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"I think the 82% is equal in both men and women, it’s just more acceptable for the women to admit it and not the guys. I would say any guy who’s prepared to be naked in close proximity in a sexual encounter, with another guy, is getting some form of arousal from that moment. I know there’ll be a lot of “straight “ guys protesting this, but I reckon most guys, given a no comeback or none judgemental opportunity with another guy, who experiment! " That sounds feasible, but begs the question as to why guys are not more open. | |||
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"I think the 82% is equal in both men and women, it’s just more acceptable for the women to admit it and not the guys. I would say any guy who’s prepared to be naked in close proximity in a sexual encounter, with another guy, is getting some form of arousal from that moment. I know there’ll be a lot of “straight “ guys protesting this, but I reckon most guys, given a no comeback or none judgemental opportunity with another guy, who experiment! " First point quite likely to be true in a number of cases. Purely based on what I have read on here there does seem to be a stigma. Rest of what you said. Nonsence. I strip off at the gym and see other guys doing so. I don't get aroused. I only speak for myself and you only speak for you. Neither of us can come to the conclusion that we represent most guys. I have been naked in a sexual encounter with one of my best mates. We both just got on and did our duty for queen and country. We high fived at one point mind you haha | |||
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"I would love to experiment getting oral off a couple It's a fantasy that has been building for a while lol " Kinda curious then ![]() | |||
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"But what was your search criteria ?" Searched for couples. So they were the fifty nearest us. If anything, given we are London, we are probably over sampling the bi males. | |||
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"Ok I sampled 25 couples and got this. Straight / straight - 10 Fem S / Male B - Male S / Fem B - 12 Both Bi - 3 But I would question the bi side of these women. Bit like with blokes the spectrum is wide and i suspect a lot aren't very bi. " So you've got 60% v 12%. A similar level of discrepancy. As for questioning the bi side of women, I think because women are expected to be bi if they are up for a bit of same sex touching they will say they are bi, whilst men who are the same won't. | |||
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"I think the 82% is equal in both men and women, it’s just more acceptable for the women to admit it and not the guys. I would say any guy who’s prepared to be naked in close proximity in a sexual encounter, with another guy, is getting some form of arousal from that moment. I know there’ll be a lot of “straight “ guys protesting this, but I reckon most guys, given a no comeback or none judgemental opportunity with another guy, who experiment! " Seriously ![]() | |||
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"As with all Fab surveys the results are a definitive 82% straight 74% bi ![]() Doubtful in your town ![]() | |||
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"As with all Fab surveys the results are a definitive 82% straight 74% bi ![]() ![]() Oh it's all gay down here, apparently ![]() | |||
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"I think the 82% is equal in both men and women, it’s just more acceptable for the women to admit it and not the guys. I would say any guy who’s prepared to be naked in close proximity in a sexual encounter, with another guy, is getting some form of arousal from that moment. I know there’ll be a lot of “straight “ guys protesting this, but I reckon most guys, given a no comeback or none judgemental opportunity with another guy, who experiment! " I was thinking the 1st part is correct and then i read further down. What. Where do you get this information from?. Pmsl. What you reckon is soo wrong as well. Just bcz you may want to experiment most guys i think who are actually straight and not fab straight wouldn't lol. No comebacks or not ![]() | |||
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"I think the 82% is equal in both men and women, it’s just more acceptable for the women to admit it and not the guys. I would say any guy who’s prepared to be naked in close proximity in a sexual encounter, with another guy, is getting some form of arousal from that moment. I know there’ll be a lot of “straight “ guys protesting this, but I reckon most guys, given a no comeback or none judgemental opportunity with another guy, who experiment! I was thinking the 1st part is correct and then i read further down. What. Where do you get this information from?. Pmsl. What you reckon is soo wrong as well. Just bcz you may want to experiment most guys i think who are actually straight and not fab straight wouldn't lol. No comebacks or not ![]() ![]() | |||
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"More women claim to be bi then actually are, because it’s seen as desirable for them to be that way. And less men say they’re bi then actually are, because they see it as a negative to be perceived like that. I’d say 70% of messages I receive from males on here are from men who have “straight” on their profile. And all of the women have “curious” or “bi”" But the question is why | |||
