FabSwingers.com forum: Are some men worried?

By *oping for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Newport - Shropshire

I have messaged and chatted with a number of couples, and when we chat about slow and sensual massages and lot of pleasure for the lady .... the messages dry up and suddenly they lose interest.

Why do you think this happens?

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I wouldn't question it. May be something they didn't like or maybe they got what they need. Or maybe it could be 100 other things. Conversation drying up can be common. It's happened to me sometimes to on both ends of the scale.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Maybe they don’t want ‘sensual’, maybe they don’t like massages, maybe they think you’re too keen on the lady and the husband gets insecure, maybe they’re just teasing you or using your messages for wank fodder... so many possibilities. Only they can answer for themselves though. Mrs x

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By *oping for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Newport - Shropshire

"Maybe they don’t want ‘sensual’, maybe they don’t like massages, maybe they think you’re too keen on the lady and the husband gets insecure, maybe they’re just teasing you or using your messages for wank fodder... so many possibilities. Only they can answer for themselves though. Mrs x "

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows, only they can answer.

Maybe they think they like the idea of it, you explain what's involved and they change their mind.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx"

Well I’m sure you’ll get more interest once prospective playmates/clients read this pitch

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We must get a dozen messages a week offering Jill a sensual massage , there seems to be a lot of masseurs on fab

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!"
Must be the same ones who message us lol and they are most probably giving their selves a sensual massage whilst typing a message

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Couple of thoughts.

As above, lots of guys claim to be masseurs, so it might come across as BSish.

Also it can be overstepping what NSA is, by being oversensual with the woman, it can be seen as pushing yourself in / husband out. Be mindful of the dynamics at play.

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I don't do massages but nothing better than being massaged mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!"

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

Good luck in your quest bud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We must get a dozen messages a week offering Jill a sensual massage , there seems to be a lot of masseurs on fab

I imagine there's probably a lot of firemen too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx

Well I’m sure you’ll get more interest once prospective playmates/clients read this pitch

It's a good pitch for sure..... if a bit cheesy?...but will snag someone!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!"

yes do one! I'll go to a proper clinic for massage not let some dreamer off here touch me up! honestly if that's all you offer then pass me bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The offer of a massage is always something that I have found a bit strange since we've been swinging. It gets asked in messages and it gets asked in clubs. I've never understood why some guys think that offering a massage is a way to tempt a lady sexually. To me a massage is something that's done by a beauty therapist in a health clinic or by a physiotherapist as part of a treatment, and has nothing to to with sex. So I find it all very weird when guys looking for sex use it as their USP.

Mrs

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Well, I do give massages ( my own version) during play. This is something you CANNOT FAKE AN INTEREST IN.

As they say in the west end, u either got it or ......

That said, it is very odd, imo, to venture that bit of info in an attempt to court a meet. I wouldn't fall for it. If it happens during play, cest la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx"

I don't think it's anything to be confused about. That's obviously what works for your regular couple, and that's fine. Yes it's true people shouldn't lead you on by saying they want a sensual massage if they don't, but I do wonder if they dont believe you about the orgasm bit - that comes across as a bit far-fetched which may put some off (would put me off).

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!"

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

'When they realise the extent of the orgasms ' ? So you mean when you make wild, possibly exaggerated claims ?

I think this may be your problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe only offer that if its liked or mentioned on th profile -

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I am always worried but thats just me. I have met some good couples om here sadly most have moved on. You just have to be patient couples are just as picky as everyone else. And never delete your profile its harder when you have lost your verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno? Did you spell everything correctly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!"

With bells on

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Maybe you sound too serious, i dont like it when people on here take themselves and things so serious, maybe you come across as being slightly arrogant and it may be good for some women but doesnt mean it will be good for everyone. People are all different and like different things.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Couple of thoughts.

As above, lots of guys claim to be masseurs, so it might come across as BSish.

Also it can be overstepping what NSA is, by being oversensual with the woman, it can be seen as pushing yourself in / husband out. Be mindful of the dynamics at play."

Spot on

If we were to have an MFM then I do not want a random bloke getting sensual and intimate with my woman... he's there to use his cock, then get out of our lives

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"'When they realise the extent of the orgasms ' ? So you mean when you make wild, possibly exaggerated claims ?

