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Meetings that surpass all expectations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Afternoon everyone ... so was just chatting with a mate about meets and how the ones that are spontaneous and that you don't really have any expectations of sometimes turn out to be the best! In my case some are right up there as the top sexual experiences of my life. (Craftyplumber - take a bow lol) Whereas some meets that are planned turn out to be a big build up with an even bigger anticlimax.

So is spontaneity best?

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be for sure.

But then other meets which come with planning and include lots of pre meet messages teasing one another building sexual tension can lead to a hell of a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon everyone ... so was just chatting with a mate about meets and how the ones that are spontaneous and that you don't really have any expectations of sometimes turn out to be the best! In my case some are right up there as the top sexual experiences of my life. (Craftyplumber - take a bow lol) Whereas some meets that are planned turn out to be a big build up with an even bigger anticlimax.

So is spontaneity best?

Em x "

I'm sure craftyplumber is dead chuffed with himself

Glad you enjoyed!

Some of my best fucks ever have been totally spontaneous at parties. All the talking about what you're going to do etc before a planned meet just bores the pants off me and it's usually always a let down!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Afternoon everyone ... so was just chatting with a mate about meets and how the ones that are spontaneous and that you don't really have any expectations of sometimes turn out to be the best! In my case some are right up there as the top sexual experiences of my life. (Craftyplumber - take a bow lol) Whereas some meets that are planned turn out to be a big build up with an even bigger anticlimax.

So is spontaneity best?

Em x

I'm sure craftyplumber is dead chuffed with himself

Glad you enjoyed!

Some of my best fucks ever have been totally spontaneous at parties. All the talking about what you're going to do etc before a planned meet just bores the pants off me and it's usually always a let down!"

Yep agree with talking about it all too much before as once you are in the moment everything else goes out the window anyway lol

My first ever foray into this debauched world was a spontaneous meet with a couple that led to a club - shocked even myself that night lol

I think he might have a little smile to himself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little smirk

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ve had both kinds and so far they’ve all turned out to be fantastic.

I take from this that planned or spontaneously, any meets with me will be awesome

Don’t ever let me believe my own bullshit, ok?

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I agree that when you're least expecting it you can be the most surprised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had both kinds and so far they’ve all turned out to be fantastic.

I take from this that planned or spontaneously, any meets with me will be awesome

Don’t ever let me believe my own bullshit, ok?"

Ha ha ??

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Afternoon everyone ... so was just chatting with a mate about meets and how the ones that are spontaneous and that you don't really have any expectations of sometimes turn out to be the best! In my case some are right up there as the top sexual experiences of my life. (Craftyplumber - take a bow lol) Whereas some meets that are planned turn out to be a big build up with an even bigger anticlimax.

So is spontaneity best?

Em x "

Without a doubt we find spontenaity always turns out best .

Can’t be doing with the big build up , and the inevitable let downs , so we no longer plan ahead at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree. Spontaneous meets are usually more fun as you have not had the big build up and I find I am so much more relaxed so can perform better.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

don't agree- my more spontanious meet are the onces I struggle to remember as they were nothing special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My spontaneous ones have been my most forgettable. I really enjoy the build up and find i enjoy those meets so much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, the best meets I've had are the ones that I really didn't make an effort with. Usually been a coffee in town, no makeup, no heels and hair up. Those have been great meets because I've been myself.

The meet on fab was meeting my other 1/2 on here. Turned him down a few times and cancelled and he gave me another chance and it was the loveliest flirty meet ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure one or the other is best? It's what happens on the day that counts.... I find the better ones are repeats as you build up more knowledge of the other person....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little smirk "

*inserts High 5 emoji*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little smirk

*inserts High 5 emoji*"

Patting myself on the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little smirk

*inserts High 5 emoji*

Patting myself on the back "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've had 2 social meets after briefly chatting, where the chemistry was amazing & led onto incredible nights.

One of which is now a regular FB, the other when work allows.

I've chatted to someone for weeks, the build up was intense then was left totaly flat.

But I've also chatted to someone on here, almost from day 1, took 2 months to arrange a social, then another few weeks (due to shift work) to get together, and it was unbelievable and I'm counting down to seeing him again.

Guess I have no real answer!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"My spontaneous ones have been my most forgettable. I really enjoy the build up and find i enjoy those meets so much more "

Agreed, the build, the banter, the anticipation.... don’t get me horny, I need to sleep.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Afternoon everyone ... so was just chatting with a mate about meets and how the ones that are spontaneous and that you don't really have any expectations of sometimes turn out to be the best! In my case some are right up there as the top sexual experiences of my life. (Craftyplumber - take a bow lol) Whereas some meets that are planned turn out to be a big build up with an even bigger anticlimax.

So is spontaneity best?

for me - best meets are when a plan comes together!!

Em x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had 2 social meets after briefly chatting, where the chemistry was amazing & led onto incredible nights.

One of which is now a regular FB, the other when work allows.

I've chatted to someone for weeks, the build up was intense then was left totaly flat.

But I've also chatted to someone on here, almost from day 1, took 2 months to arrange a social, then another few weeks (due to shift work) to get together, and it was unbelievable and I'm counting down to seeing him again.

Guess I have no real answer! "

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