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"Hooked up with a sexy black man recently and think it has flicked a switch it me lol Can't get enough of him grrr " | |||
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"Hooked up with a sexy black man recently and think it has flicked a switch it me lol Can't get enough of him grrr " Fair play,go for it | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ????" At least it was fun while it lasted | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? At least it was fun while it lasted " would is wife not of joined in? | |||
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"I never have either but omg he's hot! She's a lucky girl )" Was he to die for? | |||
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"Hooked up with a sexy white man recently and think it has flicked a switch it me Can't get enough of him grrr " I hooked up with an Asian woman recently... well, ok, 10 years ago, but it really flicked a switch. We've been married 8 years now, I think I'm gonna keep her. | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ????" Ever feel used | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? Ever feel used " i would assume not since this is a swinging site and not a dating one . | |||
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"I never have either but omg he's hot! She's a lucky girl )" Well she is if they are both swingers, if she isn’t then she’s being cheated on | |||
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"Surely its all down to preference. We don't find non Europeans attractive. We are sure somebody will take offence at that but its not a racial comment. I don't like the taste of Balsamic Vinegar or sweetners in coffee,the colour purple and Vauxhall cars so that should upset some of the PC brigade as well. Thank heaven for freedom of choice. G&A" Talk about faux indignation! Nobody on this thread has suggested it's inappropriate to have the freedom of choice, nor is there evidence of the mythical 'pc brigade' being 'upset'! If you prefer white guys that's great, good for you but it has little to do with the subject matter. | |||
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"Hooked up with a sexy black man recently and think it has flicked a switch it me lol Can't get enough of him grrr " Cool story bro | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? Ever feel used i would assume not since this is a swinging site and not a dating one ." you should tell women on FAB THIS LOL | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? Ever feel used i would assume not since this is a swinging site and not a dating one .you should tell women on FAB THIS LOL" why? Do you make the woman you meet feel used or something. | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? Ever feel used i would assume not since this is a swinging site and not a dating one .you should tell women on FAB THIS LOLwhy? Do you make the woman you meet feel used or something." Only when previously discussed, and agreed that that's the end goal..... | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? Ever feel used i would assume not since this is a swinging site and not a dating one .you should tell women on FAB THIS LOLwhy? Do you make the woman you meet feel used or something. Only when previously discussed, and agreed that that's the end goal....." that's the good used not the sly dig version that was originally implied . | |||
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"Surely its all down to preference. We don't find non Europeans attractive. We are sure somebody will take offence at that but its not a racial comment. I don't like the taste of Balsamic Vinegar or sweetners in coffee,the colour purple and Vauxhall cars so that should upset some of the PC brigade as well. Thank heaven for freedom of choice. G&A Talk about faux indignation! Nobody on this thread has suggested it's inappropriate to have the freedom of choice, nor is there evidence of the mythical 'pc brigade' being 'upset'! If you prefer white guys that's great, good for you but it has little to do with the subject matter." Amusing to see OP's enjoyment with a black guy upsets some people that much. God, fab has so many children | |||
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"Surely its all down to preference. We don't find non Europeans attractive. We are sure somebody will take offence at that but its not a racial comment. I don't like the taste of Balsamic Vinegar or sweetners in coffee,the colour purple and Vauxhall cars so that should upset some of the PC brigade as well. Thank heaven for freedom of choice. G&A Talk about faux indignation! Nobody on this thread has suggested it's inappropriate to have the freedom of choice, nor is there evidence of the mythical 'pc brigade' being 'upset'! If you prefer white guys that's great, good for you but it has little to do with the subject matter. Amusing to see OP's enjoyment with a black guy upsets some people that much. God, fab has so many children " Of course it does upset some people on here. Reading through the posts, I could sense the thinly veiled hostility at the OP's post, which makes you wonder. People will go to any lengths to denigrate anything interesting or good about a black male. And they say society has moved on, | |||
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"Surely its all down to preference. We don't find non Europeans attractive. We are sure somebody will take offence at that but its not a racial comment. I don't like the taste of Balsamic Vinegar or sweetners in coffee,the colour purple and Vauxhall cars so that should upset some of the PC brigade as well. Thank heaven for freedom of choice. G&A" You're 61 years old so that explains the attitude | |||
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"Surely its all down to preference. We don't find non Europeans attractive. We are sure somebody will take offence at that but its not a racial comment. I don't like the taste of Balsamic Vinegar or sweetners in coffee,the colour purple and Vauxhall cars so that should upset some of the PC brigade as well. Thank heaven for freedom of choice. G&A Talk about faux indignation! Nobody on this thread has suggested it's inappropriate to have the freedom of choice, nor is there evidence of the mythical 'pc brigade' being 'upset'! If you prefer white guys that's great, good for you but it has little to do with the subject matter." I like bacon double cheese burgers | |||
