FabSwingers.com forum: Can you trust the ppl you invite into your homes??

By *ssentialminx2011 OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Hi everyone xx

Carl and I are 3week newbies to this FABSITE & as i'm in a cuckhold relationship,i'm flying solo @the mo lol

We have been seriously considering holding our very first house party & would really appreciate any advice from anyone ,that has hosted a party at their home x

We can't help noticing that ,most of the swinging appears (from piccie evidence;-)to take place in the lounges downstairs~as opposed to the bedrooms?

is this the "norm then ??" lol

We personally have quite a large house and would worry that we wouldnt/couldnt know "who was doing what" or "who was looking through my drawers??" lol knickers and wooden !! pmaol

;-)

After all ,ya don't REALLY know these ppl do ya ??....i know verifications can speak volumes 'un all that',but i did have to think twice about this TBPH !!!

So baring this in mind ,do ya all simply move valuables ,personal letters ,documents and so forth,as the only ppl that come to our home are family and trusted long term friends (up to now !!!)& have neverhad to bother abt this b4 xx

Are we being silly ??

Or simply feeling "like you ALL did initially???"

We would genuinely really appreciate your honest opinions and would welcome any top tips or advice ya think would help xx

Cheers fabsters Alex & Carl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hire some bouncers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life most things have a risk .. and when you dont know people and open your house up to let them have the run of it ....... you have to take care ..... and hand pick people dont just have a open party where all can go . I have had a two partys both was dinner swing partys for 30 people end up alot of fun and thay looked after my home .. I had a normal party here last year found people looking in places thay should never have been .. that was a man from the band looking for a pen he said ..... Its just the same no diffrents just because thay are swingers get to know people .. And also if you offer your bed rooms as play rooms get waterproof covers for beds as woman can gush and you end up with wet beds and smoking place out side with ash trays so dont end up all overing garden with fag ends. Its your home you make the house rules and best to have one or two ..... most people are lovely you just get one or two after having a drink . XX JO

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Thats why I mostly suggest the first meeet in an hotel....its so neutral for both parties.

Dont understand some who wont entertain hotel and insist on home visit or nothing.....they make me suspicious !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not invite strangers into my house, and prefer to meet at hotels instead.

Partly to do with personal safety, however, the main reason is that I am very messy and it would stress me out big time to tidy the house!

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By *ssentialminx2011 OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

THANK YOU BOTH VERY MUCH4THAT Mwah xx

We "presumed " right then xx

OHHHH .. YES!! .we would 100% hand pick our "friends to swing with " and godknows there's enuff choice out there!

We've had over 20 invites in 22days already !!! wow!! so we MUST be doing sumthing right ?? lol and ive had 6 meets already and have had 4 of them very kindly verify our meet xx ty xx

Im a little annoyed that 2 of them havent returned the compliament still(12days/10days ago now respectively),even though i messaged nicely & kept in touch.?? (both equally enjoyed our overNt Hotel meet,yet havent had the decency to @ least say ty xx ???

I used to write an essay ,but not any more lolxx me thinks a couple of Parragraphs is enuff ,especially if thats ALL you get back in return (shame really) which LOL now leads me to my last thread ?? lol x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

You can trust people as muchas you want. But whether they are worthy of that trustr is impossible to tell. But even going to someone elses house does not eliminate risk. lets face it no one ever really knows anothers mind. That` s why affairs are so upsetting as the person you trust the most was not worthy of that trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"THANK YOU BOTH VERY MUCH4THAT Mwah xx

We "presumed " right then xx

OHHHH .. YES!! .we would 100% hand pick our "friends to swing with " and godknows there's enuff choice out there!

We've had over 20 invites in 22days already !!! wow!! so we MUST be doing sumthing right ?? lol and ive had 6 meets already and have had 4 of them very kindly verify our meet xx ty xx

And BREATH....goodness you must be exhausted...

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By *ssentialminx2011 OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

YA JOKING arntcha!! lol

I'M ON FCUKING CLOUD 69!!!

I've lost 17LLB in 22days !!!! ITS MINT!

AND ....BETTER STILL LOL ~

~ " IT'S THE PEOLPE THAT TAKE YOU'RE BREATH AWAY!!

"SURELY!!" XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh...my spelling...

ABSOLUTELY..enjoy..

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

our home is our space for family, just our preference. We never really thought it was worth the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont meet at my home unless i trust someone 110%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do one on one meets in my house.. safer than me going to theirs.

I never have parties though... so perhaps its different.and people arent here long enough to snoop.

cali

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

As people who hosted parties last time around in swing, guests being nosey or raiding through our stuff never crossed our minds. The guests were there for one thing only and it wasnt to see whats in your drawers (wooden kind).

Also we have never been to a party with more than 5 people that at least one bedroom wasnt in use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a meet some time ago were we went to their place, it was a great night and at the end of the night getting dressed i seen that my wallet was sticking out so took a look and there was a certain amount of money missing but lucky for me i was able to recover the money as they place it close by.

needless to say i got dressed quick and got my other half out, i was shocked to be honest that took place and before you ask the question did i confront them ? no as i didn't want a full scale riot.

Won't be back near then again and just wonder if that has happen to anyone ?

It's not nice and really makes you wonder what could happen the next time.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We prefer to keep our swinging life totally separate from our 'normal' life so we tend to meet in hotels

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