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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate all the sexual labels and boxes people are put in. I'd be considered as a "dominant" male and have a preference for "submissive" women...

However I would love to completely submit myself over to a women for her to have her way with me a make me do whatever she wants. I don't want anything inside me but think it would be so hot to be submissive for a woman to have her wicked way with me.

Any pointers please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean have her way with you? Give me some examples of how you'd like that to go.

Just say you like both scenario's. People can be switch and like both sub and dom.

Of course it will put off the Elite BDSM crowd who think people are 'born dom'...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean have her way with you? Give me some examples of how you'd like that to go.

Just say you like both scenario's. People can be switch and like both sub and dom.

Of course it will put off the Elite BDSM crowd who think people are 'born dom'... "

Well I don't want anything inserted into me or anything painful.

I more mean in the sense of being told what to do and how to do it. Being grab by my dreads and told to suck her pussy, told to fuck harder faster slower, on my knees being squirted on

Generally the things I do to women, I want a women to do the same with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean have her way with you? Give me some examples of how you'd like that to go.

Just say you like both scenario's. People can be switch and like both sub and dom.

Of course it will put off the Elite BDSM crowd who think people are 'born dom'...

Well I don't want anything inserted into me or anything painful.

I more mean in the sense of being told what to do and how to do it. Being grab by my dreads and told to suck her pussy, told to fuck harder faster slower, on my knees being squirted on

Generally the things I do to women, I want a women to do the same with me"

That's horny. Why not describe that in your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see the submission as a sexy element of sex. The Trust it takes to hand yourself over to your lover and the responsibility of the dom to deliver all the pleasure...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean have her way with you? Give me some examples of how you'd like that to go.

Just say you like both scenario's. People can be switch and like both sub and dom.

Of course it will put off the Elite BDSM crowd who think people are 'born dom'...

Well I don't want anything inserted into me or anything painful.

I more mean in the sense of being told what to do and how to do it. Being grab by my dreads and told to suck her pussy, told to fuck harder faster slower, on my knees being squirted on

Generally the things I do to women, I want a women to do the same with me

That's horny. Why not describe that in your profile? "

Because I don't like the labels/boxes we find ourselves in and stating preferences sometimes hinders you finding what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like reverse rough sex to me rather than a D/S dynamic.

I think labels are helpful as pointers to someone's preferences but I think the labels dominant, switch and submissive are vague without further details as pointed out earlier.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

then you're a switch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not a switch I just like the thought of a women taking control of her sexual pleasure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a switch I just like the thought of a women taking control of her sexual pleasure..."

U are lol.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

well a dominant willing to switch on occasion for the right lady then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both me and MrsPS switch, love it and the dynamic, keeps it fresh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not a switch I just like the thought of a women taking control of her sexual pleasure...

U are lol. "

I guess I am, Fab women are always right and I dare not argue... lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I suspect those that like to play are flexible enough to work with the physical feedback from their partners, not the labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like your switch which is good for both parties.. Means you keep pushing each others boundaries, knowing when your next submissive to them they can do them same and get there own back on you is a massive turn on..

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Sounds like your switch which is good for both parties.. Means you keep pushing each others boundaries, knowing when your next submissive to them they can do them same and get there own back on you is a massive turn on.. "

Agree I switch but that's generally with very confident Domme it's completely different to switching with a sub as the mental disparity of the power dynamic is still coast between a D&S. DD switch play can be a huge turn on (but can also result in big repair bills as the energetic lust takes over in very heated rough sex) Its the adrenaline rush of a contact sport and sex at the same time

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Sounds like your switch which is good for both parties.. Means you keep pushing each others boundaries, knowing when your next submissive to them they can do them same and get there own back on you is a massive turn on.. "

It can be relaxing to switch just to let go occasionally and take it just for a few giggles.

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By *asterforslave1Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Op

You are a switch !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a switch I just like the thought of a women taking control of her sexual pleasure..."

So your a submissive?

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