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"More women claim to be bi then actually are, because it’s seen as desirable for them to be that way. And less men say they’re bi then actually are, because they see it as a negative to be perceived like that. I’d say 70% of messages I receive from males on here are from men who have “straight” on their profile. And all of the women have “curious” or “bi” But the question is why " Hes given reasons for why. If you mean why does this occur. One word - Judgement. | |||
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"More women claim to be bi then actually are, because it’s seen as desirable for them to be that way. And less men say they’re bi then actually are, because they see it as a negative to be perceived like that. I’d say 70% of messages I receive from males on here are from men who have “straight” on their profile. And all of the women have “curious” or “bi” But the question is why Hes given reasons for why. If you mean why does this occur. One word - Judgement." That is indeed what I meant and your response begs another question. Why are bi males judged harshly when bi females are not? | |||
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"I think the 82% is equal in both men and women, it’s just more acceptable for the women to admit it and not the guys. I would say any guy who’s prepared to be naked in close proximity in a sexual encounter, with another guy, is getting some form of arousal from that moment. I know there’ll be a lot of “straight “ guys protesting this, but I reckon most guys, given a no comeback or none judgemental opportunity with another guy, who experiment! I was thinking the 1st part is correct and then i read further down. What. Where do you get this information from?. Pmsl. What you reckon is soo wrong as well. Just bcz you may want to experiment most guys i think who are actually straight and not fab straight wouldn't lol. No comebacks or not ![]() It’s a forum to open up debate, a little controversy to stir up the pot does no harm ![]() | |||
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"Labels We would all be so much happier without them. ![]() Not this lady. I'm quite happy to be honest ![]() | |||
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"It's more acceptable for women to be bi. More men want to watch their partners with a woman than women want to watch theirs with a man. " Yeah I think this is true in vanilla world and it spills over into the scene. | |||
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"More women claim to be bi then actually are, because it’s seen as desirable for them to be that way. And less men say they’re bi then actually are, because they see it as a negative to be perceived like that. I’d say 70% of messages I receive from males on here are from men who have “straight” on their profile. And all of the women have “curious” or “bi” But the question is why Hes given reasons for why. If you mean why does this occur. One word - Judgement." Yes judgement probably does come into it for some - but can honestly say in the time I've been on the site I've only ever experienced any kind of judgement about my sexuality twice - and in both cases it was from females who had very bigoted and homophobic views on the matter. The rest of the time I've had nothing but respect for who I am and my sexual prefences - so to anyone reading this scared of being judged, fear not ![]() | |||
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"I did the same search, of 50 couples only 7 featured a bi male. Most (didn't count) were bi or curious female. So, that's only 14% bi men up here. Maybe a southern thing? ![]() Well they do say softie southerner shandy drinking puffs ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I did the same search, of 50 couples only 7 featured a bi male. Most (didn't count) were bi or curious female. So, that's only 14% bi men up here. Maybe a southern thing? ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha exactly ![]() | |||
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"I did the same search, of 50 couples only 7 featured a bi male. Most (didn't count) were bi or curious female. So, that's only 14% bi men up here. Maybe a southern thing? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's a London thing I thing. We are far less prejudiced than you northern types, hence men are more likely to be open about their sexuality ![]() | |||
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" It's a London thing I thing. We are far less prejudiced than you northern types, hence men are more likely to be open about their sexuality ![]() It's funny you say that. When the Leave campaign bus had to take off the £350m thing, they replaced it with 'Remainers Like Cock' instead ![]() | |||
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"I did the same search, of 50 couples only 7 featured a bi male. Most (didn't count) were bi or curious female. So, that's only 14% bi men up here. Maybe a southern thing? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But I'm bi and voted leave ![]() | |||
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" It's a London thing I thing. We are far less prejudiced than you northern types, hence men are more likely to be open about their sexuality ![]() ![]() Indeed. In my view the basic issue is that the hetero normative view is that primarily hetero women willing to get it on with other women are hot, whilst men willing to get it on with other men are unmanly and a bit sordid. Hence if you are a man interested in same sex action but are hetero normative in your values, you are likely to be on the down low. | |||
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"Labels We would all be so much happier without them. ![]() but then how would people find what they're looking for? | |||
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