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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another question on the above... For couples, would you meet a guy for just soft swing and if you have, did they expect/attempt to get more? And guys, would you honestly meet a couple for soft swing without expecting more?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If that was how the couple wanted to play and there was a mutual connection and attraction there then yes I would - the same would apply regardless of whether it was couple or single I was meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we wouldn't meet a guy for soft swing, that's just not what we're here for.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Another question on the above... For couples, would you meet a guy for just soft swing and if you have, did they expect/attempt to get more? And guys, would you honestly meet a couple for soft swing without expecting more? "

Right now yes. Been to the Doc as getting headaches with erection..... alarm bells ringing.////

turns out I have type II diabetes, since then been careful each time but seems ok, if a lot more difficult to get there if you see what I mean. So just a little anxious now about ability to perform and haven't had the opportunity since.

Therefore looking for soft swing - as a test for me and no I would not expect more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would and have,we started like that and then it grow to more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive my naivety but - What’s a soft swing?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Forgive my naivety but - What’s a soft swing?"

Play without penetrative sex

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Definitely would.

It's all about pleasure and that comes in many forms. As long as both parties are happy then what's not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a few couples, especially amongst fellow party-goers, who have approached me for exactly this - always happy to oblige!

Love hearing a pretty wife moan as she sucks and teases me whilst her guy watches her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm... Not a lot of couples giving their viewpoints. That would be particularly helpful at this time... Xx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Another question on the above... For couples, would you meet a guy for just soft swing and if you have, did they expect/attempt to get more? And guys, would you honestly meet a couple for soft swing without expecting more? "

We do both , but don’t specify which to a potential meet . We go with the flow , and see what happens . It’s all good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met single men for soft play, most have been fine, one or two expect to be able to push the boundaries.

Hardest thing for a couple of our age is finding another couple that are soft swing.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

It's either a social or full monty. No half measures for me.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Another question on the above... For couples, would you meet a guy for just soft swing and if you have, did they expect/attempt to get more? And guys, would you honestly meet a couple for soft swing without expecting more?

We do both , but don’t specify which to a potential meet . We go with the flow , and see what happens . It’s all good .

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We also do both and have had as much fun with soft swing as we have had with full swap but sometimes if we are looking for soft swing only then we will specify before we start to play or during the course of exchanging messages.

All good fun

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"Another question on the above... For couples, would you meet a guy for just soft swing and if you have, did they expect/attempt to get more? And guys, would you honestly meet a couple for soft swing without expecting more? "

Answer 1 yes and 2 yes again. As for expecting more definatly not. We have it on our profile we always say in the inital contacts, then again by phone prior to the meet and in our actual meeting explain exactly what we are up for and not up for. No one has been disappointed (or said so). Couples are the same but once had a couple where one partner hadnt told their partner hence we now explain our boundries before the play starts as that was embrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally a social goes into soft play (usually a kiss turns into more)

I love oral and kissing and teasing but i miss penetration so its not something i will choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the times i have soft played at a club they have always respected the boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have, and had a great time. None have ever pushed the boundaries. If they tried they would have to leave.

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

We're still relatively new to this. But yes. This is what we're looking for, so for us it'd work. Soft swap followed by going back to partners for the penetrative side. Still building on it and this is what we want with the right people.

Each to their own x

Mrs x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

There are lots of soft swap couples, but I think the tendency would be for it to be a couple-couple thing, and a higher proportion of mmf would be full 'swap'.

Of course that's not always the case, as posters above have indicated.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We arranged a soft swap meet with a lad before we were comfortable full swapping; all parties had fun within our boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have a couples account. No, soft swing has never appealed. If we have another guy involved, I want the whole package not just a build up.

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