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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m interested in if any ladies have experienced this . We had a meet with a single guy recently who was very large in the trouser department .. it was all going well until he tried to penetrate me it was like he was too big and it was agony , he tried a few times more but then I had to stop it because I just couldn’t stand the pain anymore ... can it be possible that a guy can be too large ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If pants too long roll them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course if it ain't gonna fit no point forcing it is there now ,not all ladies can take or want hung guys ,I know I much prefer average for pleasure not pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No good if dry .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally possible but the right position and lube can help

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By *an Sex 100Man
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Hi as a bi bottom guy that has had anal sex as the bottom since I was 17 you have to work at taking a large penis in anal sex,the anus unlike a femails vagina makes no natural lubricant so you need to add lube preferably water or silicon based up your rectum and on the tops penis prior to and during anal sex.

But before you try anal for the first time you need to work at stretching your anal sphincter with lube and a finger then 2 then 3 then use a slim disco then move to a larger size.

Try pushing out as the penis goes up your anus like as if you are doing a poo that opens your anal sphincter.

If you do a poo an hour prior to anal your rectum should be free of poo for the top,however you could wash your rectum out with a small rectal syringe and warm water 1/2 an hour prior to anal play to make sure it's free from feces.

You need to be aware that it's very easy as the bottom in anal sex to pick up an STI or HIV in bareback anal sex so if you don't know the sexual status of the top guy then insist he covers up with a condom, you could take precautions yourself by inserting a female condom (femidom) up your anus minus the inner ring with plenty of lube inside the femidom and up your rectum. Or get the top guy to put it over his penis like a loose condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m interested in if any ladies have experienced this . We had a meet with a single guy recently who was very large in the trouser department .. it was all going well until he tried to penetrate me it was like he was too big and it was agony , he tried a few times more but then I had to stop it because I just couldn’t stand the pain anymore ... can it be possible that a guy can be too large ? "

It must be possible for you if it wouldn't go in. I think you've answered you're own question x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would go in but was very painful with every thrust .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested to know who this guy is love a huge cock

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

the bigger the cock the more time I need before penetration. makes a huge (he he) difference. also the position- some just go too deep or at a funny angle which can be ouch. try taking control yourself and be the one deciding how deep, how fast and stuff and do what is comfortable for you. tell him not to move- can be fun anyway

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

I have had a couple that were massive (10" and 12"). It bloody hurt whichever position we tried and use plenty of lube.

Personally a cock 7" (thats thick) and under is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure if a guy can be to large but if u give me his user name i will be willing to research the matter for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this a few times

Sometimes it doesn't matter how lubed up you are or ho gentle the guy is, it's soooooo painful

You're not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be the position of your anatomy? I know it sounds daft.

I have a bicornuate uterus, which is tilted. Sometimes it makes penetration difficult.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I’m interested in if any ladies have experienced this . We had a meet with a single guy recently who was very large in the trouser department .. it was all going well until he tried to penetrate me it was like he was too big and it was agony , he tried a few times more but then I had to stop it because I just couldn’t stand the pain anymore ... can it be possible that a guy can be too large ? "

Definitely! I recently played with a guy in a club. He had the biggest cock, length and girth, I have ever seen (Yes - there are 12 inchers out there!) It was lovely to play with and wank but I just couldn't take him without it hurting too much. Frustrating and disappointing for both of us, but a modest compensation when I wanked him and he spurted on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

physically no a man should ever be to big we give birth from there and ive never seen a cock the size of a babies head but to take a large cock u have to be relaxed which isnt easy when ur think ohmg look at the size of it how am i gonna take that and the more its not going in the less relaxed u become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be the position of your anatomy? I know it sounds daft.

I have a bicornuate uterus, which is tilted. Sometimes it makes penetration difficult."

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be the position of your anatomy? I know it sounds daft.

I have a bicornuate uterus, which is tilted. Sometimes it makes penetration difficult.

Ditto x"
good morning gorgeous xx

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I find having had a good orgasm often loosens me up to take bigger guys so tell him to get down below and get eating first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"physically no a man should ever be to big we give birth from there and ive never seen a cock the size of a babies head but to take a large cock u have to be relaxed which isnt easy when ur think ohmg look at the size of it how am i gonna take that and the more its not going in the less relaxed u become"

width i mean it would fit... length u can take what u can take but it would still penetrate to at least the size of an average cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find having had a good orgasm often loosens me up to take bigger guys so tell him to get down below and get eating first!"

ur more relaxed after u orgasm and the natural lube also helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I didn't meet him again. Lesson learned.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"the bigger the cock the more time I need before penetration. makes a huge (he he) difference. also the position- some just go too deep or at a funny angle which can be ouch. try taking control yourself and be the one deciding how deep, how fast and stuff and do what is comfortable for you. tell him not to move- can be fun anyway "

This and lots of lube, so things can slide and move around. (Nothing worse than your cervix being repeatedly hit by a angry cock!)

Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the bigger the cock the more time I need before penetration. makes a huge (he he) difference. also the position- some just go too deep or at a funny angle which can be ouch. try taking control yourself and be the one deciding how deep, how fast and stuff and do what is comfortable for you. tell him not to move- can be fun anyway

This and lots of lube, so things can slide and move around. (Nothing worse than your cervix being repeatedly hit by a angry cock!)