I think this may be your problem. "

Reading this thread through I think you've nailed the issue right there. It's not the offer of a massage so much as the wild claims of orgasms that the couple will find arrogant and off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We must get a dozen messages a week offering Jill a sensual massage , there seems to be a lot of masseurs on fab

I imagine there's probably a lot of firemen too...

not to forget photographers...lol

as for massage, I'm the female and i couldn't think if anything I'd want less than a massage or someone offering me deeply sensual experiences...quite apart from the oil rotting your condoms...

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

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I am confused xx"

You've basically built yourself up for a fall. Promising the world and what then if you fail to deliver?

There's not a one stop shop to guarantee a woman an orgasm, yet that's your claim.

Now, I'm not insecure - and certainly not worried - I mean, I like to think I'm pretty good at the whole sex thing but I'd never head into a meet promising anything.

And in certainly not afraid my wife may have an orgasm - is kind of the point of this whole thing. I'm not going to tell her - we can do all this, but you're not allowed to orgasm with anyone but me. Fuck that Shut, man. I want my wife to relax into a meet and enjoy herself.

Is your attitude that you believe you're better, can give something that the husband can't give - hats the problem - also it comes across that since you guaranteed it, you're going to carry on regardless trying to make it happen even if she's not enjoying it or finding it boring.

We're here for sex not rubbydubs, and it would probably be a fairly boring meet for us if you spent hours on a massage.

Besides, we're not here because I can't satisfy my wife and because there's something missing from our sex life. We're here because we're naughty fuckers, have a healthy sex life, enjoy sex so why not share it with others?

We like to think we're good at it, but we'll not guarantee a thing.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The whole massage shtick is based on the premise that women prefer sensuality to sex so if you offer the former you will clean up. Not only is it a very dubious premise but it is achingly transparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couple of thoughts.

As above, lots of guys claim to be masseurs, so it might come across as BSish.

Also it can be overstepping what NSA is, by being oversensual with the woman, it can be seen as pushing yourself in / husband out. Be mindful of the dynamics at play.

Spot on

If we were to have an MFM then I do not want a random bloke getting sensual and intimate with my woman... he's there to use his cock, then get out of our lives "

And he’s there to use your wife’s pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx"

You're assuming that the lady in the couple will have an amazing orgasm at your hands, maybe they don't want to burst your bubble. One couple is not indicative of every couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens all the time - it's a number of things, timing, loads of other interest from other people (most of us are talking to more than one person at once), something you said that made them think twice.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples have alot of choice as lots of hot men want to meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly if you messaged us I'd lose interest quickly too. Why?

I am married and very in love with my husband, massage falls under the nice bits of marriage a nice sensual evening - I don't want that from a meet.

From a meet I want a good time, something me and hubby can't do one to one. I want to be used, treated like the filthy bitch I am.

I also get bored when someone claims to give multiple orgasms, be the best etc etc they usually disappoint massively. I do however meet people with shared interests, who want a good time, and want to use me. I'm much more about satisfying a guy on a meet, my only really need from them is them to want to fuck every hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged and chatted with a number of couples, and when we chat about slow and sensual massages and lot of pleasure for the lady .... the messages dry up and suddenly they lose interest.

Why do you think this happens?

what does always make me laugh though is the assumption that it must akways be down to some kind of insecurity on the part of the male partner...like the single guy is such a catch and they're clearly so unable to give the female partner what they need that they're threatened by such a man...laughable...

and again, Jane speaking here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged and chatted with a number of couples, and when we chat about slow and sensual massages and lot of pleasure for the lady .... the messages dry up and suddenly they lose interest.

Why do you think this happens?

and again, Jane speaking here..."

This.

Most couples will agree that there is no insecurity - that's why they have such open, interesting and varied sex lives.

I've been in open relationships for years, and the OP (as highlighted above) is well wide of the mark in his assumption that one or other of the partners is going to be threatened by him - if they were, why would they be meeting him/people?

