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By *londe_Princessx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've never been to a club before but would love to pluck up the courage and go!

Is there any do's and dont's to single females attending a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really, just be polite don’t be pushy and don’t go with expectations and remember no actually means no, if someone says no don’t question them why just respect it and move on.

Above all have fun!

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By *londe_Princessx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Don't let them put anything in your mouth or get you wet after midnight

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By *londe_Princessx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And is everyone shy and nervous their first time at the club?

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By *elkinMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Yes, don't do anything that you don't want to.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

You will be made welcome and if you are easy going and enjoy a good chat you will be away at no time.

Don't rush at it and just be yourself. You will have a great time.

Enjoy

M and M

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By *londe_Princessx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you x

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Never enough single women in clubs, you'll get plenty of attention

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

Is there any do's and dont's to single females attending a club? "

no different to anyone else going to a club, be that a couple or a single guy,

go out there, talk to people and have conversation (all start with the same word "hello") don't have too much to drink, and generally don't be an arse.......

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's normal to be scared and nervous. I still get a bit nervous and I've been going to clubs alone for over a year. The hardest part is just walking through the door.

Club staff generally keep a look out for single ladies and make sure you are ok.

Tell them it's your first visit and they will give you a tour and explain the rules/etiquette. If anyone does anything to make you feel uncomfortable report it to the staff and they will deal with it. I've not had any problems myself and have always felt safe and comfortable at clubs.

You don't have to play if you don't want to, just say no thanks. On my first club visit I just wanted to get a feel for the place and see if it was for me. Everyone was very respectful of this.

Just relax, be sociable and have a good night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And is everyone shy and nervous their first time at the club? "

We did our first club this last weekend we were terrified lololol

I think now...why?

We were welcomed very warmly it did help that we'd gone with friends, everyone was very polite and none pushy we had a total blast!

Just be yourself, don't have too much to drink 1-2 to calm the nerves and just make friends.

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By *londe_Princessx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks everyone ! I'll be giving it a try soon hopefully

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