Sx"
lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi as a bi bottom guy that has had anal sex as the bottom since I was 17 you have to work at taking a large penis in anal sex,the anus unlike a femails vagina makes no natural lubricant so you need to add lube preferably water or silicon based up your rectum and on the tops penis prior to and during anal sex.

But before you try anal for the first time you need to work at stretching your anal sphincter with lube and a finger then 2 then 3 then use a slim disco then move to a larger size.

Try pushing out as the penis goes up your anus like as if you are doing a poo that opens your anal sphincter.

If you do a poo an hour prior to anal your rectum should be free of poo for the top,however you could wash your rectum out with a small rectal syringe and warm water 1/2 an hour prior to anal play to make sure it's free from feces.

You need to be aware that it's very easy as the bottom in anal sex to pick up an STI or HIV in bareback anal sex so if you don't know the sexual status of the top guy then insist he covers up with a condom, you could take precautions yourself by inserting a female condom (femidom) up your anus minus the inner ring with plenty of lube inside the femidom and up your rectum. Or get the top guy to put it over his penis like a loose condom."

who said anything about anal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone ... I think that’s the cause of the pain he was hitting my cervix , still feel sore .. changed our profile accordingly no Vwe ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone ... I think that’s the cause of the pain he was hitting my cervix , still feel sore .. changed our profile accordingly no Vwe .. "

I can confidently state anatomy has totally everything do with it - the position of the cervix and also different women's abilities to 'tent' (look it up lol)

Before joining here I had previously had a 'large experience' but I met a guy on the scene who is literally larger than life! He took it teasingly slow and tbh I had to hold myself back from causing my own discomfort, but with an expert guide it was mind blowing and frankly any discomfort was replaced with an almost too intense pleasure

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I was in a female glory hole a few weeks ago and took a BBC, and it really hurt. It was definitely hitting my cervix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find having had a good orgasm often loosens me up to take bigger guys so tell him to get down below and get eating first!"

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your monthly cycle also has an effect on where your cervix sits, it could've been related to this also?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Could be your subconscious making you tense. You may have been tense in the anticipation of such a size and awaiting the pain. Try relaxing beforehand, plenty of lube and go with the flow

Ed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Internal bruising is not fun! I much prefer average sized cocks! One guy I have had to tell outright that I can never play with him again because he was far too big...shame tho, he was hot!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"physically no a man should ever be to big we give birth from there and ive never seen a cock the size of a babies head but to take a large cock u have to be relaxed which isnt easy when ur think ohmg look at the size of it how am i gonna take that and the more its not going in the less relaxed u become"

I knew someone would draw the analogy with giving birth, but it doesn't hold. Everyone knows childbirth is damned painful. Fucking isn't supposed to be painful. That's the point of the OP's question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your monthly cycle also has an effect on where your cervix sits, it could've been related to this also?"

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I'm not that big (7-8") but I still hit my Mrs cervix-some ladies are just smaller inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be. I have struggled many times and have had to politely apologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not that big (7-8") but I still hit my Mrs cervix-some ladies are just smaller inside "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I experienced it a long time ago and it was awful. He kept saying don't worry about it. It will streach. I eventually said no sorry you'll have to stop.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Internal bruising is not fun! I much prefer average sized cocks! One guy I have had to tell outright that I can never play with him again because he was far too big...shame tho, he was hot! "
this .had a very similar situation.think guys care more about big cocks than woman do.olso think alot of vwe guys have experienced the let down too which must be frustrating.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"physically no a man should ever be to big we give birth from there and ive never seen a cock the size of a babies head but to take a large cock u have to be relaxed which isnt easy when ur think ohmg look at the size of it how am i gonna take that and the more its not going in the less relaxed u become

I knew someone would draw the analogy with giving birth, but it doesn't hold. Everyone knows childbirth is damned painful. Fucking isn't supposed to be painful. That's the point of the OP's question."
haha.good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"physically no a man should ever be to big we give birth from there and ive never seen a cock the size of a babies head but to take a large cock u have to be relaxed which isnt easy when ur think ohmg look at the size of it how am i gonna take that and the more its not going in the less relaxed u become

I knew someone would draw the analogy with giving birth, but it doesn't hold. Everyone knows childbirth is damned painful. Fucking isn't supposed to be painful. That's the point of the OP's question."

Quite! That's what contractions are for, make everything wider down there, babies don't just pop out without a bit of effort

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By *r appyMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

stand further away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told men I won't meet them if they have a big cock and they come up with excuses or say it'll be fine.

Then I definitely won't meet them. Not wise to meet men who won't take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a few occasions if the woman i was having sex with was not well lubed etc and dry its hurt them alot the trick is the wetter the better lol but ive been in some bloody tight places

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

hiya - the guy's perspective, FWIW - a size mismatch is not satisfying for me either. Anything where I can't "go for it" and have to work carefully, restricting myself to look after the lady - is the decent thing to do, but means it can't be satisfying for myself.

I've previously asked ladies I have met in conventional "dating" and they have thought it was something weird - but then there you are, only 2/3rds in, she's already in discomfort and - it's not going to work. You are with someone you really like as a person, you really care for her - and now this... It's awful when it happens.

I'm not particularly big, but some ladies are very "petite".

I hope that male viewpoint is helpful...

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