The point is that as the person being invited to join a couple, you're an accessory, someone to bring something different to the dynamic, to make it exciting and interesting - you also strengthen the bond between the couple as a result, not weaken it.

Guys would do well to remember this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged and chatted with a number of couples, and when we chat about slow and sensual massages and lot of pleasure for the lady .... the messages dry up and suddenly they lose interest.

Why do you think this happens?

and again, Jane speaking here...

This.

Most couples will agree that there is no insecurity - that's why they have such open, interesting and varied sex lives.

Guys would do well to remember this."

I think his issue is that they're not meeting him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged and chatted with a number of couples, and when we chat about slow and sensual massages and lot of pleasure for the lady .... the messages dry up and suddenly they lose interest.

Why do you think this happens?

and again, Jane speaking here...

This.

Most couples will agree that there is no insecurity - that's why they have such open, interesting and varied sex lives.

Guys would do well to remember this.

I think his issue is that they're not meeting him..."

Clearly - these threads are ALWAYS about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is if talking to a couple , You should chat to them as your talking to them both .I think some men make the mistake of thinking it's just the female your chatting too .some I bet come over disrespectful towards them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx"
honestly if a guy messaged us assuring us of the orgasms I would have then I would stop contact as it would bore me shitless.. and I would also find the conversation some what deluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx"

the word therapy puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance"

And the word “prop” puts me off meeting couples.

I’m a person, not a bloody prop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance

And the word “prop” puts me off meeting couples.

I’m a person, not a bloody prop

For the purposes of this discussion, I think the word illustrates what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance

And the word “prop” puts me off meeting couples.

I’m a person, not a bloody prop

For the purposes of this discussion, I think the word illustrates what I mean"

And it illustrates why I won't meet couples.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance

And the word “prop” puts me off meeting couples.

I’m a person, not a bloody prop

For the purposes of this discussion, I think the word illustrates what I mean

And it illustrates why I won't meet couples."

I've met plenty of couples in a threesome situation and I've never felt like a prop I have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they think its a gateway too get sex think about it ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance

And the word “prop” puts me off meeting couples.

I’m a person, not a bloody prop

For the purposes of this discussion, I think the word illustrates what I mean

And it illustrates why I won't meet couples."

i get what u mean if not the prop, the toy, or the thing to save the marriage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We must get a dozen messages a week offering Jill a sensual massage , there seems to be a lot of masseurs on fab

I imagine there's probably a lot of firemen too...

A lot of 'nurses' too

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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Guys would do well to remember this."

Disagree with this comment.

We do not invite someone to be our accessory. We invite people to join us for mutually beneficial fun. Which is why we like to see a week presented profile to get an idea of compatibility.

Also, it has nothing to do with bringing excitement to our lives or to make our sex lives interesting.

You implying the same as the OP here, that we cannot provide for each other in some way.

We know enough to keep each other happy, satisfied, interested and excited.

And this is certainly not to strengthen our bond as a couple. If we weren't already rock solid, this would not work.

We do not Swing for any of those reasons. We swing because we want to. We have a perfect relationship and are comfortable enough with each other to enjoy other people's company, and to invite other people to enjoy our already amazing sex lives with us.

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By *tongueMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Cos its a single man your talking to

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"The offer of a massage is always something that I have found a bit strange since we've been swinging. It gets asked in messages and it gets asked in clubs. I've never understood why some guys think that offering a massage is a way to tempt a lady sexually. To me a massage is something that's done by a beauty therapist in a health clinic or by a physiotherapist as part of a treatment, and has nothing to to with sex. So I find it all very weird when guys looking for sex use it as their USP.

Mrs"

Exactly!

I never understood why people offer massages as a pretext to get some action. If I was a woman, I'd find it damn creepy and cheesy and that would turn me off.

But guess it works for some people and that's why they still use that line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spin on this is that the claim sounds very pretentious. It may work on some people but others will choose to laugh and avoid.

OP also seems to assume the woman isn't getting satisfied by her partner hence the partner feeling threatened by how much better he would do. How much more ignorant and/or arrogant can a guy be?

It's pretty impressive new levels of arrogance isn't it

Alot of men simply dont understand that they are a 'prop'

They think that they are there because the male partner cant satisy the lady

Frightening ignorance

And the word “prop” puts me off meeting couples.

