number 6 will make up for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 in one weekend

Everything just went ..........................

So annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"

Can't imagine anyone standing you up, pity I'm not local

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