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"I did start to type a detailed reply but thought, why bother. You have me down as an aged racist. How wrong you are but never mind you have your preferences and we have ours. Long live freedom of choice. " Your profile already states that you only meet white europeans and then you also feel the need to comment on OPs preference that has nothing to do with yours. Yeah, you're looking pretty fucking racist to me. | |||
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"Surely its all down to preference. We don't find non Europeans attractive. We are sure somebody will take offence at that but its not a racial comment. I don't like the taste of Balsamic Vinegar or sweetners in coffee,the colour purple and Vauxhall cars so that should upset some of the PC brigade as well. Thank heaven for freedom of choice. G&A You're 61 years old so that explains the attitude " I would not even put it down to age. Just another closted Fab bigot hiding behind "preference". It really does beg the question why one would run into threads about preferences in no relation to theirs unless they have some kind of deep seated prejudice. I damn sure dont run into threads about those I have no interest in meeting. | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested " Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing? | |||
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"I did start to type a detailed reply but thought, why bother. You have me down as an aged racist. How wrong you are but never mind you have your preferences and we have ours. Long live freedom of choice. " ".....but never mind you have your preferences and we have ours...." That's true. And some people's preference is to live in pre 1950 Britain. | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing?" That’s exactly it ... I know white guys that have blown me away and white guys that have left me cold Although I’ve never met with a black guy if I did and he blew my mind I wouldn’t think it’s because of his skin colour I would think HE himself must just be amazing | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing? That’s exactly it ... I know white guys that have blown me away and white guys that have left me cold Although I’ve never met with a black guy if I did and he blew my mind I wouldn’t think it’s because of his skin colour I would think HE himself must just be amazing " The problem with discussions is that the only people who they seem to attract a lot of the time are people who have no interest in black guys or have never met black guys. Pray tell, why the need to come in and comment? Who really cares what you think? I dont comment on threads on BBW's or petite women because thats not my lane. Therefore I dont participate. What I dont do is come in with asinine statements about those who do partake in said interest. To a lot of black guys like me, we've seen the passive aggressive ambivalence all before. I find kinda pathetic when people try to mask with concern trolling. You and the rest of the people making these statements in this thread are not really fooling anyone. | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing? That’s exactly it ... I know white guys that have blown me away and white guys that have left me cold Although I’ve never met with a black guy if I did and he blew my mind I wouldn’t think it’s because of his skin colour I would think HE himself must just be amazing The problem with discussions is that the only people who they seem to attract a lot of the time are people who have no interest in black guys or have never met black guys. Pray tell, why the need to come in and comment? Who really cares what you think? I dont comment on threads on BBW's or petite women because thats not my lane. Therefore I dont participate. What I dont do is come in with asinine statements about those who do partake in said interest. To a lot of black guys like me, we've seen the passive aggressive ambivalence all before. I find kinda pathetic when people try to mask with concern trolling. You and the rest of the people making these statements in this thread are not really fooling anyone. " As a long standing anti racism campaigner, I disagree. The op made a comment that distinguishes someone because they are black, in a positive way. If it had been negative then it would be wrong? Yes? So to differentiate it just because it's positive is wrong. Much better to say I had an amazing meet this guy blew me away, he was sexy, black and flicked all my switches? | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing? That’s exactly it ... I know white guys that have blown me away and white guys that have left me cold Although I’ve never met with a black guy if I did and he blew my mind I wouldn’t think it’s because of his skin colour I would think HE himself must just be amazing The problem with discussions is that the only people who they seem to attract a lot of the time are people who have no interest in black guys or have never met black guys. Pray tell, why the need to come in and comment? Who really cares what you think? I dont comment on threads on BBW's or petite women because thats not my lane. Therefore I dont participate. What I dont do is come in with asinine statements about those who do partake in said interest. To a lot of black guys like me, we've seen the passive aggressive ambivalence all before. I find kinda pathetic when people try to mask with concern trolling. You and the rest of the people making these statements in this thread are not really fooling anyone. " Exactly why I was so hesitant in even replying to this thread !!! My question was valid and nice ... nothing racist, nothing dissing just simply asking why the needs to add the ‘black’ into it I don’t have to justify myself at all and freedom of speech allows me to add to a forum post .. just because a BBW post or petite post doesn’t float your boat or have interest to you doesn’t mean I have to shy away from a post. It’s attitudes like this that’s hinder others understanding of subjects that are deemed ‘different’ or ‘sensitive’ and personally find that it’s actually your manner that is more passive / aggressive than mine in the foremost You say you don’t care what I think but clearly you do a little to feel the need to comment on my post so maybe I should