I’m a person, not a bloody prop

For the purposes of this discussion, I think the word illustrates what I mean

And it illustrates why I won't meet couples."

Everyone is entitled to doing what appeals to them. I personally would treat everyone involved in a meet respectfully. The point of my comment is that it is disrespectful meeting or talking to a couple and ignoring the needs of one of them for your own pleasure. OP wants to understand, so the idea is to enlighten him that his issues stem from that. The dynamics of playing with a couple will be different from playing with a single person and anyone meeting a couple needs to respect that or not meet couples in the first place... Xx

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By *oping for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Newport - Shropshire

"Honest opinion...if you said that to me id be calling BS and thinking 'Yeah Yeah, you and a thousand other guys who think they can give a massage and make me cum'

If you knew how many arrogant men are on here claiming to do this and using it as a means to get meets then you'd understand...some of them couldn't give a massage if their life depended on it!

As for orgasms...pah!Must be the same ones who message us lol and they are most probably giving their selves a sensual massage whilst typing a message

quite possibly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

Exactly!

I never understood why people offer massages as a pretext to get some action. If I was a woman, I'd find it damn creepy and cheesy and that would turn me off.

But guess it works for some people and that's why they still use that line."

i do find it creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We must get a dozen messages a week offering Jill a sensual massage , there seems to be a lot of masseurs on fab

I imagine there's probably a lot of firemen too...

A lot of 'nurses' too

Naturally

Though outside of Fab, I sometimes find it a tad one-sided when an engine full of actual firemen rocks up for ladies to perv over. I don't mind that one bit and watching a lady perv is utterly delightful.

But in the interests of fairness, where's my minibus full of nurses to have a good gander at?

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

My wife has had several massages, we find it a good way to start off a session, it relaxes her and stimulates her. The massage doesn't really last too long before she has his cock in her mouth. The word 'prop' is a bit harsh, we see the guy as a human vibrator, an extension to our sex life but he does need to have a personality and be able to hold a decent conversation.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"My wife has had several massages, we find it a good way to start off a session, it relaxes her and stimulates her. The massage doesn't really last too long before she has his cock in her mouth. The word 'prop' is a bit harsh, we see the guy as a human vibrator, an extension to our sex life but he does need to have a personality and be able to hold a decent conversation. "

The word prop is a bit harsh, but human vibrator isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially they say they want sensual and erotic massages and when they realise the extent of the orgasms the lady has they seem to back off quickly and stop chatting.

I meet one couple regularly at the moment and they tell me their love making is so much more intense after a massage and therapy session with me ..

I am confused xx"

So many men on her claim they can give women orgasm after orgasm etc. Usually for us it just sounds like yet more bullshit.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The word prop is a bit harsh, but human vibrator isn't? "

When we have an mmf, we strap an old diesel engine to their back. They vibrate like mad then. If it damages him or worse, we just get a new one

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

The word prop is a bit harsh, but human vibrator isn't? "

A prop is something static a human vibrator moves.

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Hubby here. I recognise that there are guys who can satisfy my wife far better than me and I am comfortable with this. Our sex life is brilliant but some guys are simply better between the sheets. However Buttons looks hard to find the right guys as a great many make a lot of promises and you have to read between the lines and verifications to find truly hot guys. One thing that is an immediate turn off for her is arrogance. It is hard to stand out from the crowd for single guys but if other like minded ladies have recommended the guy and had repeat meets with the same guy then this can speak volumes She always gets me to vet the emails and often I will spot a negative where she does not. I for my part am always happy if she has been truly satisfied; the measure is normally that she wants to meet the guy again....soon. She never uses the guy, for her the pleasure has to be equally satisfying for her lovers

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

The word prop is a bit harsh, but human vibrator isn't?

When we have an mmf, we strap an old diesel engine to their back. They vibrate like mad then. If it damages him or worse, we just get a new one

A new engine or man?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The word prop is a bit harsh, but human vibrator isn't?

When we have an mmf, we strap an old diesel engine to their back. They vibrate like mad then. If it damages him or worse, we just get a new one

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