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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?

I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?

I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!

"

Yes, it can be nerve wracking!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Yes it doesnt matter though, you will know when you feel like meeting someone again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just had my first meet for some time.It was fantastic so looking forward to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to meet, contrary to what most people seem to think.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there


"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?

I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!

"

Tell me about it, 3 and half years and counting not even a horse nearby the closest was asocial few months ago and they disappeared off the site after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?

I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!

"

Yup, but Im an antisocial fucker at the best of times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Yup, but Im an antisocial fucker at the best of times"

I think this is half my problem also.

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Apart from a couple of socials where I've had a peck on the cheek and/or a hug, I've not got on the horse for about 3 years (maybe longer). I genuinely have forgotten the last time as it's been so long ago.

I think I've actually got to the stage where I plan and do so much I unintentionally make sure I don't have time to do anything!

I really need to get out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's much easier not to meet sometimes. The less I meet the less I want to. There usually comes a time when I'm up for it again though so I don't feel the need to force myself back into it. I thought that was fairly normal though? I think I'd burn myself out if I met too often.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?

I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!

Yup, but Im an antisocial fucker at the best of times"

Yeah me too

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I actually do enjoy meeting someone and love a good drink and a chat for a couple of hours.

I would like to get back on the horse too,just I seem to have lost my sense of noticing the signals!

I'm. Basically a virgin again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish I had the confidence to visit a club it would be so much easier, and quicker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know just how you feel not for want of trying just to many time wasters around ,yes we got recent verses but not played this year if we remember rightly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually do enjoy meeting someone and love a good drink and a chat for a couple of hours.

I would like to get back on the horse too,just I seem to have lost my sense of noticing the signals!

I'm. Basically a virgin again!"

I love meeting people too, just the trawling through profiles and messaging to try and get a feel for the person (gotta be safe)and if you're attracted enough to then coordinating diaries etc, just getting a bit boring.. To then be blown out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We know just how you feel not for want of trying just to many time wasters around ,yes we got recent verses but not played this year if we remember rightly "

Ive spoke to a couple of guys I'd like to meet but I've had to explain I'm not in the right mood for it, I don't want to waste anyone's time either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. "

hahahha this made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. "

Why shave hun? Some guys like it. Do what makes you happy. Fuck everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been off the horse for about the last months, I'm starting to think I'm in need of a remount!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I haven't met anyone new for sex for ages. A couple of socials that went no further because they didn't 'do it' for me.

It's all time consuming, I cba at the moment either!

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I actually do enjoy meeting someone and love a good drink and a chat for a couple of hours.

I would like to get back on the horse too,just I seem to have lost my sense of noticing the signals!

I'm. Basically a virgin again!

I love meeting people too, just the trawling through profiles and messaging to try and get a feel for the person (gotta be safe)and if you're attracted enough to then coordinating diaries etc, just getting a bit boring.. To then be blown out! "

I've been quite lucky and every meet I've planned has turned up and been very nice,chatty and nothing but polite.

Only one stands out as a bit odd but that's a whole other story and she's UNLOS.

I've always said I'd never not turn up for an arranged meet.its just so rude imo. I'd not like it done to me so would never do it to someone.

My only problem as a single guy is getting a reply from some of the lovely ladies on here but,I'm not alone there!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It's been a while...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't lose the will because it's been a long time. I just don't feel like it at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. "

I'm glad I'm not the only one who can't be arsed to shave their fanny haha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It's been a while... "

Sort something for the 28th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it's been 18 months and il probably be a nervous wreck when the time comes

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"It's been a while...

Sort something for the 28th "

Good plan!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes! For me the last time was back in March, so I am currently a bit meh to be honest, I am still trying but I think I am putting men off as I am being honest with them lol and they all go silent on me

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There’s lots of reasons people don’t meet so it’s not unusual to go for long periods of time without playing. Maybe go along to a social.

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