say to you ... pray tell, why the need to comment ?? | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing? That’s exactly it ... I know white guys that have blown me away and white guys that have left me cold Although I’ve never met with a black guy if I did and he blew my mind I wouldn’t think it’s because of his skin colour I would think HE himself must just be amazing The problem with discussions is that the only people who they seem to attract a lot of the time are people who have no interest in black guys or have never met black guys. Pray tell, why the need to come in and comment? Who really cares what you think? I dont comment on threads on BBW's or petite women because thats not my lane. Therefore I dont participate. What I dont do is come in with asinine statements about those who do partake in said interest. To a lot of black guys like me, we've seen the passive aggressive ambivalence all before. I find kinda pathetic when people try to mask with concern trolling. You and the rest of the people making these statements in this thread are not really fooling anyone. As a long standing anti racism campaigner, I disagree. The op made a comment that distinguishes someone because they are black, in a positive way. If it had been negative then it would be wrong? Yes? So to differentiate it just because it's positive is wrong. Much better to say I had an amazing meet this guy blew me away, he was sexy, black and flicked all my switches? " | |||
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"I've been with black men and I've had some great times but don't see the point in starting a thread like this, that just emphasises what skin colour I've had ............ " Exactly, which is why some of us took the mick | |||
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"Hooked up with a sexy white man recently and think it has flicked a switch it me Can't get enough of him grrr " This is actually what happened to me hahaha | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? Ever feel used i would assume not since this is a swinging site and not a dating one ." I didn't meet him on here but no I don't feel used as I used him more lol | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested " I just mean never been attracted to black guys before but his skin on mine has done something it was amazing and yes he was amazing but he has different ways so polite and interested in what I had to say! Just different to guys I normally meet | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested I just mean never been attracted to black guys before but his skin on mine has done something it was amazing and yes he was amazing but he has different ways so polite and interested in what I had to say! Just different to guys I normally meet " Aha I get you .. I was genuinely interested but as usual some turn a simple question reply into something wrong .. thank you for replying | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ????" I’m sure there’s more men and black ones who’d gladly take his place I would | |||
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" As a long standing anti racism campaigner, I disagree. The op made a comment that distinguishes someone because they are black, in a positive way. If it had been negative then it would be wrong? Yes? So to differentiate it just because it's positive is wrong. Much better to say I had an amazing meet this guy blew me away, he was sexy, black and flicked all my switches? " bingo........ i am always said where do you want the onus being focused on... for example, do you want: a) to be a black guy, who just happens to be nice! b) to be a nice guy, who just happens to be black!" because what you are doing is focusing the onus on the thing you Can control (the Nice) over the thing that you can't (the Black) not saying black isn't positive... but if you are black today... there is a 100% chance you are going to be black tomorrow! I would like to think that if i am nice today... I would try and be as nice tomorrow, but there is always the possibility i could be or say something that could make me a "grade a arse" | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? I’m sure there’s more men and black ones who’d gladly take his place I would " You can't your mine lol | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? I’m sure there’s more men and black ones who’d gladly take his place I would You can't your mine lol " Am I now I’m eager to see what it’s like to belong to you x | |||
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"Good luck to you. Still have a fantasy of meeting a black women " not many about unfortunately... | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? I’m sure there’s more men and black ones who’d gladly take his place I would " Yes please | |||
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"He's going back to his wife so it's going to end soon ???? I’m sure there’s more men and black ones who’d gladly take his place I would You can't your mine lol " We could share him together | |||
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"I’ve just read through this thread and I am going to sound completely naive here but the OP titles it ‘Black Guys’ , thinks it’s flicked a switch and can’t get enough of him Am I being dumb here ? Why is the focus on him being black ? Surely it’s because he’s Hot and a really great guy and amazing in bed ? Right ... does this mean the switch is flicked for her wanting other black guys bearing in mind he might just be an exceptional man ? I don’t really understand ? Would it be the same if the title was white guys ? Or say Eastern European ? Surely having an amazing time with him means she’s just had an amazing time with him not because of his skin colour ? And I’m genuinely asking , no malice at all .. I’m genuinely interested Was genuinely just going to post this! Surely you've met a really hot guy who did it for you? I'm sure that's a better description as you don't say met a really hot guy with size 9 feet, all men with size 9's must be fucking amazing? That’s exactly it ... I know white guys that have blown me away and white guys that have left me cold Although I’ve never met with a black guy if I did and he blew my mind I wouldn’t think it’s because of his skin colour I would think HE himself must just be amazing " We can change that for you | |||
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